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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My kittens (well almost 5 months old) and ahem one of them is trying to "have" his brother...

Not a pretty site

Never had 2 kittens of the same age...not due to be neutered until January.

The bigger older one has got him and not letting go..

Advice please...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My kittens (well almost 5 months old) and ahem one of them is trying to "have" his brother...

Not a pretty site

Never had 2 kittens of the same age...not due to be neutered until January.

The bigger older one has got him and not letting go..

Advice please..."

I think they need to go to the gay bar, gay bar...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i am traumatised I mean sight...this is the site I need

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It happens. A little squirt of water.

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By *H.coupleCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh


"My kittens (well almost 5 months old) and ahem one of them is trying to "have" his brother...

Not a pretty site

Never had 2 kittens of the same age...not due to be neutered until January.

The bigger older one has got him and not letting go..

Advice please..."

Bit of Barry white in the background, a glass of wine and a webcam

this is a joke by the way before people get on their high horse

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Squirt gun.

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By *ust_for_laughsCouple
over a year ago

Hinckley

Bucket of water...

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"My kittens (well almost 5 months old) and ahem one of them is trying to "have" his brother...

Not a pretty site

Never had 2 kittens of the same age...not due to be neutered until January.

The bigger older one has got him and not letting go..

Advice please...

I think they need to go to the gay bar, gay bar...

"

Ooo hello, you've gone solo too.

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By *awty nannaWoman
over a year ago

sheffield

they don`t usually try to mate with others from the same litter.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

least its his brother not his sister lol....

had that trouble with my kittens who were siblings...but i swear my boy is gay cos he didnt have a fecking clue lol..still got her done asap though

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey


"My kittens (well almost 5 months old) and ahem one of them is trying to "have" his brother...

Not a pretty site

Never had 2 kittens of the same age...not due to be neutered until January.

The bigger older one has got him and not letting go..

Advice please..."

We had two cats brother and sister, the brother is now not with us but every night his sister would get a good seeing too off him, they where noth "done but he used tobite the back of her neck then climb on and pump away, funny thing was she used to just lie there with a look on her face as if to say "hurry up will ya Im bored"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My kittens (well almost 5 months old) and ahem one of them is trying to "have" his brother...

Not a pretty site

Never had 2 kittens of the same age...not due to be neutered until January.

The bigger older one has got him and not letting go..

Advice please...

I think they need to go to the gay bar, gay bar...

Ooo hello, you've gone solo too."

I'm allowed my own profile now, but only if I'm good!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I think they need to go to the gay bar, gay bar...

Ooo hello, you've gone solo too.

I'm allowed my own profile now, but only if I'm good!

"

That's a pity: if you're naughty you lose your profile. You'll just have to be VERY GOOD when you are naughty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the cat thats humping - just lift up his tail and he will stop..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I tried water and no stopping..it's a little sad for the little one...so have feed them left over salmon to keep them entertained for now

Will I sleep now....nope! Should I keep them apart? Rather worried the "taker" will be traumatised like me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My kittens (well almost 5 months old) and ahem one of them is trying to "have" his brother...

Not a pretty site

Never had 2 kittens of the same age...not due to be neutered until January.

The bigger older one has got him and not letting go..

Advice please...

We had two cats brother and sister, the brother is now not with us but every night his sister would get a good seeing too off him, they where noth "done but he used tobite the back of her neck then climb on and pump away, funny thing was she used to just lie there with a look on her face as if to say "hurry up will ya Im bored" "

Yes the little one was lying there with a look of oh no...hurry up!

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Is it on youtube yet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it on youtube yet? "

Lmao! Nope though M did feel the need to take pictures...for keepsake purposes..

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Take the bigger one to vet and get him castrated now .. can be done no reason not too .The younger one can then wait till he gets bigger.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Take the bigger one to vet and get him castrated now .. can be done no reason not too .The younger one can then wait till he gets bigger. "

Yes my thinking is that...can't have another month or so of this and not with the elderly relatives around at Christmas!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are you waiting till Jan to have them neutered?

I would have the bigger one done now.

If he gets too dominant at this point the little one will always be the 'underdog' so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

catnip distractions maybe?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why are you waiting till Jan to have them neutered?

I would have the bigger one done now.

If he gets too dominant at this point the little one will always be the 'underdog' so to speak.

"

I am not waiting as such, that is when they are 6 months old......he (Luigi) has never done this before.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"catnip distractions maybe?"

I am thinking of a Labrador distraction..see if he can take her on haha

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

It isnt set in stone that you wait till 6 mths . circumstances obviously dictate the need for an early castrate, talk to your vet and get advise . I work in a vet clinic we would do it if necessary.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It isnt set in stone that you wait till 6 mths . circumstances obviously dictate the need for an early castrate, talk to your vet and get advise . I work in a vet clinic we would do it if necessary."

Without giving too much away, I have bred animals for a long time...not cats I hasten to add...and yes all animals sexually mature at different ages....

My vet says if you can see balls, can operate...

However not having had 2 cats of this age, I was wondering what to do before tomorrow...other animals I know what to do....;-)

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

stick a pair of pants on it / them get some feliway ..

oh go on give it away what do you breed Im always looking for good breeders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are you waiting till Jan to have them neutered?

I would have the bigger one done now.

If he gets too dominant at this point the little one will always be the 'underdog' so to speak.

I am not waiting as such, that is when they are 6 months old......he (Luigi) has never done this before."

That explains it !

He's of Italian extraction

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I got my male cat done at 4 months! Not a problem, think it is just mainly females they try and wait 6 months for! but nothing is set in stone!

I'd keep them apart as feel sorry for the little one

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

If it's his first time taking it, use plenty of lube!

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

What did the vet say??

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Paint a white stripe down the back of the 'receiver' kitten and the horny kitten will think it is a skunk and stay away.*

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©Warner Bros

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this with dogs a while back, squirt some water at them or shout "squirrel" .......mmmmm me thinks the squirrel bit may not work with cats .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chastity belt?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It isnt set in stone that you wait till 6 mths . circumstances obviously dictate the need for an early castrate, talk to your vet and get advise . I work in a vet clinic we would do it if necessary."

Isnt it as long as their dangley bits have come down?

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By *aris23Woman
over a year ago

France

Hi Julie - please don't think I'm being patronising - I'd just like to share my similar experience.

I recently rehomed two separate non-neutered ragdoll males of 10mths and 18 mths. The older male started exactly the same behaviour as yours to the younger one. I'd never encountered this before so I took advice from many cat experts and my vet of how to cope while waiting for the their neutering date.

The problem is nothing to do with being 'gay'..it is about hierarchy/dominance. One cat may be dominant about being first in at feeding time, another may have precedence with the litter trays, another may always be the one who waits at the door for you, the other has first call on cuddles time...and so on.

This display of apparent sexual dominance is just one cat establishing his position in the household in one of the many hierarchies that cats have. No one cat is totally dominant over the other.

The temporary solutions which worked for me were to apply a little baby talcum powder or a little neat alcohol to the scruff on the back of neck of the 'victim' where the cat grabs with his teeth. The dominant cat won't like the taste/smell and will pretty soon stop doing it. You can also buy a plug in atomiser called 'Feliway' which emits smells known to calm down cats..you need a couple of them (one up and one downstairs). My vet said that even after neutering it would take a few months for their hormone levels to reduce enough to stop this behaviour but I found it a much shorter time with my two thankfully because it drove me mad!!

Anyway, hope that helps...and rest assured that your dominant cat is not actually penetrating the younger one..lol Get the older one done as he is now becoming sexually mature and will soon start to spray around the house...and that stinks believe me!! Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Barry white CD, passion fruit flavoured lube and kitty condoms

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"I tried water and no stopping..it's a little sad for the little one...so have feed them left over salmon to keep them entertained for now

Will I sleep now....nope! Should I keep them apart? Rather worried the "taker" will be traumatised like me "
on reflection,giving them a romantic dinner may not have been the best option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pepper on the back of the little one. And, when the big one tries to do the deed, pick him up and shout at him!

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