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By *andyfloss2000 OP Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Was just chatting shit as usual! And was talking bout money one point! I will never have much ha ha! But I'm happy! Do u think it makes people happy? Sure it helps to have some! But my siblings all loaded and they not happy in life generally! X

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By *skyouneverknowMan
over a year ago

Calne

Not sure having shed loads creates happiness unless you're seriously altruistic.

Too little though can make you unhappy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm willing to test the theory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moneys not everything as I got older worked that one out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah all those people out there that say money doesn't bring you happiness have clearly never had money!! If there is a super rich person out there who isn't happy and would like to prove it to me, I'm more than willing to take that cash off them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't make you happy but financial stress is a major effect on people's happiness. So without that stress, you would be more secure to be happy.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Money doesn't buy happiness. But it buys shoes. And coffee. And dogs. Also fuel. And turbo charger intake hoses. Those things make me happy.

Seriously though, some people can be happy with a little, some people can't be happy even if they've got a lot.

It isn't the money that matters but the person.

Saying that, it's easier to find joy when you're not worrying about a roof over your head or having enough to feed yourself or your family.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Get back

I'm alright jack

Keep your hands off my stack

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By *he Artful TodgerMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire but travel

It’s definitely going to have lots of advantages, and very few worries so I’d say yes it does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No only 1 thing made me happy it wasnt money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money is a belief system. If you believe it makes you happy then it will and no if you don't.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Money can’t buy you friends. But you certainly get a better class of enemy.

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

It's easy to keep chasing money then one day you wake up surrounded by stuff but realising you have no life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder how many people with copious amounts ask if it makes them happy?

I guess it can help, but you need to have a disposition to want to be happy regardless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money definitely buys happiness in a sense. It provides security, more opportunities and can open up your life life with so many choices. I'd be absolutely thrilled and so happy if I had money, my life would have everything I've ever desired. But there's lots of things money can't buy and I guess that's why so many wealthy people are miserable. You can buy a woman with nice tits but she'll only care about what's in your wallet and she will fuck the gardener whenever you go for a drive in your fancy Tesla.

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By *estSussexGuy76Man
over a year ago

copthorne

My mother won a large amount on the lottery and myself and my siblings were given enough to have a comfortable life.

Having money doesn't change certain outcomes in life, I still worry and stress over things that shouldn't bother me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just gives you options

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I jack flint but happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be helpful to survive and live comfortably however I don't think it beings happiness.

We're not short if money and could always do with more.

But I think money is more of a band aid, if you're down you're down.. no matter how much money you have

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By *andyfloss2000 OP Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"Yeah all those people out there that say money doesn't bring you happiness have clearly never had money!! If there is a super rich person out there who isn't happy and would like to prove it to me, I'm more than willing to take that cash off them!"

But as I just said I'm far happier than for instance my sister! She has shed loads same as my brothers but they not happy x

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Not having money caused my relationship to end.was I was working like mad and earning good money just got managed wrong, ended up with massive debt. together 25 years. In think you need a happy medium.

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By *andyfloss2000 OP Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"It doesn't make you happy but financial stress is a major effect on people's happiness. So without that stress, you would be more secure to be happy."

Yes get that! B good not to have to worry about money! And deffo b able to help out my kids! Although most of them better of than me! My transgender daughter went to florida b 4 any opps! We were saving for her opp she has married out there and her inlaws have shed loads and have offered to pay for her opp 30000 dollars which is the best news ever! I'm made up for her! It's this kinda thing I'd like to do! That would make me happy! But I live quite a frugal lifestyle myself x

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By *andyfloss2000 OP Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"Get back

I'm alright jack

Keep your hands off my stack

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Having loads of money can bring happiness,if not to ones self.but creating happiness for others,for oneself to enjoy the happiness by the joy from others.....

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"It doesn't make you happy but financial stress is a major effect on people's happiness. So without that stress, you would be more secure to be happy."

This! 1,000,000%

It's actually not a question of 'does money make you happy' but the simple fact that an absence of it can make people both seriously unhappy, as well as unhealthy (physically and mentally) and reduce life expectancy.

Some people are never happy no matter how much money they have.

Others are content with their lot.

But even a small amount of extra money can make a huge difference to many, especially at present.

No matter how little material things mean to you, the essentials of life (a roof over your head, food, heat, water etc.) all cost money.

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By *andyfloss2000 OP Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"Having loads of money can bring happiness,if not to ones self.but creating happiness for others,for oneself to enjoy the happiness by the joy from others.....

Yes think this is case for me x

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By *andyfloss2000 OP Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"It doesn't make you happy but financial stress is a major effect on people's happiness. So without that stress, you would be more secure to be happy.

This! 1,000,000%

Some people are never happy no matter how much money they have.

Others are content with their lot.

But even a small amount of extra money can make a huge difference to many, especially at present.

No matter how little material things mean to you, the essentials of life (a roof over your head, food, heat, water etc.) all cost money.

Yes for sure! X

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Having loads of money can bring happiness,if not to ones self.but creating happiness for others,for oneself to enjoy the happiness by the joy from others.....

Yes think this is case for me x"

I have a wise head but money goes in one hand and out the other so quickly

so I use other methods (my talents)

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Life is easier with enough money so you don't need to worry about bills, health care etc. The idea that wealthy people are unhappy and poor people are happy just doesn't stand up to scrutiny.

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By *babe36Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Money give you Options,,,,,

It's only you that can make you happy,,,,,

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Having enough money is important. I think above a certain point, having an excess of money does not equal happiness.

I have no experience of having an excess of money

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Money, to me, is like air. I'd like enough to live comfortably - too little makes that very difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But as I just said I'm far happier than for instance my sister! She has shed loads same as my brothers but they not happy x"

But is the money a contributing factor to their unhappiness? I doubt it. If they're unhappy, it'll be down to other things going on in their lives.

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

Driving in my Ferrari is helpful babe magnet. Just kidding…..

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

"Get back

I'm alright jack

Keep your hands off my stack

x"
good old pink Floyd

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By *andyfloss2000 OP Woman
over a year ago

ashford

But as I just said I'm far happier than for instance my sister! She has shed loads same as my brothers but they not happy x

But is the money a contributing factor to their unhappiness? I doubt it. If they're unhappy, it'll be down to other things going on in their lives."

Yes maybe! I'm happy when I don't have to worry about money for sure! We all are! But what I was getting at u can have lots of money and not b happy! X

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

Also had a few women offering sex for money. One was real as saw her on cam. Others probably fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was just chatting shit as usual! And was talking bout money one point! I will never have much ha ha! But I'm happy! Do u think it makes people happy? Sure it helps to have some! But my siblings all loaded and they not happy in life generally! X"

Not having financial stress is a good thing…that makes me happy. As long as I’ve enough to get by then it’s all good

F (Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But as I just said I'm far happier than for instance my sister! She has shed loads same as my brothers but they not happy x

But is the money a contributing factor to their unhappiness? I doubt it. If they're unhappy, it'll be down to other things going on in their lives.

Yes maybe! I'm happy when I don't have to worry about money for sure! We all are! But what I was getting at u can have lots of money and not b happy! X"

But you can also have lots of money and be extremely happy....swings and roundabouts really.

I've earned crappie money and I've earned good money. The job with the good money definitely didn't make me happy but the luxuries it gave me definitely cheered me up. I now run my own business and although I earn less, I'm happier in my working life.....but extra cash would always make me happier

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By *andyfloss2000 OP Woman
over a year ago

ashford

But as I just said I'm far happier than for instance my sister! She has shed loads same as my brothers but they not happy x

But is the money a contributing factor to their unhappiness? I doubt it. If they're unhappy, it'll be down to other things going on in their lives.

Yes maybe! I'm happy when I don't have to worry about money for sure! We all are! But what I was getting at u can have lots of money and not b happy! X

But you can also have lots of money and be extremely happy....swings and roundabouts really.

It's a very fleeting happiness though! Was for me when I got a inheritance and cashed in a pension few years back yes I enjoyed spending it especially on others but its what I call temporary happiness that is different from true happiness! Think the word I should b using is content maybe? Not sure really x

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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Im very lucky.

I've had points in my life with no money and no happiness. What I've found is having a bit of money I spend it on my friends and family. I work part time and do a lot of interesting events and activities with them.

I'm happy. I could earn way more working full time but life is to short.

Balance.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Life is simpler when you don't have to worry about money. I've been in that situation and it was stressful and not something I'd want to endure again.

Money may not buy happiness, but it can mean you can work a 4 day week instead of a 5 and spend time with your kids, grandkids or your hobbies.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I'd be much happier if I had more money, it would improve my quality of life.

Having money just makes life easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miserable and poor v miserable and wealthy?

*Hmmmmmmmmmmmm

Wealth removes stress, anxiety, day to day fiscal pressures. Without those we'd be more comfortable surely.

Very simplistic I know.

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up to a certain level money is indeed associated with happiness. It is patently obvious if you don't have enough money to feed your children you'll be less happy than those who can.

Once a comfort threshold is reached then additional money has little long term effect. A windfall such as winning the lottery will undoubtedly cause a short term increase in happiness but once the new level of available money becomes routine then a person defaults to how they were before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Robin Williams

Michael Hutchence.

I'm sure there's many many more.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Money may not buy happiness but it sure as hell can help a lot with stress and worry. I wouldn't want to have millions or own a massive house or a flash car etc but I'd love to have enough so that I never have to stress about bills or if I can afford heating oil etc or at the moment I would give anything to be able to get my a close family member the medical help they needs asap so that they doesn't have to wait for treatment for something that is life threatening. So while no it may not buy happiness but it can save a hell of a lot of stress and worry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a past relationship we had plenty of money, and neither of us were happy.

I've had times where I've not had any money, as in going to the supermarket with a small list and £17.00 to buy what I needed, I was happy I wasn't in a poor relationship, but the money worries have been an incredibly hard burden. So I wasn't happy then either.

I'm about to have a change in my life which will mean I will no longer need to worry about being able to pay bills at times, and buy food. I already know that I'm going to be very happy, and not just because of the financial aspect, but that will help my stress levels immensely.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

My entire family are all alright for money. Me maybe not so much. The biggest thing I have learnt from them is that the people with the least, are the people who share the most.

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By *andyfloss2000 OP Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"My entire family are all alright for money. Me maybe not so much. The biggest thing I have learnt from them is that the people with the least, are the people who share the most. "

How very true is this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think having money gives you one less thing to worry about, and if money is a big worry in your life then yes it will make you happier. It isn't a "cure" for life though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Robin Williams

Michael Hutchence.

I'm sure there's many many more.

It's not the cash that made them sad though

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"My entire family are all alright for money. Me maybe not so much. The biggest thing I have learnt from them is that the people with the least, are the people who share the most. "

It's the other way round here. We're by no means wealthy but we are comfortable. We are expected to bail out my brother and my dad. I've just asked my brother to help us with our daughter because I'm currently stranded upstairs and Mr KC is ill. He said he can't (questionable). I'm supposed to be at a carers meeting at my Dad's tomorrow morning but I can't move. No-one else is able to go. Etc.

We are concerned for others but no-one seems concerned about us.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think this is similar to the good looking people have bad personalities argument.

Having a great personality isn't compensation for being unattractive any more than being happy is compensation for a lack of money.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"In a past relationship we had plenty of money, and neither of us were happy.

I don't belive money will bring happiness. I think you already know that. The feeling I get from your comment is one that you know your gonna be happy, having some type of financial security will make a big difference. Although I'm not nieve enough to think just money will make my world a better place, amd would never scarifce wealth for happiness. Not my business but for you..from a new relationship/job/windfall ect..it sounds like any new wealth ( I use the term loosely as can mean many different things to many people, most think i only own my house is someine esle paid for it or i met a rich bloke) but hell girl! You go grab that chance! Money can cause so much devide in people.

your post tells of how happiness isn't judged by bank balance. But if you can see a future with both...bloody grab it!

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Having money does not necessarily make anyone happy on its own and there are lots of tbings that it cant buy you. Not having enough on the other hand can be a big worry for people and the cause of a lot of stress and unhappiness.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

We’ve never had any money problems really… we are quite well off and can afford luxuries no problem.

I do worry about my children as they become young adults though. I don’t know if they will be able to be as financially independent as their dad and I were in our 20s.

I was binge watching Below Deck the other week and thought about these people renting/owning yachts to just laze about for weeks and having their arse wiped and kissed by crew. Or private jets. I will never have enough money for that, neither do I want to. I just like having a comfortable life and getting the odd treat once in a while.

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By *ociable-NottmCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Money isn’t everything however having financial issues can affect a relationship massively having been through this it’s not nice, I’d rather cry in a bmw than at a bus stop in the rain any day off the week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In a past relationship we had plenty of money, and neither of us were happy.

your post tells of how happiness isn't judged by bank balance. But if you can see a future with both...bloody grab it!"

Its definitely from my own hard work, nothing to do with a relationship

and I'm not going to be wealthy (I wish

) , I'm just not going to need to worry and stress like I did.

That in its self will make me a happier person, but it's definitely not the be all to my happiness

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

It doesn't make you happy but I think it can facilitate things. I definitely went through a time where I had very little and I did worry about things. But now, it's nice being comfortable. I can book nice hotels, go on adventures, buy what I want when I want without worrying. There's a sense of freedom in that regard. I still love a bargain though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can buy me a boat. And a truck to pull it. …. (Song lyrics*)

It could give me the opportunities to do the things that do make me happy. So yeh, it kinda does.

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By *estLondonDeepMan
over a year ago

London

Money gives you choices.

I know people with money and they're mainly driven people, some are never truly happy. But I've never met someone who said their money was a burden.

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