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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm a large cuddly guy,I'm finding it very difficult to connect on here.

So do women find large guys attractive?

Any tips for going forward?

Thanks

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

Go to a club meet people face to face. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a large cuddly guy,I'm finding it very difficult to connect on here.

So do women find large guys attractive?

Any tips for going forward?

Thanks

"

Honestly? Just be “you”….I’m 6’1” tall, and I’m curvy as well - I’ve never fitted the stereotypical “babe” and “dolly bird” moulds, and always felt very self conscious as a result. I spent a very long time thinking I just wasn’t the type of woman men go for, but since I met J (Mr), and we’ve been on Fab together, I feel much more self confident, and have realised that men AND women actually DO find me attractive….Personally I love “dad bods” - not into gym buffs at all, really. I love having someone to cuddle into properly if that makes sense?! So hang in there, you’ll connect with people who are right for you eventually

F (Mrs)

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By *aui.Man
over a year ago

around here

See that's the thing about women. They all like and dislike exactly the same things, it's just nature

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!


"I'm a large cuddly guy,I'm finding it very difficult to connect on here.

So do women find large guys attractive?

Any tips for going forward?

Thanks

"

Some will some won’t.

Your personality is the most important part of you for most!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a large cuddly guy,I'm finding it very difficult to connect on here.

So do women find large guys attractive?

Any tips for going forward?

Thanks

Honestly? Just be “you”….I’m 6’1” tall, and I’m curvy as well - I’ve never fitted the stereotypical “babe” and “dolly bird” moulds, and always felt very self conscious as a result. I spent a very long time thinking I just wasn’t the type of woman men go for, but since I met J (Mr), and we’ve been on Fab together, I feel much more self confident, and have realised that men AND women actually DO find me attractive….Personally I love “dad bods” - not into gym buffs at all, really. I love having someone to cuddle into properly if that makes sense?! So hang in there, you’ll connect with people who are right for you eventually

F (Mrs)"

Thanks for the advice and help.

I've been here a while now and not had any meets, not even a socal one.

Thats what gets me down as I'm one of the nicest guys around

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a large cuddly guy,I'm finding it very difficult to connect on here.

So do women find large guys attractive?

Any tips for going forward?

Thanks

Some will some won’t.

Your personality is the most important part of you for most! "

I have a great personality but don't get the chances to show it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See that's the thing about women. They all like and dislike exactly the same things, it's just nature "

Well that would be like me saying all men like and dislike exactly the same things…which is untrue

F (Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a large cuddly guy,I'm finding it very difficult to connect on here.

So do women find large guys attractive?

Any tips for going forward?

Thanks

"

Just had a nosey on your profile, you could maybe add a bit more info to your bio, and maybe some more pics? It’s nice to be able to get a bit of a sense of who someone is from their profile, and I don’t think you’re doing yourself justice with your profile the way it is just now

F (Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a large cuddly guy,I'm finding it very difficult to connect on here.

So do women find large guys attractive?

Any tips for going forward?

Thanks

Just had a nosey on your profile, you could maybe add a bit more info to your bio, and maybe some more pics? It’s nice to be able to get a bit of a sense of who someone is from their profile, and I don’t think you’re doing yourself justice with your profile the way it is just now

F (Mrs)"

Ok thanks

What do you suggest pic wise?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I’m an arsehole and bang 10’s every night

Put yourself out there, get to socials and clubs. Be seen by people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a large cuddly guy,I'm finding it very difficult to connect on here.

So do women find large guys attractive?

Any tips for going forward?

Thanks

Just had a nosey on your profile, you could maybe add a bit more info to your bio, and maybe some more pics? It’s nice to be able to get a bit of a sense of who someone is from their profile, and I don’t think you’re doing yourself justice with your profile the way it is

F (Mrs)"

I've put 2 pics open, let me know what you think?

Any more you would think?

Not sure what to write

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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago

Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove


"I'm a large cuddly guy,I'm finding it very difficult to connect on here.

So do women find large guys attractive?

Any tips for going forward?

Thanks

"

…

I’m always on the lookout for a hunky chunky cuddly local guy

Good luck on here

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"I’m an arsehole and bang 10’s every night

Put yourself out there, get to socials and clubs. Be seen by people."

Nah, you're lovely!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a large cuddly guy,I'm finding it very difficult to connect on here.

So do women find large guys attractive?

Any tips for going forward?

Thanks

…

I’m always on the lookout for a hunky chunky cuddly local guy

Good luck on here"

Awww thanks

Shame too far apart

Need it as been on here long time now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a large cuddly guy,I'm finding it very difficult to connect on here.

So do women find large guys attractive?

Any tips for going forward?

Thanks

"

Yes some of us do. BUT most guys find it difficult on here unfortunately.

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By *oulou0974Woman
over a year ago

Inverness

I like the new pics, I’d meet you!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like the new pics, I’d meet you!!! "

Awww bless ya and thanks

Shame so far apart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a large cuddly guy,I'm finding it very difficult to connect on here.

So do women find large guys attractive?

Any tips for going forward?

Thanks

Just had a nosey on your profile, you could maybe add a bit more info to your bio, and maybe some more pics? It’s nice to be able to get a bit of a sense of who someone is from their profile, and I don’t think you’re doing yourself justice with your profile the way it is

F (Mrs)

I've put 2 pics open, let me know what you think?

Any more you would think?

Not sure what to write "

Love the other two pics you put up haha. I’d just make sure you’re happy with face pics being public? You could add a full length pic? Which I know is a bit of a challenge when you’re tall lol. On our profile, all the public pics are actually of me, and not J, and kind of Page 3…however our friends only pics are more explicit. You could think about that side of it? Posting some naked/half naked kind of suggestive pics? You don’t need loads.

With regards to what to write - just a few sentences about you, what you’re looking for, what you’re not looking for, are you willing to travel and/or accommodate? From my own point of view these are things I like to know about people before I consider connecting with them.

Hope this is maybe a wee bit helpful

F (Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a large cuddly guy,I'm finding it very difficult to connect on here.

So do women find large guys attractive?

Any tips for going forward?

Thanks

Just had a nosey on your profile, you could maybe add a bit more info to your bio, and maybe some more pics? It’s nice to be able to get a bit of a sense of who someone is from their profile, and I don’t think you’re doing yourself justice with your profile the way it is

F (Mrs)

I've put 2 pics open, let me know what you think?

Any more you would think?

Not sure what to write

Love the other two pics you put up haha. I’d just make sure you’re happy with face pics being public? You could add a full length pic? Which I know is a bit of a challenge when you’re tall lol. On our profile, all the public pics are actually of me, and not J, and kind of Page 3…however our friends only pics are more explicit. You could think about that side of it? Posting some naked/half naked kind of suggestive pics? You don’t need loads.

With regards to what to write - just a few sentences about you, what you’re looking for, what you’re not looking for, are you willing to travel and/or accommodate? From my own point of view these are things I like to know about people before I consider connecting with them.

Hope this is maybe a wee bit helpful

F (Mrs)"

I'm ok with face pics being up as can always change them later on

I will think about page 3 style pics.

All the help is very much appreciated and like too say a big thank you as didn't know if folk would reply xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm ok with face pics being up as can always change them later on

I will think about page 3 style pics.

All the help is very much appreciated and like too say a big thank you as didn't know if folk would reply xx

You’re welcome - hope it kinda helps! Aye it’s a minefield wondering if people will reply or not, and if they do, will they be helpful haha

F (Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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I'm ok with face pics being up as can always change them later on

I will think about page 3 style pics.

All the help is very much appreciated and like too say a big thank you as didn't know if folk would reply xx

You’re welcome - hope it kinda helps! Aye it’s a minefield wondering if people will reply or not, and if they do, will they be helpful haha

F (Mrs)"

It sure is a huge minefield

You have been a great help

Thanks xx

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