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By *ellardnorthampton OP   Man
over a year ago

northampton

How do people like a first message to look.do you like straight to the point or getting to know them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people like a first message to look.do you like straight to the point or getting to know them "

In all honesty i just message people in the same manner as i would talk in a face to face chat. Stay true to myself and if its not of interest then thats not my problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something along the lines of

" Hey dickhead, love the hair.

Yes I'm funny, yes I'm sexy and yes I will perv Ryan Reynolds with you.

Bring the strap on.

X "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get sexual or rude in a first message.

I know it’s a fuck site and all but surely you approach someone in the same way you would in a pub / club or the street?

It’s not that difficult to grasp, surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never get sexual or rude in a first message.

I know it’s a fuck site and all but surely you approach someone in the same way you would in a pub / club or the street?

It’s not that difficult to grasp, surely?"

More eloquently put than what i said but pretty much the same!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

With us somebody has to show they look like they are capable of conversation, and specifically non-sexual conversation.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Humour works. I like a bit of humour

Show me your dick doesn’t work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never get sexual or rude in a first message.

I know it’s a fuck site and all but surely you approach someone in the same way you would in a pub / club or the street?

It’s not that difficult to grasp, surely?"

Well said. And shared!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I’m asking a lot, but I like someone to have shown an interest in me. You know, like I’m a living breathing human with interests. It doesn’t have to be an essay, but something that isn’t a copy and paste.

Please.

For the love of all that is holy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know I’m asking a lot, but I like someone to have shown an interest in me. You know, like I’m a living breathing human with interests. It doesn’t have to be an essay, but something that isn’t a copy and paste.

Please.

For the love of all that is holy. "

Well roll me in flour and look for the sticky bit!!!!!!!!

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I always find that, ‘Wench, I’d like to fook thee!’…..is not entirely efficacious….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour is a winner and if they manage some kind of personality.. practically half way to pussy town.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"Humour is a winner and if they manage some kind of personality.. practically half way to pussy town."

Yeah, Pussy Town sure is a great place; I love the eatery’s there especially...

Oo er - double entendre alert missus!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to be off the cuff and say what i think. Nearly nobodt reads my drivel but its always individual and true to what im thinking at the time

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I do know what message I don't like. Single words like 'hi' or 'hello'. Not just on fab as well. Shows lack of effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always open with what’s your favourite dinosaur, that shits important

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I don't like anyone asking to meet or getting graphic in a first message its a delete

I prefer messages where they've written abit about themselves and shown they've read my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With us somebody has to show they look like they are capable of conversation, and specifically non-sexual conversation. "

This too

Miss S x

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Polite, something that shows you've read the profile, why you think you'd be compatible.

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