FabSwingers.com forum: Winks

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Who sends them? Do you check when you get them?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I got one just now...it was a bloke though ..just hoping I was fab straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope… I don’t think I’ve ever checked them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send them

I check them

Missy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I notice them but don't send them, prefer just to send a message x

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

I send them.

If I get them I look (a lot of the winks I get are probably blocked as they are from single men).

If I get a wink that's from couples or single women I respond.

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By *oungAtHeartCurvyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We check them and read thier profile if we like what we see we will wink back or send a message x

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By *ack_at_the_farm....Man
over a year ago

woodhall spa

Wink back if appropriate and then message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send them if someone is far away but I like their profile. It’s kind of my way of giving a compliment without wasting their time and mine by messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really or friend invites.

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By *cotsman269Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

Hardly check as I get none ha ha

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By *notherGentMan
over a year ago

doncaster

I was just about to post a thread about winks as for me they are more effective than composing a message to receive to reply

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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago

Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove

I bulk delete them, just don’t see the point.

I don’t look at profiles where someone has winked, it just laziness on their behalf.

If someone is interested they’ll message, if they’re not then they should just flick to the next profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I check them. Sometimes I think I’d prefer winks to messages because I get overwhelmed with too many messages. Then I just respond to the ones that catch my eye/meet my requirements. I think the last time I checked the message filters, you could turn off getting messages from people by blocking everyone but that also stopped people winking at you too. Be nice if you could turn off messaging but keep the winks.

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

What's a wink?

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By *notherGentMan
over a year ago

doncaster

"I check them. Sometimes I think I’d prefer winks to messages because I get overwhelmed with too many messages. Then I just respond to the ones that catch my eye/meet my requirements. I think the last time I checked the message filters, you could turn off getting messages from people by blocking everyone but that also stopped people winking at you too. Be nice if you could turn off messaging but keep the winks. "

This is exactly why I opt for the wink just because I know gem/ couple profiles get overrun with messages

but if winks aren’t for a particular profile then that’s that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I've ever sent a wink. I kind of don't see the point in them to be honest.

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By *notherGentMan
over a year ago

doncaster

Personal preference and all that

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By *tarkersandcrutchCouple
over a year ago

TELFORD

We always check. We reply if we are interested.

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By *etItSwing1991Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yeah i check and reply if feel i want to

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By *anJXMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Send

Checks

Deletes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope… I don’t think I’ve ever checked them

You won’t ever see the wink I’ve left you then

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By *ig rig hullMan
over a year ago

Hull

"Nope… I don’t think I’ve ever checked them

You won’t ever see the wink I’ve left you then

Smooth haha

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We send and check them occasionally. We'd rather get a wink than a shit message.

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

I send them sometimes, it's testing the water to let someone know I'm interested and see if they respond.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I never look. I prefer the direct approach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send them in forum games and also to friends.

I’ve sent some out when I was perving before too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never look. I prefer the direct approach x"

Well, good morning

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I never look. I prefer the direct approach x

Well, good morning

Good morning to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never look. I prefer the direct approach x

Well, good morning

Good morning to you

How direct exactly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a lazy way of showing interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its a lazy way of showing interest. "

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

I send them if it’s a forum game. Other than that no I don’t send them.

I have no need to check them as I don’t receive them

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We never send them first. We read the profile of any we get and wink back if interested, many have lead to meets.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Unless it’s a form game, I don’t bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont send them, dont get them...only from guys trying to tempt me to the dark side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't usually bother, if I'm interested I'd rather send a message. I don't often look at them either, they just get bulk deleted most of the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Seems like a bit of mix of all the options here when it comes to winks. Also morning all

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By *orkswatcherMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I send them, I know a lot hate it but to me it's a good ice breaker

I'll always reply to a wink

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

It's an incongruous feature.

The last woman who sent me a wink was a Rum drinker.

Never again.

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Ladies I’m happy to be winked

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By *hinstrapMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

Winks are nice chilled easy way to say I'm here. Have a look. Alway check them out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t blame people for winking, especially if their messages get constantly ignored. As I said I prefer receiving winks. I can understand why others prefer to receive a message. I hope they keep the wink feature.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Ladies I’m happy to be winked

I thought that said wanked

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Ladies I’m happy to be winked

I thought that said wanked

Oh you tease Sparkles

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