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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you've decided you are never gonna have sex again, should you even be here??

On fab I mean, not like living and stuff.

I don't mean on a whim when some dickheads annoyed you. I mean on a serious note. For a multitude of reasons, but in the end, you just know it's never gonna happen.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm nearly in this position

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do you, hun.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

People use fab for lots of different reasons. No reasons why those not looking for sex shouldn't be x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You do you, hun."

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You do you, hun.

this "

That

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it provides a good test of your will

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By *otdave75Man
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford

Why not? You can still flirt, chat etc. if you get something out of it just stay, if you don’t, go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people will try and kick you out. Say you shouldn't be here. I think people can and should do what they want on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You do you, hun.

this

That

You ok, hun?

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

If you've taken a vow of celibacy, you're probably in a religious order and a Fab membership will be incompatible with your belief system.

For everyone else, crack on

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By *tylebender03Man
over a year ago

Manchester

No there’s other websites for people that don’t want to have sex. Scrabble.com, Model Railways.com, Knitting.com...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You do you, hun.

this

That

You ok, hun?"

Those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you've decided you are never gonna have sex again, should you even be here??

On fab I mean, not like living and stuff.

I don't mean on a whim when some dickheads annoyed you. I mean on a serious note. For a multitude of reasons, but in the end, you just know it's never gonna happen.

Honest truth, I'm genuinely here for the interaction of conversation and forums. I'm at an age now where sex isn't an end all and be all of fun, I've had an amazing sex life with a bucket list filled numerous times, so if I never have sex again it seriously wouldn't bother me

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I'd really wonder why someone would choose to be here if they didn't have any interest in sex whatsoever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd really wonder why someone would choose to be here if they didn't have any interest in sex whatsoever "

They like talking to the people here maybe?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd really wonder why someone would choose to be here if they didn't have any interest in sex whatsoever "

Fair point

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'd really wonder why someone would choose to be here if they didn't have any interest in sex whatsoever "

I regularly take breaks from meeting on here due to personal reasons/circumstances....I still use the site to keep in touch with people I've known for years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely meet for sex on here. Sometimes I do wonder why I am on here. Honestly, I’d rather date and get to know someone well, emotionally connect and have something more meaningful to me but It’s hard for me to maintain a relationship, I’ve been single for so long now, so I find myself back here often to fill the void. It’s just finding someone I click with enough to want to have sex with them is the hard part for me. I’m not compatible with most people who message me. I do enjoy reading the forums though, they keep me hanging around.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"I'd really wonder why someone would choose to be here if they didn't have any interest in sex whatsoever

I regularly take breaks from meeting on here due to personal reasons/circumstances....I still use the site to keep in touch with people I've known for years."

I don't think that's quite the same as having no interest whatsoever in sex

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"I rarely meet for sex on here. Sometimes I do wonder why I am on here. Honestly, I’d rather date and get to know someone well, emotionally connect and have something more meaningful to me but It’s hard for me to maintain a relationship, I’ve been single for so long now, so I find myself back here often to fill the void. It’s just finding someone I click with enough to want to have sex with them is the hard part for me. I’m not compatible with most people who message me. I do enjoy reading the forums though, they keep me hanging around.

That’s exactly where I am at as well and I really do enjoy reading forums and keep in touch with people. As for the sex part - not so much. Been asking myself the same question OP.

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By *unseeker100Man
over a year ago

batley

"I'd really wonder why someone would choose to be here if they didn't have any interest in sex whatsoever "

Lots of people can't meet for lots of reasons. Doesn't mean their pussy isn't getting wet or their cock isn't getting hard had a lot of great conversations with people who can't meet and it can be very erotic

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'd really wonder why someone would choose to be here if they didn't have any interest in sex whatsoever

I regularly take breaks from meeting on here due to personal reasons/circumstances....I still use the site to keep in touch with people I've known for years.

I don't think that's quite the same as having no interest whatsoever in sex "

That's one part of the personal reasons...I have no sexual interest in anyone at that time. Does that mean I should delete my profile and restart when those reasons change?

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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

I'm just here for the forums, it keeps me sane when I'm wide awake at 4am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone can do what they like, but if it was me and I knew I never wanted to have sex again or be remotely interested in that ever again for whatever reason, all the people I chat too and like to stay in touch with/have social only meets with, I'd probably move that off elsewhere and delete my profile to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you've decided you are never gonna have sex again, should you even be here??

On fab I mean, not like living and stuff.

I don't mean on a whim when some dickheads annoyed you. I mean on a serious note. For a multitude of reasons, but in the end, you just know it's never gonna happen.

Have you come to this decision?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd really wonder why someone would choose to be here if they didn't have any interest in sex whatsoever

I regularly take breaks from meeting on here due to personal reasons/circumstances....I still use the site to keep in touch with people I've known for years.

I don't think that's quite the same as having no interest whatsoever in sex "

No but I rarely feel sexual desire. Well I can feel horny and sort myself out but rarely want to have sex.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

This thread dispells the notion that everyone on here is at it like rats up a pump..except for me

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

"If you've decided you are never gonna have sex again, should you even be here?"

Why not? I don't get why people would be so interested as to why other people choose to be here. It's a personal choice surely.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Just because you don't physically want to have sex anymore doesn't mean you don't enjoy a sexual atmosphere. People say all the time that swinging is more than just sex. It's a lifestyle and a community to enjoy.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Sex is disgusting, sinful and should only be done with procreation in mind...

...whoops, I should really learn to read the room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isn’t a sex site is it? It’s a site to use for many reasons no?? Interacting with like minded people? Sharing fantasises? Sharing experiences? Building friendships and connections?

Just because there’s no sex doesn’t mean there can’t be other stimulations right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you've decided you are never gonna have sex again, should you even be here??

On fab I mean, not like living and stuff.

I don't mean on a whim when some dickheads annoyed you. I mean on a serious note. For a multitude of reasons, but in the end, you just know it's never gonna happen.

Have you come to this decision?"

Yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you've decided you are never gonna have sex again, should you even be here??

On fab I mean, not like living and stuff.

I don't mean on a whim when some dickheads annoyed you. I mean on a serious note. For a multitude of reasons, but in the end, you just know it's never gonna happen.

Have you come to this decision?

Yeah"

Drastic

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

There's nothing in the rules to say we have to meet for sex from here.

There's plenty to see and do without having to undress.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Fabs plays such a tiny role in my sex life that it doesn’t matter

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you've decided you are never gonna have sex again, should you even be here??

On fab I mean, not like living and stuff.

I don't mean on a whim when some dickheads annoyed you. I mean on a serious note. For a multitude of reasons, but in the end, you just know it's never gonna happen.

Have you come to this decision?

Yeah

Drastic

Not really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just stay on fab for the forums and all the hilarious posters and if you start feeling a bit horny strum the skittle to keep you going until you get the urge again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just stay on fab for the forums and all the hilarious posters and if you start feeling a bit horny strum the skittle to keep you going until you get the urge again."

Seems like a cracking idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you've decided you are never gonna have sex again, should you even be here??

On fab I mean, not like living and stuff.

I don't mean on a whim when some dickheads annoyed you. I mean on a serious note. For a multitude of reasons, but in the end, you just know it's never gonna happen.

Have you come to this decision?

Yeah

Drastic

Not really. "

Just hang about, be a nosey twat and piss about in the forums and flirt a bit

I’m the archetypal time waster on here me.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just stay on fab for the forums and all the hilarious posters and if you start feeling a bit horny strum the skittle to keep you going until you get the urge again."

Yes, ^ this

I don't know you personally OP but I do know that you have a beautiful and vibrant personality that lights up the forums, and your posts have made me smile, and often chuckle, on some very dark days..thank you

You won't feel like this forever, I promise. Sending hugs

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I'm am just here to perv tits n ass.

Seriously though as a 60 year old single guy the chance of me meeting someone for sex is minimal, so it's more about the social side, with the occasional shag thrown in

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

Is it really that you don't want to have sex anymore or is it that you want to have sex with a very specific type of man...that 0.001% of men type....the cream de la crem... the Ryan Reynolds of Ryan's...that type...that's just a bit harder to find? Are you sure it's not that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No the sites no just about the shenanigans.

There's quality friendships to enjoy.

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