FabSwingers.com forum: Monday rant……

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My mind boggles…… Why do people keep messaging when I haven’t replied or I’ve just deleted the message and it also states on my profile why I haven’t replied….. I just wouldn’t waste mine or their time with constant messages ….. am I being wrong in not responding to them or should I reply with a ‘no thanks’ every time ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your first mistake is thinking anyone actually reads profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probly forgot they messaged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because the men is horny.

They don't think.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

This is why I delete and block if I’m not interested. Hassle free fab life that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it wasn’t me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well it wasn’t me

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this time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your first mistake is thinking anyone actually reads profiles."

I’ve had a few messages saying they’ve read my profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Probly forgot they messaged "

Haha you can see if you’ve messaged someone previously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probly forgot they messaged

Haha you can see if you’ve messaged someone previously

Only if you are supporters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probly forgot they messaged

Haha you can see if you’ve messaged someone previously

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only if you pay for it

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Is it the same message?

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By *ew2thiskinkCouple
over a year ago

Waterford

"Your first mistake is thinking anyone actually reads profiles."

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Probly forgot they messaged

Haha you can see if you’ve messaged someone previously

Only if you are supporters "

Ooohhhhh didn’t know that ….. now it all makes sense….. (face palm emoji )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your first mistake is thinking anyone actually reads profiles.

I’ve had a few messages saying they’ve read my profile

I fine the ones that say they have usually haven’t.

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By *ew2thiskinkCouple
over a year ago

Waterford

"This is why I delete and block if I’m not interested. Hassle free fab life that way

This works for us too.

“ But I’m just in ur area and thought I would change ur mind !!! “

Block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your first mistake is thinking anyone actually reads profiles.

I’ve had a few messages saying they’ve read my profile

I fine the ones that say they have usually haven’t."

I read your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your first mistake is thinking anyone actually reads profiles.

I’ve had a few messages saying they’ve read my profile

I fine the ones that say they have usually haven’t.

I read your profile. "

I read yours. How about some flirty banter? Or as I like to call it…. Flanter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your first mistake is thinking anyone actually reads profiles.

I’ve had a few messages saying they’ve read my profile

I fine the ones that say they have usually haven’t.

I read your profile.

I read yours. How about some flirty banter? Or as I like to call it…. Flanter."

I must be tired as that word doesn't actually bother me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Probly forgot they messaged

Haha you can see if you’ve messaged someone previously

only if you pay for it"

So I see now…….. Thread closed then

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By *obel42Couple
over a year ago

North Lancashire

Carry on as you are doing. We do the same now.

We used to reply with a ‘No thanks’, which some replied with ‘OK’. Others wanted to know why? Are you sure? Pleeeaaaaase? Etc etc and others became insulting!! All wasting our time!

We’ve been told that once you’ve messaged them it bypasses any filters you set.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your first mistake is thinking anyone actually reads profiles.

I’ve had a few messages saying they’ve read my profile

I fine the ones that say they have usually haven’t.

I read your profile.

I read yours. How about some flirty banter? Or as I like to call it…. Flanter.

I must be tired as that word doesn't actually bother me. "

You’ve changed.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Some will be thinking their previous attempts simply caught you at a bad time and if they try again there may be a different outcome.

Many won't have read your profile.

Some won't care what your profile says and until you block them, you're fair game.

Some will have forgotten they messaged as they bombard every woman within 200 miles the same message on a fortnightly basis and have no idea who they messaged or when.

Some will be thinking "she's gotta get so horny at some point and want penis, any penis, and I'm gonna be the penis in shining armour that lands in her box when that happens"

Yes. Some really think that happens.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some will be thinking their previous attempts simply caught you at a bad time and if they try again there may be a different outcome.

Many won't have read your profile.

Some won't care what your profile says and until you block them, you're fair game.

Some will have forgotten they messaged as they bombard every woman within 200 miles the same message on a fortnightly basis and have no idea who they messaged or when.

Some will be thinking "she's gotta get so horny at some point and want penis, any penis, and I'm gonna be the penis in shining armour that lands in her box when that happens"

Yes. Some really think that happens."

What sad lives they live……it’s all about their penis ! with me I check out their profile first bit lame but it’s what I do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Carry on as you are doing. We do the same now.

We used to reply with a ‘No thanks’, which some replied with ‘OK’. Others wanted to know why? Are you sure? Pleeeaaaaase? Etc etc and others became insulting!! All wasting our time!

We’ve been told that once you’ve messaged them it bypasses any filters you set.

Yeah I’ve done that and they ask what is wrong with them so to carry on a convo and really I don’t need to explain the not reading or replying should be a big giveaway

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

"This is why I delete and block if I’m not interested. Hassle free fab life that way

No delete and block for me so far. I’ll take that as you’re interested

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"This is why I delete and block if I’m not interested. Hassle free fab life that way

No delete and block for me so far. I’ll take that as you’re interested

Hahaha. To be honest I never ever block forum people (perhaps a private note!). As if I’d block you Mr Sprout!

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Men's dickbrain does not have a memory.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We get the same message every week off the same guy, this has been for a month or two now, absolutely baffles me.

I just see how much they'll chat to themselves in the inbox.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because the ego says she hasn't saw the message rather than she doesn't want to reply to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because the ego says she hasn't saw the message rather than she doesn't want to reply to me."
dont you try changing the facts on us

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

OP - just block and move on. Life is too short to get stressed or lose sleep over messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because the ego says she hasn't saw the message rather than she doesn't want to reply to me."

Good point……

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP - just block and move on. Life is too short to get stressed or lose sleep over messages."

Oh I’m not getting stressed or losing sleep over it lol I’m just baffled as to why they do it and I do block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ve made it clear you’re not interested by not replying. You’re not responsible for them not getting that message. Block them. You shouldn’t have to deal with it and sorry that you have to but it’s one we gotta charge to the game.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Desperate and clueless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't need to be a site supporter to see if you have already messaged as you get a nice fab friendly warning if they've not replied.

At this point as a normal human being you stop and carry on.

Block might be your best option moving forwards

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"You don't need to be a site supporter to see if you have already messaged as you get a nice fab friendly warning if they've not replied.

At this point as a normal human being you stop and carry on.

Block might be your best option moving forwards "

Hmmmm. Normal human being? I think this is where the problem lies

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You don't need to be a site supporter to see if you have already messaged as you get a nice fab friendly warning if they've not replied.

At this point as a normal human being you stop and carry on.

Block might be your best option moving forwards "

Yeah but they don’t stop lol….. my block list is longgggggggggggg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't need to be a site supporter to see if you have already messaged as you get a nice fab friendly warning if they've not replied.

At this point as a normal human being you stop and carry on.

Block might be your best option moving forwards

Hmmmm. Normal human being? I think this is where the problem lies

Oi we're not all bad, good to see you again btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't need to be a site supporter to see if you have already messaged as you get a nice fab friendly warning if they've not replied.

At this point as a normal human being you stop and carry on.

Block might be your best option moving forwards

Yeah but they don’t stop lol….. my block list is longgggggggggggg"

Lmao you'll need storage in the cloud for exceeding your limit

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"You don't need to be a site supporter to see if you have already messaged as you get a nice fab friendly warning if they've not replied.

At this point as a normal human being you stop and carry on.

Block might be your best option moving forwards

Hmmmm. Normal human being? I think this is where the problem lies

Oi we're not all bad, good to see you again btw "

You too. Hope you’re good xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You don't need to be a site supporter to see if you have already messaged as you get a nice fab friendly warning if they've not replied.

At this point as a normal human being you stop and carry on.

Block might be your best option moving forwards

Yeah but they don’t stop lol….. my block list is longgggggggggggg

Lmao you'll need storage in the cloud for exceeding your limit

Jeez I best get sorting that out then

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Cut them some slack you have great boobies well worth a couple of trys for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

11,573 cut and paste messages still take time you know….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't need to be a site supporter to see if you have already messaged as you get a nice fab friendly warning if they've not replied.

At this point as a normal human being you stop and carry on.

Block might be your best option moving forwards

Yeah but they don’t stop lol….. my block list is longgggggggggggg

Lmao you'll need storage in the cloud for exceeding your limit

Jeez I best get sorting that out then

To be fair they have a point you're not playing fair having great boobies on show. Profile text can't see any

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By *arneygumbleMan
over a year ago

Catcliffe

You know men only bought the daily Star , the sun and daily sport for the pics...So how can you expect them to get past gorgeous lady pics

Maybe Fab can change the format of Fab so that the profile section is at the top of the page and the pics section at the bottom forcing blokes to read the profile before the pics?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cut them some slack you have great boobies well worth a couple of trys for sure

thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You know men only bought the daily Star , the sun and daily sport for the pics...So how can you expect them to get past gorgeous lady pics

Maybe Fab can change the format of Fab so that the profile section is at the top of the page and the pics section at the bottom forcing blokes to read the profile before the pics?

Nah they would still scroll past that

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Start by blocking the repeat offenders

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