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By *oreish999 OP   Man
over a year ago

Irvine

So lady's needing help what's the best way to ice break? Is it talk dirty,be funny, be genuine or something else

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Easier to tell you what not to do.

Don't just say hi, how are you? Or one word morning evening etc.

Don't send a dirty message saying what you want to do to the person.

Don't send a dick pic with a first message.

Don't tell them you like their pussy, tits etc.

Don't tell them you are wanking at their pics.

Now the dos.

Do be polite.

Do read their profile.

Say something in your message that shows you have read and taken notice of the profile.

If they don't reply it means no.

If they do reply with a no thanks don't message asking why or trying to change their mind.

Good luck.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

how do you introduce yourself to women in your every day life? Do that

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"how do you introduce yourself to women in your every day life? Do that "

Fuck, I'm screwed!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"how do you introduce yourself to women in your every day life? Do that

Fuck, I'm screwed! "

is that how you introduce yourself?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Just be you.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Don't ask them what they're up to

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By *he Artful TodgerMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire but travel


"Easier to tell you what not to do.

Don't just say hi, how are you? Or one word morning evening etc.

Don't send a dirty message saying what you want to do to the person.

Don't send a dick pic with a first message.

Don't tell them you like their pussy, tits etc.

Don't tell them you are wanking at their pics.

Now the dos.

Do be polite.

Do read their profile.

Say something in your message that shows you have read and taken notice of the profile.

If they don't reply it means no.

If they do reply with a no thanks don't message asking why or trying to change their mind.

Good luck. "

This

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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago

Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove


"Don't ask them what they're up to "

…

Yup, I usually reply with ‘messaging other men’ then ignore them when they reply

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Don't ask them what they're up to

…

Yup, I usually reply with ‘messaging other men’ then ignore them when they reply "

I normally get confused with what I was about to do

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
over a year ago

Willenhall


"how do you introduce yourself to women in your every day life? Do that "

What, turn my trouser pockets inside-out and ask them if they'd like to "kiss the bunny"?

Does that work on here?

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By *alentTeaseMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

What you think is correct is wrong. Whatever they ask for is wrong.

If you want to talk about anything you're wrong.

Fuck you

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
over a year ago

Willenhall


"What you think is correct is wrong. Whatever they ask for is wrong.

If you want to talk about anything you're wrong.

Fuck you "

Did you just get back from The Mad Hatter's tea party?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send her a pic of your willy dressed like a snowman.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Send her a pic of your willy dressed like a snowman."

Ohhh that might work ... new pic coming up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best advice

Leave quickly

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By *nkforthekinkMan
over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton


"So lady's needing help what's the best way to ice break? Is it talk dirty,be funny, be genuine or something else "

A fat polar bear usual does the job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how do you introduce yourself to women in your every day life? Do that "

Hi!

*seems to work in real life but not on fab?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Easier to tell you what not to do.

Don't just say hi, how are you? Or one word morning evening etc.

Don't send a dirty message saying what you want to do to the person.

Don't send a dick pic with a first message.

Don't tell them you like their pussy, tits etc.

Don't tell them you are wanking at their pics.

Now the dos.

Do be polite.

Do read their profile.

Say something in your message that shows you have read and taken notice of the profile.

If they don't reply it means no.

If they do reply with a no thanks don't message asking why or trying to change their mind.

Good luck. "

Exactly this , good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't ask them what they're up to

…

Yup, I usually reply with ‘messaging other men’ then ignore them when they reply "

I might try that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve a pointer… he’s German and I call him hitler as only one ball dropped.

His real names Gully though

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"how do you introduce yourself to women in your every day life? Do that "

The terms of my ASBO prevent me doing that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice. Sign up to fabguys. Put a few okay pics up. See what messagea you get.

Those will be the same kinds of messages from "u okay/hwu" to the more explict.

Once you realise how shit fabmin is, you will write better messages. And that will be a pretty good start.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Something light hearted, and nonchalant.

Whatever you do, don’t send a four paragraph tale of what you’d like to do to them in pornagraphic detail. Save that for the second message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something light hearted, and nonchalant.

Whatever you do, don’t send a four paragraph tale of what you’d like to do to them in pornagraphic detail. Save that for the second message.

"

What if I can just wrap it up in 3 words, pop it in the subject box?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Something light hearted, and nonchalant.

Whatever you do, don’t send a four paragraph tale of what you’d like to do to them in pornagraphic detail. Save that for the second message.

What if I can just wrap it up in 3 words, pop it in the subject box? "

That’s what (my) dreams are made of!

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge


"Easier to tell you what not to do.

Don't just say hi, how are you? Or one word morning evening etc.

Don't send a dirty message saying what you want to do to the person.

Don't send a dick pic with a first message.

Don't tell them you like their pussy, tits etc.

Don't tell them you are wanking at their pics.

Now the dos.

Do be polite.

Do read their profile.

Say something in your message that shows you have read and taken notice of the profile.

If they don't reply it means no.

If they do reply with a no thanks don't message asking why or trying to change their mind.

Good luck. "

all of this!

Also if you are messaging a couple address both of them!

So rude when people just assume they are talking to the female half

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something light hearted, and nonchalant.

Whatever you do, don’t send a four paragraph tale of what you’d like to do to them in pornagraphic detail. Save that for the second message.

What if I can just wrap it up in 3 words, pop it in the subject box?

That’s what (my) dreams are made of! "

Smooch, fumble, sex?

*edited for spelling and removed text speak, lol.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Box ticking messages like box ticking profiles have a very short shelf life.

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