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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just curious as to how people make friends as an adult? Especially when you move to a new city? I know there’s groups for hobbies etc but they can be so expensive. Asking for a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting questions. I am thinking about the same. How or better say, where?

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Let me know when you find out.

I think the only people I've been able to befriend are work colleagues but those friendships usually fizzle out when you change jobs...or in my case they did

K

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

The same way you make friends as a child.

Work (school), clubs, hobbies etc.

With the rise in social media and apps you can try and connect with people on them. But there is a lot of ghosting!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's extremely difficult. As you say clubs etc can be costly and people tend to stay in their friendship group anyway.

I've made friends well acquaintances really, friendship is a way off yet, by going to free events that I wouldn't normally attend.

Social media is a fairly good place to look out for these things. You could also start up a group, suggesting coffee somewhere, all welcome. I think you'd be surprised how many are in the same position.

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By *aui.Man
over a year ago

around here

I think it's one of the most difficult things you can do in life. I rarely see the people I consider to be my actual friends anymore. We still get together for Christmas, birthdays etc but that's it. We are all just at different stages of our lives.

Haven't really ever filled the gap so do a lot of activities solo. Thankfully I enjoy my own company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont i make people i know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Volunteer to support a charity that does something you’re interested in x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy my own company. Me along with my immediate family is enough, friends normally turn out to be total wankers in the future.

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands


"Just curious as to how people make friends as an adult? Especially when you move to a new city? I know there’s groups for hobbies etc but they can be so expensive. Asking for a friend "

After a long term relationship ended years ago, I found myself quite isolated with not many friends around me.

I joined local online forums and got chatting to some of the regulars. Became quite familiar with a group of them after a while.

Started have meet ups at pubs and nights out. Great times.

Mrs x

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Meetup app is a great way to meet new people with similar interests. There are groups all over the country or you can host one of your own.

A wide range of interests from book clubs to social nights, hillwalking, music etc etc.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Meetup app is a great way to meet new people with similar interests. There are groups all over the country or you can host one of your own.

A wide range of interests from book clubs to social nights, hillwalking, music etc etc. "

Most are only £10 a year or a couple of quid every time you turn up.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I don't do friends and the ones i had they found new friends ... anyway, trust me , they were shit actually

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"Volunteer to support a charity that does something you’re interested in x"

This was what I was going to say

I made some friends from volunteering or have a look at meetup ,there's loads of groups and interests covered on there.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Look in the local council website for free groups and activities.

We had a free choir until Covid ended it.

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

Made some great friends through fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Similar position tbh after becoming single and moving to an unknown area.

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By *m389Man
over a year ago

Bromley

I envy people who can enjoy their own company.

Everyday is a struggle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Honestly as much as it sucks that so many of us feel the same it is nice to know I’m not alone haha. Urgh wait I mean my friend ahaha.

And there’s been some great ideas here thank you everyone! If anyone needs a friend drop me a message

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve met genuine friends on Fab. Not just people to have sex with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to use fab

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By *ichaelG76Man
over a year ago

Over and Over

Reply to early quote

Social media is a fairly good place to look out for these things. You could also start up a group, suggesting coffee somewhere, all welcome. I think you'd be surprised how many are in the same position

This i would say, one good thing social media i.e. FB is good for local groups to ask abaout, join, meet etc with like minded people (non fab obvs haha)

For those brave enough, seek and yee shall find (thats NOT a holy reference)

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I joined lots of social media groups and we started having days and nights out

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Sign up to a social media group that allows contacting people with an interest in sexual shenanigans...

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

As an adult a lot of the fiends I have made have been through my children, other parents at the school gates. I also joined a book group which was good. When I first moved away from home it was before I had kids so the only way i made friends then was through work.

More recently I am lucky enough to have made some true friendships through fab

Kx

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We've made some friends through here. I've been back in contact with people I knew at school recently too. Luke

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Goggle your local area and see what there are any free local activity groups you could join or you could try a local adult education courses some are free I think.

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