FabSwingers.com forum: Men who do more chores have a better sex life.....

By *irtydevil666 OP Man
over a year ago

bristol

Men who do more chores have better sex lives

A new study conducted suggested that males have a greater sexual appeal to the fairer sex if they take more responsibility when it comes to housework.

Researchers in Australia surveyed almost 300 women in heterosexual relationships and who did the most household jobs and found that the more equally the chores were shared, the stronger the women's feelings of sexual desire.

The study authors at Swinburne University of Technology in Melbourne say "sexual sparks fly" when male partners take on their fair share of physical and mental tasks.

The researchers wrote for The Conversation: "Our research acknowledged the nuances of women's desire and its strong connection to relationship quality by exploring how fairness in relationships might affect desire.

"Findings suggest one response to low desire in women could be to address the amount of work women have to take on in relationships."

I will wait and see what Sydney university says....

I come from a land down under

Where beer does flow and men chunder

Can't you hear, can't you hear the thunder

You better run, you better take cover....

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

There’s nothing like shagging in a freshly hoovered bedroom on a bed changed (and washed!) by someone else.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

I do all the housework

I’m repaid by cleaning up the hay and straw after having already cleaned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought they wanted my cock turns out they brought a huge pile of ironing

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Who knew women enjoy being treated fairly and with respect. It took a study for people to realise this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men who do chores have cleaner anuses according to the sister of my cousin Ricky Machado

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeeps

Mine should be outta this world

But ain’t

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Men who do chores have cleaner anuses according to the sister of my cousin Ricky Machado "

They're a wise family the Machado's

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Hubby is amazing does almost everything apart from cooking as I love to cook and we’re at it like rabbits xx

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

I wonder how this study was conducted

I’d be willing to bet that guys that are willing to help out around the house are just better people in general, which is probably the reason their sex life is better

If your a cunt and a bad partner/husband, doing the dishes isn’t going to instantly fux everything

So don’t bother, let women do the womens job and keep being a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men who do chores have cleaner anuses according to the sister of my cousin Ricky Machado

They're a wise family the Machado's "

Long life to the Machado’s

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

That’s bollox I did all the housework and washing and still nothing

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Guys don't point the vacuum at the kitchen, pull your trousers down and shout

"Jump on love, I've cleaned your kitchen"

It probably won't work

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"That’s bollox I did all the housework and washing and still nothing"

It's not a guarantee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to totally destroy this theory...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bulllllllllshiiiiiiiiiiiit

If that was the case, I'd be fucking downing in it

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

They might have more sex appeal but it doesn't mean they get any sex, lol.

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By *ociable-NottmCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Men who do chores have cleaner anuses according to the sister of my cousin Ricky Machado "

The sister off your cousin is correct

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Is this for couples who live together?

Only, I'm thinking if the man helps with the housework and shopping the woman will have more energy for the sex chores.

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By *ociable-NottmCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Is this for couples who live together?

Only, I'm thinking if the man helps with the housework and shopping the woman will have more energy for the sex chores."

I would say so, works for me in our relationship

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

it amuses me that some people imagine that doing housework means you get sex as if its some kind of reward

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By *rixon11Man
over a year ago

Leeds

They didn't ask me, i do plenty of chores n get zero sex in return

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By *KPT1994Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Some guys just like things clean and spotless, I can't stand a dirty home haha.

If sex is a bonus to a bit of hoovering, then call me Henry!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it amuses me that some people imagine that doing housework means you get sex as if its some kind of reward

Ahhh right, the OP talks about partners in couples! Well that explains my lack of action despite doing the housework

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"it amuses me that some people imagine that doing housework means you get sex as if its some kind of reward

Ahhh right, the OP talks about partners in couples! Well that explains my lack of action despite doing the housework

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Who knew women enjoy being treated fairly and with respect. It took a study for people to realise this? "

Lies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So according to this study I should be having fun every day

, however, based on my current sex life, my house should look like a s…hole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see it now hey sexy lady i really really cant wait to clean your toilet

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By *enny PR9TV/TS
over a year ago

Southport

It's a well known biological fact that the only reason women have smaller feet is so they can get closer to the kitchen sink. Nature knows best.

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

Not in my experience. Done most of the cooking, cleaning. Ex never worked out how the washing machine worked.

It's all lies guys, stand er, firm.

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By *ustyLeRouxWoman
over a year ago

Brecon

"Some guys just like things clean and spotless, I can't stand a dirty home haha.

If sex is a bonus to a bit of hoovering, then call me Henry!!"

Hi Henry

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"So according to this study I should be having fun every day

, however, based on my current sex life, my house should look like a s…hole

you need to submit a complaint

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By *rofessor ElementalMan
over a year ago

Durham

I’m mr fix it around the house and have everything ready.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Clearly explains why I'm exhausted both times and enjoy every moment they're done (smiling)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do all the housework

I’m repaid by cleaning up the hay and straw after having already cleaned "

Marry me

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

"I do all the housework

I’m repaid by cleaning up the hay and straw after having already cleaned

Marry me

Marriage is a little much but I’ll clean your house

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

"it amuses me that some people imagine that doing housework means you get sex as if its some kind of reward

I do it because we both work shifts so we take it in turns to do it

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

Perhaps it helps if the men do their chores while being naked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do all the housework

I’m repaid by cleaning up the hay and straw after having already cleaned

Marry me

Marriage is a little much but I’ll clean your house

Yes please. Will you accept milk in payment

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

another study has found that the number of chores women do makes absolutely no difference to the amount of sex they get

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

FFS, i should be pumping dry by now

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By *oldupsnheelsCouple
over a year ago

bideford

My best mate has a chore chart for favour chart for her fella... she has never been happier... how to hide his... hmm....

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By *eady4u808Man
over a year ago

nowhere

hahaha, No we don't. I live on my own and i ain't rolling in poon... and yes i keep a tidy gaff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we emphasise the plural here...."choreS".

Mr puts a bin out and expects a cunting MFFFFFFFF.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"it amuses me that some people imagine that doing housework means you get sex as if its some kind of reward

I did all of it and didn't even get a kiss

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"hahaha, No we don't. I live on my own and i ain't rolling in poon... and yes i keep a tidy gaff. "

You're not doing your share of someone else's work though.

You're just clearing up after yourself.

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By *eady4u808Man
over a year ago

nowhere

"hahaha, No we don't. I live on my own and i ain't rolling in poon... and yes i keep a tidy gaff.

You're not doing your share of someone else's work though.

You're just clearing up after yourself. "

Very true... that's the dream haha i think? wait...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just doing the pots

...

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"hahaha, No we don't. I live on my own and i ain't rolling in poon... and yes i keep a tidy gaff.

You're not doing your share of someone else's work though.

You're just clearing up after yourself.

Very true... that's the dream haha i think? wait... "

No woman cares if you're doing your own laundry, as long as she isn't doing it for you.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Just doing the pots

..."

Fancy a blow job, luv?

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By *aui.Man
over a year ago

around here

Sorry I'm only just replying to this, I've been doing the dishes, putting the bins out, ironing the bedding and hovering up.

I can confirm this isn't true, my date has now gone home. She got fed up of waiting for me to finish the housework.

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

If the sex is waning this will keep it going for longer but eventually it will do what it was going to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just doing the pots

...

Fancy a blow job, luv?"

How'd you guess

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By *lecom1Couple
over a year ago

Stornoway

Well the wife keeps me happy never makes me do women's work.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"Well the wife keeps me happy never makes me do women's work."

Women's work ?

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I would like to totally destroy this theory..."

I’ll help you.

If it were true for me, I’d be in ITU with severe sex-related injuries.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I wouldn’t say this with certainty but I do a lot of the housework and cooking and I’m getting more sex than ever before but I’d say that it’s because of my sex appeal rather than Henry’s sucking!

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Well duh!

I agree that men who behave genuinely fairly on this also tend to be good quality PARTNERS in other areas too.

Those who leave the majority to their female partners are going to cause resentment to build and that kills off a sex drive quicker than many things.

Several other studies have also shown that there are plenty of men who think they’re sharing chores equally because - as a couple of posters have alluded to - they put out the bins and do a laundry/dishes maybe once a week!

More men need to actually pull their weight

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Well duh!

I agree that men who behave genuinely fairly on this also tend to be good quality PARTNERS in other areas too.

Those who leave the majority to their female partners are going to cause resentment to build and that kills off a sex drive quicker than many things.

More men need to actually pull their weight "

also they need to stop thinking they're helping their wife when they're cleaning their own house and stop expecting to be rewarded for it.

I know not all men do this, we have an equal division of labour round here I don't expect sex for cleaning the loo and he doesn't expect sex for washing the car

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

I can 100% refute this.

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
over a year ago

Willenhall

"There’s nothing like shagging in a freshly hoovered bedroom on a bed changed (and washed!) by someone else.

Yeah. A hotel...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if the sex itself becomes the chore..

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Well duh!

I agree that men who behave genuinely fairly on this also tend to be good quality PARTNERS in other areas too.

Those who leave the majority to their female partners are going to cause resentment to build and that kills off a sex drive quicker than many things.

More men need to actually pull their weight

also they need to stop thinking they're helping their wife when they're cleaning their own house and stop expecting to be rewarded for it.

I know not all men do this, we have an equal division of labour round here I don't expect sex for cleaning the loo and he doesn't expect sex for washing the car

Exactly! They’re making the mess too! It’s their/their kids/pets mess they’re cleaning up

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Well duh!

I agree that men who behave genuinely fairly on this also tend to be good quality PARTNERS in other areas too.

Those who leave the majority to their female partners are going to cause resentment to build and that kills off a sex drive quicker than many things.

More men need to actually pull their weight

also they need to stop thinking they're helping their wife when they're cleaning their own house and stop expecting to be rewarded for it.

I know not all men do this, we have an equal division of labour round here I don't expect sex for cleaning the loo and he doesn't expect sex for washing the car

Exactly! They’re making the mess too! It’s their/their kids/pets mess they’re cleaning up "

Don't get me started on my daughter's map friend who refers to 'babysitting ' his own children

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

*male friend

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

"I do all the housework

I’m repaid by cleaning up the hay and straw after having already cleaned

Marry me

Marriage is a little much but I’ll clean your house

Yes please. Will you accept milk in payment

If it’s out a bottle sure

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

It makes sense ,if your partner is doing things with you 50/50 or even more than his fair share then the woman won’t feel tired under appreciated and pissed off so is a lot more likely to be in the mood for sex.

My husband has always done more than his fair share and our sex life is unbelievable even after 29 years..

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

Nope I'm calling shenanigans on this one, my past three ex's never had to lift a finger and the sex life was still rubbish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cook

Clean the house

Unofficial taxi

Gardening

Work 48 per week

Washing ironing

Bed making

Dog Walker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do all the housework

I’m repaid by cleaning up the hay and straw after having already cleaned

Marry me

Marriage is a little much but I’ll clean your house

Yes please. Will you accept milk in payment

If it’s out a bottle sure

Spoil sport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh painter and decorate

And general dog’s body

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

"I do all the housework

I’m repaid by cleaning up the hay and straw after having already cleaned

Marry me

Marriage is a little much but I’ll clean your house

Yes please. Will you accept milk in payment

If it’s out a bottle sure

Spoil sport

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Well duh!

I agree that men who behave genuinely fairly on this also tend to be good quality PARTNERS in other areas too.

Those who leave the majority to their female partners are going to cause resentment to build and that kills off a sex drive quicker than many things.

More men need to actually pull their weight

also they need to stop thinking they're helping their wife when they're cleaning their own house and stop expecting to be rewarded for it.

I know not all men do this, we have an equal division of labour round here I don't expect sex for cleaning the loo and he doesn't expect sex for washing the car

Exactly! They’re making the mess too! It’s their/their kids/pets mess they’re cleaning up

Don't get me started on my daughter's map friend who refers to 'babysitting ' his own children"

Urgh I know the type!

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Would any lovely ladies like me to do their ironing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a load of shite

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