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Should I give up......

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By *urious-Switch81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Heanor

I hate it when I'm chatting to a potential love interest and you doing the normal getting to know each other stuff. Then they ask what things do you like it keeps going the you get to the what other things do you like. Quite often once I say we'll I'm a bit of a pleasure dom I get instantly ghosted.... I dont even get asked what I enjoy doing.... sovshould I give up because I'm not going to hide it.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Could you explain what a pleasure dom is?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Yeah probably

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Could you explain what a pleasure dom is?"

Welcome to the pleasure dom

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Consider mentioning it sooner.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm confused with the use of the word dom as well because it's not consistent with how you describe yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Consider mentioning it sooner. "

Or not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Consider mentioning it sooner.

Or not at all "

Seriously though… Don’t do this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you explain what a pleasure dom is?

Welcome to the pleasure dom "

you beat me to it Nora

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

Doesn't mention dom in your profile, so maybe start there!

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

A dominant who gets sexual gratification from giving his/her partner(s) as many intense orgasms as possible. They should be very experienced in orgasm control. This is something that must be mastered over time after much practice, creativity, and self-development.

Partner: What type of Dom are you?

Dom: I identify as a Pleasure Dom, I will make you cum till your body can’t handle any more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They hear music when your message arrives..

Dom dom dom

Dom dom dom

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"A dominant who gets sexual gratification from giving his/her partner(s) as many intense orgasms as possible. They should be very experienced in orgasm control. This is something that must be mastered over time after much practice, creativity, and self-development.

Partner: What type of Dom are you?

Dom: I identify as a Pleasure Dom, I will make you cum till your body can’t handle any more!"

If that’s what it is, then that’s just a tease. I like that

Maybe say you like teasing instead of saying yoir a pleasure dom

It sounds weird as fuck. Everyone likes a little teasing.

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton


"A dominant who gets sexual gratification from giving his/her partner(s) as many intense orgasms as possible. They should be very experienced in orgasm control. This is something that must be mastered over time after much practice, creativity, and self-development.

Partner: What type of Dom are you?

Dom: I identify as a Pleasure Dom, I will make you cum till your body can’t handle any more!

If that’s what it is, then that’s just a tease. I like that

Maybe say you like teasing instead of saying yoir a pleasure dom

It sounds weird as fuck. Everyone likes a little teasing. "
well that’s what urban dictionary.com said

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By *he Artful TodgerMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire but travel

Some of these response….so harsh but so fair…

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Your profile name, profile text regarding your level of experienced and what you are saying on here seem contradictory. The fact you refer to people as love interests on a swinging site may add to the confusion too.

It's great that you are getting into conversations with people, maybe try to meet for a social rather than having long conversations ?

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I would probably laugh if someone told me that.

You could just say you're a pleaser.

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By *urious-Switch81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Heanor


"Your profile name, profile text regarding your level of experienced and what you are saying on here seem contradictory. The fact you refer to people as love interests on a swinging site may add to the confusion too.

It's great that you are getting into conversations with people, maybe try to meet for a social rather than having long conversations ? "

Unfortunately between work and co-parenting with my ex I don't really have much personal time...

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