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By *eicJ OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester

9/10 I can go weeks at a time not a care in the world, but then on a One off week or two, just hits home a bit.

Anyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little bit sometimes, unfortunately I've become so comfortable these days living alone its the norm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same,had a bad couple of days.Birthday yesterday and would loved to of had a card to open

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By *eicJ OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester

Well,Happy Birthday at least

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Been single over 5 years now and live alone. Is one of those things x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same,had a bad couple of days.Birthday yesterday and would loved to of had a card to open"

Happy Birthday for yesterday mate.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I'm starting to miss someone being around at times

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

Nope..

...if you let the lord Jesus into your heart.. you'll never be lonely..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same,had a bad couple of days.Birthday yesterday and would loved to of had a card to open

Happy Birthday for yesterday mate."

Cheers fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather be single and lonely than in an unhappy relationship and lonely...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather be single and lonely than in an unhappy relationship and lonely...

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By *oncupiscentTonyMan
over a year ago

Kent

Nobody to hog all the covers or take all the hot water

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

I think you can be living in a busy household with a husband, kids and friends and still feel lonely at times, it's strange I can't explain it but it's true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can be peaceful in a good way.

But you miss the tactile part of partnership in small ways.

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Sometimes... But music or a film brings me out of it...

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Not lonely, more frustration at unmatching diaries with friends, you know that time when you need a certain friend at a certain time and no one else will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not really

I love my own company

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By *ibi_curiousCouple
over a year ago

Shepperton

"I think you can be living in a busy household with a husband, kids and friends and still feel lonely at times, it's strange I can't explain it but it's true."

I know exactly what you are saying, at times you feel trapped in a rut. I think it could be worst than being single at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've given up trying to find love though

I'm just too sure it's not going to happen for me

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

At times yes,but then I think shouldn't I be use to it, given length of time and just reflect on all those busy memories.

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By *estLondonDeepMan
over a year ago

London

"Same,had a bad couple of days.Birthday yesterday and would loved to of had a card to open"

Happy Birthday for yesterday - there's a long weekend to celebrate it hopefully

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By *ubmissiveman2uMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

I'd rather be single and lonely than in an unhappy relationship and lonely...

Ditto....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same,had a bad couple of days.Birthday yesterday and would loved to of had a card to open

Happy Birthday for yesterday - there's a long weekend to celebrate it hopefully "

Thank you

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Yes. Sometimes

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I think it’s natural to feel lonely. But that doesn’t necessarily mean you want to fill that time with someone not worth it

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Work keeps me busy so I don't get lonely. I'm comfortable with my own company.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes I get lonely, if I had a string of people in my life to be close with and enjoy the occasional date or night together I think I'd be okay, but it's always just me on my own and honestly it sucks.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Yep

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Same,had a bad couple of days.Birthday yesterday and would loved to of had a card to open"

Belated Happy Birthday

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By *rs Robinson no 1Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"9/10 I can go weeks at a time not a care in the world, but then on a One off week or two, just hits home a bit.

Anyone else?"

Every day, it doesn't get any easier..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never lonely just sometimes miss company

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By *emma HoldenTV/TS
over a year ago

Ramsey

Yes. I'm not single by choice, you're looking at the reason why.

I work hard full time to bring my kids up the right way. Busy with chores nights & weekends.

But every so often it hits me & a few tears get shed. A hug, a cuddle on the sofa, someone to bounce ideas off when you're unsure what to do, feel the warmth off somebody else, would just be nice.

I love the mixed up but harmless person that I am, but it keeps me lonely cos it deters ladies. Maybe one day I'll get lucky & Ms Right will cross paths & adopt both sides of me & I'll forget lonely again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same,had a bad couple of days.Birthday yesterday and would loved to of had a card to open

Belated Happy Birthday

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get definite fomo when home alone

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

No I live with family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally I love being single.

Every now and again, i do just sit and cry at the fact I know I'll never have that happy ever after with anyone.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

"Generally I love being single.

Every now and again, i do just sit and cry at the fact I know I'll never have that happy ever after with anyone. "

This.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I adore having my own space, not having to talk to anyone or negotiate about anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes from time to time, sometimes I just want to sit, watch a film have some snacks and a cuddle.

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By *ad boy maverickMan
over a year ago

basildon

"I'd rather be single and lonely than in an unhappy relationship and lonely...

Ditto.

I was in a lonely marriage for 5 years it's awful.

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By *ad boy maverickMan
over a year ago

basildon

"I think you can be living in a busy household with a husband, kids and friends and still feel lonely at times, it's strange I can't explain it but it's true."

Maybe your growing apart

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

Yes, I get lonely sometimes. I also miss the sensual aside of a relationship.

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By *ad boy maverickMan
over a year ago

basildon

"Can be peaceful in a good way.

But you miss the tactile part of partnership in small ways."

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At times esp when friends are in couples and doing things together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather be single and lonely than in an unhappy relationship and lonely...

I totally agree, I've been there and now 8 years single and very happy with it.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Mostly, I love it but, occasionally feel a bit lonely. Ms

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

Sometimes, but love that I don't have to put up with drama anymore.

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Happy belated birthday xx

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By *ad boy maverickMan
over a year ago

basildon

"Generally I love being single.

Every now and again, i do just sit and cry at the fact I know I'll never have that happy ever after with anyone. "

I feel the same as you and long legged woman but at least I know why

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By *am450Man
over a year ago

North Kent/Greater London

"I'd rather be single and lonely than in an unhappy relationship and lonely...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WOW not the sort of post you want to read in bed when you are feeling down.

However, good to know I'm not the only one.

I'm very lonely now having lost my wife.

14 years younger than me tall long red hair wonderful body and full of life. together for 9 years but only got married late last year,,, alas 3 weeks and one day later she dropped down dead.

So I am lonely and perhaps thats why Im on here. This site has helped me be stronger and to carry on. Even at my age I still want some sex.

Relationship even better but having someone live with me 24/7

Nah

Would not want that and no one would put up with me x

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"I think you can be living in a busy household with a husband, kids and friends and still feel lonely at times, it's strange I can't explain it but it's true.

Maybe your growing apart

Hell no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"WOW not the sort of post you want to read in bed when you are feeling down.

However, good to know I'm not the only one.

I'm very lonely now having lost my wife.

14 years younger than me tall long red hair wonderful body and full of life. together for 9 years but only got married late last year,,, alas 3 weeks and one day later she dropped down dead.

So I am lonely and perhaps thats why Im on here. This site has helped me be stronger and to carry on. Even at my age I still want some sex.

Relationship even better but having someone live with me 24/7

Nah

Would not want that and no one would put up with me x

So sorry for your loss. Big hugs to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happy belated birthday xx "

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather be single and lonely than in an unhappy relationship and lonely...

I totally agree, I've been there and now 8 years single and very happy with it."

Don't get me wrong, I wouldn't push my soul mate away, but for one I don't think they exist and 2 I've had my time and picked two bad ones. It won't happen for me now.

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By *ic Sunt DraconesMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

Short answer, Yes.

Long answer, I'm not long out of a unhappy LTR and whilst I embrace the freedom and release that gives, ultimately I miss the cuddles and companionship. Couple with that most of our friends being couples and her friends and life is pretty bleak to say the least at the minute. To just chat with a kindred kinky soul is all I often want to do. It's where I can be me and not repressed.

So ladies and gents, smile, wink or fab someone that catches your eye it may just make their day

#mentalhealthmatters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes i get lonely. But tbh, I sometimes felt that towards the end of my relationship.

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

I'm comfortable being in the Sargent Pepper Lonely Hearts club. I like my own space to much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I miss having that special someone to share with but still have space to do our own things. But, as others have said, better to be single than in an unhappy or restrictive relationship.

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By *otdave75Man
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford

I’m single and live with my ex and kids….. never been so lonely, v hard to start a relationship in this situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been single 4 years, starting to miss the cuddles at night

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By *he Artful TodgerMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire but travel

"9/10 I can go weeks at a time not a care in the world, but then on a One off week or two, just hits home a bit.

Anyone else?"

It’s a grass is greener scenario, I’m enjoying the freedom, flexibility and liberty being single brings but inevitably on occasions it can be a touch lonely. Fortunately I’ve a good social circle around me that can help keep those times to a minimum.

On balance I’d say I’m happier now than I was in my past two relationships but there’s definitely elements of those I’d like to still enjoy….

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By *issButtonWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

I miss a Sunday morning spoon waking up next to someone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Frankly, never.

There is an erroneous assumption that people who live alone, or who enjoy their own company, at times of their choosing, are inherently lonely, isolated, desperate and in despair.

This is untrue. I have the ability to structure my life and all of my waking hours in such a productive and pleasurable fashion that 'loneliness' never enters my consciousness.

I have great sympathy for those individuals whose lives feel empty; which can be for a variety of reasons: both biological and environmental.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Single over twenty years. Lived alone over twelve years. Fucking love it.

I feel a bit sorry for people who can't cope in their own company.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

The worst and most lonely experience I ever had, many decades ago, was being stuck in a pointless relationship in which I was being manoeuvred towards marriage by both the lady in question and her controlling parents.

An opportune time arose and was seized upon to end the loneliness of having nothing in common, nothing to discuss and an absence of sex.

I made the firmest resolution that I would never get involved in such a setup every again; NSA sex has been my preferred choice since that time!

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