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"What is a period dignity officer?" This ^^ | |||
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"What is a period dignity officer? This ^^" I mean. Could Google but having read it on the forum, I'm not that brave | |||
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"What is a period dignity officer? This ^^ I mean. Could Google but having read it on the forum, I'm not that brave " I just can’t be arsed | |||
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"What is a period dignity officer? This ^^ I mean. Could Google but having read it on the forum, I'm not that brave I just can’t be arsed " That's the spirit Nora | |||
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"What is a period dignity officer? This ^^ I mean. Could Google but having read it on the forum, I'm not that brave I just can’t be arsed " | |||
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""Mr Grant is expected to lead a regional campaign across schools, colleges and wider communities to raise awareness of the new law and ensure that Scottish government funding is allocated appropriately. Right to free period products becomes law Period products for NHS staff 'a basic necessity' What is period poverty and what difference will the law make? The job advert said the suitable candidate needed a "successful track record of engaging and empowering a large range of people from a diverse range of cultural and socio-economic backgrounds, in particular young people who menstruate"."" He must suffer from bleedy cock syndrome then | |||
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"Why can't it be a man looks like it's ok for women to be sexists " How can a man, who will never experience menstruation, have any kind of empathy derived from experience? | |||
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"I have to ask what would prompt a man to apply for such a job? It specifically means talking to women and girls about periods. It's a more suitable and appropriate position for a woman. Schoolgirls would be much more likely to respond to and engage with a woman. " Does it or does it mean leading a team that does that? | |||
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"I have to ask what would prompt a man to apply for such a job? It specifically means talking to women and girls about periods. It's a more suitable and appropriate position for a woman. Schoolgirls would be much more likely to respond to and engage with a woman. Does it or does it mean leading a team that does that?" " The Lead Officer will provide outstanding project leadership and management for a range of activities, events, and outcomes. This will include engaging with staff, partners, communities and young people in developing and delivering a campaign that stretches across our regions, raising awareness and understanding of the Period Product Act and the expanse of work happening in our respective communities." From the job description | |||
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"I have to ask what would prompt a man to apply for such a job? It specifically means talking to women and girls about periods. It's a more suitable and appropriate position for a woman. Schoolgirls would be much more likely to respond to and engage with a woman. Does it or does it mean leading a team that does that? " The Lead Officer will provide outstanding project leadership and management for a range of activities, events, and outcomes. This will include engaging with staff, partners, communities and young people in developing and delivering a campaign that stretches across our regions, raising awareness and understanding of the Period Product Act and the expanse of work happening in our respective communities." From the job description " Sounds like a position a man can do as it is making sure the project runs well | |||
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"I have to ask what would prompt a man to apply for such a job? It specifically means talking to women and girls about periods. It's a more suitable and appropriate position for a woman. Schoolgirls would be much more likely to respond to and engage with a woman. Does it or does it mean leading a team that does that?" From what I’ve just read this is what I gather. Although I could be wrong I just had a quick skim to see what it was all about. | |||
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"I have to ask what would prompt a man to apply for such a job? It specifically means talking to women and girls about periods. It's a more suitable and appropriate position for a woman. Schoolgirls would be much more likely to respond to and engage with a woman. Does it or does it mean leading a team that does that? " The Lead Officer will provide outstanding project leadership and management for a range of activities, events, and outcomes. This will include engaging with staff, partners, communities and young people in developing and delivering a campaign that stretches across our regions, raising awareness and understanding of the Period Product Act and the expanse of work happening in our respective communities." From the job description Sounds like a position a man can do as it is making sure the project runs well " Guess we will disagree then | |||
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"I have to ask what would prompt a man to apply for such a job? It specifically means talking to women and girls about periods. It's a more suitable and appropriate position for a woman. Schoolgirls would be much more likely to respond to and engage with a woman. Does it or does it mean leading a team that does that? " The Lead Officer will provide outstanding project leadership and management for a range of activities, events, and outcomes. This will include engaging with staff, partners, communities and young people in developing and delivering a campaign that stretches across our regions, raising awareness and understanding of the Period Product Act and the expanse of work happening in our respective communities." From the job description Sounds like a position a man can do as it is making sure the project runs well Guess we will disagree then " We are adults - it's allowed | |||
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"I have to ask what would prompt a man to apply for such a job? It specifically means talking to women and girls about periods. It's a more suitable and appropriate position for a woman. Schoolgirls would be much more likely to respond to and engage with a woman. Does it or does it mean leading a team that does that? " The Lead Officer will provide outstanding project leadership and management for a range of activities, events, and outcomes. This will include engaging with staff, partners, communities and young people in developing and delivering a campaign that stretches across our regions, raising awareness and understanding of the Period Product Act and the expanse of work happening in our respective communities." From the job description Sounds like a position a man can do as it is making sure the project runs well Guess we will disagree then We are adults - it's allowed " Course it is! | |||
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"I have to ask what would prompt a man to apply for such a job? It specifically means talking to women and girls about periods. It's a more suitable and appropriate position for a woman. Schoolgirls would be much more likely to respond to and engage with a woman. Does it or does it mean leading a team that does that? From what I’ve just read this is what I gather. Although I could be wrong I just had a quick skim to see what it was all about. " It does seem that way to me from what I've read. And from the job description Damselfly posted. I can't imagine he will be doing all the campaigning and question answering by himself. I'm not saying it makes sense to me, but then a lot of things don't make sense to me | |||
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"Is it ok that's it's a male" Of course. If the last years have taught us nothing it's that men are quite capable. | |||
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"Is it ok that's it's a male Of course. If the last years have taught us nothing it's that men are quite capable. " Isn't the idea to recruit the best candidate? | |||
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"Is it ok that's it's a male Of course. If the last years have taught us nothing it's that men are quite capable. Isn't the idea to recruit the best candidate? " I would think so. And apparently he was the best candidate. | |||
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""Young people who menstruate"?" Yeah seems it's not only girls or women who menstruate these days. | |||
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"Why can't it be a man looks like it's ok for women to be sexists " I don’t see why it can’t be, from the description above sounds like they want a marketing person to make sure everyone gets the message that all period products in Scotland are free | |||
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"Why can't it be a man looks like it's ok for women to be sexists How can a man, who will never experience menstruation, have any kind of empathy derived from experience? " I'm not sure about that actually. Thinking of other things in my life, sometimes the most empathy and understanding has come from people with no direct experience. Those with experience (not all, but certainly quite a lot!) have often had limited understanding of anything being different from their direct experience, and as a result,less empathy. I think that's a people thing, rather than a male/female thing. | |||
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"I have to ask what would prompt a man to apply for such a job? It specifically means talking to women and girls about periods. It's a more suitable and appropriate position for a woman. Schoolgirls would be much more likely to respond to and engage with a woman. Does it or does it mean leading a team that does that? " The Lead Officer will provide outstanding project leadership and management for a range of activities, events, and outcomes. This will include engaging with staff, partners, communities and young people in developing and delivering a campaign that stretches across our regions, raising awareness and understanding of the Period Product Act and the expanse of work happening in our respective communities." From the job description " I've seen his work history and he has experience of all that it seems so qualified for the job description | |||
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""The job advert said the suitable candidate needed a "successful track record of engaging and empowering a large range of people from a diverse range of cultural and socio-economic backgrounds, in particular young people who menstruate" "Mr Grant previously worked as an account manager with Imperial Tobacco. He then became a personal trainer with his own business and was recently a wellbeing officer for Dundee and Angus College." I guess it depends on what his job as a wellbeing officer is. I think it's good that a male would be a period dignity officer, so that it might be easier for boys to understand menstrual health issues. It could be a positive thing. " College wellbeing officers (we call them welfare officers) get VERY involved with the lives of the young people. Our officers end up going to A&E with students, sitting in medical appointments (at student's request), provide mental health support and on more than one occasion, have accompanied students who are attending abortion clinics (obviously, at the student's request). Our officers are male and female and it's rare we are asked for one gender over the other, which when considering our student demographic is perhaps surprising. I would say anyone who has been a wellbeing or welfare officer in a college will have suitable work experience for the role being discussed. | |||
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"Does the position require a medical background, there are male gynocologists, if so then yes. If no medical training/background and Fred from down the street can become one, then no. But honestly a woman should be the first choice. " Why would they need medical training or background to advertise and inform they can get free sanitary products? | |||
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"Does the position require a medical background, there are male gynocologists, if so then yes. If no medical training/background and Fred from down the street can become one, then no. But honestly a woman should be the first choice. Why would they need medical training or background to advertise and inform they can get free sanitary products? " This is my thought and actually having worked in primary schools A lot of the male staff Felt very uncomfortable when having to talk about periods. Periods is something that nobody should be embarrassed to talk about including men so I don't see this as a bad thing. | |||
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""The job advert said the suitable candidate needed a "successful track record of engaging and empowering a large range of people from a diverse range of cultural and socio-economic backgrounds, in particular young people who menstruate" "Mr Grant previously worked as an account manager with Imperial Tobacco. He then became a personal trainer with his own business and was recently a wellbeing officer for Dundee and Angus College." I guess it depends on what his job as a wellbeing officer is. I think it's good that a male would be a period dignity officer, so that it might be easier for boys to understand menstrual health issues. It could be a positive thing. College wellbeing officers (we call them welfare officers) get VERY involved with the lives of the young people. Our officers end up going to A&E with students, sitting in medical appointments (at student's request), provide mental health support and on more than one occasion, have accompanied students who are attending abortion clinics (obviously, at the student's request). Our officers are male and female and it's rare we are asked for one gender over the other, which when considering our student demographic is perhaps surprising. I would say anyone who has been a wellbeing or welfare officer in a college will have suitable work experience for the role being discussed. " Agreed but again we don't know his experience was. I know I've had female and male students request to see certain genders of officers. Especially those from different cultures and one student who had been a victim of SA. I would hope that there was the ability to see a female also. Know in certain cultures seeing a male about these things would not be appropriate according to their elders. And I wouldn't want girls missing out on advice. | |||
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"What is a period dignity officer? This ^^ I mean. Could Google but having read it on the forum, I'm not that brave " I think that's very wise, Meli. I've needed therapy after looking up some things I've read about on the forum. Luke | |||
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"Is it ok that's it's a male" Are these the officers that keep strip searching young Black kids on their periods? | |||
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"Is it ok that's it's a male Are these the officers that keep strip searching young Black kids on their periods? " Hey? Who dose that? | |||
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""The job advert said the suitable candidate needed a "successful track record of engaging and empowering a large range of people from a diverse range of cultural and socio-economic backgrounds, in particular young people who menstruate" "Mr Grant previously worked as an account manager with Imperial Tobacco. He then became a personal trainer with his own business and was recently a wellbeing officer for Dundee and Angus College." I guess it depends on what his job as a wellbeing officer is. I think it's good that a male would be a period dignity officer, so that it might be easier for boys to understand menstrual health issues. It could be a positive thing. College wellbeing officers (we call them welfare officers) get VERY involved with the lives of the young people. Our officers end up going to A&E with students, sitting in medical appointments (at student's request), provide mental health support and on more than one occasion, have accompanied students who are attending abortion clinics (obviously, at the student's request). Our officers are male and female and it's rare we are asked for one gender over the other, which when considering our student demographic is perhaps surprising. I would say anyone who has been a wellbeing or welfare officer in a college will have suitable work experience for the role being discussed. Agreed but again we don't know his experience was. I know I've had female and male students request to see certain genders of officers. Especially those from different cultures and one student who had been a victim of SA. I would hope that there was the ability to see a female also. Know in certain cultures seeing a male about these things would not be appropriate according to their elders. And I wouldn't want girls missing out on advice. " That's very true - would want all girls to access info. My child would be fine chatting to a male but others wouldn't. I actually felt sorry for the guy on Twitter today as he's in the spotlight now. Don't know if there are more people in the team. | |||
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"Is it ok that's it's a male Are these the officers that keep strip searching young Black kids on their periods? " Nope whole different subject mate. | |||
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"Is it ok that's it's a male Are these the officers that keep strip searching young Black kids on their periods? " No. It's a role in Scotland prompting the fact that it's now law that young people etc can access free products to deal with their period. | |||
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""Young people who menstruate"?" Don't go there | |||
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"Is it ok that's it's a male Are these the officers that keep strip searching young Black kids on their periods? " They're police officers. Sadly. He's a new appointment in Scotland. Not with the police. | |||
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"Is it ok that's it's a male Are these the officers that keep strip searching young Black kids on their periods? " No | |||
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"Is it ok that's it's a male Are these the officers that keep strip searching young Black kids on their periods? No. It's a role in Scotland prompting the fact that it's now law that young people etc can access free products to deal with their period. " oh this is good that this role exists. | |||
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"What is a period dignity officer? This ^^ I mean. Could Google but having read it on the forum, I'm not that brave I think that's very wise, Meli. I've needed therapy after looking up some things I've read about on the forum. Luke" Thanks Luke. I like being wise, even though I'm not Meli | |||
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"Is it ok that's it's a male Are these the officers that keep strip searching young Black kids on their periods? No. It's a role in Scotland prompting the fact that it's now law that young people etc can access free products to deal with their period. oh this is good that this role exists. " That should be *PROMOTING. Not prompting! Damn autocarrot | |||
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""Young people who menstruate"?" It's a mad world now; pointing out that it is only (real) girls and women who menstruate might be a start, but I imagine to do so may be a criminal offence in tribal fascist governed Scotland. | |||
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""Young people who menstruate"? It's a mad world now; pointing out that it is only (real) girls and women who menstruate might be a start, but I imagine to do so may be a criminal offence in tribal fascist governed Scotland." say a poster from the deepest darkest Tory voting SE of England...... oh the irony | |||
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""Young people who menstruate"? It's a mad world now; pointing out that it is only (real) girls and women who menstruate might be a start, but I imagine to do so may be a criminal offence in tribal fascist governed Scotland. say a poster from the deepest darkest Tory voting SE of England...... oh the irony " Why can't Lucy make a comment about Scotland? We can all read. | |||
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""Young people who menstruate"? It's a mad world now; pointing out that it is only (real) girls and women who menstruate might be a start, but I imagine to do so may be a criminal offence in tribal fascist governed Scotland. say a poster from the deepest darkest Tory voting SE of England...... oh the irony Why can't Lucy make a comment about Scotland? We can all read. " Lucy is more than welcome to comment about Scotland - all I was doing was pointing out the irony of the comment.... is that not allowed? | |||
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"What is a period dignity officer? This ^^ I mean. Could Google but having read it on the forum, I'm not that brave I think that's very wise, Meli. I've needed therapy after looking up some things I've read about on the forum. Luke Thanks Luke. I like being wise, even though I'm not Meli " You do both have great norks | |||
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""Young people who menstruate"? It's a mad world now; pointing out that it is only (real) girls and women who menstruate might be a start, but I imagine to do so may be a criminal offence in tribal fascist governed Scotland." But not all people who menstruate identify as women. Trans men will continue to menstruate unless they have hormonal treatment to stop it. Calling them women is damaging to them for no other reason than sheer bloody mindedness and intentional mis gendering. | |||
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""Young people who menstruate"? It's a mad world now; pointing out that it is only (real) girls and women who menstruate might be a start, but I imagine to do so may be a criminal offence in tribal fascist governed Scotland. say a poster from the deepest darkest Tory voting SE of England...... oh the irony Why can't Lucy make a comment about Scotland? We can all read. Lucy is more than welcome to comment about Scotland - all I was doing was pointing out the irony of the comment.... is that not allowed?" I don't really see the irony but of course | |||
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""Young people who menstruate"? It's a mad world now; pointing out that it is only (real) girls and women who menstruate might be a start, but I imagine to do so may be a criminal offence in tribal fascist governed Scotland. But not all people who menstruate identify as women. Trans men will continue to menstruate unless they have hormonal treatment to stop it. Calling them women is damaging to them for no other reason than sheer bloody mindedness and intentional mis gendering. " How does it damage trans men? | |||
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""Young people who menstruate"? It's a mad world now; pointing out that it is only (real) girls and women who menstruate might be a start, but I imagine to do so may be a criminal offence in tribal fascist governed Scotland. say a poster from the deepest darkest Tory voting SE of England...... oh the irony Why can't Lucy make a comment about Scotland? We can all read. Lucy is more than welcome to comment about Scotland - all I was doing was pointing out the irony of the comment.... is that not allowed? I don't really see the irony but of course " fascist governed.... Tories... | |||
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"It's a weird job title...period dignity..why can't they just call him tampon guy. " Tampon Man- he could dress up in a superhero uniform and a cape and everything | |||
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""Young people who menstruate"? It's a mad world now; pointing out that it is only (real) girls and women who menstruate might be a start, but I imagine to do so may be a criminal offence in tribal fascist governed Scotland. But not all people who menstruate identify as women. Trans men will continue to menstruate unless they have hormonal treatment to stop it. Calling them women is damaging to them for no other reason than sheer bloody mindedness and intentional mis gendering. How does it damage trans men? " Because they don't identify as women....they are transitioning into men..... | |||
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""Young people who menstruate"? It's a mad world now; pointing out that it is only (real) girls and women who menstruate might be a start, but I imagine to do so may be a criminal offence in tribal fascist governed Scotland. But not all people who menstruate identify as women. Trans men will continue to menstruate unless they have hormonal treatment to stop it. Calling them women is damaging to them for no other reason than sheer bloody mindedness and intentional mis gendering. How does it damage trans men? Because they don't identify as women....they are transitioning into men....." I know that. How does it damage them to use a word. | |||
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""Young people who menstruate"? It's a mad world now; pointing out that it is only (real) girls and women who menstruate might be a start, but I imagine to do so may be a criminal offence in tribal fascist governed Scotland. But not all people who menstruate identify as women. Trans men will continue to menstruate unless they have hormonal treatment to stop it. Calling them women is damaging to them for no other reason than sheer bloody mindedness and intentional mis gendering. How does it damage trans men? Because they don't identify as women....they are transitioning into men..... I know that. How does it damage them to use a word. " Really? | |||
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""Young people who menstruate"? It's a mad world now; pointing out that it is only (real) girls and women who menstruate might be a start, but I imagine to do so may be a criminal offence in tribal fascist governed Scotland. Your profile doesn't say where you are from, but in that basis you shouldn't comment either unless you're in Scotland yourself! I have only lived in England for the last ten years, and lived in Northern Ireland for most of my adult life, as well as having lived in other parts of the world, but that may be too much for your tiny bigoted mind to comprehend. say a poster from the deepest darkest Tory voting SE of England...... oh the irony Why can't Lucy make a comment about Scotland? We can all read. Lucy is more than welcome to comment about Scotland - all I was doing was pointing out the irony of the comment.... is that not allowed?" | |||
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""Young people who menstruate"? Don't go there " You can't have babies Stan, you haven't got a womb | |||
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