FabSwingers.com forum: Squirt help

By *raveler1337 OP Man
over a year ago

london

Hello everyone

I am writing to you for advice on female squirt .. I have been having sex with my girlfriend for several months and I can never make her squirt … I tried with a massage many times (point G) but she is not able to continue as soon as she gets the body shivers .. also tried through a vibrator, double penetration and to no avail ..

Does anyone have a same problem?

Thank you !

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Don't be too rough.

She simply may not produce what you desire.

It's not a problem unless you make it a problem. It doesn't mean her body doesn't work or you're doing anything wrong.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I am 56 and have never squirted.

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By *raveler1337 OP Man
over a year ago

london

Thank you for advice

I'm not pushing my girlfriend in any way

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Also, if she knows that's what you're trying to do, there's every chance her body is going "hell no" coz it can feel like you're under huge amounts of pressure and failing as a woman when your partner wants your body to do something and it doesn't do it. A mental block can easily ensue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello everyone

Does anyone have a same problem?

Thank you ! "

Get a new girlfriend. What's the point in having a woman if she won't squirt?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Plenty advice and videos on YouTube.

I was 51 when I first squirted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the issue with most men, they make this a goal. Just enjoy focusing on each others bodies and if it's going to happen, believe me it will only happen naturally. If it doesnt, again just enjoy each other's bodies. Just because she isn't resembling a water pistol, doesn't mean she isn't enjoying sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is the issue with most men, they make this a goal. Just enjoy focusing on each others bodies and if it's going to happen, believe me it will only happen naturally. If it doesnt, again just enjoy each other's bodies. Just because she isn't resembling a water pistol, doesn't mean she isn't enjoying sex."

A water pistol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get her to drink lots beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello everyone

Does anyone have a same problem?

Thank you !

Get a new girlfriend. What's the point in having a woman if she won't squirt?"

Sounds like an offer to me

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By *raveler1337 OP Man
over a year ago

london

Nope she is my numer 1

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It's not a problem.

It might be something you want,it might be something she wants but it's definitely not a problem.

As with many things stop trying and it might happen. It might not but does that matter?

I'm pretty sure there will be someone along soon with an expert guide but be careful some of the methods advised can be quite uncomfortable for the woman and even lead to uti.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it important to You or to your partner that she squirts?

Is it something she has enjoyed previously or is porn leading this urge?

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By *raveler1337 OP Man
over a year ago

london

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you

You are welcome

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By *rnyCpl45Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

Relaxing is key. I never knew I could squirt until a couple of years ago and found out when hubby bought me a vibrator called Tracy's Dog of all things! Now I've learnt to squirt literally at the drop of a hat by just using my fingers on my clit and if I use a wand it's explosive! I shake loads but you have to get past that and push through!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Once she has had her 'body shivers' does she want you to continue?

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By *raveler1337 OP Man
over a year ago

london

here is the problem because She don't like alcohol: /

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"here is the problem because She don't like alcohol: /"

What about lychee juice though ?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"here is the problem because She don't like alcohol: /

What about lychee juice though ? "

All that squeezing would take ages

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By *raveler1337 OP Man
over a year ago

london

a few seconds and She don't want to anymore because it hurts ... but immediately jumps on me and we fuck without any pain

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

Never used to squirt or anything till met cuck. Now do it almost every time. Don't try to make it happen, just relax have fun and plenty of foreplay. You don't need to be pissed either, yep drinking water helps just as much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading the thread on what people have to do to stop the house from getting damp, I am not sure it is worth going to all of that effort.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"here is the problem because She don't like alcohol: /"

If you use reply+quote under the post you're replying to we can tell who you're answering

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By *raveler1337 OP Man
over a year ago

london

quite often after sex she wants to pee terribly .. maybe ccontinue sex until she "pisses"?

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By *raveler1337 OP Man
over a year ago

london

"here is the problem because She don't like alcohol: /

If you use reply+quote under the post you're replying to we can tell who you're answering

Thank you : D im new here

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Reading the thread on what people have to do to stop the house from getting damp, I am not sure it is worth going to all of that effort. "

On a thread yesterday someone said his partner squirted on the sofa and it hit the TV !

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"here is the problem because She don't like alcohol: /

If you use reply+quote under the post you're replying to we can tell who you're answering

Thank you : D im new here"

I thought you might be. Welcome

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"here is the problem because She don't like alcohol: /

What about lychee juice though ?

All that squeezing would take ages"

Maybe melons ...... huge ones.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Reading the thread on what people have to do to stop the house from getting damp, I am not sure it is worth going to all of that effort.

On a thread yesterday someone said his partner squirted on the sofa and it hit the TV ! "

We were chatting to a guy who said his partner hit the top of the wardrobe

. Imagine being all sleepy and happy after sex and having to get up and wipe the top of the damn wardrobe

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"quite often after sex she wants to pee terribly .. maybe ccontinue sex until she "pisses"? "

What does she want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reading the thread on what people have to do to stop the house from getting damp, I am not sure it is worth going to all of that effort.

On a thread yesterday someone said his partner squirted on the sofa and it hit the TV ! "

It's mad, I bet it is great fun to watch but I would lose my hard-on thinking about cleaning the mess or lose my desire prepping for it.

My new sofa would be out of bounds for the next 3-5 years.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"here is the problem because She don't like alcohol: /

If you use reply+quote under the post you're replying to we can tell who you're answering

Thank you : D im new here

I thought you might be. Welcome

So did I. Wink Wink

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

" Imagine being all sleepy and happy after sex and having to get up and wipe the top of the damn wardrobe

Especially if it's where you store sunhats, yoga mats and your gran's ashes

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Aren’t you the charmer. She needs a new boyfriend.

Where’s the love in the relationship if your fixated on making her squirt?

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

quite often after sex she wants to pee terribly .. maybe ccontinue sex until she "pisses"?

Think you will find it's nothing really to do with peeing. I have a bladder problem and have to use bags to empty but can quite easily squirt for Britain lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reading the thread on what people have to do to stop the house from getting damp, I am not sure it is worth going to all of that effort.

On a thread yesterday someone said his partner squirted on the sofa and it hit the TV !

We were chatting to a guy who said his partner hit the top of the wardrobe

. Imagine being all sleepy and happy after sex and having to get up and wipe the top of the damn wardrobe

Exactly, I wouldn't stop thinking about it. They claim it is involuntary (not refuting that) but surely sex becomes a lot of hassle, no more quickies or nightly sex. Once a week once Amazon has delivered new bedding and two lots of mattress protectors.

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By *raveler1337 OP Man
over a year ago

london

"quite often after sex she wants to pee terribly .. maybe ccontinue sex until she "pisses"?

What does she want?"

Pee

if the sex lasts more than a few minutes, she always wants pee so hard: P

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

" Imagine being all sleepy and happy after sex and having to get up and wipe the top of the damn wardrobe

Especially if it's where you store sunhats, yoga mats and your gran's ashes"

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"quite often after sex she wants to pee terribly .. maybe ccontinue sex until she "pisses"?

What does she want?

Pee

if the sex lasts more than a few minutes, she always wants pee so hard: P"

No I mean what does she want when it comes to squirting?

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

Don't understand the obsession with making a woman squirt.

When we have finished, I just want to roll over, fart & go to sleep, not start changing sheets and turning the mattress.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

If you use reply+quote under the post you're replying to we can tell who you're answering

Thank you : D im new here"

Welcome. As a single male new to the site would you like any profile advice ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello everyone

Does anyone have a same problem?

Thank you ! "

Why is it a problem???

Her body functioning the way it should is never a problem.....

Men thinking that the ability to make every woman squirt as an endgame is a problem

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"quite often after sex she wants to pee terribly .. maybe ccontinue sex until she "pisses"?

What does she want?

Pee

if the sex lasts more than a few minutes, she always wants pee so hard: P"

Try keeping on going when she has that feeling, maybe she will tip over, I'd put a towel under the sheet for the first time though

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Not every woman squirts. I’ve never squirted. I don’t see it as a problem.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Definitely put towels down , some women prevent themselves squirting because they’re scared of making a mess. Don’t pressure her, you’re probably making it even harder!

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Several of my female friends have said they roll their eyes when a man is 'determined' to 'make' them do it. DON'T!!! Just let it happen if it's going to - forcing it creates pressure.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Several of my female friends have said they roll their eyes when a man is 'determined' to 'make' them do it. DON'T!!! Just let it happen if it's going to - forcing it creates pressure. "

This is all you need to know.

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By *lipandSlide777Couple
over a year ago

Bideford

"Hello everyone

Does anyone have a same problem?

Thank you ! "

I was late 40s before I squirted for the first time. But then was months after, wasn't for lack of trying, maybe to hard hahaha. Doesn't always work either. Forget about it. Not all women squirt. If she does one day then bingo.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Its just piss

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

"Its just piss

Well if that's true need to tell scientists and doctors as she can't pee unaided but can squirt perfectly freely, break through in medical science

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"here is the problem because She don't like alcohol: /"

They meant water. Drink plenty of water, not alcohol. Nobody is suggesting you get her d*unk to make it happen, they're simply suggesting a healthy fluid intake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As exciting as it is, there is the clean up afterwards and if you are going down on her there is a risk of drowning.

Relax. Sex is meant to be fun. No matter what technique you guys try, if it isn't fun it will not happen.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Its just piss

Well if that's true need to tell scientists and doctors as she can't pee unaided but can squirt perfectly freely, break through in medical science

Where is squirt stored in the body before it is expelled ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women do. Some women don't.

I went 10 years without ever squirting, and in the five since I've only done it with one man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it so important to you? Why do you see her lack of squirting as a problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Several of my female friends have said they roll their eyes when a man is 'determined' to 'make' them do it. DON'T!!! Just let it happen if it's going to - forcing it creates pressure. "

Couldn’t agree more - one of my former fwb’s from here used to want to make me squirt continually.

It just made me sore and after one of these occasions I got really bad cystitis that lasted a week.

These men and their egos- I like men to be repeaters but I would never dream of asking them to - just bad sexual manners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone can, but if she feels pressured it's definitely not going to happen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Several of my female friends have said they roll their eyes when a man is 'determined' to 'make' them do it. DON'T!!! Just let it happen if it's going to - forcing it creates pressure.

Couldn’t agree more - one of my former fwb’s from here used to want to make me squirt continually.

It just made me sore and after one of these occasions I got really bad cystitis that lasted a week.

These men and their egos- I like men to be repeaters but I would never dream of asking them to - just bad sexual manners

Exactly this, imagine pumping their dick with the same velocity as a bicycle pump while squealing 'start ya bastard' then asking on Fab forum if anyone else has the same 'problem' with their man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it so important to you? Why do you see her lack of squirting as a problem?"

That's what I thought. Some girls do, some girls don't. Why does it matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Several of my female friends have said they roll their eyes when a man is 'determined' to 'make' them do it. DON'T!!! Just let it happen if it's going to - forcing it creates pressure.

Couldn’t agree more - one of my former fwb’s from here used to want to make me squirt continually.

It just made me sore and after one of these occasions I got really bad cystitis that lasted a week.

These men and their egos- I like men to be repeaters but I would never dream of asking them to - just bad sexual manners

Exactly this, imagine pumping their dick with the same velocity as a bicycle pump while squealing 'start ya bastard' then asking on Fab forum if anyone else has the same 'problem' with their man

Ha ha - I would never do that I like dominant guys, not ones who let you lead

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Here's my advice.

Get her to drink lots of water then you lay on the floor, she stands astride you and pisses over you.

Same outcome with no stress on her body.

Admittedly it won't be you who makes me piss but you can stick a finger in her vagina as she empties her bladder over you and pretend it was all your doing.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Several of my female friends have said they roll their eyes when a man is 'determined' to 'make' them do it. DON'T!!! Just let it happen if it's going to - forcing it creates pressure.

Couldn’t agree more - one of my former fwb’s from here used to want to make me squirt continually.

It just made me sore and after one of these occasions I got really bad cystitis that lasted a week.

These men and their egos- I like men to be repeaters but I would never dream of asking them to - just bad sexual manners

The first time a man did it to me-when it was all new and not widely heard of-I got a uti that turned into a kidney infection that took 6 weeks to clear.

No one has been allowed to do that to me since, as my bladder never recovered.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"Hello everyone

Does anyone have a same problem?

Thank you ! "

Why do men strive to achieve this, when a majority of women I've spoken to don't give a stuff??

It's like guys see it as some kind of accolade- a badge of honour to brag about. It isn't!!

If your partner is enjoying sex & doesn't need more, why be so obsessed with it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a start, you're obsessing over something that will most likely only happen if you don't make it an issue.

Secondly, you say you've been with your girlfriend (who is your number 1) for several months, but your profile says differently. If you do have a girlfriend and she doesn't know you're on here or does know, but doesn't approve, then I think you need to take a look at yourself and your choices.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"quite often after sex she wants to pee terribly .. maybe ccontinue sex until she "pisses"? "

Oh good lord

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Several of my female friends have said they roll their eyes when a man is 'determined' to 'make' them do it. DON'T!!! Just let it happen if it's going to - forcing it creates pressure.

Couldn’t agree more - one of my former fwb’s from here used to want to make me squirt continually.

It just made me sore and after one of these occasions I got really bad cystitis that lasted a week.

These men and their egos- I like men to be repeaters but I would never dream of asking them to - just bad sexual manners

Why didn't you tell him you didn't enjoy the way he was touching you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"quite often after sex she wants to pee terribly .. maybe ccontinue sex until she "pisses"?

What does she want?

Pee

if the sex lasts more than a few minutes, she always wants pee so hard: P"

She says she wants to pee so the sex will stop?

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

"Its just piss

Well if that's true need to tell scientists and doctors as she can't pee unaided but can squirt perfectly freely, break through in medical science

Where is squirt stored in the body before it is expelled ?"

Honestly no idea as not medically trained but is the honest truth.

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By *ynda1978Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Liverpool

Can someone please give the definition of squirting as I'm intrigued to know.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Where is squirt stored in the body before it is expelled ?

Honestly no idea as not medically trained but is the honest truth. "

I am not doubting you. It was a genuine question if anyone can answer. Where in the body is squirt stored ?

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By *raveler1337 OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Why is it so important to you? Why do you see her lack of squirting as a problem?"

Its not but we both want to make it

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Can someone please give the definition of squirting as I'm intrigued to know. "

A female expelling quantities of clear liquid at orgasm ?

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By *raveler1337 OP Man
over a year ago

london

"quite often after sex she wants to pee terribly .. maybe ccontinue sex until she "pisses"?

What does she want?

Pee

if the sex lasts more than a few minutes, she always wants pee so hard: P

She says she wants to pee so the sex will stop? "

Yes

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"Also, if she knows that's what you're trying to do, there's every chance her body is going "hell no" coz it can feel like you're under huge amounts of pressure and failing as a woman when your partner wants your body to do something and it doesn't do it. A mental block can easily ensue."

Absolutely this.

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By *ynda1978Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Liverpool

"Can someone please give the definition of squirting as I'm intrigued to know.

A female expelling quantities of clear liquid at orgasm ?"

Thanks. So it's different to peeing? How does the body store it and know what to release.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

An informative BBC website says it can only be stored in the bladder as there is no other appropriate female cavity

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