FabSwingers.com forum: Playing

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's up with grown adults referring to sex as "playing"?

Or is this just an "I'm not in on it so I obviously don't get it" kinda thing

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

What's wrong with it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn’t it just a less crude / more genteel way of saying “fucking” without offending the sensibilities of those who don’t like to swear, and less clinical than “copulating”

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Sorry that came across pretty aggressive...what is it that you don't like about it?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

What do you suggest clubs call the play rooms ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not opposed to the word, I have used it myself.

There's so many words I don't like it's hard finding one that doesn't make me want to puke.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"What do you suggest clubs call the play rooms ?"

Fuck spaces

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"What do you suggest clubs call the play rooms ?

Fuck spaces "

Fuck holes ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not opposed to the word, I have used it myself.

There's so many words I don't like it's hard finding one that doesn't make me want to puke. "

Moist?

Gusset?

Or even moist gusset?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I guess for some it's a sport.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not opposed to the word, I have used it myself.

There's so many words I don't like it's hard finding one that doesn't make me want to puke.

Moist?

Gusset?

Or even moist gusset? "

I don't like you

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"What do you suggest clubs call the play rooms ?

Fuck spaces

Fuck holes ?"

I did think of that but thought that was more for orifaces

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Call it what you like, playing, playtime, sex, fuckery, debauchery, intercourse, sexy time, screwing

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"Call it what you like, playing, playtime, sex, fuckery, debauchery, intercourse, sexy time, screwing

I’d do all of them with you.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm not opposed to the word, I have used it myself.

There's so many words I don't like it's hard finding one that doesn't make me want to puke.

Moist?

Gusset?

Or even moist gusset? "

Who refers to sex as moist gusset ?

Do you want to have moist gusset with me tonight ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry that came across pretty aggressive...what is it that you don't like about it?"

I dunno just sounds a bit childish. Makes me think of like, Monopoly or hide and seek.

I feel the same about "fun" tbh. Vile word.

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By *oingMan
over a year ago

Co. Antrim

I sex with myself

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"What do you suggest clubs call the play rooms ?

Fuck spaces

Fuck holes ?

I did think of that but thought that was more for orifaces

The beds could be sex decks

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By *hubbylover19Man
over a year ago

Bognor

"Call it what you like, playing, playtime, sex, fuckery, debauchery, intercourse, sexy time, screwing

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we can do it each time for every name you have ?

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

London

"I guess for some it's a sport."

It is a sport Peach and I’d love a kick around with you…..no rough stuff tho!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I sex with myself"

Can you stick your willy up your bum ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not opposed to the word, I have used it myself.

There's so many words I don't like it's hard finding one that doesn't make me want to puke.

Moist?

Gusset?

Or even moist gusset?

Who refers to sex as moist gusset ?

Do you want to have moist gusset with me tonight ?"

Grab your coat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not opposed to the word, I have used it myself.

There's so many words I don't like it's hard finding one that doesn't make me want to puke.

Moist?

Gusset?

Or even moist gusset?

Who refers to sex as moist gusset ?

Do you want to have moist gusset with me tonight ?"

I went off piste, my lovely, replying to the specific post about there being many words that makes the fine lady want to puke, rather than the OPs original observation about the term “playing”. I think the correct phrase is “thread drift”

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

London

"Sorry that came across pretty aggressive...what is it that you don't like about it?

I dunno just sounds a bit childish. Makes me think of like, Monopoly or hide and seek.

I feel the same about "fun" tbh. Vile word.

You might have a point here!

I message woman asking if they’d like some fun and get nowhere.

I’m going to ask if they’d like some hate, some hateful sex and I’m not prepared to play…hate filled serious sex.

Changing profile now

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"Call it what you like, playing, playtime, sex, fuckery, debauchery, intercourse, sexy time, screwing

I’d do all of them with you.

That’s a very solid ditto Mr Fiddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not the energy, time nor inclination to get upset over such trivial things as to what people call fucking. Far more important things to concern myself with.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

They're having 'fun'

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By *r Mind CandyMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

There should be so much more to an evening of fun and frolicking, not just sex. The term playning is very appropriate for what I do. I adore playing with every inch of a naked body, and have lots of toys and equipment that I enjoy playing with.

Would you also suggest we stop calling dildo's, butt plugs and vibrators sex "toys"?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

That’s a very solid ditto Mr Fiddy"

Did it not go down the toilet first flush ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's up with grown adults referring to sex as "playing"?

Or is this just an "I'm not in on it so I obviously don't get it" kinda thing"

How would you prefer for it to be referred?

I personally think it's fine, I mean, we refer to plastic things we fuck as toys.

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By *edGrayCouple
over a year ago

Swindon

Play. Verb

engage in activity for enjoyment and recreation rather than a serious or practical purpose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's up with grown adults referring to sex as "playing"?

Or is this just an "I'm not in on it so I obviously don't get it" kinda thing"

The term "playing " has been around for decades ...

It has simply been shortened from "playing the field " that term was around when I was in my youth ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did a little search for clarity, and found this ......

1) a dramatic composition or piece; drama.

2) a dramatic performance, as on the stage.

3) exercise or activity for amusement or recreation.

4) fun or jest, as opposed to seriousness.

There was more, but here it suggests it's a perfectly acceptable term, anyone thinking otherwise, that's on you.

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Isn't it just a euphemism?

Mike

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"Sorry that came across pretty aggressive...what is it that you don't like about it?

I dunno just sounds a bit childish. Makes me think of like, Monopoly or hide and seek.

I feel the same about "fun" tbh. Vile word. "

Aww fun is a nice word

, but yeah using it when you mean sex is something I hate. Just say what you want don't try and simplify it ffs.

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By *tsalwaysthequietonesCouple
over a year ago

Lancs

It sounds alot less crude than

" do you fancy meeting up at a club so you can fuck me hard whilst my husband watches, and then ..........."

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

What we do isn’t just sex, so we use play to encompass everything.

Asking someone if they want to “scene” doesn’t sound right.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It annoys me when they call it fun!

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

That’s a very solid ditto Mr Fiddy

Did it not go down the toilet first flush ?"

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"It annoys me when they call it fun!"

I suppose it's the opposite of a sex worker looking for business

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By *oingMan
over a year ago

Co. Antrim

"I sex with myself

Can you stick your willy up your bum ?"

I just scratch the surface

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By *r Mind CandyMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

"What we do isn’t just sex, so we use play to encompass everything.

Asking someone if they want to “scene” doesn’t sound right.

Exactly!

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Call it what you like, playing, playtime, sex, fuckery, debauchery, intercourse, sexy time, screwing

Bonking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call ‘sexy sex’ Whatever you want op.

As long as I understand what someone means…

If someone asks do I want to play?… and they get there cards or dominoes out… I will blame Fabswingers for my miss understanding and unbuttoned pants.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"Call it what you like, playing, playtime, sex, fuckery, debauchery, intercourse, sexy time, screwing

Bonking

Humping

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

Maybe they bring their barbie dolls and action men and have a teddy bear picnic. Don't kink shame @OP

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What do you suggest clubs call the play rooms ?"

Penetration stations

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"What do you suggest clubs call the play rooms ?

Penetration stations "

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

The word playing in reference to sexual activity doesn't make me cringe quite as much as "naughty" does.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"The word playing in reference to sexual activity doesn't make me cringe quite as much as "naughty" does. "

Or even worse

Nawty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're right. Hanky panky is much more sophisticated

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The word playing in reference to sexual activity doesn't make me cringe quite as much as "naughty" does. "

Ugggghhhh do not get me started.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've not the energy, time nor inclination to get upset over such trivial things as to what people call fucking. Far more important things to concern myself with."

You're right, that energy is much better spent posting on threads about things you don't have the energy to care about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've not the energy, time nor inclination to get upset over such trivial things as to what people call fucking. Far more important things to concern myself with.

You're right, that energy is much better spent posting on threads about things you don't have the energy to care about

Would be a pretty boring forum if it was just your opinion we had, wouldn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry that came across pretty aggressive...what is it that you don't like about it?

I dunno just sounds a bit childish. Makes me think of like, Monopoly or hide and seek.

I feel the same about "fun" tbh. Vile word. "

People who need 'sexy games' to 'break the ice' before they start the fun.

I fuck adults.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to play hide the purple sausage.

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By *r Mind CandyMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

"I like to play hide the purple sausage. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you want to hug my winky with your foo foo

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've not the energy, time nor inclination to get upset over such trivial things as to what people call fucking. Far more important things to concern myself with.

You're right, that energy is much better spent posting on threads about things you don't have the energy to care about

Would be a pretty boring forum if it was just your opinion we had, wouldn't it

Agree to disagree, I'm entertaining af

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just find it more appropriate and less of a mouthful (pun intended) than saying teabagging the shit out of her whilst strumming her bean.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just find it more appropriate and less of a mouthful (pun intended) than saying teabagging the shit out of her whilst strumming her bean."

That's some serious athletics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just find it more appropriate and less of a mouthful (pun intended) than saying teabagging the shit out of her whilst strumming her bean.

That's some serious athletics "

I have the flexibility of a cat

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

"I just find it more appropriate and less of a mouthful (pun intended) than saying teabagging the shit out of her whilst strumming her bean."

You are so bloody romantic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just find it more appropriate and less of a mouthful (pun intended) than saying teabagging the shit out of her whilst strumming her bean.

You are so bloody romantic

It’s a gift and a curse

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just find it more appropriate and less of a mouthful (pun intended) than saying teabagging the shit out of her whilst strumming her bean.

You are so bloody romantic

To be fair, considering the state of my sex life at the moment this does sound really romantic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just assume they didn’t have a snes growing up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's up with grown adults referring to sex as "playing"?

Or is this just an "I'm not in on it so I obviously don't get it" kinda thing"

It’s a boomer thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer the term smooshing booties. Playing is so childish

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We should call it fornicating

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's up with grown adults referring to sex as "playing"?

Or is this just an "I'm not in on it so I obviously don't get it" kinda thing

It’s a boomer thing. "

Yh I guess they didn't have xbox in the middle ages

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