FabSwingers.com forum: Bad days suck, how do you cope with them.

By *otdave75 OP Man
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford

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By *ovingeachotherCouple
over a year ago

Devizes

Sex x

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By *otdave75 OP Man
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford

I wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope that the next one is better

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Cake

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By *otdave75 OP Man
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford

"Hope that the next one is better "

Thanks

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By *otdave75 OP Man
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford

"Cake"

Wish it were that simple, should have protected then better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remembering the past .embrace the suck.. but it depends on life experience on how you engage that day.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Put on some upbeat music, watch Ron coms, go for a walk, talk to my dogs, talk to myself, have a hot bath, go on a cleaning frenzy.

Anything to take your mind off things for a bit.

Take things one step at a time.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Sleeping and music

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move on to the next day and learn from the day before x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put on some upbeat music (always). Think positive.

Maybe play a little bit of guitar. Surf Fab

(Not necessarily in that order - fab is rather addictive).

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By *otdave75 OP Man
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford

Thanks everyone, love to see support of strangers ???? Honestly thank you

Unfortunately not that easy, just working out that myself and my kids have been mentally abused for the last 5+ years. I am stunned that I let it happen., I saw it but didn’t see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone, love to see support of strangers ???? Honestly thank you

Unfortunately not that easy, just working out that myself and my kids have been mentally abused for the last 5+ years. I am stunned that I let it happen., I saw it but didn’t see it"

I actually know where you're coming from, I would of put up with anything to still be with my kid everyday but thats not for the best for anyone. 2 happy parents that are apart is better for them than unhappy ones that stay together

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By *otdave75 OP Man
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford

"Thanks everyone, love to see support of strangers ???? Honestly thank you

Unfortunately not that easy, just working out that myself and my kids have been mentally abused for the last 5+ years. I am stunned that I let it happen., I saw it but didn’t see it

Cheers, the problem is she refuses to sell the house, and I can’t afford to pay rent, mortgage, bills etc for two places

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speak to the citizens advice bureau, they'll point you in the right direction and tell you what you can do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone, love to see support of strangers ???? Honestly thank you

Unfortunately not that easy, just working out that myself and my kids have been mentally abused for the last 5+ years. I am stunned that I let it happen., I saw it but didn’t see it

Cheers, the problem is she refuses to sell the house, and I can’t afford to pay rent, mortgage, bills etc for two places"
I feel your pain.. my husband was deployed she cheated . I was there for him. The courts chose her and we have both children from his previous marriage living with us. Yet he has to pay alimony.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You see no matter what your day is. Embrace the suck.. it's a statement I learned. We all have those days.

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By *otdave75 OP Man
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford

"Speak to the citizens advice bureau, they'll point you in the right direction and tell you what you can do. "

Already have, and hired a lawyer as well, waste of money. Sorry, didn’t mean to bring tone down

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Play my music loud and grab the weights, shower and go shopping for alcohol and food comfort eating

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

I try to laugh or see the funny side or find something that amuses me. Turning awkward things into humour gets me through the day.

At the moment boy do I need to see the funny side of things...

Failing that listening to "The All American Rejects" track "Move Along." The lyrics really speak to you? Well, they do for me....

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By *otdave75 OP Man
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford

"Play my music loud and grab the weights, shower and go shopping for alcohol and food comfort eating "

Dog on shoulders, whisky in hand portishead on headphones

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By *otdave75 OP Man
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford

Tbh, it’s more the fact I let my kids down, I should have taken them out of this years ago, not about my shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a day today, so I bought myself an entire cherry pie and a tin of custard which I will consume over the next 2-3 days because I do have 'some' self control.

Hot cherry pie and custard, a cup of tea and familiar nonsense on the TV while playing mindless games on my phone has improved my evening.

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By *otdave75 OP Man
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford

Can you delete a string? Loadsa bollox should never have put it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you delete a string? Loadsa bollox should never have put it up"

You can delete the whole thread if its yours, can't remember how tho

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By *otdave75 OP Man
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford

"My meds normally help but today’s been a bad day so probably won’t sleep tonight

Me too, I take citalopram, but I have had a sudden realisation that I’m an arse, dunno if that’s would have made i difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a breakdown couple of years back found it very hard to get back to where I wanted to be. Better now and I can tell if I’m feeling low and keeping busy helps me. We have a dog now long walks and just being with him is fantastic coz dogs don’t dwell on anything.

Also recently got large shed which is my workshop and I can spend hours in there making bits.

Excercise too big help for me too.

Life can be hard try to look forward as no one can change the past.

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By *otdave75 OP Man
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford

"Had a breakdown couple of years back found it very hard to get back to where I wanted to be. Better now and I can tell if I’m feeling low and keeping busy helps me. We have a dog now long walks and just being with him is fantastic coz dogs don’t dwell on anything.

Also recently got large shed which is my workshop and I can spend hours in there making bits.

Excercise too big help for me too.

Life can be hard try to look forward as no one can change the past. "

My dog walks keep me sane, he is honestly my life line. I.m building onto my mouse at the moment, gonna take ages, but keeps me busy when my min goes wondering

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By *otdave75 OP Man
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford

Also recently got large shed which is my workshop and I can spend hours in there making bits.

Excercise too big help for me too.

Life can be hard try to look forward as no one can change the past.

My dog walks keep me sane, he is honestly my life line. I.m building onto my mouse at the moment, gonna take ages, but keeps me busy when my min goes wondering"

Mouse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at the gorgeous women on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also recently got large shed which is my workshop and I can spend hours in there making bits.

Excercise too big help for me too.

Life can be hard try to look forward as no one can change the past.

My dog walks keep me sane, he is honestly my life line. I.m building onto my mouse at the moment, gonna take ages, but keeps me busy when my min goes wondering

Mouse

I hear those mouse extensions can be a headache

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Getting out is helpful so fabulous you have a dog as they are great company.

Remember times change and you will have better days.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I go to the gym and lift heavy stuff and hit things

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Oh, or crash into other disabled people at high speed and throw stuff around

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By *otdave75 OP Man
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford

Shit happens, just don’t want my kids to end up like me, history seems to repeat itself

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Upbeat “I am awesome” type music I have a whole playlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Music, talking to someone, journalling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a bath and feel sorry for myself

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

You learn to battle with your demons to the point you just live with them .. take each day as it comes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By reminding myself that nothing lasts forever. The same sentiment makes you appreciate the goods days more.

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

"By reminding myself that nothing lasts forever. The same sentiment makes you appreciate the goods days more.

This is pretty much spot on

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