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"Morning all, After the suggestion, I've made myself a thread for this.. Any constructive criticism of my profile, pics etc. I have had people in chats say there isn't 'scary' but I was wondering if anyone could give me some sound advice. I'm mainly aiming towards the F, and couples side of the community. But any advice is welcomed. All I'm trying to do is give it a fresh 'coat of paint' Thank you" @HippyChick, your up 1st  | |||
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"I thought it was fine. But there is a spelling mistake if you care about those things. " Oh i'm not massively off put byt them, but if i know they are there i will try to fix them, could you tell me where please? I'll fix it right away. | |||
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"You don't mention if you're big down under." Lol, thats for the ladies to find out honestly. I've never actually measured it, and only been told its great. (not always about the size, but how you use it). | |||
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"Do you have a neck problem OP? You don't seem to be able to hold your head straight "Nah, fo some reason when i take a selfie i do this weird lean my head to the side thing.. I'm trying to stop that.. lol | |||
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"This may not be everyone’s take but I would like to see your other veris - maybe one that was from a sexual meet and not just a club meet if you have any. Also I think there’s two many similar selfies - kinda looks like a tinder profile. I’d pick the top 5 and then add more erotic pics as it is a sex site I like to see more - also I may just be a perv but at least one cock pic is vital in my opinion " Thank you, I do find most of my selfies are pretty similar..but i'm pretty bad at selfies, not sure what i can change there.. (advice needed there as well). Most of my 'perv' pictures are behind friends only. I do have a few, but i can put 1 or 2 up to the public. | |||
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"This may not be everyone’s take but I would like to see your other veris - maybe one that was from a sexual meet and not just a club meet if you have any. Also I think there’s two many similar selfies - kinda looks like a tinder profile. I’d pick the top 5 and then add more erotic pics as it is a sex site I like to see more - also I may just be a perv but at least one cock pic is vital in my opinion Thank you, I do find most of my selfies are pretty similar..but i'm pretty bad at selfies, not sure what i can change there.. (advice needed there as well). Most of my 'perv' pictures are behind friends only. I do have a few, but i can put 1 or 2 up to the public." I fabbed what I think are the best again only my opinion my taste is not always impeccable soooo make of it what you will! Ya friends only perv pics don’t work for me as I’m not going to take the time after initial message to ask for friendship, in the first 2/3 msgs I’ve made up mind if I’m interested or not | |||
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"This may not be everyone’s take but I would like to see your other veris - maybe one that was from a sexual meet and not just a club meet if you have any. Also I think there’s two many similar selfies - kinda looks like a tinder profile. I’d pick the top 5 and then add more erotic pics as it is a sex site I like to see more - also I may just be a perv but at least one cock pic is vital in my opinion Thank you, I do find most of my selfies are pretty similar..but i'm pretty bad at selfies, not sure what i can change there.. (advice needed there as well). Most of my 'perv' pictures are behind friends only. I do have a few, but i can put 1 or 2 up to the public. I fabbed what I think are the best again only my opinion my taste is not always impeccable soooo make of it what you will! Ya friends only perv pics don’t work for me as I’m not going to take the time after initial message to ask for friendship, in the first 2/3 msgs I’ve made up mind if I’m interested or not" Sweet, thank you so much, this really helps. Got my only 2 veries up at the moment as well. | |||
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"For photo ideas, maybe check out some of the regular male posters. They have been using the forums for a fair while and listened to suggestions and acted on them, learned from which photos have been fabbed the most etc " Thank you I'll try that | |||
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"The photos are not very sexy in my opinion. On some you look disinterested. Open white shirt, unzipped jeans with hint of your best bits. Even a nice pert bum pic might be good. Everybody looks for different things so you're never going to please everyone." Thank you, I might need someone to come help me take shots like that.. lol I find it hard to smile etc and look interested in selfies. but as for ideas for some more photo's thank you, I'll take them in mind. | |||
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"The photos are not very sexy in my opinion. On some you look disinterested. Open white shirt, unzipped jeans with hint of your best bits. Even a nice pert bum pic might be good. Everybody looks for different things so you're never going to please everyone. Thank you, I might need someone to come help me take shots like that.. lol I find it hard to smile etc and look interested in selfies. but as for ideas for some more photo's thank you, I'll take them in mind." They don't all need your face in. Headless body shots of your body dripping after a shower with just a towel, shirts open revealing torso and jeans open at the button etc.... | |||
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"The photos are not very sexy in my opinion. On some you look disinterested. Open white shirt, unzipped jeans with hint of your best bits. Even a nice pert bum pic might be good. Everybody looks for different things so you're never going to please everyone. Thank you, I might need someone to come help me take shots like that.. lol I find it hard to smile etc and look interested in selfies. but as for ideas for some more photo's thank you, I'll take them in mind. They don't all need your face in. Headless body shots of your body dripping after a shower with just a towel, shirts open revealing torso and jeans open at the button etc...." Thank you, those are some great ideas. (i like photography, but of myself.. i draw blanks lol) | |||
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"Go to Calvin Klein thread and check out some of the single men's photos. Some great ideas." oooh ok thank you | |||
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"This may not be everyone’s take but I would like to see your other veris - maybe one that was from a sexual meet and not just a club meet if you have any. Also I think there’s two many similar selfies - kinda looks like a tinder profile. I’d pick the top 5 and then add more erotic pics as it is a sex site I like to see more - also I may just be a perv but at least one cock pic is vital in my opinion " So Many women profiles say not interested in cock pics. Even just on profile. That's why so many men on here are confused!  | |||
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"This may not be everyone’s take but I would like to see your other veris - maybe one that was from a sexual meet and not just a club meet if you have any. Also I think there’s two many similar selfies - kinda looks like a tinder profile. I’d pick the top 5 and then add more erotic pics as it is a sex site I like to see more - also I may just be a perv but at least one cock pic is vital in my opinion So Many women profiles say not interested in cock pics. Even just on profile. That's why so many men on here are confused! "I'll agree there, but I suppose that dick pics via msg are unsolicited, whereas on your profile.. 1-3 isn't a bad thing, that way they can see what you 'have to offer' | |||
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"This may not be everyone’s take but I would like to see your other veris - maybe one that was from a sexual meet and not just a club meet if you have any. Also I think there’s two many similar selfies - kinda looks like a tinder profile. I’d pick the top 5 and then add more erotic pics as it is a sex site I like to see more - also I may just be a perv but at least one cock pic is vital in my opinion So Many women profiles say not interested in cock pics. Even just on profile. That's why so many men on here are confused! "I think this could be an issue with the confused men not realising that women are in fact all different and don't like the same things. The not confused men know this and are therefore writing their profiles not to appeal to the masses, but to reflect themselves well and to appeal to those who find them appealing. OP, you're not going to get the perfect formula for a profile. Because there isn't one. Just write authentically about you. If you don't know what to say, have a look at some profiles and get some ideas for what to mention. But do it to reflect yourself and to give your target audience an idea of what you're like. | |||
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"This may not be everyone’s take but I would like to see your other veris - maybe one that was from a sexual meet and not just a club meet if you have any. Also I think there’s two many similar selfies - kinda looks like a tinder profile. I’d pick the top 5 and then add more erotic pics as it is a sex site I like to see more - also I may just be a perv but at least one cock pic is vital in my opinion So Many women profiles say not interested in cock pics. Even just on profile. That's why so many men on here are confused!
I think this could be an issue with the confused men not realising that women are in fact all different and don't like the same things.
The not confused men know this and are therefore writing their profiles not to appeal to the masses, but to reflect themselves well and to appeal to those who find them appealing.
OP, you're not going to get the perfect formula for a profile. Because there isn't one. Just write authentically about you. If you don't know what to say, have a look at some profiles and get some ideas for what to mention. But do it to reflect yourself and to give your target audience an idea of what you're like.
"Thank you. I have tried to do this already, but always could be some tweeking (and i have been off for a few months so.. think it needs a little breath of fresh air, just dont know where to start lol) | |||
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"This may not be everyone’s take but I would like to see your other veris - maybe one that was from a sexual meet and not just a club meet if you have any. Also I think there’s two many similar selfies - kinda looks like a tinder profile. I’d pick the top 5 and then add more erotic pics as it is a sex site I like to see more - also I may just be a perv but at least one cock pic is vital in my opinion So Many women profiles say not interested in cock pics. Even just on profile. That's why so many men on here are confused!
I think this could be an issue with the confused men not realising that women are in fact all different and don't like the same things.
The not confused men know this and are therefore writing their profiles not to appeal to the masses, but to reflect themselves well and to appeal to those who find them appealing.
OP, you're not going to get the perfect formula for a profile. Because there isn't one. Just write authentically about you. If you don't know what to say, have a look at some profiles and get some ideas for what to mention. But do it to reflect yourself and to give your target audience an idea of what you're like.
Thank you. I have tried to do this already, but always could be some tweeking (and i have been off for a few months so.. think it needs a little breath of fresh air, just dont know where to start lol)"It's never an easy thing to do. | |||
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"This may not be everyone’s take but I would like to see your other veris - maybe one that was from a sexual meet and not just a club meet if you have any. Also I think there’s two many similar selfies - kinda looks like a tinder profile. I’d pick the top 5 and then add more erotic pics as it is a sex site I like to see more - also I may just be a perv but at least one cock pic is vital in my opinion So Many women profiles say not interested in cock pics. Even just on profile. That's why so many men on here are confused! "There’s no need for confusion if you are looking for females who are attracted to your dick then pop up a pic, if you are looking for females who would be offended by the sight of your dick don’t show it | |||
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"You basically have 2 types of pics…cock pics and face pics - neither of them are selling you well as you don’t look that interested in them or you are pulling a face. Your text reads well but your pics aren’t going to attract a lot. If you are starting to get an interest in photography then this is the perfect opportunity to create better pics…ones that intrigue…you don’t have to show your face, if you feel you’ve got to pull a face every time a camera is close to you…showing off other parts of your body will be more alluding, drawing people in more. You have what I would say are standard single male pics on here…cock and face. Think outside of these and I’m sure that will help you stand out more
K"Thank you I will bare that in mind. Will see what I can imagine moving forward. | |||
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