FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications

By *essicagrace OP Woman
over a year ago

birmingham

I have been notified that sometimes veris go out and people don't like them, or they're full of fab niceties that render them almost useless...

So. What, for you, makes a good veri? What do you like to put in ones you send? What are things you look for when you read veris on a new person's profile? Let's share!

(And remember everyone is different and that's good and ok and fine)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the ones where I’m told to treat her with respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m probably not one in a great position to comment as I don’t have any on this profile, I has some a few years ago under another though.

Essentially I like it to read as an honest reflection of meeting someone and whether they would meet again. Some, as you say, don’t really read like a real event.

I will back away now and leave the floor open to those more qualified to say!

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Not that interested in graphic veris (dont bother us, just not interested in them).

Anything that says they are real, sociable and what they claim.in the profile is good enough for us.

On the flip side, have seen numerous veris on people's accounts to that contradict what's written on the profile so they help us filter things out as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to know if she sucks like a Dyson or not too. Why doesn’t anyone suck like a Hoover? Or a Henry (or Henrietta?) or just a vacuum cleaner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people like having verifications and others don't and I always check to see if somebody wants one before I send one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not that interested in graphic veris (dont bother us, just not interested in them).

Anything that says they are real, sociable and what they claim.in the profile is good enough for us.

On the flip side, have seen numerous veris on people's accounts to that contradict what's written on the profile so they help us filter things out as well.

That's interesting and I have noticed the same about contradictions. However I never read too much into them because we all have preferences but in the moment or with a specific person sometimes that can change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really like the silly ones. Where people obviously have some fondness for each other. Not necessarily sexual. Just a little silly and they clearly like the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t send

Don’t want to get any more messages

Filters set at 98-99

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I just want verifications to confirm that they do meet and are who they say they are.

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By *orthwhile27Man
over a year ago

dark side of the moon

Until the next time....... Or

I'd like to keep her for myself......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t send

Don’t want to get any more messages

Filters set at 98-99"

This is Fab, not a radio station. No need to broadcast your inability to find willing partners on a status, your bio and now a forum comment.

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By *essicagrace OP Woman
over a year ago

birmingham

This is all v interesting.

What about multi veris?

I personally only give them out if I've done something substantially different so there's new stuff to veri for. Eg first veri after a group social, second after a private meet. Or a new veri when we do a club visit. Things like that.

But I'm super interested to hear peoples thoughts on verifying each team you meet someone. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they act as a way to show you are who you say you are, you're willing to turn up when a meet is arranged although this doesn't guarantee it happening in the future. I'm happy to say nice things about someone if they're true and I hope someone would do the same with me. If it was a bad experience I'd likely not bother with it at all.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"This is all v interesting.

What about multi veris?

But I'm super interested to hear peoples thoughts on verifying each team you meet someone. X"

Sometimes, if they haven't met for a while it is useful to have a current verification... just to prove that they're still active.

Cal

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By *essicagrace OP Woman
over a year ago

birmingham

"I really like the silly ones. Where people obviously have some fondness for each other. Not necessarily sexual. Just a little silly and they clearly like the person. "

Me too!!!

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I’ve read all yours OP

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By *essicagrace OP Woman
over a year ago

birmingham

"I’ve read all yours OP

Omg you still exist?!

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"Not that interested in graphic veris (dont bother us, just not interested in them).

Anything that says they are real, sociable and what they claim.in the profile is good enough for us.

On the flip side, have seen numerous veris on people's accounts to that contradict what's written on the profile so they help us filter things out as well.

Well in our case these where not "heat of the moment" things but rather something that should be mentioned before even arranging a meet.

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By *nvincible ButterflyWoman
over a year ago

LEEDS

I hate to read "suckable cock" or "I'd like to keep them for myself but..."

Like others have said a verification should tell you they are genuine people and not timewasters.

When verifying others I like to include a bit about thier personality so it gives others an idea on what to expect when they meet them. If they are fun, friendly chatty etc then I'll put that.

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By *ictoria_1976TV/TS
over a year ago

Newquay

Personally I think the whole veri thing is overrated x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t write reviews (verifications) for other people. I write them for the person and I.

I’m fine that others will read them.

I like to receive ones that explain how wonderful my cock is, I get lots of mail after they land.

I like to read others that are explicit like a horny college dude wrote it whilst tossing off… *you know the ones.

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By *istydustyCouple
over a year ago

newbury

We do like giving people verification but seems to be now really generic

-till the next time

- hope we gonna meet again

And usually is that it x

We are putting the effort in our messages,meets ect but we find out sometime people can’t be bothered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications are a mixture of the person(s) giving and the person(s) receiving. So when I read the light porn ones it says more about the verifier than the verified. Unless the verified has chosen to only share a few

(Confused. That's what happens when I talk!)

And I just give my truth. If I spent too much time thinking what to write, I'd end up procrastinating and other -atings.

If ppl don't wanna show them, that's cool. I wouldnt put every picture I painted up on my wall, so wouldn't expect others to be obliged to.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

I don't show any of the veris that go into detail of what happened or was enjoyed.

From the meets and fwbs ive had I've never verified anyone more than once. I don't see the point. I've seen many profiles where they have been verified by the same person or couple a few times which I find a bit odd/unnecessary and on some occasions can seem a bit possessive at times lol

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

A verification is better than no verification! No?

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I think veri’s on a profile tend to tell a story about the person. If they are broadly consistent then you know what you are getting. If they are widely different then they tell you to stay away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A verification is better than no verification! No? "

I think a lot of that depends on how much value you put in verifications. They can be useful however I would meet someone without one.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I wouldn't reverify someone. Actually that's a lie. I'm going to be because I've spent time with some brilliant people and want to.

I like ones where you can almost hear the person's voice, the genuine enthusiasm and delight they have for another. Personal ones where you can tell they think, yep. Awesome. Witty playful ones make me smile a lot as well.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I used to like to see verifications when I was meeting as part of my safety checks...I know it doesn't guarantee anything, but if several other ladies have had pleasant enough meets with someone to leave nice verifications then I figured that there was less chance of my skin being turned into a lampshade.

Aside from that, those received serve as a pleasant reminder of good meets, and it can be fun to read through old ones. I haven't displayed any for a long time though, I can't be arsed with people starting drama over them

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By *uiet_69Man
over a year ago

Near

Honest ones are the best

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By *idesWillTurnMan
over a year ago

Berkshire

I think for male solo meets they are kind of a measure if trust and authenticity, or thats kind of the general feeling

However, with the huge male to female ratio I'm not sure they always count for that much

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I don't want to know the gory details. All I need is that they're real, are good fun and that they didn't turn into a nutty afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I think the whole veri thing is overrated x"

I prefer to see none at all. Hate having to write them.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Some can help as an extra filter method?!...

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Graphic veri's do nothing for us, in fact they are more of a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't reverify someone. Actually that's a lie. I'm going to be because I've spent time with some brilliant people and want to.

Where is my reverification?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I wouldn't reverify someone. Actually that's a lie. I'm going to be because I've spent time with some brilliant people and want to.

Where is my reverification?

I'll write it tomorrow. You know sometimes when you think you're worded out and just want to grunt at folk? I'm about two waffling posts away from that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait, you guys are getting verifications?

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

Outside Nottingham

Just genuine verifications you show they are decent friendly human beings is good for us

You gather quite a few when you’ve been here as long as us

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By *WillowxWoman
over a year ago

Oo err Devon

For me, I like to read veris to see that they actually turned up and were who they said they were..I rarely leave graphic accounts of meets.. more about the person or people

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Wait, you guys are getting verifications?

You wanting one as well then? Finished with the gumming so have a bit of spare time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they’re good they can give you a little insight as to what they’re like and that they have shown up

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

All we're interested in seeing is that they were as portrayed on their profile and pics, turned up and a good time was had by all.

Gory details should be left between the participants, not plastered across veris for public consumption.

As for re-veris ? No problem with that as long as it's relevant and not just lamp post pissing. Otherwise it just looks stalkerish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most put me off, repeat ones from the same people are just a bit too much. We don't need to know everytime you're fucking someone!!

In all honesty, I prefer none.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

I don't really like the graphic veris, I only read them to see if the person is genuine and does actually turn up for a meet.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Veris are great for adding that extra touch to my fake profiles

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Graphic veri’s are a no…we’ll be put off meeting someone if they displayed or wrote graphic veri’s.

Veri’s, for us, are a reminder of a good time with people we connect with.

But like a profile, pics or a message they can be a useful filtering tool too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wait, you guys are getting verifications?

You wanting one as well then? Finished with the gumming so have a bit of spare time.

Honestly, I'm not so sure that's a good idea.

I have a reputation I want to maintain and the 65 in my username is trouble enough causing people to think I'm over the hill.

A verification from you, will literally be the kiss of death...

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Left me wanting more / don’t pass this one by / treat them with respect - should all carry instant 10 day bans!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Wait, you guys are getting verifications?

You wanting one as well then? Finished with the gumming so have a bit of spare time.

Honestly, I'm not so sure that's a good idea.

I have a reputation I want to maintain and the 65 in my username is trouble enough causing people to think I'm over the hill.

A verification from you, will literally be the kiss of death...

Oh these shots. Had to go a-hunting for them.

You're really asking for scab photos aren't you? I'll hook you up don't worry.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"I love the ones where I’m told to treat her with respect.

Or her house is clean because her Dyson sucks well.

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By *istydustyCouple
over a year ago

newbury

"I love the ones where I’m told to treat her with respect.

Or her house is clean because her Dyson sucks well."

Oh so you not treat women with respect?

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

"This is all v interesting.

What about multi veris?

But I'm super interested to hear peoples thoughts on verifying each team you meet someone. X"

I think I agree with this. Usually just the one verification will do. I don't really mind the content of the verifications as much as it's just how they viewed the experience even if they are graphic. Not everyone is only meeting up for a cup of tea and a chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wait, you guys are getting verifications?

You wanting one as well then? Finished with the gumming so have a bit of spare time.

Honestly, I'm not so sure that's a good idea.

I have a reputation I want to maintain and the 65 in my username is trouble enough causing people to think I'm over the hill.

A verification from you, will literally be the kiss of death...

Oh these shots. Had to go a-hunting for them.

You're really asking for scab photos aren't you? I'll hook you up don't worry."

Perfect date already planned, we'll attend a special FX workshop mimicking simple wounds and injuries for film and television.

Just let me know when you are going to ask how to make "those" special ones, I want to savour their disgust, then the subsequent removal from said workshop.

To celebrate, carbonara, milkshakes and vanilla ice cream. No napkins. DIY it.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

The ones where us men folk are warned to bring our A game should we meet the woman in question. More akin to a public service announcement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifying someone a couple of times shows that they are worth meeting again. I like seeing those.

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By *_Mr.K_xMan
over a year ago

Somewhere between Hades and Narnia

Just the honesty of it really... no need to kiss and tell and go into graphic detail but leaves some to the imagination whilst highlighting a true reflection on confirming they're real, genuine and whether we'd want to see each other again etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like repeat veris.. I like light and fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Veris are great for adding that extra touch to my fake profiles

Love wanking over them.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Veris are great for adding that extra touch to my fake profiles

Love wanking over them.

I know you so… you keep sending me all the evidence

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By *he Artful TodgerMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire but travel

Not a fan of graphic ones, keep that between yourself.

Something along the lines of Great backing up the profile, looks, attitude etc

They certainly help to inform or build a picture if that person(s)…

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"I have been notified that sometimes veris go out and people don't like them, or they're full of fab niceties that render them almost useless...

So. What, for you, makes a good veri? What do you like to put in ones you send? What are things you look for when you read veris on a new person's profile? Let's share! "

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I always draft my verification offline and then send it via Private Message to the recipient for peer-review and approval.

Then I'll formally do it via their profile.

I know my method sounds somewhat 'banal' but it works for me.

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

"I like repeat veris.. I like light and fun"

Yes agreed on repeat veris. Also like veris that talk about personality more than the graphic sex details like an Olympic commentary. Key works like respectful, considerate, reliable, etc. And veris from some people are worth more than others.

.....just been checking ours to see how we stack up after reading this thread

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone Area.

"I like repeat veris.. I like light and fun

Agree with the above. I (Mr) like to see recent Meet veris when arranging a meet. key words, repeated by several meets are a great indication. I look more so for recent verifications. Ones from 5 years ago are irrelevant in my opinion. I am a different person to me 5 years ago, so I assume everyone and their circumstances could have changed too. To me, a recent few meet veris tell me they will likely turn up. Although this is not a guarantee. Webcam veris mean nothing to us as they don’t show the person actually gets up, gets ready and makes an effort to meet.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I just like to tell some pleasant little story about how the meet went, maybe something amusing that happened, or how they were lovely people. I never write anything explicit, I prefer to keep those type of details as a private matter. Essentially I see verifications just as being a way of telling that somebody is real, and that IMHO the experience of meeting them was good. And if I can't find something positive to say, then I don't say anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to see a few as my theory is a few veris means they do actually meet, they are probably not a serial killer

I don’t like to see graphic veris, or multi veris that sound possessive. Those are off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And contradictory to my above comment, I don’t show mine

I find showing mine has just brought me grief also feels like I’m being reviewed like a product. I know makes no sense when I like to see other peoples

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By *aughtyAlex2021Woman
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

I don't mind veri's but I do have a go to rule. If it's a social and no play then I state social only. It's very easy for some people to make it sound like play has taken place when it actually hasn't.

I normally mention if the person/people is/are chatty, laid back etc. I try not to be explicit.

Verifying if they are genuine or at least appear genuine is what I try to convey.

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By *uiet_69Man
over a year ago

Near

Kik? TVs?

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

The wrong side of the tracks.

On our couples account we’ve had some from people we’ve not spoken too at a club that make it sound like we’ve played with them. It’s a good thing you can choose whether you show them!

I personally love them. Especially ones that reflect the verifier and the verified’s personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let’s face it on hear it’s all load bullshit learnt the hard way last night so many Nasty vicious lady’s and gents

Who gives a flying about veris anyway

Don’t wish to state the obvious hear it’s sex site

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Any veri that instils me as a living legend/god is absolutely fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't mind veri's but I do have a go to rule. If it's a social and no play then I state social only. It's very easy for some people to make it sound like play has taken place when it actually hasn't.

I normally mention if the person/people is/are chatty, laid back etc. I try not to be explicit.

Verifying if they are genuine or at least appear genuine is what I try to convey. "

What makes someone "genuine"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s honest about how the meet , social , or whatever else then I’m fine there .

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

I only display social ones, so if it has any sort of sexual content in it, it will stay hidden, I do prewarn people I've met about my veri preferences though

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By *exyPirateMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Well what can I say…

She’s a genuine professional

I don’t like to give too much away, but we screwed for 45hours then a spunked on her curtains!

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By *exyPirateMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

I think they’re more useful for single men.

Not sure women need them at all really.

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle somewhere

Almost all of mine say roughly the same thing so you only really need to read a couple to get an idea of what I’m like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a really lovely one the other day....just saying!

it's better when they don't look like TripAdvisor!

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

That they turned up, an indication that they have performed without giving away too much personal detail & a hint as to whether we would see them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well what can I say…

She’s a genuine professional

I don’t like to give too much away, but we screwed for 45hours then a spunked on her curtains!

The self promotion ones make me laugh.

Gave her 37 orgasms, made her squirt like Niagara Falls, she loved my 14" rock hard cock!

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By *ussybagderMan
over a year ago

Salford

You have over 100 verification should have all kinds of veri written for u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well what can I say…

She’s a genuine professional

I don’t like to give too much away, but we screwed for 45hours then a spunked on her curtains!

The self promotion ones make me laugh.

Gave her 37 orgasms, made her squirt like Niagara Falls, she loved my 14" rock hard cock!

Some people just like blowing their own trumpet...no one else will....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I need to know is that she gets wetter than an otters pocket, loves the D, and fancies my cock snot blasted all over her bazingas.

Good to go.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

The ones that are displayed are social meets and even the hidden, naked social meets only confirm that I lie there and think of England

As long as they’re light hearted and not too graphic, it’s enough. I need to write some after the weekend - tricky remembering after 35 shots of sambuca

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Having got 1 or 3 veris

we feel in a good place to answer this. Too many veris, can put people off. They judge you as a walking sti time bomb.

We don't like grahic veris. If you want to know, you should of been there! We've been lucky and all but 1 of ours given is non graphic. We don't give graphic in return.

We don't like seeing repeate once a month or week veris from same people, veriy-ing each other. Feels like your interupt a relqtionship.

However, If its been a good while, and we've re meet someone, we will give a fresh veri.

Ones where they say, treat them with respect, or they won't bite, unles you ask. Hate those!

Accounts that are couples, and have a veri a few years old. And suddenly become active. Are they the male half reactivating the account after a break up?

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By *aximus74Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

I like to give veris to show people they are real and a bit about that person.. if they really good I tend to say I want to keep them and not share... but that's just me.. lol..

I like to read people's too,to make sure they not timewasters..I've given too many "newbies" chances and they've messed up for themselves (we was all new here once).

And if I do repeat a veri to the same person,its usually because we've done something different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like ones that are too sexual. I'm not applying for a job on fab, people don't need to know my key skills.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm not a fan of graphic verifications, I like the ones that just people are who they claim to be and are real and they do turn up to meet.

Mrs

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"I'm not a fan of graphic verifications, I like the ones that just people are who they claim to be and are real and they do turn up to meet.

Mrs "

This for me

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Not keen on overtly sexual ones, funny ones I love, and general yes they're what they say on the tin ones.

Repeat veris everytime meeting the same person, saying the same thing pretty much do baffle me, and I'm on the fence about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A verification should verify the person on the profile not be the list of the meeter’s (if that a word) different sexual prowess

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Not keen on overtly sexual ones, funny ones I love, and general yes they're what they say on the tin ones.

Repeat veris everytime meeting the same person, saying the same thing pretty much do baffle me, and I'm on the fence about

I remember a few years ago there was a single fem on here who had about 30 verifications ....all from the same guy

none from anyone else lol

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By *exyPirateMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Has anyone ever got a bad one….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone ever got a bad one…."

Oh yes sometimes I read some and I wonder how on earth they thought it was okay to display. Like: his cock is lacking girth but it is good for anal

Her excess of weight makes her the perfect partner for cuddling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t send

Don’t want to get any more messages

Filters set at 98-99

This is Fab, not a radio station. No need to broadcast your inability to find willing partners on a status, your bio and now a forum comment."

filters have been changed, maybe he's waiting for messages

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

I just show social ones to prove we are 'real'. Wouldn't display something graphic but as we don't do one offs anyway we keep those experiences to ourselves x

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

I will talk to the people, meet them for a social and not make decisions from veris.

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

I normally mention if the person/people is/are chatty, laid back etc. I try not to be explicit.

Verifying if they are genuine or at least appear genuine is what I try to convey. "

Oh yes the hidden social veri is really annoying. You can kind of tell but much better if stated explicitly and we always do for others. Some people have got 30-40 veris especially from a club but have barely played with anyone else - not clear from veris but it is when you message. That is fine and up to them of course but it is a bit misleading for those of us that are more play focused.

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

"I think they’re more useful for single men.

Not sure women need them at all really."

They do for us for much the same reason as the men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never even get a verification.

I must be unsatisfactory lol

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

"Let’s face it on hear it’s all load bullshit learnt the hard way last night so many Nasty vicious lady’s and gents

Who gives a flying about veris anyway

Don’t wish to state the obvious hear it’s sex site

Don't think you are doing yourself any favours with the negative attitude. In answer to "who gives a flying....".....well clearly lots of people posting on this thread.

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

"A verification should verify the person on the profile not be the list of the meeter’s (if that a word) different sexual prowess "

There is something in between. Don't want a graphic run down of every detail but looking for more than just an ID check and this includes some sexual aspects. For example if a lady says that bi-curious was there a hint that she played with the other lady (as many don't really). If they went to a party did they join in and play with others or just socialise etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been notified that sometimes veris go out and people don't like them, or they're full of fab niceties that render them almost useless...

So. What, for you, makes a good veri? What do you like to put in ones you send? What are things you look for when you read veris on a new person's profile? Let's share!

(And remember everyone is different and that's good and ok and fine)"

We just like people to have verifications just so we no they have met people in real life as so many fakes on here

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By *essicagrace OP Woman
over a year ago

birmingham

"Let’s face it on hear it’s all load bullshit learnt the hard way last night so many Nasty vicious lady’s and gents

Who gives a flying about veris anyway

Don’t wish to state the obvious hear it’s sex site

Good morning to you too!

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

Everyone sucks like a dyson apparently

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"Everyone sucks like a dyson apparently "

* Other makes of vacuum cleaner also available

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I go through phases with Veri’s. Sometimes I hide them to avoid people doing the veri trail, other times I take active pleasure in sharing them.

The intent of verifications is to prove that a person is real and to share a bit of your experience so others can get an idea of who you’re meeting. In that vein, I like them, especially the smart or funny ones.

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By *ervent X KissMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I’d be happy to meet to get confirmation that I am alive, as it often feels I’m a ghost, as I have very few replies and even fewer 1st time msgs from ladies.

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

I like repeat verifications. For me it shows that the first “nice guy/couple, had a laugh” type veri was genuine, and actually the person was nice/reliable enough to want to meet again.

I like repeat meets so it shows me that the person saying they do actually does (obvs no guarantee it would click the same, but does show an interest in it).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An honest one in my opinion.

Not divulging to much detail as being a gentleman and being respectful costs nothing.

Yet it seems that some feel it costs the earth sadly.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Something that shows they actually know that person - beyond fucking them or saying hello in a club. Love reading what others say about people when they actually know them.

I wont display or write anything sex related but I get that some people like all that and I’ve no issue if people write that about me it’s actually nice to read , but it stays private for me.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"I really like the silly ones. Where people obviously have some fondness for each other. Not necessarily sexual. Just a little silly and they clearly like the person. "

This! And nice ones that show a persons personality too.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"Has anyone ever got a bad one….

Oh yes sometimes I read some and I wonder how on earth they thought it was okay to display. Like: his cock is lacking girth but it is good for anal

Her excess of weight makes her the perfect partner for cuddling

Humiliation type kink perhaps?

Though I’d proudly display one that said I sucked like a stain

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"Has anyone ever got a bad one….

Oh yes sometimes I read some and I wonder how on earth they thought it was okay to display. Like: his cock is lacking girth but it is good for anal

Her excess of weight makes her the perfect partner for cuddling

Humiliation type kink perhaps?

Though I’d proudly display one that said I sucked like a DYSON

Stupid spell check

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Has anyone ever got a bad one….

Oh yes sometimes I read some and I wonder how on earth they thought it was okay to display. Like: his cock is lacking girth but it is good for anal

Her excess of weight makes her the perfect partner for cuddling

Humiliation type kink perhaps?

Though I’d proudly display one that said I sucked like a stain

I want to suck like a stain. Sounds more visceral than a Dyson, Dyson is overrated anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love the ones where I’m told to treat her with respect.

Or her house is clean because her Dyson sucks well.

Oh so you not treat women with respect?"

Do respectful people need to be reminded to behave as such?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone ever got a bad one….

Oh yes sometimes I read some and I wonder how on earth they thought it was okay to display. Like: his cock is lacking girth but it is good for anal

Her excess of weight makes her the perfect partner for cuddling

Humiliation type kink perhaps?

Though I’d proudly display one that said I sucked like a stain

I want to suck like a stain. Sounds more visceral than a Dyson, Dyson is overrated anyway."
yep get out the trusted kirby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think they’re more useful for single men.

Not sure women need them at all really.

They do for us for much the same reason as the men. "

Exactly, given the number of males posing as single females ob Fab it's vital that any single females we consider to have a decent, genuine verification trail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to add cam only veris are not for us to often we have found the fantasisits, dreamers and those into online only have these. For us we want real life meets and experiences.

If there's a mix of cam and face to face meet veris then that's fine as it's clear that they explore and act on thier fantasies in the real world.

Ultimately thought verifications are only as good as the veri trail.

Always check for closed loops I.e 4 accounts all verifying each other other only = huge red flag.

Every person who has verified the account your looking at should have thier own set of different independent veris from seperate / different users. If they include veris from clubs and party hosts even better.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

"I love the ones where I’m told to treat her with respect.

Yep those and the extremely graphic ones are a no no for us.

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

Just to add cam only veris are not for us to often we have found the fantasisits, dreamers and those into online only have these. For us we want real life meets and experiences.

If there's a mix of cam and face to face meet veris then that's fine as it's clear that they explore and act on thier fantasies in the real world.

Ultimately thought verifications are only as good as the veri trail.

Always check for closed loops I.e 4 accounts all verifying each other other only = huge red flag.

KJ"

Yep that is all good advice. Just checked and like your veris although after reading comments above did find one "treat them with respect" comment

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

Always check for closed loops I.e 4 accounts all verifying each other other only = huge red flag.

KJ"

That’s so important.

There was one guy from a couple who did and said all the right things, but something just bugged me. Went diving around the verifications trail and discovered that he had one webcam veri from someone well verified…

Then his couples profile, singles profile, the supposed females profile, a second couples profile and that female profile all had roundabout veris. Clearly the webcam veri had been the catalyst to allow him to repeatedly verify himself and his multiple made-up partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always check for closed loops I.e 4 accounts all verifying each other other only = huge red flag.

That’s so important.

Exactly there really should be a guide on this somewhere on the site. It would save a lot of people been messed about, been played, stood up etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to add cam only veris are not for us to often we have found the fantasisits, dreamers and those into online only have these. For us we want real life meets and experiences.

If there's a mix of cam and face to face meet veris then that's fine as it's clear that they explore and act on thier fantasies in the real world.

Ultimately thought verifications are only as good as the veri trail.

Always check for closed loops I.e 4 accounts all verifying each other other only = huge red flag.

Yep that is all good advice. Just checked and like your veris although after reading comments above did find one "treat them with respect" comment

LOL its impossible not to end up with at least 1 treat them with respect veri

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love the ones where I’m told to treat her with respect.

Ironically these are the ones that seem to lose respect after their dicks gone dry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As far as im concerned it just shows people are not time wasters

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Well what can I say…

She’s a genuine professional

I don’t like to give too much away, but we screwed for 45hours then a spunked on her curtains!

... ONLY 45 hours ...that's a poor result

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I gain more when I read the veris written by someone than their subject.

Also learn a lot by seeing the veris that peeps are happy to publish. I have previously unhotlisted someone because of something they published. No judgement, just not my type of thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always check for closed loops I.e 4 accounts all verifying each other other only = huge red flag.

That’s so important.

Exactly there really should be a guide on this somewhere on the site. It would save a lot of people been messed about, been played, stood up etc.

KJ "

Fab isn't a baby sitting service. If people believe that verifications 'prove' anything, it's on them.

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

"All I need to know is that she gets wetter than an otters pocket, loves the D, and fancies my cock snot blasted all over her bazingas.

Good to go.

Will you then wipe your cock on my curtains…?

Leave me with a memento

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All I need to know is that she gets wetter than an otters pocket, loves the D, and fancies my cock snot blasted all over her bazingas.

Good to go.

Will you then wipe your cock on my curtains…?

Leave me with a memento

Naturally

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

"All I need to know is that she gets wetter than an otters pocket, loves the D, and fancies my cock snot blasted all over her bazingas.

Good to go.

Will you then wipe your cock on my curtains…?

Leave me with a memento

Naturally

When did you say you were available again?

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