FabSwingers.com forum: Single females

By *ypruswingers OP Couple
over a year ago

ROMFORD

Why is it so hard to find a bi-female to play with a couple?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we aren't toys.

I know I know, my bio states straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because pretty much all the couples want a bi female to join them, I’m guessing?

Good luck in your search though.

I’d like a bi lady to join me too!

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By *ps4funCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

"Why is it so hard to find a bi-female to play with a couple?

We are wondering too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it so hard to find a bi-female to play with a couple?

A club environment is much better , a singleton will feel safer & more relaxed, works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because we aren't toys.

I know I know, my bio states straight. "

Straight to the point.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Lots of reasons….

Don’t want to be treat as a plaything to simply fulfil a couples fantasy

Safety

3 way attraction

Could be already talking to others and have plans in place.

This is one of the reasons why is stick to clubs too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because pretty much all the couples want a bi female to join them, I’m guessing?

Good luck in your search though.

I’d like a bi lady to join me too!

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By *ociable-NottmCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Ultimately it’s a tough dynamic for reasons explained above, truly if you can put the work in you may find what your looking for, wishing you all the best op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not easy for women to find the right kind of couples either.

To find attraction to one person is difficult enough!

I also find alot of couples only have pics of the female half while the unseen male half controls the fabmin side of things

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We have no shortage of women interested in us. I think women feel comfortable around us because we only meet them because we like them, not because we have an agenda. We don't have to have sex with somebody to be pleased to know and hang out with them. Anything sexual that happens is a bonus, not a requirement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can answer this.

I met a couple last week after a social meet. I met them at there’s and we played. We were all equally involved which I like.

About 10 minutes after it was suggested I could either leave or move to the spare room.

I can’t speak for their emotions but I can for mine. I felt totally used. I wasn’t asking to stay for breakfast but I also didn’t want to feel used and that I could’ve been anyone

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"I can answer this.

I met a couple last week after a social meet. I met them at there’s and we played. We were all equally involved which I like.

About 10 minutes after it was suggested I could either leave or move to the spare room.

I can’t speak for their emotions but I can for mine. I felt totally used. I wasn’t asking to stay for breakfast but I also didn’t want to feel used and that I could’ve been anyone "

I'm sorry that happened to you. I can understand how hurtful that would be.

When we have threesomes with our lady friend, we open up our home and our bed to her and want to make her as welcome and comfortable as possible. We eat together and talk.

She is free to stay or go as she wishes. We didn't try to keep anything to ourselves. Everything involved her to the extent she wanted to be. It was definitely three, not two plus one.

I think we did OK because she wouldn't come back otherwise.

I hope that if you try it again you will be treated respectfully.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Because pretty much all the couples want a bi female to join them, I’m guessing?

Good luck in your search though.

I’d like a bi lady to join me too!

We don't. No interest in bi (or straight) single females at all.

OP I suspect its hard because

a.) Single females are the smallest demographic on Fab

b.) Whilst she may fancy one of you the odds on her being attracted to both are much slimmer

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c.) Many couples profiles are written as if the extra female will be a plaything to satisfy their urges rather than an equal partner.

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