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By *notherGent OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster

What’s everyone’s views on your pictures being fabbed? Do you consider messaging the person who has sent it or just look and pass by? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really tend to look at who has fabbed my pictures. I'm unlikely to message someone just because they have fabbed a photo of mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d definitely have a look back at them and see if there was any attraction and go from there.

Remember that a lot of people fab pictures based on the quality of the picture not just as a sign of attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pics only get fabbed by men so no I don’t message them when they fab lol

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

I usually look at their profile, and only message if we match, otherwise I'll probably just 'return the compliment '.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My pics only get fabbed by men so no I don’t message them when they fab lol "

That’s a shame, you have some great pictures on your profile too

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

I rarely get any fabs and it's generally from men so I don't normally follow up.

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By *etterdays2021Man
over a year ago

PETERBOROUGH

Never been fabed so i wouldn't know.

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By *xploring123Couple
over a year ago

Maidstone

I just fabbed you

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Pay zero attention to who's fabbing photos 99.9% of the time and no, wouldn't message anyone from that either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fab photos with wild abandonment. Generally just because I like that pic, or it caught my eye. Doesn't mean much beyond that really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My pics only get fabbed by men so no I don’t message them when they fab lol

That’s a shame, you have some great pictures on your profile too "

Thank you for your kind words. I appreciate you liking what you see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My pics only get fabbed by men so no I don’t message them when they fab lol "

Same here although it says straight on my profile

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By *he Artful TodgerMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire but travel


"I fab photos with wild abandonment. Generally just because I like that pic, or it caught my eye. Doesn't mean much beyond that really "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I fab photos with wild abandonment. Generally just because I like that pic, or it caught my eye. Doesn't mean much beyond that really

This…"

It’s still a compliment though even though it’s from someone that doesn’t match your sexual preferences

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By *notherGent OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster

I find myself fabbing every pic on a profile sometimes just because they’re all brilliant to look at and the bio adds to it x

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By *ouple4PlayXCouple
over a year ago

Essex


"What’s everyone’s views on your pictures being fabbed? Do you consider messaging the person who has sent it or just look and pass by? x"

I see it as a compliment and no denying it gets you seen. That’s how I see it anyway x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I never bother looking to see who's fabbed mine, and I don't send pre-emptive messages anyway

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By *notherGent OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"What’s everyone’s views on your pictures being fabbed? Do you consider messaging the person who has sent it or just look and pass by? x

I see it as a compliment and no denying it gets you seen. That’s how I see it anyway x"

Yeaah it’s definitely a compliment, or at least meant as one anyways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a total compliment /show of appreciation! Can be a nice ice breaker and show a level of interest. I have been know to message thanking people for the fab of my photos. I have also used it to show my interest when I cannot contact said individual too. Paving the way for them to contact me if they do wish.

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By *notherGent OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster

That is exactly how I see them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a total compliment /show of appreciation! Can be a nice ice breaker and show a level of interest. I have been know to message thanking people for the fab of my photos. I have also used it to show my interest when I cannot contact said individual too. Paving the way for them to contact me if they do wish. "

But does it always work out? Case in point I clicked on your profile and noted you winked me 4mths ago... I never even look at my winks, so we could either get on brill, or maybe not? But I'd have frankly no idea? As we never chatted. But I'd not respond to a wink as I don't look at them... Same for pic Fabbing... Ain't nobody got time for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a total compliment /show of appreciation! Can be a nice ice breaker and show a level of interest. I have been know to message thanking people for the fab of my photos. I have also used it to show my interest when I cannot contact said individual too. Paving the way for them to contact me if they do wish.

But does it always work out? Case in point I clicked on your profile and noted you winked me 4mths ago... I never even look at my winks, so we could either get on brill, or maybe not? But I'd have frankly no idea? As we never chatted. But I'd not respond to a wink as I don't look at them... Same for pic Fabbing... Ain't nobody got time for that "

There lies the answer; sadly not always

So it definitely can be a wasted opportunity and it goes to show the best way to truly show appreciation and break the ice is via a message to the profile holder(s)

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Sometimes I'll message to say thanks for the fab

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I have a look who's fabbed, but wouldn't message anyone.

I fab pics because I like the pics, not necessarily because I want to meet or chat.

Mrs

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By *anJXMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Appreciate the fabs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I fab photos with wild abandonment. Generally just because I like that pic, or it caught my eye. Doesn't mean much beyond that really "

I do that too, it’s just nice to be nice

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"I have a look who's fabbed, but wouldn't message anyone.

I fab pics because I like the pics, not necessarily because I want to meet or chat.

Mrs "

Yeah that's what the whole point of fabbing a pic is because you like it

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I (Luke) have a look at who has fabbed us occasionally, just out of curiosity. Sometimes people we like have fabbed us which is always nice to know. It means we're not dreadful in their eyes!

I don't think I've ever responded directly to a fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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I’ll message back otherwise I won’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My view is that you posted a picture showing flesh on a site full of horny fuckers, so obviously it means you are fucking amazing and the best thing ever if they fab it.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I never look x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab if you’d fuck x

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By *histle do nicelyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow South

For some reason I get more fabs from TVs... A compliment is a compliment ...when it's a woman I usually return the complment

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

I fab a picture if I like it. I presume others do the same.

I don’t read anything into someone dropping a fab on a picture of mine

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"I never look x"

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't assume a fab of our pictures is an invite to message.

We have returned fabs though of those that have caught our eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t message people thanking them for a fab

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I appreciate a good picture so I fab a lot.

Don’t pay any attention to my pictures being fabbed though, in fact, I think I even have the fab option off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If ibsee a woman whonhas her age range set one year below my age then I may FAB a picture hoping she has a little look at me and sends he a quick hello...

Have to try and show here I'm out here lusting after her... she NEEDS to give me a chance... I love her... i want to live inside he skin... I want to drink her bath water

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i do look who,s fabbed my pictures which is nice,, but dont message back mainly because i feel i would be pestering them,,

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By *arrenandhisduckCouple
over a year ago

blackpool

We rarely look who it was normal a mix of couples and singles on ours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never looked, if you like, then message..simples

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Always check mine, if there’s a hotlistee or someone I’ve had my eye on, that’s my green light to wink

Especially love getting fabs from the ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a total compliment /show of appreciation! Can be a nice ice breaker and show a level of interest. I have been know to message thanking people for the fab of my photos. I have also used it to show my interest when I cannot contact said individual too. Paving the way for them to contact me if they do wish. "

I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with this approach but this will be the main reason single men don’t get many fabs on pictures from women and couples.

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By *agicfingers1Man
over a year ago

near Brighton


"My pics only get fabbed by men so no I don’t message them when they fab lol "

Same here lol

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By *he Artful TodgerMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire but travel


"I fab photos with wild abandonment. Generally just because I like that pic, or it caught my eye. Doesn't mean much beyond that really

This…

It’s still a compliment though even though it’s from someone that doesn’t match your sexual preferences "

That’s the key word, compliment, in its simplest form someone admired the picture, and demonstrates it with a fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fab what i like if i get fabbed cool but im not gonna chase the vag just cos a girl likes my willy takes more effort than a hi to get my winky excited

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I wouldn't message them,but if they had some pics I liked ,I'd fab some in return.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

No I've never considered messaging anyone on the basis of a fab. The majority of fabs I get are from men anyway.

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By *immyGGMan
over a year ago

South Cheshire

A fab on one of my pics is that rare that I run a victory lap around the block when it happens! After that I'd definitely thank the fabber if they're what I'm looking for.

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By *akingMemoriesMan
over a year ago

Toronto


"My pics only get fabbed by men so no I don’t message them when they fab lol "

Same here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I replied to every fab on my pictures I'd have no time for the forums...honestly;)

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I don't have the 'fab' option active. I don't feel that need. I know that my pics are fabulous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not bothered either way do or don’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re female and say you’d consider messaging someone who had fabbed your pics

Expect a fab from the OP

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By *ANDA!Man
over a year ago

DUMFRIES

Mine only ever get fabbed by men, so no, I never message

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No to many to message just take them for what they are really a like x

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