FabSwingers.com forum: Feelings

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has anyone ever developed feelings for someone during or after a meet?....

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yep. I think I have to have some form of feelings for a person to want to have sex with them. Romantic feelings? Erm.... kind of. Definitely for one who I'm now engaged to. I find it hard to clearly define feelings, there's such a myriad of definitions. Different meanings to different people.

Feelings are a good thing to have, sure sometimes you might wish you didn't but on the whole I like embracing them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep. I think I have to have some form of feelings for a person to want to have sex with them. Romantic feelings? Erm.... kind of. Definitely for one who I'm now engaged to. I find it hard to clearly define feelings, there's such a myriad of definitions. Different meanings to different people.

Feelings are a good thing to have, sure sometimes you might wish you didn't but on the whole I like embracing them. "

Perfectly put! I’m the same, I need some level of connection for sexual fulfilment

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

Yes. Feelings to a lesser or greater extent are normal. Otherwise we would just be robots.

It's how you manage those feelings for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me feelings, hah, no, never, nah uh.

I don't do that, like at all.

Now if you'll excuse me I need to go make her brunch... seriously, up less than an hour and a half and on her third fag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Friendship feelings but nothing more than that.

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By *llNatural36FWoman
over a year ago

Denbighshire

Yes, it was for a fb so I called it off for a bit until I knew I could keep my side of the agreement we have as I didn’t want them feelings for him

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Me feelings, hah, no, never, nah uh.

I don't do that, like at all.

Now if you'll excuse me I need to go make her brunch... seriously, up less than an hour and a half and on her third fag. "

Mate.

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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Got to have chemistry. Chemistry is feelings for me.

My teenage years and early 20's are well behind me. Prerequisites were much lower.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

If you get to know someone then start sleeping with them, feelings are more then likely involved

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Has anyone ever developed feelings for someone during or after a meet?...."

Does marriage count........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you mean ‘love’ then no.

But I’ve grown fond of someone as a friend I could and did (or do) care about at a level more than just sex.

That’s just me, if I like you I like you. That’s why one offs don’t work for me very much. Yes it’s all horny and sexy, but it’s the afterwards and in between that make things cool for me.

So yes, I’ve developed feelings of friendship maybe.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Yes.

I’m not going to go into the ins and outs but over 9 years, the people that I’ve met, feelings are bound to happen at some point.

The real issue is if they’re not reciprocated or if either of you aren’t open or available to take things further.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Yes.

Platonic feelings, but strong bonds formed, for the most part.

And romantic ones. I've fallen in love with someone I met right here in the Lounge.

We blame Nora.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No never! Hopefully never would! Have had reverse from others which not good x

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Yep

The first time I met TG I know there was something very special about her that I didn’t want to let go and still feel exactly the same every day.

Love quickly developed even though in no shape of form was I looking for anyone but sometimes you just have to follow your heart.

Marc

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Yep. Those pesky feels!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ever so slightly I think it’s natural

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've not been in this game long..

Boss is good at keeping feelings in check, but greedy needs more of a connection, so the chance of feels are stronger

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Yes but it soon passed.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Not straight after one meet, no

But yes, I have developed feelings for some friends I have met on here over time. Very strong ones for one in particular.

but we know where we stand, we have an amazing friendship, tell each other everything, support each other during difficult times and the sex is spectacular.

Before this I developed feelings for someone and that was a mess- haha very Romeo and Juliet OMG I laugh just remembering the drama! I am never making that mistake again. (She says…

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Romantic relationships take time to be cultured and develop. I have feelings for partners and would stop anything that was not mutual or wanted. Cold turkey may be the best option in many instances. I don't get involved in anything that's not good and right for me. Walking away may be tough but is right most of the time.

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By *atisfiedSighWoman
over a year ago

NW Wiltshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone ever developed feelings for someone during or after a meet?...."
one guy did for me and got really jealous if/ when I met someone else, in the end he blocked me lol

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I did for me first fwb. Needless to say it didnt last long after that

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yes it's important for me to do so. If I cannot feel for him I cannot play with him and he turns in to a fuck buddy

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Not straight after one meet, no

But yes, I have developed feelings for some friends I have met on here over time. Very strong ones for one in particular.

but we know where we stand, we have an amazing friendship, tell each other everything, support each other during difficult times and the sex is spectacular.

This sounds perfect and something I'd love to have. Tad envious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes very deep loving ones over a long time the greatest memories and moments of my life and when i could feel it ending (thanks china and your scruffy food storage come fight me mofos) it began to strip me of who i was abd when i knew id never see her again i stripped myself of all humanity and passion for life i punished myself hard for failing and likely poisoned all good memory of myself by becoming a weaker man than the force of nature i used to be

So a warning to all who want this

Be careful what you wish for but would i do it all again if i could turn back time or a miracle happened with her absofuckinglutley

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Has anyone ever developed feelings for someone during or after a meet?....

Does marriage count........

Nah

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

"Not straight after one meet, no

But yes, I have developed feelings for some friends I have met on here over time. Very strong ones for one in particular.

but we know where we stand, we have an amazing friendship, tell each other everything, support each other during difficult times and the sex is spectacular.

This sounds perfect and something I'd love to have. Tad envious!

It is amazing… but of course not perfect. Bloody distance.

I’d move back to Manchester in a heartbeat if I could.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Absolutely - the more time I have spent in the company of someone the more my feelings have developed and thankfully his have grown too.

I could wax lyrical about him but won’t say it’s been an easy ride, however with clear communication and respect for each other we are learning what each other desires and needs from the other - combined with an ability to laugh and be completely ourselves around each other has allowed for some incredible experiences. I believe people come into your life for a reason, we have no control over the length of time they stay so we might as well enjoy the moments we are given and treasure those who make us feel happy xx

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yes of course. All the people I’ve met from here, and am still good friends with them all. Feelings don’t scare me x

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Only got them with my other half ,but we kind of knew when speaking before we met that it would likely be more than just a meet .

Never had them with others when single ,sure I liked and had friendships with some I met ,but that was all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have developed strong feelings of like & lust for people I have met & continue to meet….romantic feelings of love no but they’re feelings still the same.

I couldn’t have ongoing sexual relations with someone that I didn’t like on some emotional level.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Of course, if I didn’t have some kind of feelings I wouldn’t meet them again and definitely couldn’t have sex. I’m fine with feelings of all types, it’s normal & good to journey into that , but do limit the degree of feelings though so they don’t end up wanting to move in

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I have feelings for someone but we've been meeting for over 3 years so it's kind of inevitable I suppose.

I wouldn't say it's love or romantic feelings but I really care for him and I'd definitely miss him and be massively upset if we finished.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

No, not of a romantic kind

no lovey dovey stuff. Friendship is fine and obviously you need to enjoy a persons company and find them attractive but no close or deep felt feelings. I don’t want that either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just rubbish and fall in love

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By *afksedMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I fall in love with every woman I meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feelings are a good thing to have, sure sometimes you might wish you didn't but on the whole I like embracing them. "

Me too. It's only really a problem if the feeling isn't mutual because someone will end up hurt.

I couldn't have sex with someone I didn't have any feelings towards. And I think sex with feelings involved brings pleasure to a whole new level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Connections and feelings are important don’t always work out how you want but that’s life

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

As i prefer regular meets rather than 1 offs naturally there will be some form of feels as there would have to be an attraction and connection

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

After our second meet As singles on here Mrs decided we need two rules,

One was no feeling the other no babies!

We are still ok at 50%

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I like most of the people we meet. We don't meet them frequently enough to fall in love

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Yep definitely and very easily, I was adamant I didn't want to get serious with anyone, was set on the single life.

But sometimes if it's right it's right and I did with Marc, one year on we're still together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ! It’s natural if there’s a lot of chemistry there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to feel some attraction and or connection, so I guess that’s feelings

Real feelings! Now that’s scary shit

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