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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You've sent polite messages, engaged in conversation, had an occasional flirt met with "lol"

Is it a quit whilst you're ahead moment or do persist...

Asking for a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send one more message and if the response is the same then it’s time to admit defeat.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Dont you know .. if you make them lol your guaranteed a shag

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By *anBerksMan
over a year ago

Berkshire

At least they got it in early.

Most of the LOLs I get are when I take my clothes off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I suggested persistently quitting

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By *eatrice BadinageWoman
over a year ago

In a Sparkly Dress

I'd keep going, but then I like lol and emoji chats

And yes it irritates the hell out of some of my friends though

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

If you're making them laugh, you're doing well

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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If someone replies lol, definitely if it's in response to flirting, have some respect for yourself and end it there.

Fricking lol.

Up there with thumbs up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was just ‘lol’ in their reply then I’d quit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep going

Keep chatting

You never know

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By *anBerksMan
over a year ago

Berkshire


"If someone replies lol, definitely if it's in response to flirting, have some respect for yourself and end it there.

Fricking lol.

Up there with thumbs up.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could ask outright ......

Are we good keeping up conversation, or am I coming across as a pest.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Is it a woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes a chat just lulls naturally and a lol is a bump to the next topic.

No reply or a long delay between messages if they're online in between would be more of an indicator that they're not rushing to chat back.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"You've sent polite messages, engaged in conversation, had an occasional flirt met with "lol"

Is it a quit whilst you're ahead moment or do persist...

Asking for a friend "

Yes. Sounds like they're not really.interested.

I mean they might be but it's so hard to tell on here if they're not good with conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn’t waste my time

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"If someone replies lol, definitely if it's in response to flirting, have some respect for yourself and end it there.

Fricking lol.

Up there with thumbs up.

"

Oh how droll.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If someone replies lol, definitely if it's in response to flirting, have some respect for yourself and end it there.

Fricking lol.

Up there with thumbs up.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every woman is different so it’s hard to tell from limited info lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every woman is different so it’s hard to tell from limited info lol"

Truth lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Every woman is different so it’s hard to tell from limited info lol"

That was all he divulged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The next step after making em laugh……get balls deep in em.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

It means Large Open Labia

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The next step after making em laugh……get balls deep in em. "

Hence the term "funnyfucker"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One word answers? Yeah I'm bored of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything 3 words or less they are politely saying fuck off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The shorter the replies get, the further away even the slightest glimpse of a nipple gets.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Ask for a social. If you get blocked, there's your answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol usually means they're not interested

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Quit while ahead …. Usually dies off anyway unless they meet sooner than later , why wait weeks when you could meet for a coffee and see

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Your gut instinct will tell you but failing that the block will confirm

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I'd see it as a sign that things probably aren't going well, either they don't give a fuck or they're incapable of making conversation... Both of these are reason to call it quits.

However it'd be foolish to throw it in based on a single lol, keep going and see how it goes, you'll know pretty soon if it's worth the effort or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All heavily invested responses to such a hypothetical situation.

I shall pass this all on to said friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All heavily invested responses to such a hypothetical situation.

I shall pass this all on to said friend"

I get the feeling people don’t believe the advice is ‘for a friend’ lol

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By *ereforgigglesMan
over a year ago

Scotland

Lol on its own means "yeah I've got nothing to reply to your witty repartee so let's just give it a miss" trust me, I know this!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All heavily invested responses to such a hypothetical situation.

I shall pass this all on to said friend

I get the feeling people don’t believe the advice is ‘for a friend’ lol "

It reads that way doesn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All heavily invested responses to such a hypothetical situation.

I shall pass this all on to said friend

I get the feeling people don’t believe the advice is ‘for a friend’ lol

It reads that way doesn't it "

It does haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All heavily invested responses to such a hypothetical situation.

I shall pass this all on to said friend

I get the feeling people don’t believe the advice is ‘for a friend’ lol

It reads that way doesn't it

It does haha"

But it honestly is....thats the weird part about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they are still kind of interested but think that flirting is going to lead that sexting online Funky stuff....I don't partake in it and always think 'here we go' when the flirting starts because so many want the ability and media to cum without the complexities of meeting and for me that is a mood killer....so being the fun sponge that I am I might use 'lol' as a 'oh I'm not for that malarkey but let's keep chatting'

I don't know, I tend to make it clear early on I'm not into online malarkey so as not to be labelled a fun sponge and they can then make that choice to leave or continue

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