FabSwingers.com forum: Meet

By *lack 1 OP Man
over a year ago

west midlands

If you traveled away for the weekend and Arranged a meet with someone on a Saturday but you also arrange a social with on Friday ( with the views of sleeping with them) do you think that ok ? What’s your thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the same person ? Yes totally okay.

With different persons ? I guess it is still okay

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By *lack 1 OP Man
over a year ago

west midlands

So you’ve been both scenarios is okay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if the social on Friday is with the same person or not, but either way it’s fine.

Just be prepared if the social on Friday turns out shit to have a plan B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you’ve been both scenarios is okay"

Well yes if you were meeting me, yes. But I don’t know the person so I guess it depends on her.

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By *lack 1 OP Man
over a year ago

west midlands

Two different people

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Unless you've promised one or both that you'll only meet them I can't see a problem. However quite a few people take exception to people having meets close together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys complaining they can't get a meet and you've got two! I say go you!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever floats your boat op.

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By *lack 1 OP Man
over a year ago

west midlands

So you wouldn’t mind if a woman was having a social with you ( and going to sleep with that person) and then meet someone else the next day for a meet is ok

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By *lack 1 OP Man
over a year ago

west midlands

That’s my point do you think that’s ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you wouldn’t mind if a woman was having a social with you ( and going to sleep with that person) and then meet someone else the next day for a meet is ok"

For a social I wouldn’t mind.

Now if I can taste the other man’s spunk while I am licking her, I would mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely fine I’ve done that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you wouldn’t mind if a woman was having a social with you ( and going to sleep with that person) and then meet someone else the next day for a meet is ok"

It’s a swinging site isn’t it? I’d be upset if they pissed off and left me mid-meet to dash along to their next liaison, but the next day? Nah that’s all good isn’t it?

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By *lack 1 OP Man
over a year ago

west midlands

No the woman has arranged two meet one day after the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t see what the issue is.

You’re meeting different people on different days. No dramas.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"No the woman has arranged two meet one day after the other"

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By *lack 1 OP Man
over a year ago

west midlands

"No the woman has arranged two meet one day after the other

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So you don’t think there’s anything wrong with that coming from a woman’s point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you wouldn’t mind if a woman was having a social with you ( and going to sleep with that person) and then meet someone else the next day for a meet is ok"

Ah, your taking about someone else meeting you?… I thought it was you who had arranged something?

You e got to think where you met them from. It’s a swinging site.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"No the woman has arranged two meet one day after the other"

And?

Why shouldn't she?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you wouldn’t mind if a woman was having a social with you ( and going to sleep with that person) and then meet someone else the next day for a meet is ok

For a social I wouldn’t mind.

Now if I can taste the other man’s spunk while I am licking her, I would mind

I think it would be more an issue if it just kinda blobbed out into the other guys mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No the woman has arranged two meet one day after the other"

I retract my above statement. Go her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet with someone who had other meets planned so soon. But that's because I don't do spontaneous sex, and I'd want a connection and for it to be more meaningful with a bit of truar. So I wouldn't want to feel like just another woman thrown in with others.

But I don't judge people who do it, it's a swinging website after all so it's not surprising really that they would have plenty of options. I don't see the issue if both parties are happy, and it's nobody else's business to even disclose if they don't want to.

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

"No the woman has arranged two meet one day after the other"

Are you the second person she is meeting?

Well fine with us. It is swinging not love. If you met her at a club or party who knows you could be number 2 or number 5 in the night never mind in the weekend. Only hesitation would have been when covid more floating around more but allowed to meet - at that time we wanted anybody we met to have not played with anyone else for a week or so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you wouldn’t mind if a woman was having a social with you ( and going to sleep with that person) and then meet someone else the next day for a meet is ok

For a social I wouldn’t mind.

Now if I can taste the other man’s spunk while I am licking her, I would mind

I think it would be more an issue if it just kinda blobbed out into the other guys mouth. "

It happened to the cousin of my friend Ricky Machado ! One spermatozoid got stuck between his front teeth !

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By *lack 1 OP Man
over a year ago

west midlands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go get 'em, tiger.

Unless you've agreed to be exclusive, you're a free man.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"No the woman has arranged two meet one day after the other

Use reply+quote under the post you're replying to

So you don’t think there’s anything wrong with that coming from a woman’s point"

Why?

If your meet with the woman is in place that's all the business that is your business. How she spends her time before and after is her business.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

If one party isn't comfortable with it, the other is, maybe you're not that compatible? There's no one true way to do things on here, not everyone is a swinger. And that's absolutely fine. As long as you show respect to people and don't deliberately hurt them, keep doing what makes you happy OP.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If you're meeting them for the ultimate objective of no commitment sex, then you could meet multiple people each day for socials and sex.

It's different if dating monogamously, whete there are expectations of being faithful and not seeing others, unless discussed and agreed beforehand.

Just be honest with everyone, so that they don't get mislead, by act, omission,

wilful manipulation or deceit etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No the woman has arranged two meet one day after the other"

Well in that case it’s all down to if your ego can handle it (and I mean that genuinely, it’s not a side swipe or anything).

If it’s going to eat away at you then you have a choice whether to proceed or not, if you think you can be cool with it, why not?

The fact they’re on here (a swinging site) suggests they’re not out for exclusivity, and if they hadn’t told you you’d be none the wiser.

Is it much different to arranging dates on a vanilla dating site?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

If I've travelled I'd want to get the most from my trip.

We'd be using protection and I bathe in Dettol after the first man, so the second man can't smell him on me.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"No the woman has arranged two meet one day after the other

Well in that case it’s all down to if your ego can handle it (and I mean that genuinely, it’s not a side swipe or anything).

If it’s going to eat away at you then you have a choice whether to proceed or not, if you think you can be cool with it, why not?

The fact they’re on here (a swinging site) suggests they’re not out for exclusivity, and if they hadn’t told you you’d be none the wiser.

Is it much different to arranging dates on a vanilla dating site? "

Dan, I've met many men on here who thought I'd only be having sex with them. Or they asked for me to be exclusive, but bring along other women.

Meeting on a swinging site indicates nada.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you wouldn’t mind if a woman was having a social with you ( and going to sleep with that person) and then meet someone else the next day for a meet is ok

For a social I wouldn’t mind.

Now if I can taste the other man’s spunk while I am licking her, I would mind

I think it would be more an issue if it just kinda blobbed out into the other guys mouth.

It happened to the cousin of my friend Ricky Machado ! One spermatozoid got stuck between his front teeth ! "

I know him! Oh wait...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No the woman has arranged two meet one day after the other

Well in that case it’s all down to if your ego can handle it (and I mean that genuinely, it’s not a side swipe or anything).

If it’s going to eat away at you then you have a choice whether to proceed or not, if you think you can be cool with it, why not?

The fact they’re on here (a swinging site) suggests they’re not out for exclusivity, and if they hadn’t told you you’d be none the wiser.

Is it much different to arranging dates on a vanilla dating site?

Dan, I've met many men on here who thought I'd only be having sex with them. Or they asked for me to be exclusive, but bring along other women.

Meeting on a swinging site indicates nada."

Will you be exclusive with me?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"If I've travelled I'd want to get the most from my trip.

We'd be using protection and I bathe in Dettol after the first man, so the second man can't smell him on me.

I thought I recognised your perfume.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with it. Unless there’s some agreement on exclusivity then it’s nobodies business who someone else meets.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think it's fine. Married couples may well have sex the day they meet someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's fine. Married couples may well have sex the day they meet someone else."

Or even 20 minutes after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's fine. Married couples may well have sex the day they meet someone else.

Or even 20 minutes after

Dam I need to get married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's fine. Married couples may well have sex the day they meet someone else.

Or even 20 minutes after

Dam I need to get married. "

You don’t like the sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's fine. Married couples may well have sex the day they meet someone else.

Or even 20 minutes after

Dam I need to get married.

You don’t like the sex."

Sshhhhh I just keep it on the quiet.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"No the woman has arranged two meet one day after the other

Well in that case it’s all down to if your ego can handle it (and I mean that genuinely, it’s not a side swipe or anything).

If it’s going to eat away at you then you have a choice whether to proceed or not, if you think you can be cool with it, why not?

The fact they’re on here (a swinging site) suggests they’re not out for exclusivity, and if they hadn’t told you you’d be none the wiser.

Is it much different to arranging dates on a vanilla dating site?

Dan, I've met many men on here who thought I'd only be having sex with them. Or they asked for me to be exclusive, but bring along other women.

Meeting on a swinging site indicates nada.

Will you be exclusive with me?

Of course my love. Just say the word

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Nothing wrong with it

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"If I've travelled I'd want to get the most from my trip.

We'd be using protection and I bathe in Dettol after the first man, so the second man can't smell him on me.

I thought I recognised your perfume.

Eau de Disinfectant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No the woman has arranged two meet one day after the other

Well in that case it’s all down to if your ego can handle it (and I mean that genuinely, it’s not a side swipe or anything).

If it’s going to eat away at you then you have a choice whether to proceed or not, if you think you can be cool with it, why not?

The fact they’re on here (a swinging site) suggests they’re not out for exclusivity, and if they hadn’t told you you’d be none the wiser.

Is it much different to arranging dates on a vanilla dating site?

Dan, I've met many men on here who thought I'd only be having sex with them. Or they asked for me to be exclusive, but bring along other women.

Meeting on a swinging site indicates nada.

Will you be exclusive with me?

Of course my love. Just say the word

Can I bring along other women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's fine. Married couples may well have sex the day they meet someone else.

Or even 20 minutes after

Dam I need to get married.

You don’t like the sex.

Sshhhhh I just keep it on the quiet. "

I would recommend marriage but I know you’d hate having to live with a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's fine. Married couples may well have sex the day they meet someone else.

Or even 20 minutes after

Dam I need to get married.

You don’t like the sex.

Sshhhhh I just keep it on the quiet.

I would recommend marriage but I know you’d hate having to live with a man."

Oh god I didn't think of that.

I'll stay single and sexless.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Don't see any issue with this.

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

I think OP was expecting a slightly different reaction from the Forum crowd

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"If you traveled away for the weekend and Arranged a meet with someone on a Saturday but you also arrange a social with on Friday ( with the views of sleeping with them) do you think that ok ? What’s your thoughts "

When I first joined Fab I was a bit "overexcited" and I sometimes had three separate meets a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's fine. Married couples may well have sex the day they meet someone else.

Or even 20 minutes after

Dam I need to get married.

You don’t like the sex.

Sshhhhh I just keep it on the quiet.

I would recommend marriage but I know you’d hate having to live with a man.

Oh god I didn't think of that.

I'll stay single and sexless. "

Wise.

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