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"Not that interested in graphic veris (dont bother us, just not interested in them). Anything that says they are real, sociable and what they claim.in the profile is good enough for us. On the flip side, have seen numerous veris on people's accounts to that contradict what's written on the profile so they help us filter things out as well. " That's interesting and I have noticed the same about contradictions. However I never read too much into them because we all have preferences but in the moment or with a specific person sometimes that can change. | |||
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"Don’t send Don’t want to get any more messages Filters set at 98-99" This is Fab, not a radio station. No need to broadcast your inability to find willing partners on a status, your bio and now a forum comment. | |||
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"This is all v interesting. What about multi veris? I personally only give them out if I've done something substantially different so there's new stuff to veri for. Eg first veri after a group social, second after a private meet. Or a new veri when we do a club visit. Things like that. But I'm super interested to hear peoples thoughts on verifying each team you meet someone. X" Sometimes, if they haven't met for a while it is useful to have a current verification... just to prove that they're still active. Cal | |||
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"I really like the silly ones. Where people obviously have some fondness for each other. Not necessarily sexual. Just a little silly and they clearly like the person. " Me too!!! | |||
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"Not that interested in graphic veris (dont bother us, just not interested in them). Anything that says they are real, sociable and what they claim.in the profile is good enough for us. On the flip side, have seen numerous veris on people's accounts to that contradict what's written on the profile so they help us filter things out as well. That's interesting and I have noticed the same about contradictions. However I never read too much into them because we all have preferences but in the moment or with a specific person sometimes that can change. " Well in our case these where not "heat of the moment" things but rather something that should be mentioned before even arranging a meet. | |||
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"A verification is better than no verification! No? " I think a lot of that depends on how much value you put in verifications. They can be useful however I would meet someone without one. | |||
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"Personally I think the whole veri thing is overrated x" ![]() | |||
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"I wouldn't reverify someone. Actually that's a lie. I'm going to be because I've spent time with some brilliant people and want to. I like ones where you can almost hear the person's voice, the genuine enthusiasm and delight they have for another. Personal ones where you can tell they think, yep. Awesome. Witty playful ones make me smile a lot as well. " Where is my reverification? ![]() | |||
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"I wouldn't reverify someone. Actually that's a lie. I'm going to be because I've spent time with some brilliant people and want to. I like ones where you can almost hear the person's voice, the genuine enthusiasm and delight they have for another. Personal ones where you can tell they think, yep. Awesome. Witty playful ones make me smile a lot as well. Where is my reverification? ![]() I'll write it tomorrow. You know sometimes when you think you're worded out and just want to grunt at folk? I'm about two waffling posts away from that. ![]() | |||
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"Wait, you guys are getting verifications? " You wanting one as well then? Finished with the gumming so have a bit of spare time. | |||
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"Wait, you guys are getting verifications? You wanting one as well then? Finished with the gumming so have a bit of spare time. " Honestly, I'm not so sure that's a good idea. I have a reputation I want to maintain and the 65 in my username is trouble enough causing people to think I'm over the hill. A verification from you, will literally be the kiss of death... ![]() | |||
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"Wait, you guys are getting verifications? You wanting one as well then? Finished with the gumming so have a bit of spare time. Honestly, I'm not so sure that's a good idea. I have a reputation I want to maintain and the 65 in my username is trouble enough causing people to think I'm over the hill. A verification from you, will literally be the kiss of death... ![]() Oh these shots. Had to go a-hunting for them. You're really asking for scab photos aren't you? I'll hook you up don't worry. | |||
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"I love the ones where I’m told to treat her with respect. ![]() Or her house is clean because her Dyson sucks well. | |||
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"I love the ones where I’m told to treat her with respect. ![]() Oh so you not treat women with respect? | |||
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"This is all v interesting. What about multi veris? I personally only give them out if I've done something substantially different so there's new stuff to veri for. Eg first veri after a group social, second after a private meet. Or a new veri when we do a club visit. Things like that. But I'm super interested to hear peoples thoughts on verifying each team you meet someone. X" I think I agree with this. Usually just the one verification will do. I don't really mind the content of the verifications as much as it's just how they viewed the experience even if they are graphic. Not everyone is only meeting up for a cup of tea and a chat. | |||
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"Wait, you guys are getting verifications? You wanting one as well then? Finished with the gumming so have a bit of spare time. Honestly, I'm not so sure that's a good idea. I have a reputation I want to maintain and the 65 in my username is trouble enough causing people to think I'm over the hill. A verification from you, will literally be the kiss of death... ![]() Perfect date already planned, we'll attend a special FX workshop mimicking simple wounds and injuries for film and television. Just let me know when you are going to ask how to make "those" special ones, I want to savour their disgust, then the subsequent removal from said workshop. To celebrate, carbonara, milkshakes and vanilla ice cream. No napkins. DIY it. | |||
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"Veris are great for adding that extra touch to my fake profiles ![]() Love wanking over them. ![]() | |||
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"Veris are great for adding that extra touch to my fake profiles ![]() ![]() I know you so… you keep sending me all the evidence ![]() | |||
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"I have been notified that sometimes veris go out and people don't like them, or they're full of fab niceties that render them almost useless... So. What, for you, makes a good veri? What do you like to put in ones you send? What are things you look for when you read veris on a new person's profile? Let's share! " • I always draft my verification offline and then send it via Private Message to the recipient for peer-review and approval. Then I'll formally do it via their profile. I know my method sounds somewhat 'banal' but it works for me. | |||
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"I like repeat veris.. I like light and fun" Yes agreed on repeat veris. Also like veris that talk about personality more than the graphic sex details like an Olympic commentary. Key works like respectful, considerate, reliable, etc. And veris from some people are worth more than others. .....just been checking ours to see how we stack up after reading this thread ![]() | |||
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"I like repeat veris.. I like light and fun Yes agreed on repeat veris. Also like veris that talk about personality more than the graphic sex details like an Olympic commentary. Key works like respectful, considerate, reliable, etc. And veris from some people are worth more than others. " Agree with the above. I (Mr) like to see recent Meet veris when arranging a meet. key words, repeated by several meets are a great indication. I look more so for recent verifications. Ones from 5 years ago are irrelevant in my opinion. I am a different person to me 5 years ago, so I assume everyone and their circumstances could have changed too. To me, a recent few meet veris tell me they will likely turn up. Although this is not a guarantee. Webcam veris mean nothing to us as they don’t show the person actually gets up, gets ready and makes an effort to meet. | |||
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"I don't mind veri's but I do have a go to rule. If it's a social and no play then I state social only. It's very easy for some people to make it sound like play has taken place when it actually hasn't. I normally mention if the person/people is/are chatty, laid back etc. I try not to be explicit. Verifying if they are genuine or at least appear genuine is what I try to convey. " What makes someone "genuine"? | |||
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"Well what can I say… She’s a genuine professional I don’t like to give too much away, but we screwed for 45hours then a spunked on her curtains! ![]() The self promotion ones make me laugh. Gave her 37 orgasms, made her squirt like Niagara Falls, she loved my 14" rock hard cock! ![]() | |||
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"Well what can I say… She’s a genuine professional I don’t like to give too much away, but we screwed for 45hours then a spunked on her curtains! ![]() ![]() Some people just like blowing their own trumpet...no one else will.... ![]() | |||
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"I'm not a fan of graphic verifications, I like the ones that just people are who they claim to be and are real and they do turn up to meet. Mrs " This for me ![]() | |||
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"Not keen on overtly sexual ones, funny ones I love, and general yes they're what they say on the tin ones. Repeat veris everytime meeting the same person, saying the same thing pretty much do baffle me, and I'm on the fence about ![]() I remember a few years ago there was a single fem on here who had about 30 verifications ....all from the same guy ![]() | |||
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"Has anyone ever got a bad one…." Oh yes sometimes I read some and I wonder how on earth they thought it was okay to display. Like: his cock is lacking girth but it is good for anal Her excess of weight makes her the perfect partner for cuddling | |||
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"Don’t send Don’t want to get any more messages Filters set at 98-99 This is Fab, not a radio station. No need to broadcast your inability to find willing partners on a status, your bio and now a forum comment." filters have been changed, maybe he's waiting for messages | |||
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"I don't mind veri's but I do have a go to rule. If it's a social and no play then I state social only. It's very easy for some people to make it sound like play has taken place when it actually hasn't. I normally mention if the person/people is/are chatty, laid back etc. I try not to be explicit. Verifying if they are genuine or at least appear genuine is what I try to convey. " Oh yes the hidden social veri is really annoying. You can kind of tell but much better if stated explicitly and we always do for others. Some people have got 30-40 veris especially from a club but have barely played with anyone else - not clear from veris but it is when you message. That is fine and up to them of course but it is a bit misleading for those of us that are more play focused. | |||
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"I think they’re more useful for single men. Not sure women need them at all really." They do for us for much the same reason as the men. | |||
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"Let’s face it on hear it’s all load bullshit learnt the hard way last night so many Nasty vicious lady’s and gents Who gives a flying about veris anyway Don’t wish to state the obvious hear it’s sex site ![]() Don't think you are doing yourself any favours with the negative attitude. In answer to "who gives a flying....".....well clearly lots of people posting on this thread. | |||
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"A verification should verify the person on the profile not be the list of the meeter’s (if that a word) different sexual prowess " There is something in between. Don't want a graphic run down of every detail but looking for more than just an ID check and this includes some sexual aspects. For example if a lady says that bi-curious was there a hint that she played with the other lady (as many don't really). If they went to a party did they join in and play with others or just socialise etc. | |||
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"I have been notified that sometimes veris go out and people don't like them, or they're full of fab niceties that render them almost useless... So. What, for you, makes a good veri? What do you like to put in ones you send? What are things you look for when you read veris on a new person's profile? Let's share! (And remember everyone is different and that's good and ok and fine)" We just like people to have verifications just so we no they have met people in real life as so many fakes on here | |||
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"Let’s face it on hear it’s all load bullshit learnt the hard way last night so many Nasty vicious lady’s and gents Who gives a flying about veris anyway Don’t wish to state the obvious hear it’s sex site ![]() Good morning to you too! | |||
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"Everyone sucks like a dyson apparently " * Other makes of vacuum cleaner also available ![]() | |||
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"I really like the silly ones. Where people obviously have some fondness for each other. Not necessarily sexual. Just a little silly and they clearly like the person. " This! And nice ones that show a persons personality too. | |||
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"Has anyone ever got a bad one…. Oh yes sometimes I read some and I wonder how on earth they thought it was okay to display. Like: his cock is lacking girth but it is good for anal Her excess of weight makes her the perfect partner for cuddling " Humiliation type kink perhaps? Though I’d proudly display one that said I sucked like a stain ![]() | |||
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"Has anyone ever got a bad one…. Oh yes sometimes I read some and I wonder how on earth they thought it was okay to display. Like: his cock is lacking girth but it is good for anal Her excess of weight makes her the perfect partner for cuddling Humiliation type kink perhaps? Though I’d proudly display one that said I sucked like a DYSON ![]() Stupid spell check ![]() | |||
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"Has anyone ever got a bad one…. Oh yes sometimes I read some and I wonder how on earth they thought it was okay to display. Like: his cock is lacking girth but it is good for anal Her excess of weight makes her the perfect partner for cuddling Humiliation type kink perhaps? Though I’d proudly display one that said I sucked like a stain ![]() I want to suck like a stain. Sounds more visceral than a Dyson, Dyson is overrated anyway. | |||
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"I love the ones where I’m told to treat her with respect. ![]() Do respectful people need to be reminded to behave as such? | |||
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"Has anyone ever got a bad one…. Oh yes sometimes I read some and I wonder how on earth they thought it was okay to display. Like: his cock is lacking girth but it is good for anal Her excess of weight makes her the perfect partner for cuddling Humiliation type kink perhaps? Though I’d proudly display one that said I sucked like a stain ![]() yep get out the trusted kirby ![]() | |||
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"I think they’re more useful for single men. Not sure women need them at all really. They do for us for much the same reason as the men. " Exactly, given the number of males posing as single females ob Fab it's vital that any single females we consider to have a decent, genuine verification trail. KJ | |||
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"I love the ones where I’m told to treat her with respect. ![]() Yep those and the extremely graphic ones are a no no for us. | |||
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" Just to add cam only veris are not for us to often we have found the fantasisits, dreamers and those into online only have these. For us we want real life meets and experiences. If there's a mix of cam and face to face meet veris then that's fine as it's clear that they explore and act on thier fantasies in the real world. Ultimately thought verifications are only as good as the veri trail. Always check for closed loops I.e 4 accounts all verifying each other other only = huge red flag. Every person who has verified the account your looking at should have thier own set of different independent veris from seperate / different users. If they include veris from clubs and party hosts even better. KJ" Yep that is all good advice. Just checked and like your veris although after reading comments above did find one "treat them with respect" comment ![]() | |||
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"l Always check for closed loops I.e 4 accounts all verifying each other other only = huge red flag. Every person who has verified the account your looking at should have thier own set of different independent veris from seperate / different users. If they include veris from clubs and party hosts even better. KJ" That’s so important. There was one guy from a couple who did and said all the right things, but something just bugged me. Went diving around the verifications trail and discovered that he had one webcam veri from someone well verified… Then his couples profile, singles profile, the supposed females profile, a second couples profile and that female profile all had roundabout veris. Clearly the webcam veri had been the catalyst to allow him to repeatedly verify himself and his multiple made-up partners. | |||
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"l Always check for closed loops I.e 4 accounts all verifying each other other only = huge red flag. Every person who has verified the account your looking at should have thier own set of different independent veris from seperate / different users. If they include veris from clubs and party hosts even better. KJ That’s so important. There was one guy from a couple who did and said all the right things, but something just bugged me. Went diving around the verifications trail and discovered that he had one webcam veri from someone well verified… Then his couples profile, singles profile, the supposed females profile, a second couples profile and that female profile all had roundabout veris. Clearly the webcam veri had been the catalyst to allow him to repeatedly verify himself and his multiple made-up partners. " Exactly there really should be a guide on this somewhere on the site. It would save a lot of people been messed about, been played, stood up etc. KJ | |||
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" Just to add cam only veris are not for us to often we have found the fantasisits, dreamers and those into online only have these. For us we want real life meets and experiences. If there's a mix of cam and face to face meet veris then that's fine as it's clear that they explore and act on thier fantasies in the real world. Ultimately thought verifications are only as good as the veri trail. Always check for closed loops I.e 4 accounts all verifying each other other only = huge red flag. Every person who has verified the account your looking at should have thier own set of different independent veris from seperate / different users. If they include veris from clubs and party hosts even better. KJ Yep that is all good advice. Just checked and like your veris although after reading comments above did find one "treat them with respect" comment ![]() LOL its impossible not to end up with at least 1 treat them with respect veri ![]() | |||
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"I love the ones where I’m told to treat her with respect. ![]() Ironically these are the ones that seem to lose respect after their dicks gone dry. | |||
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"Well what can I say… She’s a genuine professional I don’t like to give too much away, but we screwed for 45hours then a spunked on her curtains! ![]() ... ONLY 45 hours ...that's a poor result ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"l Always check for closed loops I.e 4 accounts all verifying each other other only = huge red flag. Every person who has verified the account your looking at should have thier own set of different independent veris from seperate / different users. If they include veris from clubs and party hosts even better. KJ That’s so important. There was one guy from a couple who did and said all the right things, but something just bugged me. Went diving around the verifications trail and discovered that he had one webcam veri from someone well verified… Then his couples profile, singles profile, the supposed females profile, a second couples profile and that female profile all had roundabout veris. Clearly the webcam veri had been the catalyst to allow him to repeatedly verify himself and his multiple made-up partners. Exactly there really should be a guide on this somewhere on the site. It would save a lot of people been messed about, been played, stood up etc. KJ " Fab isn't a baby sitting service. If people believe that verifications 'prove' anything, it's on them. | |||
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"All I need to know is that she gets wetter than an otters pocket, loves the D, and fancies my cock snot blasted all over her bazingas. Good to go. ![]() Will you then wipe your cock on my curtains…? Leave me with a memento ![]() | |||
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"All I need to know is that she gets wetter than an otters pocket, loves the D, and fancies my cock snot blasted all over her bazingas. Good to go. ![]() ![]() Naturally ![]() | |||
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"All I need to know is that she gets wetter than an otters pocket, loves the D, and fancies my cock snot blasted all over her bazingas. Good to go. ![]() ![]() ![]() When did you say you were available again? ![]() | |||
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