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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

100's of messages a day??

Am i actually the only single female that doesn't? Geeee I feel special if so.

Yeah yeah I know I currently have filters on ( yes ladies, they work!!) But even when I don't i am certainly not inundated.

I just can't be arsed to reply, it's nothing to do with the volume of them.

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Your a lucky lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't, but the profiles I've spoken to, say they don't either unless they're posting new pictures or meets. Maybe it's certain locations?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Its just easy to placate the fragile egos of men by suggesting women can’t reply because they are inundated with 100’s of messages instead of they just don’t fancy you.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I used to but not anymore. Filters are extremely tight and I used to be on here a lot more. I get more if I’m on line. Don’t read many though I must admit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"100's of messages a day??

Am i actually the only single female that doesn't? Geeee I feel special if so.

Yeah yeah I know I currently have filters on ( yes ladies, they work!!) But even when I don't i am certainly not inundated.

I just can't be arsed to reply, it's nothing to do with the volume of them.

"

Your joking of course

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

I get maybe 2 newbies from forum threads message me a day

But I have strict filters and my profile is set to uninteresting. So I get away with coasting under the fab men radar and can chat shit on the forums in peace

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" I don't, but the profiles I've spoken to, say they don't either unless they're posting new pictures or meets. Maybe it's certain locations?"

Location location location, Phil was right.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Me"

I'll fix this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank fuck for that I thought I was the only one not inundated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have 0 public pics so hardly shocking!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"100's of messages a day??

Am i actually the only single female that doesn't? Geeee I feel special if so.

Yeah yeah I know I currently have filters on ( yes ladies, they work!!) But even when I don't i am certainly not inundated.

I just can't be arsed to reply, it's nothing to do with the volume of them.

Your joking of course "

I don't joke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if I were to send you 100’s of messages a day?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have 0 public pics so hardly shocking! "

Not now though, even when I do I don't.

Actually!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank fuck for that I thought I was the only one not inundated "

This makes me feel better.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I average 1 a month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, I get a couple and then they can be dreary as f**k

And those I message most often than not I’m not their type.

But the world would be boring as f**k if we all liked the same

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By *_Mr.K_xMan
over a year ago

Somewhere between Hades and Narnia

Inbox about to be full in 3....2....1

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By *_Mr.K_xMan
over a year ago

Somewhere between Hades and Narnia

Me *raises hand* btw

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to but not anymore. Filters are extremely tight and I used to be on here a lot more. I get more if I’m on line. Don’t read many though I must admit. "

I mean I'm not saying I want them, just everyone seems to get them!

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By *rofessor ElementalMan
over a year ago

Durham

I really like your profile it’s full of fire and whit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Inbox about to be full in 3....2....1"

Filters!!!!!!

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By *_Mr.K_xMan
over a year ago

Somewhere between Hades and Narnia


"I really like your profile it’s full of fire and whit. "

Same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really like your profile it’s full of fire and whit. "

But no tit.

Maybes this is where I'm going wrong??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get 100's of messages a day either. I do have filters set I admit and tbh I am fine with the amount of messages I do receive.

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I average 1 a month.

"

No one likes a show off dude.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't get 100's of messages a day either. I do have filters set I admit and tbh I am fine with the amount of messages I do receive.

NBVN x"

Don't get me wrong, I'd be gone if I got that many, just nice to know I'm not alone sat in the unpopular corner.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" "

Best

Reply

Ever

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I get a few but certainly not 100's, it can go a little mental if I post a new pic but that doesn't happen very often x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nah, I get a couple and then they can be dreary as f**k

And those I message most often than not I’m not their type.

But the world would be boring as f**k if we all liked the same "

If I message guys first, they are awesome messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a single one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Me

Never did even when I was actively meeting

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I used to but not anymore. Filters are extremely tight and I used to be on here a lot more. I get more if I’m on line. Don’t read many though I must admit.

I mean I'm not saying I want them, just everyone seems to get them! "

Depends what pics you upload though I guess. And if your profile text is nice. Mine used to be really nice. Probably a bit harsh sounding now. I tend to just skim through messages to see if there’s anyone I know at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me

No messengers

Plus no reply’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah, I get a couple and then they can be dreary as f**k

And those I message most often than not I’m not their type.

But the world would be boring as f**k if we all liked the same

If I message guys first, they are awesome messages.

"

Guess that’s only you’re word then sugartits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The biggest mistake you ever made was replying to my message. I can get around your filters forever

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By *_Mr.K_xMan
over a year ago

Somewhere between Hades and Narnia


"I get a few but certainly not 100's, it can go a little mental if I post a new pic but that doesn't happen very often x"

Most people would just message you because you're a really sound and approachable person... what I've found, anyway

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I get a few but certainly not 100's, it can go a little mental if I post a new pic but that doesn't happen very often x

Most people would just message you because you're a really sound and approachable person... what I've found, anyway"

Kind of you to say though most would disagree with you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to but not anymore. Filters are extremely tight and I used to be on here a lot more. I get more if I’m on line. Don’t read many though I must admit.

I mean I'm not saying I want them, just everyone seems to get them!

Depends what pics you upload though I guess. And if your profile text is nice. Mine used to be really nice. Probably a bit harsh sounding now. I tend to just skim through messages to see if there’s anyone I know at the moment. "

Ah, that's me fucked then. Not in that way either!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

I get the same people messaging me. My inbox hasn’t seen fresh blood since June 2019. What a month that was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say I get 50 at the max and that is with new pictures and change of area. I put it down to shit profile and being tubby.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I used to but not anymore. Filters are extremely tight and I used to be on here a lot more. I get more if I’m on line. Don’t read many though I must admit.

I mean I'm not saying I want them, just everyone seems to get them!

Depends what pics you upload though I guess. And if your profile text is nice. Mine used to be really nice. Probably a bit harsh sounding now. I tend to just skim through messages to see if there’s anyone I know at the moment.

Ah, that's me fucked then. Not in that way either! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nah, I get a couple and then they can be dreary as f**k

And those I message most often than not I’m not their type.

But the world would be boring as f**k if we all liked the same

If I message guys first, they are awesome messages.

Guess that’s only you’re word then sugartits "

My word is awesome.

Fact.

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By *_Mr.K_xMan
over a year ago

Somewhere between Hades and Narnia


"I get a few but certainly not 100's, it can go a little mental if I post a new pic but that doesn't happen very often x

Most people would just message you because you're a really sound and approachable person... what I've found, anyway

Kind of you to say though most would disagree with you "

Maybe so, you haven't done or said anything to piss me off......

Yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The biggest mistake you ever made was replying to my message. I can get around your filters forever "

Or, was it your biggest mistake....

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By *xTwo4FunTimesxXCouple
over a year ago

chester

We never have hundreds.Not complaining either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah, I get a couple and then they can be dreary as f**k

And those I message most often than not I’m not their type.

But the world would be boring as f**k if we all liked the same

If I message guys first, they are awesome messages.

Guess that’s only you’re word then sugartits

My word is awesome.

Fact."

If you say so

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Id hate to get lots tbh , a few a week would be ideal for me as it would suggest im still appealing to some ,as it stands i get more from admin about my supporter pass than i do from fab members lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get the same people messaging me. My inbox hasn’t seen fresh blood since June 2019. What a month that was."

Love the profile

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By *_Mr.K_xMan
over a year ago

Somewhere between Hades and Narnia

It's not about the quantity, it's about the quality

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nah, I get a couple and then they can be dreary as f**k

And those I message most often than not I’m not their type.

But the world would be boring as f**k if we all liked the same

If I message guys first, they are awesome messages.

Guess that’s only you’re word then sugartits

My word is awesome.

Fact.

If you say so "

I feel like you're taunting me to message you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The biggest mistake you ever made was replying to my message. I can get around your filters forever

Or, was it your biggest mistake...."

Only time will tell. If you keep up the porn art I think I’ll be happy with my decision.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not about the quantity, it's about the quality"

The quality is shit.

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By *_Mr.K_xMan
over a year ago

Somewhere between Hades and Narnia


"It's not about the quantity, it's about the quality"

IF they get opened and read, of course

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I used to but not anymore. Filters are extremely tight and I used to be on here a lot more. I get more if I’m on line. Don’t read many though I must admit. "

This really. Used to get far more when I was a photo tart. Most women who ‘complain’ about getting hundreds of messages per day either frequently post new pictures and/or meets or have next to no filters.

I tend to view it as a ‘boo hoo I’m too popular’ kinda thing.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

w

Most women are filters wide open for that tasty ego boost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get a couple a month but that's cause we restricted it to only females and couples lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not about the quantity, it's about the quality

The quality is shit. "

Oh well, I’d have said you are slightly better than shit but we’ll agree to disagree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"100's of messages a day??

Am i actually the only single female that doesn't? Geeee I feel special if so.

Yeah yeah I know I currently have filters on ( yes ladies, they work!!) But even when I don't i am certainly not inundated.

I just can't be arsed to reply, it's nothing to do with the volume of them.

"

Dont understand the point of this post? You block men then complain you dont get any messages???? As OMC said...how bizarre

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"100's of messages a day??

Am i actually the only single female that doesn't? Geeee I feel special if so.

Yeah yeah I know I currently have filters on ( yes ladies, they work!!) But even when I don't i am certainly not inundated.

I just can't be arsed to reply, it's nothing to do with the volume of them.

Dont understand the point of this post? You block men then complain you dont get any messages???? As OMC said...how bizarre "

If you read it properly you might.

Oh wait, you're a guy. Forget that.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I used to but not anymore. Filters are extremely tight and I used to be on here a lot more. I get more if I’m on line. Don’t read many though I must admit.

This really. Used to get far more when I was a photo tart. Most women who ‘complain’ about getting hundreds of messages per day either frequently post new pictures and/or meets or have next to no filters.

I tend to view it as a ‘boo hoo I’m too popular’ kinda thing. "

Yep. Even when I got loads I never complained. I don’t even complain about the vile messages. It’s part of fab. I’m really not that arsed about things!

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By *_Mr.K_xMan
over a year ago

Somewhere between Hades and Narnia


"100's of messages a day??

Am i actually the only single female that doesn't? Geeee I feel special if so.

Yeah yeah I know I currently have filters on ( yes ladies, they work!!) But even when I don't i am certainly not inundated.

I just can't be arsed to reply, it's nothing to do with the volume of them.

Dont understand the point of this post? You block men then complain you dont get any messages???? As OMC said...how bizarre "

*popcorn emoji*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Yes me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at the moment, our profile is quite clear (to most) that we're not looking right now.

They can fly high though when we are looking, plus uploading a picture and posting a status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"100's of messages a day??

Am i actually the only single female that doesn't? Geeee I feel special if so.

Yeah yeah I know I currently have filters on ( yes ladies, they work!!) But even when I don't i am certainly not inundated.

I just can't be arsed to reply, it's nothing to do with the volume of them.

Dont understand the point of this post? You block men then complain you dont get any messages???? As OMC said...how bizarre "

It appears to be more of a discussion than a complaint.

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By *elsh Genuine LadyWoman
over a year ago

UK

I used too. Now I’ve probably been seen by many of the locals and they are bored or my profile puts them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been inundated. Not much by the way of filters either. I rarely look at what little messages I have anyway so that suits me.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I'm lucky if I get one a month ish, that includes my site support reminder

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

When my filters are off and I stay online for hours I can easily get 100 messages in an hour or two, depending on which pic I have as a profile pic.

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

I don't normally receive many messages, but yesterday a lady of the forum accidently pressed the "Reply Privately" button to a comment I made on a thread.

Since then, we've had a good old natter most of the day and it's been most enjoyable. Hope it has been for her, too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"100's of messages a day??

Am i actually the only single female that doesn't? Geeee I feel special if so.

Yeah yeah I know I currently have filters on ( yes ladies, they work!!) But even when I don't i am certainly not inundated.

I just can't be arsed to reply, it's nothing to do with the volume of them.

Dont understand the point of this post? You block men then complain you dont get any messages???? As OMC said...how bizarre

If you read it properly you might.

Oh wait, you're a guy. Forget that. "

This explains why lol

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"I don't normally receive many messages, but yesterday a lady of the forum accidently pressed the "Reply Privately" button to a comment I made on a thread.

Since then, we've had a good old natter most of the day and it's been most enjoyable. Hope it has been for her, too."

Stupid woman

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I'm not popular on here.

Been on and off the site for 6yrs, and I've never have been. It suits me fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't, OP.

My profile deliberately puts off those men who just want a fuck. I have my filters on. Even if I post photos and statuses I don't get hundreds. Lucky me cos it would be horrible!

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

I certainly don't if any about 4 or 5 and that's a good day lol I've my filters that tight no one gets through...I have preferences when also reading profiles too if they don't sit well with me I don't think they warrant any type of message or reply...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"100's of messages a day??

Am i actually the only single female that doesn't? Geeee I feel special if so.

Yeah yeah I know I currently have filters on ( yes ladies, they work!!) But even when I don't i am certainly not inundated.

I just can't be arsed to reply, it's nothing to do with the volume of them.

Dont understand the point of this post? You block men then complain you dont get any messages???? As OMC said...how bizarre "

She's not complaining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get hundreds of messages a day either....And the messages I do get are usually from people I already know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"100's of messages a day??

Am i actually the only single female that doesn't? Geeee I feel special if so.

Yeah yeah I know I currently have filters on ( yes ladies, they work!!) But even when I don't i am certainly not inundated.

I just can't be arsed to reply, it's nothing to do with the volume of them.

Dont understand the point of this post? You block men then complain you dont get any messages???? As OMC said...how bizarre

If you read it properly you might.

Oh wait, you're a guy. Forget that.

This explains why lol"

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By *_Mr.K_xMan
over a year ago

Somewhere between Hades and Narnia


"I don't get hundreds of messages a day either....And the messages I do get are usually from people I already know "

The forum is the place to be anyway

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By *ornyvirginphxWoman
over a year ago

phoenix

I got a ton when I first joined, but it definitely tapers off. And I get a lot more messages when I logon frequently, if I go a few days without logging on I don’t really get many new messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm lucky if I get one a month ish, that includes my site support reminder "

These are the best messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I got a ton when I first joined, but it definitely tapers off. And I get a lot more messages when I logon frequently, if I go a few days without logging on I don’t really get many new messages."

I got more when I first joined and had zero pictures

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Is it because you is black and white?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got a ton when I first joined, but it definitely tapers off. And I get a lot more messages when I logon frequently, if I go a few days without logging on I don’t really get many new messages.

I got more when I first joined and had zero pictures "

Your reputation precedes you now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most women are filters wide open for that tasty ego boost "

Tasty ego?

Sounds,erm, tasty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. Filters "

I’m waiting to age… a lot and I’ll drop you a Dm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I got a ton when I first joined, but it definitely tapers off. And I get a lot more messages when I logon frequently, if I go a few days without logging on I don’t really get many new messages.

I got more when I first joined and had zero pictures

Your reputation precedes you now "

I have a reputation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it because you is black and white?"

People these days are so picky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. Filters

I’m waiting to age… a lot and I’ll drop you a Dm "

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"100's of messages a day??

Am i actually the only single female that doesn't? Geeee I feel special if so.

Yeah yeah I know I currently have filters on ( yes ladies, they work!!) But even when I don't i am certainly not inundated.

"

Snap ... even pre-filter days and moving location around UK thanks to work ... barely a whisper

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

What we can send messages on here.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got a ton when I first joined, but it definitely tapers off. And I get a lot more messages when I logon frequently, if I go a few days without logging on I don’t really get many new messages.

I got more when I first joined and had zero pictures

Your reputation precedes you now

I have a reputation "

We know

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By *arriedcoupleNECouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We don't get many low doubles on a good day. We're obviously not that interesting/ fanciable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I do. Sucks to be you lot I guess.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I don’t get that many on a “normal” day- if I upload a photo then yes- I get at least between 200-500 messages in one day which pale in comparison to the 2000+ I used to get at the beginning, haha!

But on a “normal” day I may get 25 msgs or so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It veries day to day but I mainly delete without reading once I’ve looked at their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it because you is black and white?"

On the contrary, black and white pictures are so alluring and sexy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I do. Sucks to be you lot I guess. "

Well I knew you would.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it because you is black and white?

On the contrary, black and white pictures are so alluring and sexy!

"

Next time I may take a picture of my own legs.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Nope me either

I had this conversation with someone on here earlier!!

Will try vag pics

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Nope you're not alone ,

I use a few filters to cut out messages from those I deffo don't want to hear from .

So my mail is manageable,hot that I'd get inundated anyway.

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe


"I don't normally receive many messages, but yesterday a lady of the forum accidently pressed the "Reply Privately" button to a comment I made on a thread.

Since then, we've had a good old natter most of the day and it's been most enjoyable. Hope it has been for her, too.

Stupid woman "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had to out source the admin side of my mail as it's a full time job dealing with it

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Nope me either

I had this conversation with someone on here earlier!!

Will try vag pics "

No don't. You're a quality act x

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Fear not, I shall message you 100 times a day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope me either

I had this conversation with someone on here earlier!!

Will try vag pics "

Vag or veg? Just checking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've had to out source the admin side of my mail as it's a full time job dealing with it "

Cos you is sexy.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I am a man on here so I think. that is pretty standard

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t get that many on a “normal” day- if I upload a photo then yes- I get at least between 200-500 messages in one day which pale in comparison to the 2000+ I used to get at the beginning, haha!

But on a “normal” day I may get 25 msgs or so. "

2000!!!

Well, this just confirms my undesirability.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am a man on here so I think. that is pretty standard"

You think you're a man?

Do you want me to check?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I do. Sucks to be you lot I guess.

Well I knew you would."

I don’t even have a big willy. It’s literally all just from having a good username.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Nope you're not alone ,

I use a few filters to cut out messages from those I deffo don't want to hear from .

So my mail is manageable,hot that I'd get inundated anyway."

I would inundate you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I do. Sucks to be you lot I guess.

Well I knew you would.

I don’t even have a big willy. It’s literally all just from having a good username. "

I need a new username.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"Nope me either

I had this conversation with someone on here earlier!!

Will try vag pics

No don't. You're a quality act x"

I don’t have any of my undercarriage - rest easy

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Nope me either

I had this conversation with someone on here earlier!!

Will try vag pics

No don't. You're a quality act x

I don’t have any of my undercarriage - rest easy "

Phew! I prefer the upper deck anyway x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it because you is black and white?

On the contrary, black and white pictures are so alluring and sexy!

Next time I may take a picture of my own legs. "

Maybe stick with someone else’s then

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"Nope me either

I had this conversation with someone on here earlier!!

Will try vag pics

Vag or veg? Just checking"

I’ll try a bag of spuds first !!

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I haven't had hundreds since I last posted a new picture, which was a long time ago. It used to sit somewhere between 30-60 most days, even when I changed my profile to "go away, I only want my partners winky"

Now I have alllllll the filters and don't get any messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I do. Sucks to be you lot I guess.

Well I knew you would.

I don’t even have a big willy. It’s literally all just from having a good username.

I need a new username."

I've said before- Pollyanna.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope me either

I had this conversation with someone on here earlier!!

Will try vag pics

Vag or veg? Just checking

I’ll try a bag of spuds first !! "

I can't match that kinda sex appeal.

I'll do sprouts.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill


"I don’t get that many on a “normal” day- if I upload a photo then yes- I get at least between 200-500 messages in one day which pale in comparison to the 2000+ I used to get at the beginning, haha!

But on a “normal” day I may get 25 msgs or so.

2000!!!

Well, this just confirms my undesirability. "

I don’t think it has to do with undesirability, it has to do with having a single female profile. As some people have said in the past- you open an account as a single female with no photos whatsoever and they get inundated with messages for the first few days, or weeks!

99.5% are worthless messages anyway, so you’re not missing out on anything anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I do. Sucks to be you lot I guess.

Well I knew you would.

I don’t even have a big willy. It’s literally all just from having a good username.

I need a new username.

I've said before- Pollyanna. "

People may get the wrong impression though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I do. Sucks to be you lot I guess.

Well I knew you would.

I don’t even have a big willy. It’s literally all just from having a good username.

I need a new username.

I've said before- Pollyanna.

People may get the wrong impression though?"

I know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t get that many on a “normal” day- if I upload a photo then yes- I get at least between 200-500 messages in one day which pale in comparison to the 2000+ I used to get at the beginning, haha!

But on a “normal” day I may get 25 msgs or so.

2000!!!

Well, this just confirms my undesirability.

I don’t think it has to do with undesirability, it has to do with having a single female profile. As some people have said in the past- you open an account as a single female with no photos whatsoever and they get inundated with messages for the first few days, or weeks!

99.5% are worthless messages anyway, so you’re not missing out on anything anyway. "

I do have a single female profile, I've checked, I'm definitely female.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I do. Sucks to be you lot I guess.

Well I knew you would.

I don’t even have a big willy. It’s literally all just from having a good username.

I need a new username.

I've said before- Pollyanna.

People may get the wrong impression though?

I know "

I like your thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I do. Sucks to be you lot I guess.

Well I knew you would.

I don’t even have a big willy. It’s literally all just from having a good username.

I need a new username.

I've said before- Pollyanna.

People may get the wrong impression though?"

Lego-lass is better, Chick.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Us, lucky if it's one a week or month

Tg x

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By *reddy400Man
over a year ago

birmingham

I feel like I fell from the ugly tree a thousand times....for me to get a message is as rare as rocking horse shit.... I find the site depressing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I do. Sucks to be you lot I guess.

Well I knew you would.

I don’t even have a big willy. It’s literally all just from having a good username.

I need a new username.

I've said before- Pollyanna.

People may get the wrong impression though?

Lego-lass is better, Chick. "

I forgot about this one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Monitoring so I can get the 175th post on this thread. Won’t be long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Monitoring so I can get the 175th post on this thread. Won’t be long "

Little bit premature that yet

Not that I’m say it has any reflection on yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Monitoring so I can get the 175th post on this thread. Won’t be long

Little bit premature that yet

Not that I’m say it has any reflection on yourself "

Yeah, about that train station date....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky I don't get many messages even though I don't have any filters on.

I deleted most of the ones I do get x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Monitoring so I can get the 175th post on this thread. Won’t be long

Little bit premature that yet

Not that I’m say it has any reflection on yourself

Yeah, about that train station date...."

175th coming up. What an enthralling Sunday

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Monitoring so I can get the 175th post on this thread. Won’t be long

Little bit premature that yet

Not that I’m say it has any reflection on yourself

Yeah, about that train station date....

175th coming up. What an enthralling Sunday "

Am always here to entertain.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I get 10 to 15 a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Monitoring so I can get the 175th post on this thread. Won’t be long

Little bit premature that yet

Not that I’m say it has any reflection on yourself

Yeah, about that train station date....

175th coming up. What an enthralling Sunday

Am always here to entertain.

"

Erm. Can you do owt else?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Monitoring so I can get the 175th post on this thread. Won’t be long

Little bit premature that yet

Not that I’m say it has any reflection on yourself

Yeah, about that train station date....

175th coming up. What an enthralling Sunday

Am always here to entertain.

Erm. Can you do owt else? "

I do a good Chewbacca impression?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get 10 to 15 a day. "

Would be less if you replied to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get 10 to 15 a day. "

That's my normal when I take filters off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Monitoring so I can get the 175th post on this thread. Won’t be long

Little bit premature that yet

Not that I’m say it has any reflection on yourself

Yeah, about that train station date....

175th coming up. What an enthralling Sunday

Am always here to entertain.

Erm. Can you do owt else?

I do a good Chewbacca impression?"

100s of messages incoming

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By *rimxtcMan
over a year ago

toy town

I send well written polite messages and don't even get a get lost reply

Think my inbox must be broken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I send well written polite messages and don't even get a get lost reply

Think my inbox must be broken "

I redirected the messages to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me neither OP and I like it that way, it's nice and quiet knowing I don't get inundated with messages anymore. My message filters are set the way I want them plus the block list is long x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Monitoring so I can get the 175th post on this thread. Won’t be long

Little bit premature that yet

Not that I’m say it has any reflection on yourself

Yeah, about that train station date....

175th coming up. What an enthralling Sunday

Am always here to entertain.

Erm. Can you do owt else?

I do a good Chewbacca impression?"

Is that just the noise are can you get as naturally hairy too?

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"I get 10 to 15 a day.

That's my normal when I take my knickers off."

Yeah, that always entices me to send one.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

I maybe get 5 or 10 unless I post a new photo. Then I might reach 100 or 150.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Monitoring so I can get the 175th post on this thread. Won’t be long

Little bit premature that yet

Not that I’m say it has any reflection on yourself

Yeah, about that train station date....

175th coming up. What an enthralling Sunday

Am always here to entertain.

Erm. Can you do owt else?

I do a good Chewbacca impression?"

Im starting to organise a talent show lounge social.. I want this as the opening act.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100's? Pfft I'm currently getting 1000's

Oh wait slight exaggeration.. I out the 1 in the wrong place...

And I missed spelt 1, it should have read 0.

My mistake ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Monitoring so I can get the 175th post on this thread. Won’t be long

Little bit premature that yet

Not that I’m say it has any reflection on yourself

Yeah, about that train station date....

175th coming up. What an enthralling Sunday

Am always here to entertain.

Erm. Can you do owt else?

I do a good Chewbacca impression?

Is that just the noise are can you get as naturally hairy too?"

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After looking a dead cert to finish, this thread is spluttering and flailing before the finish line

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"After looking a dead cert to finish, this thread is spluttering and flailing before the finish line "

You jinxed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Monitoring so I can get the 175th post on this thread. Won’t be long

Little bit premature that yet

Not that I’m say it has any reflection on yourself

Yeah, about that train station date....

175th coming up. What an enthralling Sunday

Am always here to entertain.

Erm. Can you do owt else?

I do a good Chewbacca impression?

Is that just the noise are can you get as naturally hairy too?

Both "

I’ll buy you some veet then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Monitoring so I can get the 175th post on this thread. Won’t be long

Little bit premature that yet

Not that I’m say it has any reflection on yourself

Yeah, about that train station date....

175th coming up. What an enthralling Sunday

Am always here to entertain.

Erm. Can you do owt else?

I do a good Chewbacca impression?

Is that just the noise are can you get as naturally hairy too?

Both

I’ll buy you some veet then "

I embrace the hairiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

My filters quite high but I am fifty seven

Not after a lady to young probably kill me lol

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

The day that any single guys get 100's of messages a day will be the day that seagulls shit upside down. However, I content myself secure in the knowledge that those that I do get messages from are invariably looking for quality rather than quantity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No

My filters quite high but I am fifty seven

Not after a lady to young probably kill me lol "

What a way to go tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Monitoring so I can get the 175th post on this thread. Won’t be long

Little bit premature that yet

Not that I’m say it has any reflection on yourself

Yeah, about that train station date....

175th coming up. What an enthralling Sunday

Am always here to entertain.

Erm. Can you do owt else?

I do a good Chewbacca impression?

Is that just the noise are can you get as naturally hairy too?

Both

I’ll buy you some veet then

I embrace the hairiness "

I feel sorry for the bath

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By *ostAirmenMan
over a year ago

crewe

I have none and that’s fine. I’m not verified yet on this account and I have not messaged anyone yet . My time will come for the odd one or two but it’s quality not quantity that counts .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only get junk mail bills and charity bags

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By *nicorn4uWoman
over a year ago

telford


"Inbox about to be full in 3....2....1

Filters!!!!!!

"

I’m not in your age range lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have 0 public pics so hardly shocking! "

It’s not all about pics, a comment is enough to pique my interest

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Interesting when people sound surprised at the volume and types of messages they get, they clearly crave that kind of stranger attention

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have none and that’s fine. I’m not verified yet on this account and I have not messaged anyone yet . My time will come for the odd one or two but it’s quality not quantity that counts ."

Ah I miss having this kinda hope.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"You have 0 public pics so hardly shocking! "

I have loads of public pics, and I don't get 100s of messages a day. I might get a couple now and then, maybe 10 when I'm in Manchester or somewhere that isn't the back of beyond.

I don't really look at messages unless I'm actually conversing with someone (usually from a forum thread) and I'm not that fussed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as we only look for guys for fun as we get couples and women away from fab quite easy so our male filters are wide open as we rely on the block button to control .. same with my (fem) single account so if a meet sign goes up then it floods and to be honest i think this is what others mean too the meet sign attracts i guess ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP’s “it’s almost 175 replies so you can try out that thing we were talking about Klaxon”

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP’s “it’s almost 175 replies so you can try out that thing we were talking about Klaxon” "

I know but I'm literally about to workout!!!

I may miss it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP’s “it’s almost 175 replies so you can try out that thing we were talking about Klaxon”

I know but I'm literally about to workout!!!

I may miss it "

Quick let’s fill the thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP’s “it’s almost 175 replies so you can try out that thing we were talking about Klaxon”

I know but I'm literally about to workout!!!

I may miss it

Quick let’s fill the thread "

Full now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See? It works!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do ya mean you can’t do it?

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Do what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Do what? "

Can’t say. It’s a secret

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