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How do people being discreet go about sending a face photo?

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By *inful sessions OP   Man
over a year ago

hampshire

I see a lot of profiles that say discreet that ask for a face picture of yourself but they don't have one. What if it's your best friends wife/husband for example where is the discreet line? And how do people trust they will be kept discreet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can set photos to disappear from a PM once they've been seen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a lottery.

Share with people close by and you risk being exposed.

But then people fib about their location and you risk being exposed.

I guessing it worries someone that much, maybe it's not for them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're a site supporter then you can get away the photos disappearing.

Alternatively don't play so close to home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s up to the person responding to the profile if getting their dick wet or pussy moist (but let’s be honest, mostly the former) is prepared to balance the risk of being “outed” vs the potential of a sneaky leg-trembler down the line.

A pragmatic approach to who you message and a level of due diligence should be ok. The chance of accidently messaging your colleague or the wife’s best mate is pretty low, to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s up to the person responding to the profile if getting their dick wet or pussy moist (but let’s be honest, mostly the former) is prepared to balance the risk of being “outed” vs the potential of a sneaky leg-trembler down the line.

A pragmatic approach to who you message and a level of due diligence should be ok. The chance of accidently messaging your colleague or the wife’s best mate is pretty low, to be fair "

It genuinely happened to me with a colleague...#awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if I had that level of paranoia that just sharing a face pic is a huge risk I'd probably decide that swinging isn't for me.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

If people ask for a face pic without showing their own first then I generally block. That makes sure they are discrete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can set photos to disappear from a PM once they've been seen. "

They can be screenshot before they disappear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" It's a lottery.

Share with people close by and you risk being exposed.

But then people fib about their location and you risk being exposed.

I guessing it worries someone that much, maybe it's not for them? "

Yep agree.

I'm fully aware of this and staggered at the number of folk who blinded assume folk they know won't find out .. never give out face pictures to anybody within 10 miles odds and mostly because I know a lot of folk around and folk talk. People wrongly assume I. Must be married. Wrong ! I'm just being private ..

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

My face is on show.. I have nothing to hide. If someone recognises me, good on em.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I privately send after having abit of a conversation.

Nikki x

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"You can set photos to disappear from a PM once they've been seen.

They can be screenshot before they disappear. "

Oh yes. I have had my screenshot photo sent back to me. I was a silver site supporter and used the remove photo when viewed option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can set photos to disappear from a PM once they've been seen.

They can be screenshot before they disappear. "

That's true.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"My face is on show.. I have nothing to hide. If someone recognises me, good on em. "

It's not a question of having nothing to hide, it can be about safety, discretion for say family purposes or jobs.

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By *inful sessions OP   Man
over a year ago

hampshire

It's very strange I've seen it on a lot of profiles and wondered how they do it with the risk/reward ratio lots of very interesting valid points

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

What would you do if you wanted to meet someone? Put a paper bag over your head?

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I send one with a first message. It's not guess who

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By *inful sessions OP   Man
over a year ago

hampshire


"What would you do if you wanted to meet someone? Put a paper bag over your head?

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I'm talking about the start of messaging each other people seem to instantly want a photo without sending one initially

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you do if you wanted to meet someone? Put a paper bag over your head?

I'm talking about the start of messaging each other people seem to instantly want a photo without sending one initially "

Don't know if you are aware but if you right click/ long press on your profile pic you can Open pic in new tab and make it bigger and see your face.

Some people don't realise this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be cautious if they're local.. and obvs only if verified

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