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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does and look at there winks? Do they get your attention or do you just not bother looking?

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I look, but its usually from men

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Only if I was in on a "wink thread".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does and look at there winks? Do they get your attention or do you just not bother looking?"

When I was on here before I tended to look at them once a year and then just delete the two or three that had built up

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I do

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I dont get winked ..or very very rarely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After much research, I've realised it's pretty much useless.

Messaging is only, marginally better in terms of getting a response.

And even then haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i look to see if i want to wear there piss flaps as a cagoule now its raining

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I like a good wink.

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

When i get a wink i look. I use winks myself as away of showing interest, If i get one back I ALWAYS respond with a message. but winks are so far and few between that i dunno if they have a place on here anymore.

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By *arriedcoupleNECouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We look and send but don't understand the etiquette behind winks.

Where you have mutual winks who should take up the baton and take the next step to messages? First winker or reciprocator?

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By *edplusoneCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"We look and send but don't understand the etiquette behind winks.

Where you have mutual winks who should take up the baton and take the next step to messages? First winker or reciprocator?"

We don’t mind a wink, and will send one if there is some interest. First winker should message we think x

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By *oldenbrownMan
over a year ago

Sussex

What I most enjoy about winks is sending a message thanking person(s) for the wink and asking if they might want to find out about each other only to never hear from them again.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I always forget about winks. Never look at them and when I notice there is loads in there I just bulk delete them

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley


"Does and look at there winks? Do they get your attention or do you just not bother looking?"

They do for me

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By *edplusoneCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"What I most enjoy about winks is sending a message thanking person(s) for the wink and asking if they might want to find out about each other only to never hear from them again."

That happens to us too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks from hidden profiles...what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like receiving a wink. I always send a wee "thank you" message and sometimes it can lead to a bit of chat. I appreciate them and I also send them.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"I like a good wink. "

Sorry, I meant wank. I like a good wank. Bloody autocorrect …

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"Does and look at there winks? Do they get your attention or do you just not bother looking?"

Can't be bothered with them. Have winked back and nothing happens 99% of.the time. Have messaged people back and just been blanked also 99% of time.

If youre interested, message. Winks mean nothing in the grand scheme of it. Being shy gets you nowhere.youre gonna have to talked eventually if you want to meet so why beat around the bush?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They do get my attention purely because I hardly get them and when I do it peaks my curiosity

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So the single guys look at the winks but couples and ladies don’t bother lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at them but ignore them. 99% are from people that don’t match our preferences.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Never look x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I ignore mine!

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Never look x"

So that was a waste of time 2 yrs ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only if I was in on a "wink thread".

"
snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice thought but unfortunately abused by people! Personally I think it’s nice to get a wink from someone

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge


"We look and send but don't understand the etiquette behind winks.

Where you have mutual winks who should take up the baton and take the next step to messages? First winker or reciprocator?"

We sometimes use a wink to gauge interest, if we get one back I will then take the time to message and send picks.

First to wink should message I think.

But also, it can be easy to miss a wink, especially on days where the profile is getting lots (after a new photo ect) so always safer to send a decent message if you want to stand out IMO

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Never look x

So that was a waste of time 2 yrs ago "

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I rarely look because it's rare someone has winked who matches what I'm looking for .

Usually they're everything but !

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By *ockhandlerMan
over a year ago

visiting nearby soon

Sure, I check who winks but when they have no pics or you can't respond to them due to your gender but would thank them for the wink, as, you never know!

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By *ew2thiskinkCouple
over a year ago

Waterford

We do look. And if we like someone we give them a wink. If they wink back them we send a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at use the winks

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I like winks some of my best meets started with a wink

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I always check my winks and love sending them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look, but its usually from men"

Bet they try enticing you with a pork pie

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"I look, but its usually from men

Bet they try enticing you with a pork pie "

Sadly not. My love of pork pies has only recently come to light

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't look at them. I guess I should but I am too busy on here yapping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we look at them and sometimes wink back....

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"we look at them and sometimes wink back...."

*Checks new winks*

Nope. Damn.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Any form of communication in here as a man is much appreciated

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By *weetsmellingtreatsWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Does and look at there winks? Do they get your attention or do you just not bother looking?"

Just delete taking no notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only if I was in on a "wink thread".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't look tbh it's hard enough keeping up with messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we look at them and sometimes wink back....

*Checks new winks*

Nope. Damn. "

there you go

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By *ack_at_the_farm....Man
over a year ago

woodhall spa

I think you would be a fibber if you said you didn’t. We humans be very curious creatures

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