FabSwingers.com forum: Does anyone have that someone who makes you unable to talk properly?

By *onLicks OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

There is one girl who I have been talking to for many years but something just happens when I see her, I change from an articulate, confident, grown adult to a whittering, hormonal teenager in the space of seconds.

I can't even just blame it on lust because I have been her wingman for years too and seen every part.

Is it just me or are there others out there who are affected in the same way?

What is the magic spell???

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Yup, a certain barmaid of the pub that I frequent

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over a year ago

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By *onLicks OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

"Yup, a certain barmaid of the pub that I frequent"

Is it just her ample charms or something about how she talks to you/looks at you that makes you incoherent?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Not currently but many years ago a male friend of our daughter I hadn't met before came round. I was turned into a grinning loon when I answered the door to him, he was beautiful.

Oddly our daughter told me later he was horribly insecure about his looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind of but iv not heard her voice since the 25th january 2020 not really talked much sense sinse that day really i went a tad insane a few times sinse then you see

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Yes a ventriloquist dummy.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"Yup, a certain barmaid of the pub that I frequent

Is it just her ample charms or something about how she talks to you/looks at you that makes you incoherent?"

Specifically, it's because my anxiety kicks when ever she is in close proximity

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I'm normally quite outspoken and don't shut up but recently I did met my match when I went on a date with a lady I've been chatting to on Tinder. She looked nothing like her pictures, in fact she was more stunning in person than her pics did her justice and her accent, intelligence, charisma just swept me off my feet. Instantly I was transported to that time I was a teenager and the most popular girl in school talks to you, I became a bumbling idiot. Dont think we will be going on a second date though

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By *onLicks OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

"Not currently but many years ago a male friend of our daughter I hadn't met before came round. I was turned into a grinning loon when I answered the door to him, he was beautiful.

Oddly our daughter told me later he was horribly insecure about his looks"

Not just blokes who are affected then!

Regardless of how many times I pull myself up and tell myself off, the next time is right back to it again

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Oh that effect! It's such a beautiful thing isn't it? I love it. If someone stumbles over their words, even more so if they're normally very talkative, I get an odd rush of "yay me".

I very rarely get that, there's a particular look that always makes me stumble and forget how to speak like a human so I tend to erm my way through it.

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By *onLicks OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

"I'm normally quite outspoken and don't shut up but recently I did met my match when I went on a date with a lady I've been chatting to on Tinder. She looked nothing like her pictures, in fact she was more stunning in person than her pics did her justice and her accent, intelligence, charisma just swept me off my feet. Instantly I was transported to that time I was a teenager and the most popular girl in school talks to you, I became a bumbling idiot. Dont think we will be going on a second date though

I suspect others have the same issue with her then!

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By *onLicks OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

"Oh that effect! It's such a beautiful thing isn't it? I love it. If someone stumbles over their words, even more so if they're normally very talkative, I get an odd rush of "yay me".

I very rarely get that, there's a particular look that always makes me stumble and forget how to speak like a human so I tend to erm my way through it.

The sheer power to capture someone mentally like that is awesome. This has been the case for years. On text and the phone I am my normal self but in her presence.... I might as well stick two pencils up my nose, underpants on my head and say "wibble"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My dentist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes a ventriloquist dummy."

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By *onLicks OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

"My dentist."

On the plus side you get to test out your gag reflex instead lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jack Daniels and Captain Morgan

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yes and I just sit there and smile at him while he talks to me, if I had a penis it would be permanently erect in his presence

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By *irtuousBullMan
over a year ago

lake district

"Jack Daniels and Captain Morgan

I was wondering how long it would take for this

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

There were two men on here I could never have a proper conversation with as they made me feel shy and tongue tied.

Silly really, but hey ho.

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By *onLicks OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

"There were two men on here I could never have a proper conversation with as they made me feel shy and tongue tied.

Silly really, but hey ho."

It is really silly but at the same time reminds you how alive you are in a humbling way because you are out of control (also really really annoying)

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

I used to have it around someone… I just became tongue tied and shy.

Now… not so much.

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By *onLicks OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

"I used to have it around someone… I just became tongue tied and shy.

Now… not so much. "

What was the cure?

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

For me it's the Tax man, I get lost for words ever month on payday

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Yeah, a friends ex husband. I think he is gorgeous and feel like a teenager every time I see him. This is so unlike me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used have a female friend at work so when she left she used to come visit and everytime i just couldn't speak and became so shy

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By *onLicks OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

"Yeah, a friends ex husband. I think he is gorgeous and feel like a teenager every time I see him. This is so unlike me."

That's exactly what I am talking about! Completely out of character behaviour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That hasn’t happened to me for a very long time! My ex did that to me in the early days, people would comment on how I swooned when he was near me

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Yes. I find I have to talk down to most people

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Oh yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blond men seem to have that effect on me. Weirdly. They make me tongue tied.

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By *aulj69Man
over a year ago

dunstable

Absolutely, I have to put on a persona to speak to many people in my everyday life to the extent that often I have no idea what they are talking about 'innit bruv ' X

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By *ttmcdguyTV/TS
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Yep

The bitch is called Stella

1 moment I stood chatting with mates in the pub

Then all of a sudden I start slurring my words room starts spinning I fall over

Then forget everything until I wake up next morning

Takes good few hours to get over the after effects of Stella too

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Tend to be a bit of a gabbler if I like someone and can become even more impenetrably verbose than normal.

I've never particularly noticed if I've had that effect on a woman but, one day, I'd like to meet one who looks at me the way the ladies of Fab look at cake.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Blond men seem to have that effect on me. Weirdly. They make me tongue tied. "

Why do you say weirdly? Is it because you are usually attracted to the conventionally tall, dark, handsome ones?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blond men seem to have that effect on me. Weirdly. They make me tongue tied.

Why do you say weirdly? Is it because you are usually attracted to the conventionally tall, dark, handsome ones?"

Um, no. It just seems weird that men with a specific hair colour make me tongue tied! Means I've never slept with a blond guy.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Blond men seem to have that effect on me. Weirdly. They make me tongue tied.

Why do you say weirdly? Is it because you are usually attracted to the conventionally tall, dark, handsome ones?

Um, no. It just seems weird that men with a specific hair colour make me tongue tied! Means I've never slept with a blond guy.

Maybe that's what prevents women expressing an interest in me despite finding me irresistibly attractive

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Oh yes!

DC! You? What? Never!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps when i was younger.

But no, i don't get like that now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blond men seem to have that effect on me. Weirdly. They make me tongue tied.

Why do you say weirdly? Is it because you are usually attracted to the conventionally tall, dark, handsome ones?

Um, no. It just seems weird that men with a specific hair colour make me tongue tied! Means I've never slept with a blond guy.

Maybe that's what prevents women expressing an interest in me despite finding me irresistibly attractive

Do they go bright red in your presence?

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Blond men seem to have that effect on me. Weirdly. They make me tongue tied.

Why do you say weirdly? Is it because you are usually attracted to the conventionally tall, dark, handsome ones?

Um, no. It just seems weird that men with a specific hair colour make me tongue tied! Means I've never slept with a blond guy.

Maybe that's what prevents women expressing an interest in me despite finding me irresistibly attractive

Do they go bright red in your presence?

Only if I inadvertently say something hilariously inappropriate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah

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By *aeganaWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

My sir has this effect on me. I see him and can't stop smiling like a cat who had the cream and I don't know why. Go red pretty easy round him to. Mad as I'm not usually like that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one for nearly three years, he was my escape and I was hooked, I do miss the charmer

but.... such is life.

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

"There is one girl who I have been talking to for many years but something just happens when I see her, I change from an articulate, confident, grown adult to a whittering, hormonal teenager in the space of seconds.

I can't even just blame it on lust because I have been her wingman for years too and seen every part.

Is it just me or are there others out there who are affected in the same way?

What is the magic spell???

Yes me, when ever I pick up the phone at work!

I just mutter and splutter and all knowledge disappears from my brain !

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