FabSwingers.com forum: Is she really straight?

By *orny guy 6630 OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

My Mrs says she's 100% percent straight. Yet I've repeatedly found her watching lesbian porn especially squirting scenes.

I'm starting to think she's not as straight as she claims to be.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Dunno, take it up with her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she starts doodling scissors, you're in trouble.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"If she starts doodling scissors, you're in trouble."

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Women can be curious about all female porn and find it a turn on, but might not wish to partake themselves. I don't find this so unusual.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

I'm sure many people watch different types of porn which they don't actually want to participate in themselves.

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By *r AnalyticMan
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Ask yourself what kind of porn do I watch.

Is it solo female and lesbian only or does it include men as well?

If so so if you can watch a man come on a woman's face or a woman sucking cock or a woman pegging a man then in your logic you're not straight.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

She is probably spaghetti straight. Ie straight until she gets wet

Ok sorry I’ll get my coat and close the door on the way out

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I watch gay men having gangbangs. Doesn't mean I'm a gay man though.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"My Mrs says she's 100% percent straight. Yet I've repeatedly found her watching lesbian porn especially squirting scenes.

I'm starting to think she's not as straight as she claims to be.

She's straight.

My friend told me he never wanted to be an astronomer yet i've seen him looking at the moon.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"I watch gay men having gangbangs. Doesn't mean I'm a gay man though."

To be fair to the OP though that isn’t quite the same thing.

I (Mr) quite enjoy lesbian porn but as a male I can’t be a lesbian.

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By *antasy Explorers 1313Couple
over a year ago

A place where others reside (nr Oxford)

Just because she's straight doesn't mean she can't enjoy lesbian porn

Just because she watches lesbian porn doesn't make her bi or gay.

Sexual attraction, desire and impulse are fluid matters.

I'd imagine you don't do the same positions each time you have sex. Just because you don't do doggy one time doesn't mean she's not going to do it again.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I watch gay men having gangbangs. Doesn't mean I'm a gay man though.

To be fair to the OP though that isn’t quite the same thing.

I (Mr) quite enjoy lesbian porn but as a male I can’t be a lesbian."

You can be anything you want to be darlink !

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By *antasy Explorers 1313Couple
over a year ago

A place where others reside (nr Oxford)

"My Mrs says she's 100% percent straight. Yet I've repeatedly found her watching lesbian porn especially squirting scenes.

I'm starting to think she's not as straight as she claims to be.

She's straight.

My friend told me he never wanted to be an astronomer yet i've seen him looking at the moon. "

That bloody moon, so big and round and appealing. Close the skies I say.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I watch gay men having gangbangs. Doesn't mean I'm a gay man though."

I thought it said handbags

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I watch gay men having gangbangs. Doesn't mean I'm a gay man though.

I thought it said handbags"

The gangbangs and the gladrags

That your poor old Granny

Had to sweat to buy you

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I watch gay men having gangbangs. Doesn't mean I'm a gay man though.

To be fair to the OP though that isn’t quite the same thing.

I (Mr) quite enjoy lesbian porn but as a male I can’t be a lesbian."

Fair point.

But my point is that you can watch something, even be aroused by it, without wanting the experience.

Else I'd not be fascinated by tentacle porn sometimes.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I watch gay men having gangbangs. Doesn't mean I'm a gay man though.

I thought it said handbags"

It should. Dammit autocarrot

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

She might just like watching women enjoying themselves - not quite 'imagining it's her getting off' but kinda?

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"I watch gay men having gangbangs. Doesn't mean I'm a gay man though.

To be fair to the OP though that isn’t quite the same thing.

I (Mr) quite enjoy lesbian porn but as a male I can’t be a lesbian.

Fair point.

But my point is that you can watch something, even be aroused by it, without wanting the experience.

Else I'd not be fascinated by tentacle porn sometimes."

“Tentacle porn”

As in those porm anime with aliens?

Of course. Being curious about something and having an open mind is good. Let’s face it, I like a good war movie but don’t want to be a soldier or shoot people.

Question for the OP. Would you like your wife to be bi?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I'll watch all kinds of porn. But I typically find that lesbian porn depicts females cuming in a way I'm more familiar with that straight porn. Maybe it's something as simple as that. I mean there's a lot of cock in straight porn doesn't mean you're turned on by it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless she starts insisting you wear your hair in pigtails, tuck your cock between your legs and refer to yourself as Veronica at all times...... I wouldn't read too much into it

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By *orny DeucesCouple
over a year ago

Mansfield

Drop her off, give us a couple of hours (just in case) and we'll let you know.

Well someone had to offer

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I find lesbian porn more real life and it's not all screams and over the top, it definitely doesn't make her bi in any way, many of my lady friends watch lesbian porn and are straight.

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You don't believe your wife?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My Mrs says she's 100% percent straight. Yet I've repeatedly found her watching lesbian porn especially squirting scenes.

I'm starting to think she's not as straight as she claims to be.

Female sexuality is very fluid but I'd say if she says she's straight, take her at face value? If she wanted to engage a woman she likely could but seems not keen on it so better to just ignore it.

I don't watch gay born but I've had a partner question my sexuality several times because I've previously experimented with men, which allowed me to know that I'm not bi or gay but straight. Someone told her and she then would constantly accuse me of it. I don't even care so much about what she was accusing me of, but being called a liar about your sexuality isn't fun.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"My Mrs says she's 100% percent straight. Yet I've repeatedly found her watching lesbian porn especially squirting scenes.

I'm starting to think she's not as straight as she claims to be.

Female sexuality is very fluid but I'd say if she says she's straight, take her at face value? If she wanted to engage a woman she likely could but seems not keen on it so better to just ignore it.

Agreed. A one-off or even a couple of dabbles/experiments doesn’t make you anything other than curious. If you keep going back then maybe you (not you, anyone) need to accept (and embrace) you are bi.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I (Mrs.) always thought I was straight, till I wasn’t anymore

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Everyone knows no women are straight, they just hide it because they’re prudes

All women instantly start lezzing off the moment we turn our backs and it’s disgusting

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By *orny DeucesCouple
over a year ago

Mansfield

"Everyone knows no women are straight, they just hide it because they’re prudes

All women instantly start lezzing off the moment we turn our backs and it’s disgusting "

You've been watching those educational films on that "hub" of porn again haven't you

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

"Everyone knows no women are straight, they just hide it because they’re prudes

All women instantly start lezzing off the moment we turn our backs and it’s disgusting "

I totally agree with this! Except my mum and my gran (and I'm not completely sure about my gran, either).

Gbat

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Everyone knows no women are straight, they just hide it because they’re prudes

All women instantly start lezzing off the moment we turn our backs and it’s disgusting

I totally agree with this! Except my mum and my gran (and I'm not completely sure about my gran, either).

Gbat "

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I'm sure many people watch different types of porn which they don't actually want to participate in themselves.

That helps explains my old CEO he was always wanting to arrange a lads want night where we watch gay porn and have a few beers and a laugh in a hotel for the night , insisted he was 100% straight

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Everyone knows no women are straight, they just hide it because they’re prudes

All women instantly start lezzing off the moment we turn our backs and it’s disgusting

I totally agree with this! Except my mum and my gran (and I'm not completely sure about my gran, either).

Gbat "

And my sisters. Totally straight

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Everyone knows no women are straight, they just hide it because they’re prudes

All women instantly start lezzing off the moment we turn our backs and it’s disgusting

I totally agree with this! Except my mum and my gran (and I'm not completely sure about my gran, either).

Gbat

And my sisters. Totally straight "

Nah, I'm sure I saw a thingy on that Hamster site.....

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"Everyone knows no women are straight, they just hide it because they’re prudes

All women instantly start lezzing off the moment we turn our backs and it’s disgusting

I totally agree with this! Except my mum and my gran (and I'm not completely sure about my gran, either).

Gbat "

Mate them Grans are the worst! Been there, done that, got the T Shirt!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's up to her to determine her sexuality and what she wants to do about it. External input is irrelevant.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"It's up to her to determine her sexuality and what she wants to do about it. External input is irrelevant."

Awww swing we were all having a laugh and you come in all serious and informed!

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Everyone knows no women are straight, they just hide it because they’re prudes

All women instantly start lezzing off the moment we turn our backs and it’s disgusting

I totally agree with this! Except my mum and my gran (and I'm not completely sure about my gran, either).

Gbat

And my sisters. Totally straight

Nah, I'm sure I saw a thingy on that Hamster site....."

No way? I’ll need to link so I can ask it to be taken down. Was it in HD btw?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"It's up to her to determine her sexuality and what she wants to do about it. External input is irrelevant.

Awww swing we were all having a laugh and you come in all serious and informed!"

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching is nothing!

I've sucked a few cocks and I'm 100% straight.

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By *orny guy 6630 OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

She has told me she'd like one of our female friends to go down on her.

I'm pretty cool with it, as I want to sleep with the same girl. Lol

It's just getting it to happen....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She is probably spaghetti straight. Ie straight until she gets wet

Ok sorry I’ll get my coat and close the door on the way out

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"She has told me she'd like one of our female friends to go down on her.

I'm pretty cool with it, as I want to sleep with the same girl. Lol

It's just getting it to happen...."

She’s bi-curious then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say if she chooses to identify a straight it isn't for anybody else to question that.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"I would say if she chooses to identify a straight it isn't for anybody else to question that. "

Of course totally agree but the OP wasn’t really about how she chose to identify but more about her sexual interests right?

Turns out that she not only likes to watch lesbian porn but has told her BF/Husband she would like another woman to have oral sex with her. Sounds pretty bi-curious to me.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

"Turns out that she not only likes to watch lesbian porn but has told her BF/Husband she would like another woman to have oral sex with her. Sounds pretty bi-curious to me."

Looks like a duck, walks like a duck, quacks like a duck. Then she’s a furry.

Gbat

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I like lesbian porn...yes ..I'm lesbian

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"My Mrs says she's 100% percent straight. Yet I've repeatedly found her watching lesbian porn especially squirting scenes.

I'm starting to think she's not as straight as she claims to be.

There is a Ron White sketch about porn (trigger warning though)

https://youtu.be/mY711HJK7pg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am straight but like watching females in porn, I guess it’s relatable to myself because am a female, I can imagine it’s my body, the sensations they’re going through etc

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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago

Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove

Maybe you don’t satisfy her and she is looking at lesbian porn to see what she is missing out on

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"Maybe you don’t satisfy her and she is looking at lesbian porn to see what she is missing out on "

Ouch!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Perhaps she thinks there's something wrong in calling herself bi.

She sounds at least bi curious to me.

I've had my tongue on a pussy and it was ok, but I can’t stand watching women kiss and I wouldn't want to date a woman.

I also have no interest in doing it again; so I list myself as straight, on here.

Ask her if she thinks she's bi curious.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My Mrs says she's 100% percent straight. Yet I've repeatedly found her watching lesbian porn especially squirting scenes.

I'm starting to think she's not as straight as she claims to be.

Ffm is on the cards mmmm

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By *orny guy 6630 OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

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By *orny guy 6630 OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Maybe you don’t satisfy her and she is looking at lesbian porn to see what she is missing out on "

I can make her squirt with just my tongue.

I think I'm doing OK.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"Maybe you don’t satisfy her and she is looking at lesbian porn to see what she is missing out on

I can make her squirt with just my tongue.

I think I'm doing OK. "

So are you happy she is bi-curious (regardless of how she identifies)?

What do you hope to get out of it?

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By *orny guy 6630 OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Maybe you don’t satisfy her and she is looking at lesbian porn to see what she is missing out on

I can make her squirt with just my tongue.

I think I'm doing OK.

So are you happy she is bi-curious (regardless of how she identifies)?

What do you hope to get out of it?"

I don't really hope to get anything out of it to be fair.

And her curiosity isn't a factor on our relationship.

It's just a nice fantasy to watch her with another girl.

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

Answer is obvious...

Watch it with her and have some great sex

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If she'd use a cock-realistic dildo with another woman, they'd both remain 100% hetero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say if she chooses to identify a straight it isn't for anybody else to question that.

Of course totally agree but the OP wasn’t really about how she chose to identify but more about her sexual interests right?

Turns out that she not only likes to watch lesbian porn but has told her BF/Husband she would like another woman to have oral sex with her. Sounds pretty bi-curious to me."

It absolutely matters how she chooses to identify and nobody else including you should be putting any labels on anybody else.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Does it matter or need a label as long as your providing a supportive environment for here to nurture whatever desires she has?

Assuming your OK with her pursuing any bi-curious/bisexual desires she may have? If not naturally I understand how this could be worrying regards your relationship.

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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago

Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove

"Maybe you don’t satisfy her and she is looking at lesbian porn to see what she is missing out on

I can make her squirt with just my tongue.

I think I'm doing OK. "

Just cos you ‘make’ someone squirt doesn’t mean that you satisfy them sexually

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"I would say if she chooses to identify a straight it isn't for anybody else to question that.

Of course totally agree but the OP wasn’t really about how she chose to identify but more about her sexual interests right?

Turns out that she not only likes to watch lesbian porn but has told her BF/Husband she would like another woman to have oral sex with her. Sounds pretty bi-curious to me.

It absolutely matters how she chooses to identify and nobody else including you should be putting any labels on anybody else. "

1. You clearly didn’t read my post. Show me where I questioned her choice to identify? Clue: you can’t because I didn’t!

2. I was stating a fact not applying a label. She can label herself a blue alien sex god for all I care. But as she is keen on finding out what it would be like to have sex with someone the same gender as herself, then she would be a blue alien sex god who is bi-curious!

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"I would say if she chooses to identify a straight it isn't for anybody else to question that.

Of course totally agree but the OP wasn’t really about how she chose to identify but more about her sexual interests right?

Turns out that she not only likes to watch lesbian porn but has told her BF/Husband she would like another woman to have oral sex with her. Sounds pretty bi-curious to me.

It absolutely matters how she chooses to identify and nobody else including you should be putting any labels on anybody else.

1. You clearly didn’t read my post. Show me where I questioned her choice to identify? Clue: you can’t because I didn’t!

I don't lust after/want/fancy/look for women here or curious at all. However I have played with and fucked a few women. Sometimes in a party type situation, or something that happened in the moment but never been a ff situation alone. I don't think that makes me bi at all. Just because a meat eater can enjoy a meat free meal dosnt mean they a vegetarian.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"She is probably spaghetti straight. Ie straight until she gets wet "

Haha thanks for the explanation. I've seen that "spaghetti straight" several times and did wonder what it meant! Lol

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've found that a lot of porn of things I actually enjoy doing does nothing for me and some porn or things that I'd have no interest in actually doing really turns me on. Arousal is a complex thing and a lot of studies have actually found that women are aroused by watching a wider range of sexual imagery than men. In fact, in the study I read, women were aroused by all the stimulus

. They think it's related to the fact that the women living in packs would often be fertile at the same time so we've evolved to want to seek sex when we see others engaging in sexual activity to increase our chances of reproducing too. Or something like that. It was a long time ago I read the research.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"I would say if she chooses to identify a straight it isn't for anybody else to question that.

Of course totally agree but the OP wasn’t really about how she chose to identify but more about her sexual interests right?

Turns out that she not only likes to watch lesbian porn but has told her BF/Husband she would like another woman to have oral sex with her. Sounds pretty bi-curious to me.

It absolutely matters how she chooses to identify and nobody else including you should be putting any labels on anybody else.

1. You clearly didn’t read my post. Show me where I questioned her choice to identify? Clue: you can’t because I didn’t!

That isn't a fact though. There is no fact that tells us if someone watched same sex porn or where to have a same sex experience means they are bi, but you have absolutely just labeled her. You said I makes her bi/curious.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"I would say if she chooses to identify a straight it isn't for anybody else to question that.

Of course totally agree but the OP wasn’t really about how she chose to identify but more about her sexual interests right?

Turns out that she not only likes to watch lesbian porn but has told her BF/Husband she would like another woman to have oral sex with her. Sounds pretty bi-curious to me.

It absolutely matters how she chooses to identify and nobody else including you should be putting any labels on anybody else.

1. You clearly didn’t read my post. Show me where I questioned her choice to identify? Clue: you can’t because I didn’t!

I agree that labels are reductive and actually restrictive because for many people sexuality can be fluid. However, I wasn’t labelling (jeez everyone gets so easily triggered these days).

How would YOU describe someone who has never had sex with a person if the same gender as themselves but wonders what would like and wants to try it out to see?

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"I would say if she chooses to identify a straight it isn't for anybody else to question that.

Of course totally agree but the OP wasn’t really about how she chose to identify but more about her sexual interests right?

Turns out that she not only likes to watch lesbian porn but has told her BF/Husband she would like another woman to have oral sex with her. Sounds pretty bi-curious to me.

It absolutely matters how she chooses to identify and nobody else including you should be putting any labels on anybody else.

1. You clearly didn’t read my post. Show me where I questioned her choice to identify? Clue: you can’t because I didn’t!

I agree that labels are reductive and actually restrictive because for many people sexuality can be fluid. However, I wasn’t labelling (jeez everyone gets so easily triggered these days).

How would YOU describe someone who has never had sex with a person if the same gender as themselves but wonders what would like and wants to try it out to see?"

Oh and PS, I didn’t say “bi/curious” I said she was clearly “bi-curious” big difference!

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"I would say if she chooses to identify a straight it isn't for anybody else to question that.

Of course totally agree but the OP wasn’t really about how she chose to identify but more about her sexual interests right?

Turns out that she not only likes to watch lesbian porn but has told her BF/Husband she would like another woman to have oral sex with her. Sounds pretty bi-curious to me.

It absolutely matters how she chooses to identify and nobody else including you should be putting any labels on anybody else.

1. You clearly didn’t read my post. Show me where I questioned her choice to identify? Clue: you can’t because I didn’t!

I agree that labels are reductive and actually restrictive because for many people sexuality can be fluid. However, I wasn’t labelling (jeez everyone gets so easily triggered these days).

How would YOU describe someone who has never had sex with a person if the same gender as themselves but wonders what would like and wants to try it out to see?

Oh and PS, I didn’t say “bi/curious” I said she was clearly “bi-curious” big difference!"

She says she is 100% straight. You said no it clearly made her bi curious. You said it was a fact. Which it isn't. You said you didn't label her which by saying it sounds pretty bi curious to yourself. No you didn't question her to choice to identify, but same time you not letting her decide but telling her.