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"Why was he banned from Twitter ?" A tweet about Elliott Page I think | |||
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"Why was he banned from Twitter ?" He 'misgengered' ellen page i think. Forgive me, i dont know her or his male name | |||
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"Im going to one of his lectures in september as part of his tour over this neck of the woods. Cant wait for it i have to say. Has anyone been to one of his talks/lectures in person before? " I feel you will be getting a lot of hate for just mentioning his name...never been to a lecture of his, but if I had the chance, I probably would. Although I don't agree with many things he says, there are many other things that I do agree with him... | |||
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"Why was he banned from Twitter ? He 'misgengered' ellen page i think. Forgive me, i dont know her or his male name It's Elliot now." Ok thanks for that | |||
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"Is he the dude that talks about masculinity? I'm not fully aware of his ideologies or beliefs but hope you can find what you want from it " Im not particularly looking to find anything. I just find what he has to say very inspiring. He talks about far more than just masculinity | |||
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"Is he the dude that talks about masculinity? I'm not fully aware of his ideologies or beliefs but hope you can find what you want from it " That could be someone else. There was a thread about him the other day. Can’t remember his name. | |||
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"Is he the dude that talks about masculinity? I'm not fully aware of his ideologies or beliefs but hope you can find what you want from it That could be someone else. There was a thread about him the other day. Can’t remember his name. " That might be andrew tate hes thinking of. Believe me, there is zero comparison between the two | |||
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"Im going to one of his lectures in september as part of his tour over this neck of the woods. Cant wait for it i have to say. Has anyone been to one of his talks/lectures in person before? " Personally I really like him. His lectures all free btw... are illuminating too. I'll also be there. | |||
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"Im going to one of his lectures in september as part of his tour over this neck of the woods. Cant wait for it i have to say. Has anyone been to one of his talks/lectures in person before? " I would quite fancy that myself, just seen how much the tickets prices are though! | |||
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"I find him interesting. Used to like hearing him on podcasts as he always sounded very thoughtful in his views, even if I didn't always agree with them. Then I listened to his book 12 Rules and frankly I just found it grim and depressing. Lately though he seems to have gone completely off the deep end. From the thoughtful person who used to make reasonable comments to a crazy old man shouting inflammatory comments" It was a tough read admittedly but worth it i thought. Hes had a difficult few years, he developed a painkiller addiction whilst dealing with his wifes illness, but thankfully seems to be recovering now | |||
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"Im going to one of his lectures in september as part of his tour over this neck of the woods. Cant wait for it i have to say. Has anyone been to one of his talks/lectures in person before? Personally I really like him. His lectures all free btw... are illuminating too. I'll also be there. " Not free here! Ffs | |||
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"Why was he banned from Twitter ? He 'misgengered' ellen page i think. Forgive me, i dont know her or his male name" You don't know his name and can't be bothered to spend literally five seconds looking it up? | |||
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"He's a provocateur and pretty good at it although I'm not sure all of his views are as intellectually coherent as they are presented." Hes not a provacateur at all. His views provoke, but it is not his intention to provoke. As a clinical psychologist, his automatic way is to speak honestly. Naturally these days, that provokes | |||
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"He supports men so he’ll be hated on herev" As a man, I don't hate him - I actually pity him. He's clearly not well, and just lashing out to try and get the attention he's gotten used to. Just a shame some men can't find themselves better role models than a guy who got famous for being anti-trans and is still at it. | |||
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"He supports men so he’ll be hated on herev As a man, I don't hate him - I actually pity him. He's clearly not well, and just lashing out to try and get the attention he's gotten used to. Just a shame some men can't find themselves better role models than a guy who got famous for being anti-trans and is still at it. " Fair enough, I think if that’s all you’ve gathered of him you don’t know that much, which means I can’t be mad at an uneducated opinion. | |||
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"He supports men so he’ll be hated on herev" Its been portrayed that way, but to be fair its not necessarily true. Hes become well known through his lectures going on youtube. 80% of YouTube views are young men, ao naturally it has resonated more with young men than any other demographic. But he tries to help all people. Hes a particular advocate of equality of oppirtunity, give all people the same oppirtunity regarless of gender, race etc and then let nature take its course in so far as where people end up, particularly when it comes to occupations | |||
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"He supports men so he’ll be hated on herev As a man, I don't hate him - I actually pity him. He's clearly not well, and just lashing out to try and get the attention he's gotten used to. Just a shame some men can't find themselves better role models than a guy who got famous for being anti-trans and is still at it. " I think youre reading too many media hit pieces on him rather than spending time listening to the man himself | |||
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"I find him interesting. Used to like hearing him on podcasts as he always sounded very thoughtful in his views, even if I didn't always agree with them. Then I listened to his book 12 Rules and frankly I just found it grim and depressing. Lately though he seems to have gone completely off the deep end. From the thoughtful person who used to make reasonable comments to a crazy old man shouting inflammatory comments" I haven't heard things from him lately. but as a person interested in the usual psycho-babble, I rate quite a lot of what he says. I don't really understand his opposition to feminism but then I wasn't raised to see the patriarchy at every turn. I rate him as a clinical psychologist but the difference between him and a psychotherapist is the ability to apply the psychological theory and techniques to the individual person and their dysfunctional behaviours. So reading a list of his 12 rules isn't anything I haven't heard before from a white middle class male Judeo-Christo, double income two parent household perspective. It's when you fall outside of those parameter, you think he's an obnoxious prick....and I've met plenty of psychiatrists and psychologist who if I didn't think they were prick....I thought they were clueless about how to actually help me. | |||
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"Is he the dude that talks about masculinity? I'm not fully aware of his ideologies or beliefs but hope you can find what you want from it That could be someone else. There was a thread about him the other day. Can’t remember his name. That might be andrew tate hes thinking of. Believe me, there is zero comparison between the two " That’s the one | |||
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"He supports men so he’ll be hated on herev As a man, I don't hate him - I actually pity him. He's clearly not well, and just lashing out to try and get the attention he's gotten used to. Just a shame some men can't find themselves better role models than a guy who got famous for being anti-trans and is still at it. I think youre reading too many media hit pieces on him rather than spending time listening to the man himself" What do you mean media hit pieces? Seems to be random thing everyone's throwing about about everyone | |||
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"He supports men so he’ll be hated on herev As a man, I don't hate him - I actually pity him. He's clearly not well, and just lashing out to try and get the attention he's gotten used to. Just a shame some men can't find themselves better role models than a guy who got famous for being anti-trans and is still at it. I think youre reading too many media hit pieces on him rather than spending time listening to the man himself What do you mean media hit pieces? Seems to be random thing everyone's throwing about about everyone" What i mean is taking one comment he might make, out of context, and then using it to frame a negative view of him. All clinical psychologists will say things from time to time that appear 'off colour', thats part of what they are and what they do. But its always honest and said free of undue influence from other factors | |||
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"He's a provocateur and pretty good at it although I'm not sure all of his views are as intellectually coherent as they are presented. Hes not a provacateur at all. His views provoke, but it is not his intention to provoke. As a clinical psychologist, his automatic way is to speak honestly. Naturally these days, that provokes" He's definitely a provocateur and quite reactionary at that. He loves a good straw man argument to give him a platform to peddle his theories of human behaviour. I agree that some of his theories are quite persuasive but, for me at least, they are sometimes undermined by the cheap rhetoric. | |||
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"He's a provocateur and pretty good at it although I'm not sure all of his views are as intellectually coherent as they are presented. Hes not a provacateur at all. His views provoke, but it is not his intention to provoke. As a clinical psychologist, his automatic way is to speak honestly. Naturally these days, that provokes He's definitely a provocateur and quite reactionary at that. He loves a good straw man argument to give him a platform to peddle his theories of human behaviour. I agree that some of his theories are quite persuasive but, for me at least, they are sometimes undermined by the cheap rhetoric." Fair enough. You sound like youve at least spent some time listening to his stuff so i appreciate the opinion | |||
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"He's just a grifter, saying controversial stuff to get attention and make money. " I agree with that, and I keep telling my ex-husband the same. | |||
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"Is he the dude that talks about masculinity? I'm not fully aware of his ideologies or beliefs but hope you can find what you want from it That could be someone else. There was a thread about him the other day. Can’t remember his name. " Andrew Tate? | |||
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"Looking at his rule 1 tells me a lot about him. " Yeah, that's me failing at life | |||
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"Is he the dude that talks about masculinity? I'm not fully aware of his ideologies or beliefs but hope you can find what you want from it That could be someone else. There was a thread about him the other day. Can’t remember his name. Andrew Tate?" Don't say his name !!! ...social media only recently managed to ban him | |||
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"He supports men so he’ll be hated on herev As a man, I don't hate him - I actually pity him. He's clearly not well, and just lashing out to try and get the attention he's gotten used to. Just a shame some men can't find themselves better role models than a guy who got famous for being anti-trans and is still at it. I think youre reading too many media hit pieces on him rather than spending time listening to the man himself What do you mean media hit pieces? Seems to be random thing everyone's throwing about about everyone What i mean is taking one comment he might make, out of context, and then using it to frame a negative view of him. All clinical psychologists will say things from time to time that appear 'off colour', thats part of what they are and what they do. But its always honest and said free of undue influence from other factors" Who is? | |||
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"Im going to one of his lectures in september as part of his tour over this neck of the woods. Cant wait for it i have to say. Has anyone been to one of his talks/lectures in person before? " Oh my goodness, the man is an utter quack. He is a shill for right-wingers everywhere. He is an utterly terrible person who talks an immense amount of shit. | |||
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"Im going to one of his lectures in september as part of his tour over this neck of the woods. Cant wait for it i have to say. Has anyone been to one of his talks/lectures in person before? Oh my goodness, the man is an utter quack. He is a shill for right-wingers everywhere. He is an utterly terrible person who talks an immense amount of shit. " Have to disagree on that. Cant see where you would get any of that at all to be honest. | |||
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"Is he the dude that talks about masculinity? I'm not fully aware of his ideologies or beliefs but hope you can find what you want from it That could be someone else. There was a thread about him the other day. Can’t remember his name. Andrew Tate? Don't say his name !!! ...social media only recently managed to ban him " What happens if I say his name? | |||
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"Is he the dude that talks about masculinity? I'm not fully aware of his ideologies or beliefs but hope you can find what you want from it That could be someone else. There was a thread about him the other day. Can’t remember his name. Andrew Tate? Don't say his name !!! ...social media only recently managed to ban him What happens if I say his name? " Just don’t say it 3 times! | |||
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"Is he the dude that talks about masculinity? I'm not fully aware of his ideologies or beliefs but hope you can find what you want from it That could be someone else. There was a thread about him the other day. Can’t remember his name. Andrew Tate? Don't say his name !!! ...social media only recently managed to ban him What happens if I say his name? Just don’t say it 3 times! " Who, Andrew Tate? | |||
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"Im going to one of his lectures in september as part of his tour over this neck of the woods. Cant wait for it i have to say. Has anyone been to one of his talks/lectures in person before? Oh my goodness, the man is an utter quack. He is a shill for right-wingers everywhere. He is an utterly terrible person who talks an immense amount of shit. Have to disagree on that. Cant see where you would get any of that at all to be honest. " Enjoy the show. What I've seen of him makes me think he's thoughtful and honest in his views. And the claims of anti trans and misogyny are complete nonsense. He was arguing against the use of pronouns in compelled speech. I believe this related to a law that was about to be passed in Canada. I think his observations about men & women are, for the most part, spot on. | |||
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"Is he the dude that talks about masculinity? I'm not fully aware of his ideologies or beliefs but hope you can find what you want from it That could be someone else. There was a thread about him the other day. Can’t remember his name. Andrew Tate? Don't say his name !!! ...social media only recently managed to ban him What happens if I say his name? Just don’t say it 3 times! Who, Andrew Tate? " . Stop it now! | |||
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"For anybody unfamilar with him, i would recommend checking out an interview he did with Fredrik Skavlan a couple of years back. Its long but well worth it. Will give you a decent rounded idea of the man" It's really good to see Dr Peterson back after all of his health issues. I remember listening to his daughter Mika a year or so ago talking about her father struggles, wasn't he was really ill with Covid in Russia if I remember correctly ?, his drug addictions and its incredible to think Dr Peterson was suicidal. But his wife was terminally ill, he's only human and we all have our breaking points, I guess. I really enjoyed the interview with Fredrik Scavlon, he came across well. And I was quite moved when he talked about the relationship he had with his father and mother. Enjoy the lecture OP | |||
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"Is he the dude that talks about masculinity? I'm not fully aware of his ideologies or beliefs but hope you can find what you want from it That could be someone else. There was a thread about him the other day. Can’t remember his name. Andrew Tate? Don't say his name !!! ...social media only recently managed to ban him What happens if I say his name? Just don’t say it 3 times! Who, Andrew Tate? . Stop it now!" | |||
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"Im going to one of his lectures in september as part of his tour over this neck of the woods. Cant wait for it i have to say. Has anyone been to one of his talks/lectures in person before? Oh my goodness, the man is an utter quack. He is a shill for right-wingers everywhere. He is an utterly terrible person who talks an immense amount of shit. Have to disagree on that. Cant see where you would get any of that at all to be honest. Enjoy the show. What I've seen of him makes me think he's thoughtful and honest in his views. And the claims of anti trans and misogyny are complete nonsense. He was arguing against the use of pronouns in compelled speech. I believe this related to a law that was about to be passed in Canada. I think his observations about men & women are, for the most part, spot on." I will thank you and I agree, youre spot on about that proposed law in canada and his reaction to it at the time. | |||
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"Looking at his rule 1 tells me a lot about him. Yeah, that's me failing at life " He's getting rich off shit like that. | |||
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"For anybody unfamilar with him, i would recommend checking out an interview he did with Fredrik Skavlan a couple of years back. Its long but well worth it. Will give you a decent rounded idea of the man It's really good to see Dr Peterson back after all of his health issues. I remember listening to his daughter Mika a year or so ago talking about her father struggles, wasn't he was really ill with Covid in Russia if I remember correctly ?, his drug addictions and its incredible to think Dr Peterson was suicidal. But his wife was terminally ill, he's only human and we all have our breaking points, I guess. I really enjoyed the interview with Fredrik Scavlon, he came across well. And I was quite moved when he talked about the relationship he had with his father and mother. Enjoy the lecture OP" Thanks very much, appreciate that. Yeah hes very forthright about how his stable family life abd strong parents were good role models for him. I think its always reinforced his believe in the importance of the traditional nuclear family,now moreso than ever | |||
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"Looking at his rule 1 tells me a lot about him. Yeah, that's me failing at life He's getting rich off shit like that. " Have you read it in full? | |||
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"He supports men so he’ll be hated on herev" I support men, not by hating women. | |||
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"For anybody unfamilar with him, i would recommend checking out an interview he did with Fredrik Skavlan a couple of years back. Its long but well worth it. Will give you a decent rounded idea of the man It's really good to see Dr Peterson back after all of his health issues. I remember listening to his daughter Mika a year or so ago talking about her father struggles, wasn't he was really ill with Covid in Russia if I remember correctly ?, his drug addictions and its incredible to think Dr Peterson was suicidal. But his wife was terminally ill, he's only human and we all have our breaking points, I guess. I really enjoyed the interview with Fredrik Scavlon, he came across well. And I was quite moved when he talked about the relationship he had with his father and mother. Enjoy the lecture OP Thanks very much, appreciate that. Yeah hes very forthright about how his stable family life abd strong parents were good role models for him. I think its always reinforced his believe in the importance of the traditional nuclear family,now moreso than ever" Whats a traditional nuclear family? | |||
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"For anybody unfamilar with him, i would recommend checking out an interview he did with Fredrik Skavlan a couple of years back. Its long but well worth it. Will give you a decent rounded idea of the man It's really good to see Dr Peterson back after all of his health issues. I remember listening to his daughter Mika a year or so ago talking about her father struggles, wasn't he was really ill with Covid in Russia if I remember correctly ?, his drug addictions and its incredible to think Dr Peterson was suicidal. But his wife was terminally ill, he's only human and we all have our breaking points, I guess. I really enjoyed the interview with Fredrik Scavlon, he came across well. And I was quite moved when he talked about the relationship he had with his father and mother. Enjoy the lecture OP Thanks very much, appreciate that. Yeah hes very forthright about how his stable family life abd strong parents were good role models for him. I think its always reinforced his believe in the importance of the traditional nuclear family,now moreso than ever Whats a traditional nuclear family? " Welk at its core, is a 2 parent family | |||
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"Looking at his rule 1 tells me a lot about him. Yeah, that's me failing at life He's getting rich off shit like that. Have you read it in full? " Misogyny and religion in rule 1. I don’t need to read further. | |||
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"Looking at his rule 1 tells me a lot about him. Yeah, that's me failing at life He's getting rich off shit like that. Have you read it in full? Misogyny and religion in rule 1. I don’t need to read further." Im not sure where youve picked that up from but youre entitled to your opinion | |||
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"Another toxic grifter scumbag recruiting incels into the alt-right. Handy for getting people with problematic beliefs to red-flag themselves, I guess. " I'm an unmarried, middle aged mother of 2, working class background, labour then latterly SNP voter (though they can fuck right off now). Not your typical right winger, I think you'd agree. The problematic belief part is purely subjective btw. | |||
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"Looking at his rule 1 tells me a lot about him. Yeah, that's me failing at life He's getting rich off shit like that. " His first rule is "stand up straight with your shoulders back" | |||
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"Looking at his rule 1 tells me a lot about him. Yeah, that's me failing at life He's getting rich off shit like that. His first rule is "stand up straight with your shoulders back" " Can barely stand, let alone straight Oh well | |||
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"Another toxic grifter scumbag recruiting incels into the alt-right. Handy for getting people with problematic beliefs to red-flag themselves, I guess. I'm an unmarried, middle aged mother of 2, working class background, labour then latterly SNP voter (though they can fuck right off now). Not your typical right winger, I think you'd agree. The problematic belief part is purely subjective btw." ....and I get a ride pretty regular so the incel part is wrong too. | |||
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"For anybody unfamilar with him, i would recommend checking out an interview he did with Fredrik Skavlan a couple of years back. Its long but well worth it. Will give you a decent rounded idea of the man It's really good to see Dr Peterson back after all of his health issues. I remember listening to his daughter Mika a year or so ago talking about her father struggles, wasn't he was really ill with Covid in Russia if I remember correctly ?, his drug addictions and its incredible to think Dr Peterson was suicidal. But his wife was terminally ill, he's only human and we all have our breaking points, I guess. I really enjoyed the interview with Fredrik Scavlon, he came across well. And I was quite moved when he talked about the relationship he had with his father and mother. Enjoy the lecture OP Thanks very much, appreciate that. Yeah hes very forthright about how his stable family life abd strong parents were good role models for him. I think its always reinforced his believe in the importance of the traditional nuclear family,now moreso than ever Whats a traditional nuclear family? Welk at its core, is a 2 parent family" Whats Welk? | |||
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"Looking at his rule 1 tells me a lot about him. Yeah, that's me failing at life He's getting rich off shit like that. His first rule is "stand up straight with your shoulders back" Can barely stand, let alone straight Oh well " If I put my shoulders back, someone will get black eyes | |||
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"Looking at his rule 1 tells me a lot about him. Yeah, that's me failing at life He's getting rich off shit like that. Have you read it in full? " Possibly, although I'm not buying his book. Does he mention females in it at all? | |||
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"Looking at his rule 1 tells me a lot about him. " My last physiotherapist( a woman) told me ( another woman) I've got a lovely straight upper back. It's my lower vertebrae that decided to get locked in. | |||
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"I find him interesting. Used to like hearing him on podcasts as he always sounded very thoughtful in his views, even if I didn't always agree with them. Then I listened to his book 12 Rules and frankly I just found it grim and depressing. Lately though he seems to have gone completely off the deep end. From the thoughtful person who used to make reasonable comments to a crazy old man shouting inflammatory comments" This is very much my thinking as well, definitely losing the plot and becoming more extreme. | |||
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"Looking at his rule 1 tells me a lot about him. Yeah, that's me failing at life He's getting rich off shit like that. His first rule is "stand up straight with your shoulders back" " Like lobsters with high serotonin do. | |||
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"For anybody unfamilar with him, i would recommend checking out an interview he did with Fredrik Skavlan a couple of years back. Its long but well worth it. Will give you a decent rounded idea of the man It's really good to see Dr Peterson back after all of his health issues. I remember listening to his daughter Mika a year or so ago talking about her father struggles, wasn't he was really ill with Covid in Russia if I remember correctly ?, his drug addictions and its incredible to think Dr Peterson was suicidal. But his wife was terminally ill, he's only human and we all have our breaking points, I guess. I really enjoyed the interview with Fredrik Scavlon, he came across well. And I was quite moved when he talked about the relationship he had with his father and mother. Enjoy the lecture OP Thanks very much, appreciate that. Yeah hes very forthright about how his stable family life abd strong parents were good role models for him. I think its always reinforced his believe in the importance of the traditional nuclear family,now moreso than ever Whats a traditional nuclear family? Welk at its core, is a 2 parent family Whats Welk?" I meant 'well'. Typo | |||
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"Looking at his rule 1 tells me a lot about him. Yeah, that's me failing at life He's getting rich off shit like that. Have you read it in full? Possibly, although I'm not buying his book. Does he mention females in it at all? " Yes of course he does. His book about humans, not just men | |||
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"For anybody unfamilar with him, i would recommend checking out an interview he did with Fredrik Skavlan a couple of years back. Its long but well worth it. Will give you a decent rounded idea of the man It's really good to see Dr Peterson back after all of his health issues. I remember listening to his daughter Mika a year or so ago talking about her father struggles, wasn't he was really ill with Covid in Russia if I remember correctly ?, his drug addictions and its incredible to think Dr Peterson was suicidal. But his wife was terminally ill, he's only human and we all have our breaking points, I guess. I really enjoyed the interview with Fredrik Scavlon, he came across well. And I was quite moved when he talked about the relationship he had with his father and mother. Enjoy the lecture OP Thanks very much, appreciate that. Yeah hes very forthright about how his stable family life abd strong parents were good role models for him. I think its always reinforced his believe in the importance of the traditional nuclear family,now moreso than ever Whats a traditional nuclear family? Welk at its core, is a 2 parent family Whats Welk? I meant 'well'. Typo" Oh right so how many children or is there a preferable limit? | |||
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"Ah, it’s just good old misogynistic views with a very thin veneer of respectability around it because he’s coated it in psychobabble. " but I like psycho-babble...if it weren't for psychobabble...this maverick would be dead. | |||
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"I find him interesting. Used to like hearing him on podcasts as he always sounded very thoughtful in his views, even if I didn't always agree with them. Then I listened to his book 12 Rules and frankly I just found it grim and depressing. Lately though he seems to have gone completely off the deep end. From the thoughtful person who used to make reasonable comments to a crazy old man shouting inflammatory comments This is very much my thinking as well, definitely losing the plot and becoming more extreme." I think a low point was when he started ranting about the girl on sports illustrated and making sweeping statements about far girls not being sexy. Making definitive statements about something as subjective as who people find attractive just seemed weird and pointless. | |||
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"I find him interesting. Used to like hearing him on podcasts as he always sounded very thoughtful in his views, even if I didn't always agree with them. Then I listened to his book 12 Rules and frankly I just found it grim and depressing. Lately though he seems to have gone completely off the deep end. From the thoughtful person who used to make reasonable comments to a crazy old man shouting inflammatory comments This is very much my thinking as well, definitely losing the plot and becoming more extreme. I think a low point was when he started ranting about the girl on sports illustrated and making sweeping statements about far girls not being sexy. Making definitive statements about something as subjective as who people find attractive just seemed weird and pointless." He’s definitely dropped off I don’t listen to his new stuff. I think he’s fallen off with mental health and is now just following extreme views for clicks His early stuff, I think he’s spot i. | |||
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"Another toxic grifter scumbag recruiting incels into the alt-right. Handy for getting people with problematic beliefs to red-flag themselves, I guess. " Incels would not follow him. He's anti-porn what would they masturbate to? lol! | |||
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"I think it was when JP argued from a modernist perspective, and used post modernist arguments, to try and argue that post-modernsim was the greatest evil that faced mankind was when I became convinced me that, while he sounded superficially smart, he was actually either as thick as pigshit, a total hypocrite, or just another grifter after your money and not worth listening to. I’ll admit this is the first time I’ve heard of him but from what I’ve read he’s basically Andrew Tate with a thesaurus. So this thread is the first time youve heard of him but youve formed an opinion based on this? Mother of God I’ve formed an opinion based on what I’ve read about him since this thread was started (not on this thread). The people who seem to like him on this thread seem to be familiar faces on other controversial threads. Based on that information I have formed an opinion." Fair enough. I would suggest spending some time listening to him directly if you have any genuine interest in getting an educated opinion of him Quite often reading about a person is only through the prism of someone else's view of that person. The same goes for the occasional quote taken, often out od context. The Skavlan interview i would recommend | |||
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"Ah, it’s just good old misogynistic views with a very thin veneer of respectability around it because he’s coated it in psychobabble. but I like psycho-babble...if it weren't for psychobabble...this maverick would be dead. Do you not prefer things to be clear and concise? " Nope, if I wanted things to be clear, concise and simple...I wouldn't be the complicated Maverick that I am. I'm complex therefore I'm interested in complex things. | |||
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"I think it was when JP argued from a modernist perspective, and used post modernist arguments, to try and argue that post-modernsim was the greatest evil that faced mankind was when I became convinced me that, while he sounded superficially smart, he was actually either as thick as pigshit, a total hypocrite, or just another grifter after your money and not worth listening to. I’ll admit this is the first time I’ve heard of him but from what I’ve read he’s basically Andrew Tate with a thesaurus. So this thread is the first time youve heard of him but youve formed an opinion based on this? Mother of God I’ve formed an opinion based on what I’ve read about him since this thread was started (not on this thread). The people who seem to like him on this thread seem to be familiar faces on other "let's be dickheads" threads. Based on that information I have formed an opinion. Better. " Im unsure why you appear to be so bitter in here but i wish you well anyway. And i hope you can open your mind a little bit more | |||
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"I think it was when JP argued from a modernist perspective, and used post modernist arguments, to try and argue that post-modernsim was the greatest evil that faced mankind was when I became convinced me that, while he sounded superficially smart, he was actually either as thick as pigshit, a total hypocrite, or just another grifter after your money and not worth listening to. I’ll admit this is the first time I’ve heard of him but from what I’ve read he’s basically Andrew Tate with a thesaurus. So this thread is the first time youve heard of him but youve formed an opinion based on this? Mother of God I’ve formed an opinion based on what I’ve read about him since this thread was started (not on this thread). The people who seem to like him on this thread seem to be familiar faces on other "let's be dickheads" threads. Based on that information I have formed an opinion. Better. Im unsure why you appear to be so bitter in here but i wish you well anyway. And i hope you can open your mind a little bit more" Ah I'm good, my mind is very open thanks. | |||
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"I think it was when JP argued from a modernist perspective, and used post modernist arguments, to try and argue that post-modernsim was the greatest evil that faced mankind was when I became convinced me that, while he sounded superficially smart, he was actually either as thick as pigshit, a total hypocrite, or just another grifter after your money and not worth listening to. I’ll admit this is the first time I’ve heard of him but from what I’ve read he’s basically Andrew Tate with a thesaurus. So this thread is the first time youve heard of him but youve formed an opinion based on this? Mother of God I’ve formed an opinion based on what I’ve read about him since this thread was started (not on this thread). The people who seem to like him on this thread seem to be familiar faces on other "let's be dickheads" threads. Based on that information I have formed an opinion. Better. Im unsure why you appear to be so bitter in here but i wish you well anyway. And i hope you can open your mind a little bit more Ah I'm good, my mind is very open thanks. " Not too open mind. Sometimes your brain can fall out. | |||
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"I think it was when JP argued from a modernist perspective, and used post modernist arguments, to try and argue that post-modernsim was the greatest evil that faced mankind was when I became convinced me that, while he sounded superficially smart, he was actually either as thick as pigshit, a total hypocrite, or just another grifter after your money and not worth listening to. I’ll admit this is the first time I’ve heard of him but from what I’ve read he’s basically Andrew Tate with a thesaurus. So this thread is the first time youve heard of him but youve formed an opinion based on this? Mother of God I’ve formed an opinion based on what I’ve read about him since this thread was started (not on this thread). The people who seem to like him on this thread seem to be familiar faces on other "let's be dickheads" threads. Based on that information I have formed an opinion. Better. Im unsure why you appear to be so bitter in here but i wish you well anyway. And i hope you can open your mind a little bit more Ah I'm good, my mind is very open thanks. Ok. But labelling people dickheads because they dont share your opinions is a bit out of order to be honest and does nothing to help the discourse in here" You can have your opinion, that does not make you a dickhead. | |||
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"For anybody unfamilar with him, i would recommend checking out an interview he did with Fredrik Skavlan a couple of years back. Its long but well worth it. Will give you a decent rounded idea of the man It's really good to see Dr Peterson back after all of his health issues. I remember listening to his daughter Mika a year or so ago talking about her father struggles, wasn't he was really ill with Covid in Russia if I remember correctly ?, his drug addictions and its incredible to think Dr Peterson was suicidal. But his wife was terminally ill, he's only human and we all have our breaking points, I guess. I really enjoyed the interview with Fredrik Scavlon, he came across well. And I was quite moved when he talked about the relationship he had with his father and mother. Enjoy the lecture OP Thanks very much, appreciate that. Yeah hes very forthright about how his stable family life abd strong parents were good role models for him. I think its always reinforced his believe in the importance of the traditional nuclear family,now moreso than ever Whats a traditional nuclear family? Welk at its core, is a 2 parent family Whats Welk? I meant 'well'. Typo Oh right so how many children or is there a preferable limit? The concept of a a traditional nuclear family isn't something new or that Peterson invented. Perhaps Google?" nah, Google didn't invent it. | |||
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"For anybody unfamilar with him, i would recommend checking out an interview he did with Fredrik Skavlan a couple of years back. Its long but well worth it. Will give you a decent rounded idea of the man It's really good to see Dr Peterson back after all of his health issues. I remember listening to his daughter Mika a year or so ago talking about her father struggles, wasn't he was really ill with Covid in Russia if I remember correctly ?, his drug addictions and its incredible to think Dr Peterson was suicidal. But his wife was terminally ill, he's only human and we all have our breaking points, I guess. I really enjoyed the interview with Fredrik Scavlon, he came across well. And I was quite moved when he talked about the relationship he had with his father and mother. Enjoy the lecture OP Thanks very much, appreciate that. Yeah hes very forthright about how his stable family life abd strong parents were good role models for him. I think its always reinforced his believe in the importance of the traditional nuclear family,now moreso than ever Whats a traditional nuclear family? Welk at its core, is a 2 parent family Whats Welk? I meant 'well'. Typo Oh right so how many children or is there a preferable limit? The concept of a a traditional nuclear family isn't something new or that Peterson invented. Perhaps Google?nah, Google didn't invent it. " | |||
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"He’s a complete nob! Talks quick to confuse the gullible. Total prick! " No open minds here then. No danger of brains falling out | |||
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"Im going to one of his lectures in september as part of his tour over this neck of the woods. Cant wait for it i have to say. Has anyone been to one of his talks/lectures in person before? Oh my goodness, the man is an utter quack. He is a shill for right-wingers everywhere. He is an utterly terrible person who talks an immense amount of shit. Have to disagree on that. Cant see where you would get any of that at all to be honest. Enjoy the show. What I've seen of him makes me think he's thoughtful and honest in his views. And the claims of anti trans and misogyny are complete nonsense. He was arguing against the use of pronouns in compelled speech. I believe this related to a law that was about to be passed in Canada. I think his observations about men & women are, for the most part, spot on." Spot on. He wasn't refusing to use pronouns. He was refusing to be compelled to use them. All of the "free speech" advocates should have agreed with him that you should not be compelled by law with regards to what words you can use. His stance was that you can call yourself anything you want and he respects your right to do so but no one should be compelled by law to do the same. It seems there is a certain demographic that demands free speech as long as the speech aligns with their views. If not, they ironically try to prevent you from speaking freely while calling you a fascist. | |||
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"Im going to one of his lectures in september as part of his tour over this neck of the woods. Cant wait for it i have to say. Has anyone been to one of his talks/lectures in person before? Oh my goodness, the man is an utter quack. He is a shill for right-wingers everywhere. He is an utterly terrible person who talks an immense amount of shit. Have to disagree on that. Cant see where you would get any of that at all to be honest. Enjoy the show. What I've seen of him makes me think he's thoughtful and honest in his views. And the claims of anti trans and misogyny are complete nonsense. He was arguing against the use of pronouns in compelled speech. I believe this related to a law that was about to be passed in Canada. I think his observations about men & women are, for the most part, spot on. Spot on. He wasn't refusing to use pronouns. He was refusing to be compelled to use them. All of the "free speech" advocates should have agreed with him that you should not be compelled by law with regards to what words you can use. His stance was that you can call yourself anything you want and he respects your right to do so but no one should be compelled by law to do the same. It seems there is a certain demographic that demands free speech as long as the speech aligns with their views. If not, they ironically try to prevent you from speaking freely while calling you a fascist. " Excellently put | |||
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"Im going to one of his lectures in september as part of his tour over this neck of the woods. Cant wait for it i have to say. Has anyone been to one of his talks/lectures in person before? Oh my goodness, the man is an utter quack. He is a shill for right-wingers everywhere. He is an utterly terrible person who talks an immense amount of shit. Have to disagree on that. Cant see where you would get any of that at all to be honest. Enjoy the show. What I've seen of him makes me think he's thoughtful and honest in his views. And the claims of anti trans and misogyny are complete nonsense. He was arguing against the use of pronouns in compelled speech. I believe this related to a law that was about to be passed in Canada. I think his observations about men & women are, for the most part, spot on. Spot on. He wasn't refusing to use pronouns. He was refusing to be compelled to use them. All of the "free speech" advocates should have agreed with him that you should not be compelled by law with regards to what words you can use. His stance was that you can call yourself anything you want and he respects your right to do so but no one should be compelled by law to do the same. It seems there is a certain demographic that demands free speech as long as the speech aligns with their views. If not, they ironically try to prevent you from speaking freely while calling you a fascist. " If someone cannot be compelled to use the pronouns a person wishes to use, is it also the case that we are free to call people by whatever name we choose and cannot be compelled to use their preferred name? Men called David who prefer Dave? No Men called Anthony who prefer Tony? No Women called Elizabeth who prefer Liz? No Etc. The pronouns we all use in our speech (him, her, they etc) are part of identifying a person: "Is that Mrs KC?" "Yes, that's her" Why should people be permitted to ride roughshod over the pronouns people wish to be addressed with? I don't understand. It's no more difficult than learning all the nicknames or preferred names of your associates, e.g. Stephen prefers Steve. Daniel prefers Dan but your other mate Daniel prefers Danny. Etc. | |||
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"Im going to one of his lectures in september as part of his tour over this neck of the woods. Cant wait for it i have to say. Has anyone been to one of his talks/lectures in person before? Oh my goodness, the man is an utter quack. He is a shill for right-wingers everywhere. He is an utterly terrible person who talks an immense amount of shit. Have to disagree on that. Cant see where you would get any of that at all to be honest. Enjoy the show. What I've seen of him makes me think he's thoughtful and honest in his views. And the claims of anti trans and misogyny are complete nonsense. He was arguing against the use of pronouns in compelled speech. I believe this related to a law that was about to be passed in Canada. I think his observations about men & women are, for the most part, spot on. Spot on. He wasn't refusing to use pronouns. He was refusing to be compelled to use them. All of the "free speech" advocates should have agreed with him that you should not be compelled by law with regards to what words you can use. His stance was that you can call yourself anything you want and he respects your right to do so but no one should be compelled by law to do the same. It seems there is a certain demographic that demands free speech as long as the speech aligns with their views. If not, they ironically try to prevent you from speaking freely while calling you a fascist. If someone cannot be compelled to use the pronouns a person wishes to use, is it also the case that we are free to call people by whatever name we choose and cannot be compelled to use their preferred name? Men called David who prefer Dave? No Men called Anthony who prefer Tony? No Women called Elizabeth who prefer Liz? No Etc. The pronouns we all use in our speech (him, her, they etc) are part of identifying a person: "Is that Mrs KC?" "Yes, that's her" Why should people be permitted to ride roughshod over the pronouns people wish to be addressed with? I don't understand. It's no more difficult than learning all the nicknames or preferred names of your associates, e.g. Stephen prefers Steve. Daniel prefers Dan but your other mate Daniel prefers Danny. Etc." No comparison there. Names are whatever a person wants it to be. They arent dictionary defined. Pronouns are indisputable established grammar. | |||
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"Im going to one of his lectures in september as part of his tour over this neck of the woods. Cant wait for it i have to say. Has anyone been to one of his talks/lectures in person before? Oh my goodness, the man is an utter quack. He is a shill for right-wingers everywhere. He is an utterly terrible person who talks an immense amount of shit. Have to disagree on that. Cant see where you would get any of that at all to be honest. Enjoy the show. What I've seen of him makes me think he's thoughtful and honest in his views. And the claims of anti trans and misogyny are complete nonsense. He was arguing against the use of pronouns in compelled speech. I believe this related to a law that was about to be passed in Canada. I think his observations about men & women are, for the most part, spot on. Spot on. He wasn't refusing to use pronouns. He was refusing to be compelled to use them. All of the "free speech" advocates should have agreed with him that you should not be compelled by law with regards to what words you can use. His stance was that you can call yourself anything you want and he respects your right to do so but no one should be compelled by law to do the same. It seems there is a certain demographic that demands free speech as long as the speech aligns with their views. If not, they ironically try to prevent you from speaking freely while calling you a fascist. If someone cannot be compelled to use the pronouns a person wishes to use, is it also the case that we are free to call people by whatever name we choose and cannot be compelled to use their preferred name? Men called David who prefer Dave? No Men called Anthony who prefer Tony? No Women called Elizabeth who prefer Liz? No Etc. The pronouns we all use in our speech (him, her, they etc) are part of identifying a person: "Is that Mrs KC?" "Yes, that's her" Why should people be permitted to ride roughshod over the pronouns people wish to be addressed with? I don't understand. It's no more difficult than learning all the nicknames or preferred names of your associates, e.g. Stephen prefers Steve. Daniel prefers Dan but your other mate Daniel prefers Danny. Etc. No comparison there. Names are whatever a person wants it to be. They arent dictionary defined. Pronouns are indisputable established grammar. " And language is obviously completely fixed and never evolves and changes over time? Got it. I'm sure all the words in the dictionary have been the same with unchanged definitions since the first dictionaries were written | |||
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"Im going to one of his lectures in september as part of his tour over this neck of the woods. Cant wait for it i have to say. Has anyone been to one of his talks/lectures in person before? Oh my goodness, the man is an utter quack. He is a shill for right-wingers everywhere. He is an utterly terrible person who talks an immense amount of shit. Have to disagree on that. Cant see where you would get any of that at all to be honest. Enjoy the show. What I've seen of him makes me think he's thoughtful and honest in his views. And the claims of anti trans and misogyny are complete nonsense. He was arguing against the use of pronouns in compelled speech. I believe this related to a law that was about to be passed in Canada. I think his observations about men & women are, for the most part, spot on. Spot on. He wasn't refusing to use pronouns. He was refusing to be compelled to use them. All of the "free speech" advocates should have agreed with him that you should not be compelled by law with regards to what words you can use. His stance was that you can call yourself anything you want and he respects your right to do so but no one should be compelled by law to do the same. It seems there is a certain demographic that demands free speech as long as the speech aligns with their views. If not, they ironically try to prevent you from speaking freely while calling you a fascist. If someone cannot be compelled to use the pronouns a person wishes to use, is it also the case that we are free to call people by whatever name we choose and cannot be compelled to use their preferred name? Men called David who prefer Dave? No Men called Anthony who prefer Tony? No Women called Elizabeth who prefer Liz? No Etc. The pronouns we all use in our speech (him, her, they etc) are part of identifying a person: "Is that Mrs KC?" "Yes, that's her" Why should people be permitted to ride roughshod over the pronouns people wish to be addressed with? I don't understand. It's no more difficult than learning all the nicknames or preferred names of your associates, e.g. Stephen prefers Steve. Daniel prefers Dan but your other mate Daniel prefers Danny. Etc. No comparison there. Names are whatever a person wants it to be. They arent dictionary defined. Pronouns are indisputable established grammar. And language is obviously completely fixed and never evolves and changes over time? Got it. I'm sure all the words in the dictionary have been the same with unchanged definitions since the first dictionaries were written " Thou isteth noteth wronge. | |||
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"I find him interesting. Used to like hearing him on podcasts as he always sounded very thoughtful in his views, even if I didn't always agree with them. Then I listened to his book 12 Rules and frankly I just found it grim and depressing. Lately though he seems to have gone completely off the deep end. From the thoughtful person who used to make reasonable comments to a crazy old man shouting inflammatory comments This is very much my thinking as well, definitely losing the plot and becoming more extreme. I think a low point was when he started ranting about the girl on sports illustrated and making sweeping statements about far girls not being sexy. Making definitive statements about something as subjective as who people find attractive just seemed weird and pointless." He was telling us all to stop being idiots and giving everyone the taking part trophy, what he is telling us to think about is can we be the best possible version of ourselves, both physically and mentally, rather than just congratulating everyone for giving ourselves a handy label and saying we are awesome,this forum post right here is exactly what he’s been warning about since day one, civilisations fall when the morality of men falter, in fighting, blurring of gender lines and polarisation, Rome, ancient Egypt, Mesopotamia, all fell in similar ways because society became fractured and he’s been warning us about just that, now look at where we are, exactly as above, all of us keen to get our views in as this will validate us, not one of us qualified in any of it but because we are allowed a voice then surely we should be heard…. Dead wrong and we will reap what we sow | |||
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"Peterson is quite well regarded as an academic, whatever you think of his views he isn't a quack. He's got substance. " Oh no not an academic....I think those are more hated than politicians to be honest. lol! They write long winded psycho-babble books instead of giving snappy tik toks in ten words. | |||
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"I find him interesting. Used to like hearing him on podcasts as he always sounded very thoughtful in his views, even if I didn't always agree with them. Then I listened to his book 12 Rules and frankly I just found it grim and depressing. Lately though he seems to have gone completely off the deep end. From the thoughtful person who used to make reasonable comments to a crazy old man shouting inflammatory comments This is very much my thinking as well, definitely losing the plot and becoming more extreme. I think a low point was when he started ranting about the girl on sports illustrated and making sweeping statements about far girls not being sexy. Making definitive statements about something as subjective as who people find attractive just seemed weird and pointless. He was telling us all to stop being idiots and giving everyone the taking part trophy, what he is telling us to think about is can we be the best possible version of ourselves, both physically and mentally, rather than just congratulating everyone for giving ourselves a handy label and saying we are awesome,this forum post right here is exactly what he’s been warning about since day one, civilisations fall when the morality of men falter, in fighting, blurring of gender lines and polarisation, Rome, ancient Egypt, Mesopotamia, all fell in similar ways because society became fractured and he’s been warning us about just that, now look at where we are, exactly as above, all of us keen to get our views in as this will validate us, not one of us qualified in any of it but because we are allowed a voice then surely we should be heard…. Dead wrong and we will reap what we sow " I feel like I'm in that scene from 300 with Gerald Butler and I'm getting wound up to go kick someone's cunt in. Think I'll have a chamomile tea. | |||
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"Whilst I admit I often enjoy some of the debates on here, the only thing I learned from this thread and a few similar ones that seem to pop up recently is that some people thrive on controversy and are often blinded by their own self importance. I am off to read the carrot thread instead. Have fun " Did you know, the natural colour of carrots is purple? | |||
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"Im going to one of his lectures in september as part of his tour over this neck of the woods. Cant wait for it i have to say. Has anyone been to one of his talks/lectures in person before? Oh my goodness, the man is an utter quack. He is a shill for right-wingers everywhere. He is an utterly terrible person who talks an immense amount of shit. Have to disagree on that. Cant see where you would get any of that at all to be honest. Enjoy the show. What I've seen of him makes me think he's thoughtful and honest in his views. And the claims of anti trans and misogyny are complete nonsense. He was arguing against the use of pronouns in compelled speech. I believe this related to a law that was about to be passed in Canada. I think his observations about men & women are, for the most part, spot on. Spot on. He wasn't refusing to use pronouns. He was refusing to be compelled to use them. All of the "free speech" advocates should have agreed with him that you should not be compelled by law with regards to what words you can use. His stance was that you can call yourself anything you want and he respects your right to do so but no one should be compelled by law to do the same. It seems there is a certain demographic that demands free speech as long as the speech aligns with their views. If not, they ironically try to prevent you from speaking freely while calling you a fascist. If someone cannot be compelled to use the pronouns a person wishes to use, is it also the case that we are free to call people by whatever name we choose and cannot be compelled to use their preferred name? Men called David who prefer Dave? No Men called Anthony who prefer Tony? No Women called Elizabeth who prefer Liz? No Etc. The pronouns we all use in our speech (him, her, they etc) are part of identifying a person: "Is that Mrs KC?" "Yes, that's her" Why should people be permitted to ride roughshod over the pronouns people wish to be addressed with? I don't understand. It's no more difficult than learning all the nicknames or preferred names of your associates, e.g. Stephen prefers Steve. Daniel prefers Dan but your other mate Daniel prefers Danny. Etc." There is a difference between respecting someone's wishes and law. Personally, my mother always had a saying "who is she? The cat's mother?" No one is compelled to call anyone anything and yes it is true you can call anyone anything and you are not compelled to use their preferred name. It is also true that it isn't law that you must. That is what he was against, "compelled by law". It isn't illegal to call David "Senga". He might not like it and but you can call David "Senga" if you choose. Just don't expect David to answer you. Unfortunately, the times of everyone wanting to be treated equally is history. Some don't want equality. They just shout equality while wanting to stand out and be different. They want to be special. They want to be treated as special and different. "I want what you have but I also want more because I'm different" | |||
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"Names are whatever a person wants it to be. They arent dictionary defined. Pronouns are indisputable established grammar. " LOL sit down | |||
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"Peterson is quite well regarded as an academic, whatever you think of his views he isn't a quack. He's got substance. Oh no not an academic....I think those are more hated than politicians to be honest. lol! They write long winded psycho-babble books instead of giving snappy tik toks in ten words." Erm you've just said lots of positive things about psycho babble? Regardless, academics are writing at a highly intellectual level - they're not appealing to the masses. Although Peterson has moved over to that. 12 things etc. | |||
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" Psychobabble isn't complex in itself. If you can say something in 50 words you could have said in 10 you're babbling. Interesting view....I will save that for my psychotherapist next session and tell her that she wasted 5 years of uni and the last 18 months therapising me. because it only takes 10 words..... I shall also tell my legal friends and family to stop writing 200 page documents. Judges too! they go on forever! So much time and words could be saved!! That isn't psychobabble. I've talked to psychiatrists too, and they didn't blind me with unnecessary words. Having a long conversation is necessary. Adding jargon and unnecessary words isn't. Judges don't psychobabble either. " A psychiatrist is different from a clinical psychologist is different from a psychotherapist. They are not all the same. If every time my therapist used jargon I had a hissy fit.....well I would have never completed the 18 months as recommended. A lecturer uses jargon...that the nature of a lecturer...that's why they have a question and answer section at the end. If you don't understand, ask a question or flat out tell them that you don't understand but to write it off completely as babble is for me a step too far. | |||
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"I find him interesting. Used to like hearing him on podcasts as he always sounded very thoughtful in his views, even if I didn't always agree with them. Then I listened to his book 12 Rules and frankly I just found it grim and depressing. Lately though he seems to have gone completely off the deep end. From the thoughtful person who used to make reasonable comments to a crazy old man shouting inflammatory comments This is very much my thinking as well, definitely losing the plot and becoming more extreme. I think a low point was when he started ranting about the girl on sports illustrated and making sweeping statements about far girls not being sexy. Making definitive statements about something as subjective as who people find attractive just seemed weird and pointless. He was telling us all to stop being idiots and giving everyone the taking part trophy, what he is telling us to think about is can we be the best possible version of ourselves, both physically and mentally, rather than just congratulating everyone for giving ourselves a handy label and saying we are awesome,this forum post right here is exactly what he’s been warning about since day one, civilisations fall when the morality of men falter, in fighting, blurring of gender lines and polarisation, Rome, ancient Egypt, Mesopotamia, all fell in similar ways because society became fractured and he’s been warning us about just that, now look at where we are, exactly as above, all of us keen to get our views in as this will validate us, not one of us qualified in any of it but because we are allowed a voice then surely we should be heard…. Dead wrong and we will reap what we sow I feel like I'm in that scene from 300 with Gerald Butler and I'm getting wound up to go kick someone's cunt in. Think I'll have a chamomile tea." Mines Yorkshire tea left to stew and no sugar, I’m sweet enough thanks | |||
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"Im going to one of his lectures in september as part of his tour over this neck of the woods. Cant wait for it i have to say. Has anyone been to one of his talks/lectures in person before? Oh my goodness, the man is an utter quack. He is a shill for right-wingers everywhere. He is an utterly terrible person who talks an immense amount of shit. Have to disagree on that. Cant see where you would get any of that at all to be honest. Enjoy the show. What I've seen of him makes me think he's thoughtful and honest in his views. And the claims of anti trans and misogyny are complete nonsense. He was arguing against the use of pronouns in compelled speech. I believe this related to a law that was about to be passed in Canada. I think his observations about men & women are, for the most part, spot on. Spot on. He wasn't refusing to use pronouns. He was refusing to be compelled to use them. All of the "free speech" advocates should have agreed with him that you should not be compelled by law with regards to what words you can use. His stance was that you can call yourself anything you want and he respects your right to do so but no one should be compelled by law to do the same. It seems there is a certain demographic that demands free speech as long as the speech aligns with their views. If not, they ironically try to prevent you from speaking freely while calling you a fascist. If someone cannot be compelled to use the pronouns a person wishes to use, is it also the case that we are free to call people by whatever name we choose and cannot be compelled to use their preferred name? Men called David who prefer Dave? No Men called Anthony who prefer Tony? No Women called Elizabeth who prefer Liz? No Etc. The pronouns we all use in our speech (him, her, they etc) are part of identifying a person: "Is that Mrs KC?" "Yes, that's her" Why should people be permitted to ride roughshod over the pronouns people wish to be addressed with? I don't understand. It's no more difficult than learning all the nicknames or preferred names of your associates, e.g. Stephen prefers Steve. Daniel prefers Dan but your other mate Daniel prefers Danny. Etc. No comparison there. Names are whatever a person wants it to be. They arent dictionary defined. Pronouns are indisputable established grammar. And language is obviously completely fixed and never evolves and changes over time? Got it. I'm sure all the words in the dictionary have been the same with unchanged definitions since the first dictionaries were written " I actually can't tell if this is a wind up. | |||
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"Im going to one of his lectures in september as part of his tour over this neck of the woods. Cant wait for it i have to say. Has anyone been to one of his talks/lectures in person before? Oh my goodness, the man is an utter quack. He is a shill for right-wingers everywhere. He is an utterly terrible person who talks an immense amount of shit. Have to disagree on that. Cant see where you would get any of that at all to be honest. Enjoy the show. What I've seen of him makes me think he's thoughtful and honest in his views. And the claims of anti trans and misogyny are complete nonsense. He was arguing against the use of pronouns in compelled speech. I believe this related to a law that was about to be passed in Canada. I think his observations about men & women are, for the most part, spot on. Spot on. He wasn't refusing to use pronouns. He was refusing to be compelled to use them. All of the "free speech" advocates should have agreed with him that you should not be compelled by law with regards to what words you can use. His stance was that you can call yourself anything you want and he respects your right to do so but no one should be compelled by law to do the same. It seems there is a certain demographic that demands free speech as long as the speech aligns with their views. If not, they ironically try to prevent you from speaking freely while calling you a fascist. If someone cannot be compelled to use the pronouns a person wishes to use, is it also the case that we are free to call people by whatever name we choose and cannot be compelled to use their preferred name? Men called David who prefer Dave? No Men called Anthony who prefer Tony? No Women called Elizabeth who prefer Liz? No Etc. The pronouns we all use in our speech (him, her, they etc) are part of identifying a person: "Is that Mrs KC?" "Yes, that's her" Why should people be permitted to ride roughshod over the pronouns people wish to be addressed with? I don't understand. It's no more difficult than learning all the nicknames or preferred names of your associates, e.g. Stephen prefers Steve. Daniel prefers Dan but your other mate Daniel prefers Danny. Etc. There is a difference between respecting someone's wishes and law. Personally, my mother always had a saying "who is she? The cat's mother?" No one is compelled to call anyone anything and yes it is true you can call anyone anything and you are not compelled to use their preferred name. It is also true that it isn't law that you must. That is what he was against, "compelled by law". It isn't illegal to call David "Senga". He might not like it and but you can call David "Senga" if you choose. Just don't expect David to answer you. Unfortunately, the times of everyone wanting to be treated equally is history. Some don't want equality. They just shout equality while wanting to stand out and be different. They want to be special. They want to be treated as special and different. "I want what you have but I also want more because I'm different" I bet if a school, for example, started to call a child by a completely different name to the one the child was given at birth (e.g. a child christened Henry by parents is called Aethelred by teachers), would have a pretty good case for some sort of discrimination claim and the school would have to immediately revert to calling the child by the name given to them at birth. So, although in theory, there's no "law" that says you must call people by the name they choose, I'm also pretty certain that deliberately NOT using someone's given name on the regular would constitute some form of offence under the Equality Act or just in terms of bullying. I speak as someone with an unusual first name who regularly had her name mispronounced or confused with other names at school, and on more than one occasion, was asked "was I sure" that my name was X and not Y by teachers. I never complained, but it was really upsetting actually. And I'm no "snowflake" to use a term beloved of the modern world. " You are most definitely 100% wrong. The equality act covers the 5 protected characteristics and a person's name is not a protected characteristic. It's difficult to have a reasonable discussion with someone that uses fantastical scenarios and uninformed viewpoints | |||
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"Im going to one of his lectures in september as part of his tour over this neck of the woods. Cant wait for it i have to say. Has anyone been to one of his talks/lectures in person before? Oh my goodness, the man is an utter quack. He is a shill for right-wingers everywhere. He is an utterly terrible person who talks an immense amount of shit. Have to disagree on that. Cant see where you would get any of that at all to be honest. Enjoy the show. What I've seen of him makes me think he's thoughtful and honest in his views. And the claims of anti trans and misogyny are complete nonsense. He was arguing against the use of pronouns in compelled speech. I believe this related to a law that was about to be passed in Canada. I think his observations about men & women are, for the most part, spot on. Spot on. He wasn't refusing to use pronouns. He was refusing to be compelled to use them. All of the "free speech" advocates should have agreed with him that you should not be compelled by law with regards to what words you can use. His stance was that you can call yourself anything you want and he respects your right to do so but no one should be compelled by law to do the same. It seems there is a certain demographic that demands free speech as long as the speech aligns with their views. If not, they ironically try to prevent you from speaking freely while calling you a fascist. If someone cannot be compelled to use the pronouns a person wishes to use, is it also the case that we are free to call people by whatever name we choose and cannot be compelled to use their preferred name? Men called David who prefer Dave? No Men called Anthony who prefer Tony? No Women called Elizabeth who prefer Liz? No Etc. The pronouns we all use in our speech (him, her, they etc) are part of identifying a person: "Is that Mrs KC?" "Yes, that's her" Why should people be permitted to ride roughshod over the pronouns people wish to be addressed with? I don't understand. It's no more difficult than learning all the nicknames or preferred names of your associates, e.g. Stephen prefers Steve. Daniel prefers Dan but your other mate Daniel prefers Danny. Etc. There is a difference between respecting someone's wishes and law. Personally, my mother always had a saying "who is she? The cat's mother?" No one is compelled to call anyone anything and yes it is true you can call anyone anything and you are not compelled to use their preferred name. It is also true that it isn't law that you must. That is what he was against, "compelled by law". It isn't illegal to call David "Senga". He might not like it and but you can call David "Senga" if you choose. Just don't expect David to answer you. Unfortunately, the times of everyone wanting to be treated equally is history. Some don't want equality. They just shout equality while wanting to stand out and be different. They want to be special. They want to be treated as special and different. "I want what you have but I also want more because I'm different" I bet if a school, for example, started to call a child by a completely different name to the one the child was given at birth (e.g. a child christened Henry by parents is called Aethelred by teachers), would have a pretty good case for some sort of discrimination claim and the school would have to immediately revert to calling the child by the name given to them at birth. So, although in theory, there's no "law" that says you must call people by the name they choose, I'm also pretty certain that deliberately NOT using someone's given name on the regular would constitute some form of offence under the Equality Act or just in terms of bullying. I speak as someone with an unusual first name who regularly had her name mispronounced or confused with other names at school, and on more than one occasion, was asked "was I sure" that my name was X and not Y by teachers. I never complained, but it was really upsetting actually. And I'm no "snowflake" to use a term beloved of the modern world. " Actually this has happened one of my kids did want to change their name and the school asked me. It can't be changed for legal things such as GCSEs. But for every thing else - they were happy but I had to ok it. Which I was happy to do. But the topic was more pronouns than names - the issue of using she for a male-bodied person for example. Compelled speech in the Canadian legislation was what Peterson argued about. | |||
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"Peterson is quite well regarded as an academic, whatever you think of his views he isn't a quack. He's got substance. Oh no not an academic....I think those are more hated than politicians to be honest. lol! They write long winded psycho-babble books instead of giving snappy tik toks in ten words. Erm you've just said lots of positive things about psycho babble? Regardless, academics are writing at a highly intellectual level - they're not appealing to the masses. Although Peterson has moved over to that. 12 things etc." That's my dry sense of humour. Generally I find that most people hate talk of psychology and academics. Usually because they fear that they will get inside their mind and "trick" them or have more intelligence than them and trick them. Personally I fear those people I watch on true crime shows. Academics and Mental health people? Nah...they don't know everything even in their field and the best ones admit it. If people want to make judgements based on the popular media opinion, that's their right. I was never like that. That's why I'm a Maverick. I always go against popular opinion but not in a vulgar way and definitely not by calling people names. I just do my own thing. Low libido on a swingers site and all. | |||
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" Ben Shapiro? " Basically a far right authoritarian bootlicker who claims to be a libertarian - and while BS has all the teenage sociopathic traits you expect from a libertarian - he's anything but check out youtube for the book review of his pant wettingly bad novel True Allegiance it's hilarious Hilariously badly written far right propaganda novel where the "hero" nukes NeW York because muslims and liberals I'm not kidding | |||
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"Im going to one of his lectures in september as part of his tour over this neck of the woods. Cant wait for it i have to say. Has anyone been to one of his talks/lectures in person before? Oh my goodness, the man is an utter quack. He is a shill for right-wingers everywhere. He is an utterly terrible person who talks an immense amount of shit. Have to disagree on that. Cant see where you would get any of that at all to be honest. Enjoy the show. What I've seen of him makes me think he's thoughtful and honest in his views. And the claims of anti trans and misogyny are complete nonsense. He was arguing against the use of pronouns in compelled speech. I believe this related to a law that was about to be passed in Canada. I think his observations about men & women are, for the most part, spot on. Spot on. He wasn't refusing to use pronouns. He was refusing to be compelled to use them. All of the "free speech" advocates should have agreed with him that you should not be compelled by law with regards to what words you can use. His stance was that you can call yourself anything you want and he respects your right to do so but no one should be compelled by law to do the same. It seems there is a certain demographic that demands free speech as long as the speech aligns with their views. If not, they ironically try to prevent you from speaking freely while calling you a fascist. If someone cannot be compelled to use the pronouns a person wishes to use, is it also the case that we are free to call people by whatever name we choose and cannot be compelled to use their preferred name? Men called David who prefer Dave? No Men called Anthony who prefer Tony? No Women called Elizabeth who prefer Liz? No Etc. The pronouns we all use in our speech (him, her, they etc) are part of identifying a person: "Is that Mrs KC?" "Yes, that's her" Why should people be permitted to ride roughshod over the pronouns people wish to be addressed with? I don't understand. It's no more difficult than learning all the nicknames or preferred names of your associates, e.g. Stephen prefers Steve. Daniel prefers Dan but your other mate Daniel prefers Danny. Etc. There is a difference between respecting someone's wishes and law. Personally, my mother always had a saying "who is she? The cat's mother?" No one is compelled to call anyone anything and yes it is true you can call anyone anything and you are not compelled to use their preferred name. It is also true that it isn't law that you must. That is what he was against, "compelled by law". It isn't illegal to call David "Senga". He might not like it and but you can call David "Senga" if you choose. Just don't expect David to answer you. Unfortunately, the times of everyone wanting to be treated equally is history. Some don't want equality. They just shout equality while wanting to stand out and be different. They want to be special. They want to be treated as special and different. "I want what you have but I also want more because I'm different" I bet if a school, for example, started to call a child by a completely different name to the one the child was given at birth (e.g. a child christened Henry by parents is called Aethelred by teachers), would have a pretty good case for some sort of discrimination claim and the school would have to immediately revert to calling the child by the name given to them at birth. So, although in theory, there's no "law" that says you must call people by the name they choose, I'm also pretty certain that deliberately NOT using someone's given name on the regular would constitute some form of offence under the Equality Act or just in terms of bullying. I speak as someone with an unusual first name who regularly had her name mispronounced or confused with other names at school, and on more than one occasion, was asked "was I sure" that my name was X and not Y by teachers. I never complained, but it was really upsetting actually. And I'm no "snowflake" to use a term beloved of the modern world. Actually this has happened one of my kids did want to change their name and the school asked me. It can't be changed for legal things such as GCSEs. But for every thing else - they were happy but I had to ok it. Which I was happy to do. But the topic was more pronouns than names - the issue of using she for a male-bodied person for example. Compelled speech in the Canadian legislation was what Peterson argued about. " I don't mean the child or a person choosing to change their name. I'm referring to a situation where someone (a teacher, in my example) decides not to call a child by their name and just decides to use a completely different name. For example, instead of Henry, they decide to use Aethelred. This stems from the earlier point or question really about why it's okay that we (society) should not be compelled to use the pronoun words people wish for us to use, and I compared that to using a person's preferred name. Is it okay for me to flatly refused to call my friend Dan when his "proper" name is Daniel? Or insist on only called my friend Elizabeth by the full name, not her preferred "Liz"? And if that's not okay, why the difference with "chosen" pronouns? If my friend Sam wishes me to use they, it's absolutely no skin off my nose, just as it's no skin off my nose to remember they prefer "Sam" and not Samantha or Samuel. | |||
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"Im going to one of his lectures in september as part of his tour over this neck of the woods. Cant wait for it i have to say. Has anyone been to one of his talks/lectures in person before? Oh my goodness, the man is an utter quack. He is a shill for right-wingers everywhere. He is an utterly terrible person who talks an immense amount of shit. Have to disagree on that. Cant see where you would get any of that at all to be honest. Enjoy the show. What I've seen of him makes me think he's thoughtful and honest in his views. And the claims of anti trans and misogyny are complete nonsense. He was arguing against the use of pronouns in compelled speech. I believe this related to a law that was about to be passed in Canada. I think his observations about men & women are, for the most part, spot on. I will thank you and I agree, youre spot on about that proposed law in canada and his reaction to it at the time. " Except that on this issue, which led to his rise to fame and considerable fortune, he lied his head off. All that happened in the Canadian law was a change to the list of protected groups to include trans people. All his stuff about people being compelled to use pronouns or become criminals was a lie, but right-wing transphobes loved it and absolutely lapped it up. He was openly and blatantly lying. | |||
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"Im going to one of his lectures in september as part of his tour over this neck of the woods. Cant wait for it i have to say. Has anyone been to one of his talks/lectures in person before? Oh my goodness, the man is an utter quack. He is a shill for right-wingers everywhere. He is an utterly terrible person who talks an immense amount of shit. Have to disagree on that. Cant see where you would get any of that at all to be honest. Enjoy the show. What I've seen of him makes me think he's thoughtful and honest in his views. And the claims of anti trans and misogyny are complete nonsense. He was arguing against the use of pronouns in compelled speech. I believe this related to a law that was about to be passed in Canada. I think his observations about men & women are, for the most part, spot on. Spot on. He wasn't refusing to use pronouns. He was refusing to be compelled to use them. All of the "free speech" advocates should have agreed with him that you should not be compelled by law with regards to what words you can use. His stance was that you can call yourself anything you want and he respects your right to do so but no one should be compelled by law to do the same. It seems there is a certain demographic that demands free speech as long as the speech aligns with their views. If not, they ironically try to prevent you from speaking freely while calling you a fascist. If someone cannot be compelled to use the pronouns a person wishes to use, is it also the case that we are free to call people by whatever name we choose and cannot be compelled to use their preferred name? Men called David who prefer Dave? No Men called Anthony who prefer Tony? No Women called Elizabeth who prefer Liz? No Etc. The pronouns we all use in our speech (him, her, they etc) are part of identifying a person: "Is that Mrs KC?" "Yes, that's her" Why should people be permitted to ride roughshod over the pronouns people wish to be addressed with? I don't understand. It's no more difficult than learning all the nicknames or preferred names of your associates, e.g. Stephen prefers Steve. Daniel prefers Dan but your other mate Daniel prefers Danny. Etc. There is a difference between respecting someone's wishes and law. Personally, my mother always had a saying "who is she? The cat's mother?" No one is compelled to call anyone anything and yes it is true you can call anyone anything and you are not compelled to use their preferred name. It is also true that it isn't law that you must. That is what he was against, "compelled by law". It isn't illegal to call David "Senga". He might not like it and but you can call David "Senga" if you choose. Just don't expect David to answer you. Unfortunately, the times of everyone wanting to be treated equally is history. Some don't want equality. They just shout equality while wanting to stand out and be different. They want to be special. They want to be treated as special and different. "I want what you have but I also want more because I'm different" I bet if a school, for example, started to call a child by a completely different name to the one the child was given at birth (e.g. a child christened Henry by parents is called Aethelred by teachers), would have a pretty good case for some sort of discrimination claim and the school would have to immediately revert to calling the child by the name given to them at birth. So, although in theory, there's no "law" that says you must call people by the name they choose, I'm also pretty certain that deliberately NOT using someone's given name on the regular would constitute some form of offence under the Equality Act or just in terms of bullying. I speak as someone with an unusual first name who regularly had her name mispronounced or confused with other names at school, and on more than one occasion, was asked "was I sure" that my name was X and not Y by teachers. I never complained, but it was really upsetting actually. And I'm no "snowflake" to use a term beloved of the modern world. Actually this has happened one of my kids did want to change their name and the school asked me. It can't be changed for legal things such as GCSEs. But for every thing else - they were happy but I had to ok it. Which I was happy to do. But the topic was more pronouns than names - the issue of using she for a male-bodied person for example. Compelled speech in the Canadian legislation was what Peterson argued about. " Its perfectly legal. I changed my name when I was 11. For decades, the name on my birth certificate was not the name on my passport, my NI number, my bank accounts or anything other than my birth certificate. All I needed was a Justice of the peace to sign a document and it made my name change legal. I have since changed it on my birth certificate. That being said, no one is legally compelled to call me by that or any other name. Not unless I could argue that not doing so is hate speech but that is a completely different argument to free speech. | |||
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"Im going to one of his lectures in september as part of his tour over this neck of the woods. Cant wait for it i have to say. Has anyone been to one of his talks/lectures in person before? Oh my goodness, the man is an utter quack. He is a shill for right-wingers everywhere. He is an utterly terrible person who talks an immense amount of shit. Have to disagree on that. Cant see where you would get any of that at all to be honest. Enjoy the show. What I've seen of him makes me think he's thoughtful and honest in his views. And the claims of anti trans and misogyny are complete nonsense. He was arguing against the use of pronouns in compelled speech. I believe this related to a law that was about to be passed in Canada. I think his observations about men & women are, for the most part, spot on. Spot on. He wasn't refusing to use pronouns. He was refusing to be compelled to use them. All of the "free speech" advocates should have agreed with him that you should not be compelled by law with regards to what words you can use. His stance was that you can call yourself anything you want and he respects your right to do so but no one should be compelled by law to do the same. It seems there is a certain demographic that demands free speech as long as the speech aligns with their views. If not, they ironically try to prevent you from speaking freely while calling you a fascist. If someone cannot be compelled to use the pronouns a person wishes to use, is it also the case that we are free to call people by whatever name we choose and cannot be compelled to use their preferred name? Men called David who prefer Dave? No Men called Anthony who prefer Tony? No Women called Elizabeth who prefer Liz? No Etc. The pronouns we all use in our speech (him, her, they etc) are part of identifying a person: "Is that Mrs KC?" "Yes, that's her" Why should people be permitted to ride roughshod over the pronouns people wish to be addressed with? I don't understand. It's no more difficult than learning all the nicknames or preferred names of your associates, e.g. Stephen prefers Steve. Daniel prefers Dan but your other mate Daniel prefers Danny. Etc. There is a difference between respecting someone's wishes and law. Personally, my mother always had a saying "who is she? The cat's mother?" No one is compelled to call anyone anything and yes it is true you can call anyone anything and you are not compelled to use their preferred name. It is also true that it isn't law that you must. That is what he was against, "compelled by law". It isn't illegal to call David "Senga". He might not like it and but you can call David "Senga" if you choose. Just don't expect David to answer you. Unfortunately, the times of everyone wanting to be treated equally is history. Some don't want equality. They just shout equality while wanting to stand out and be different. They want to be special. They want to be treated as special and different. "I want what you have but I also want more because I'm different" I bet if a school, for example, started to call a child by a completely different name to the one the child was given at birth (e.g. a child christened Henry by parents is called Aethelred by teachers), would have a pretty good case for some sort of discrimination claim and the school would have to immediately revert to calling the child by the name given to them at birth. So, although in theory, there's no "law" that says you must call people by the name they choose, I'm also pretty certain that deliberately NOT using someone's given name on the regular would constitute some form of offence under the Equality Act or just in terms of bullying. I speak as someone with an unusual first name who regularly had her name mispronounced or confused with other names at school, and on more than one occasion, was asked "was I sure" that my name was X and not Y by teachers. I never complained, but it was really upsetting actually. And I'm no "snowflake" to use a term beloved of the modern world. Actually this has happened one of my kids did want to change their name and the school asked me. It can't be changed for legal things such as GCSEs. But for every thing else - they were happy but I had to ok it. Which I was happy to do. But the topic was more pronouns than names - the issue of using she for a male-bodied person for example. Compelled speech in the Canadian legislation was what Peterson argued about. I don't mean the child or a person choosing to change their name. I'm referring to a situation where someone (a teacher, in my example) decides not to call a child by their name and just decides to use a completely different name. For example, instead of Henry, they decide to use Aethelred. This stems from the earlier point or question really about why it's okay that we (society) should not be compelled to use the pronoun words people wish for us to use, and I compared that to using a person's preferred name. Is it okay for me to flatly refused to call my friend Dan when his "proper" name is Daniel? Or insist on only called my friend Elizabeth by the full name, not her preferred "Liz"? And if that's not okay, why the difference with "chosen" pronouns? If my friend Sam wishes me to use they, it's absolutely no skin off my nose, just as it's no skin off my nose to remember they prefer "Sam" and not Samantha or Samuel. " Yes we all absolutely agree its no skin of your nose, nor ours. And chances are of sam asked us as a friend, we would all probably happily use whatever pronoun he preferred. However e, to think this should be compelled by law is just beyond the pale | |||
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"Im going to one of his lectures in september as part of his tour over this neck of the woods. Cant wait for it i have to say. Has anyone been to one of his talks/lectures in person before? Oh my goodness, the man is an utter quack. He is a shill for right-wingers everywhere. He is an utterly terrible person who talks an immense amount of shit. Have to disagree on that. Cant see where you would get any of that at all to be honest. Enjoy the show. What I've seen of him makes me think he's thoughtful and honest in his views. And the claims of anti trans and misogyny are complete nonsense. He was arguing against the use of pronouns in compelled speech. I believe this related to a law that was about to be passed in Canada. I think his observations about men & women are, for the most part, spot on. Spot on. He wasn't refusing to use pronouns. He was refusing to be compelled to use them. All of the "free speech" advocates should have agreed with him that you should not be compelled by law with regards to what words you can use. His stance was that you can call yourself anything you want and he respects your right to do so but no one should be compelled by law to do the same. It seems there is a certain demographic that demands free speech as long as the speech aligns with their views. If not, they ironically try to prevent you from speaking freely while calling you a fascist. If someone cannot be compelled to use the pronouns a person wishes to use, is it also the case that we are free to call people by whatever name we choose and cannot be compelled to use their preferred name? Men called David who prefer Dave? No Men called Anthony who prefer Tony? No Women called Elizabeth who prefer Liz? No Etc. The pronouns we all use in our speech (him, her, they etc) are part of identifying a person: "Is that Mrs KC?" "Yes, that's her" Why should people be permitted to ride roughshod over the pronouns people wish to be addressed with? I don't understand. It's no more difficult than learning all the nicknames or preferred names of your associates, e.g. Stephen prefers Steve. Daniel prefers Dan but your other mate Daniel prefers Danny. Etc. There is a difference between respecting someone's wishes and law. Personally, my mother always had a saying "who is she? The cat's mother?" No one is compelled to call anyone anything and yes it is true you can call anyone anything and you are not compelled to use their preferred name. It is also true that it isn't law that you must. That is what he was against, "compelled by law". It isn't illegal to call David "Senga". He might not like it and but you can call David "Senga" if you choose. Just don't expect David to answer you. Unfortunately, the times of everyone wanting to be treated equally is history. Some don't want equality. They just shout equality while wanting to stand out and be different. They want to be special. They want to be treated as special and different. "I want what you have but I also want more because I'm different" I bet if a school, for example, started to call a child by a completely different name to the one the child was given at birth (e.g. a child christened Henry by parents is called Aethelred by teachers), would have a pretty good case for some sort of discrimination claim and the school would have to immediately revert to calling the child by the name given to them at birth. So, although in theory, there's no "law" that says you must call people by the name they choose, I'm also pretty certain that deliberately NOT using someone's given name on the regular would constitute some form of offence under the Equality Act or just in terms of bullying. I speak as someone with an unusual first name who regularly had her name mispronounced or confused with other names at school, and on more than one occasion, was asked "was I sure" that my name was X and not Y by teachers. I never complained, but it was really upsetting actually. And I'm no "snowflake" to use a term beloved of the modern world. Actually this has happened one of my kids did want to change their name and the school asked me. It can't be changed for legal things such as GCSEs. But for every thing else - they were happy but I had to ok it. Which I was happy to do. But the topic was more pronouns than names - the issue of using she for a male-bodied person for example. Compelled speech in the Canadian legislation was what Peterson argued about. I don't mean the child or a person choosing to change their name. I'm referring to a situation where someone (a teacher, in my example) decides not to call a child by their name and just decides to use a completely different name. For example, instead of Henry, they decide to use Aethelred. This stems from the earlier point or question really about why it's okay that we (society) should not be compelled to use the pronoun words people wish for us to use, and I compared that to using a person's preferred name. Is it okay for me to flatly refused to call my friend Dan when his "proper" name is Daniel? Or insist on only called my friend Elizabeth by the full name, not her preferred "Liz"? And if that's not okay, why the difference with "chosen" pronouns? If my friend Sam wishes me to use they, it's absolutely no skin off my nose, just as it's no skin off my nose to remember they prefer "Sam" and not Samantha or Samuel. " I don't wish to hijack the thread, but I disagree with compelled speech. Using pronouns for some is seen as agreeing with gender ideology. (That's not my objection, I am just giving one reason why some people don't agree) | |||
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