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"“Most people say, when a woman's over about 42, that she's sexy "for her age."” - Nancy in Good luck to you Leo Grande Great film. " Not seen this yet but want to love Emma Thompson | |||
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"To be honest it doesn't bother me. A compliment is always appreciated." This is not really a compliment though | |||
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"I guess it’s better than being told you look shit for your age! Thing is I have said it before and meant it genuinely, some people DO look great for their age, it is meant as a compliment if said sincerely (rather than a throwaway chat up line). It’s a shame if good intentions are discarded as offensive of crass imho, but hey, what do I know as I’m not the one on the receiving ends of such things! " Yup, I agree Dan. As long as it's not a "line", I accept the compliment graciously. I've often said it to folk myself & it was always received well. X | |||
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"I guess it’s better than being told you look shit for your age! Thing is I have said it before and meant it genuinely, some people DO look great for their age, it is meant as a compliment if said sincerely (rather than a throwaway chat up line). It’s a shame if good intentions are discarded as offensive of crass imho, but hey, what do I know as I’m not the one on the receiving ends of such things! Yup, I agree Dan. As long as it's not a "line", I accept the compliment graciously. I've often said it to folk myself & it was always received well. X" I think its more about the person paying the compliment rather than the compliment itself | |||
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"Could be wrong but maybe the OP just feels why comment on her age at all? What does it bring to the conversation? " Exactly | |||
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"I think fab should have a rule book on how to compliment people on here, it might help stop people being offended for ill advised compliments. " Why not just say "you look great" and not qualify it with reference to age. Ditto for things like "you're pretty for a fat lass" or "you're really attractive, even though you're disabled." Just feels like the person is suggested that slightly older or fatter or disabled (or whatever) women aren't generally seen as attractive. I've not had the "great for your age" line yet, but have had the other two. | |||
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"I think fab should have a rule book on how to compliment people on here, it might help stop people being offended for ill advised compliments. Why not just say "you look great" and not qualify it with reference to age. Ditto for things like "you're pretty for a fat lass" or "you're really attractive, even though you're disabled." Just feels like the person is suggested that slightly older or fatter or disabled (or whatever) women aren't generally seen as attractive. I've not had the "great for your age" line yet, but have had the other two. " you'd swear someone said something horrible to the lady, why not take it as a compliment and not be so easily offended by the smallest little things. | |||
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"I think fab should have a rule book on how to compliment people on here, it might help stop people being offended for ill advised compliments. Why not just say "you look great" and not qualify it with reference to age. Ditto for things like "you're pretty for a fat lass" or "you're really attractive, even though you're disabled." Just feels like the person is suggested that slightly older or fatter or disabled (or whatever) women aren't generally seen as attractive. I've not had the "great for your age" line yet, but have had the other two. you'd swear someone said something horrible to the lady, why not take it as a compliment and not be so easily offended by the smallest little things. " You're attractive. For an Irishman. Presumably you'd be good with that? | |||
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"I think fab should have a rule book on how to compliment people on here, it might help stop people being offended for ill advised compliments. Why not just say "you look great" and not qualify it with reference to age. Ditto for things like "you're pretty for a fat lass" or "you're really attractive, even though you're disabled." Just feels like the person is suggested that slightly older or fatter or disabled (or whatever) women aren't generally seen as attractive. I've not had the "great for your age" line yet, but have had the other two. you'd swear someone said something horrible to the lady, why not take it as a compliment and not be so easily offended by the smallest little things. You're attractive. For an Irishman. Presumably you'd be good with that? " ya nice to be told now and again. There is a saying in my local "leave your feelings at the door" | |||
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"I think fab should have a rule book on how to compliment people on here, it might help stop people being offended for ill advised compliments. Why not just say "you look great" and not qualify it with reference to age. Ditto for things like "you're pretty for a fat lass" or "you're really attractive, even though you're disabled." Just feels like the person is suggested that slightly older or fatter or disabled (or whatever) women aren't generally seen as attractive. I've not had the "great for your age" line yet, but have had the other two. you'd swear someone said something horrible to the lady, why not take it as a compliment and not be so easily offended by the smallest little things. You're attractive. For an Irishman. Presumably you'd be good with that? ya nice to be told now and again. There is a saying in my local "leave your feelings at the door" " Fair enough. However, other people would prefer that the "qualifiers" be left at the door and just give a compliment, if you really believe it. We (women) on here get told all sorts of plain nonsense in an attempt to get in our knickers, so it's not surprising many don't just take all compliments at face value. One minute, you're the most beautiful being ever to grace the earth but the next, you're a fat old slag because you didn't reply to a message. | |||
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"Or - “You don’t look 40 at all” Or “you look so good for your age” Is it just me - or do those phrases rub anyone else up the wrong way?? Maybe it’s just me being too sensitive?? I’m early 40s and had never even really though about my age until started swinging. I’ll try accept the backhanded compliment graciously I suppose??" yep 100% avoid and block piss's me right off | |||
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"I don’t take kindly to the age related comments either. " Neither you should x age is just a number x | |||
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You look good op, regardless have how many years you’ve knocked off for your profile…..  
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"Or - “You don’t look 40 at all” Or “you look so good for your age” Is it just me - or do those phrases rub anyone else up the wrong way?? Maybe it’s just me being too sensitive?? I’m early 40s and had never even really though about my age until started swinging. I’ll try accept the backhanded compliment graciously I suppose??" No you don't have to accept it. If someone doesn't know how to compliment you without being offensive, they aren't worth your time! | |||
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"We sometimes hear people say things we think are complimentary. It might have been to someone, but we then repeat it to someone else and it can fall flat.
You look good op, regardless have how many years you’ve knocked off for your profile…..
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"It’s not offensive and it doesn’t upset me, but it would be received with an eye roll
Why does age need to be mentioned/quantified at all?"Because they think old birds like being reminded that if they were younger they'd look rubbish  | |||
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"It’s not offensive and it doesn’t upset me, but it would be received with an eye roll
Why does age need to be mentioned/quantified at all?
Because they think old birds like being reminded that if they were younger they'd look rubbish " | |||
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"I've said to guys that they have a cracking body and they don't look 50 odds or whatever age. " Being told you don't look your age is subtly different. It's akin to being told you're good at something...for a woman/man | |||
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"It’s not offensive and it doesn’t upset me, but it would be received with an eye roll
Why does age need to be mentioned/quantified at all?"I think you’ll find the majority of the time it’s just sloppily delivered I very much doubt they mean “you look good, because you should look shit coz your an old fuck” They more likely mean “you look good” and a clumsily added on “considering your age” with no ill intentions included Everyone’s so busy trying to be offended they’ve forgotten to look at the persons intentions rather than their execution And to be fair, you lot probably don’t look too bad considering your old skins been fighting gravity for nearly half a century | |||
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"It’s not offensive and it doesn’t upset me, but it would be received with an eye roll
Why does age need to be mentioned/quantified at all?
I think you’ll find the majority of the time it’s just sloppily delivered
I very much doubt they mean “you look good, because you should look shit coz your an old fuck”
They more likely mean “you look good” and a clumsily added on “considering your age” with no ill intentions included
Everyone’s so busy trying to be offended they’ve forgotten to look at the persons intentions rather than their execution
And to be fair, you lot probably don’t look too bad considering your old skins been fighting gravity for nearly half a century "As I said, I’m not offended. I appreciate they are trying to give me a compliment, albeit very clumsily. I just roll my eyes and move on. | |||
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"It’s not offensive and it doesn’t upset me, but it would be received with an eye roll
Why does age need to be mentioned/quantified at all?
I think you’ll find the majority of the time it’s just sloppily delivered
I very much doubt they mean “you look good, because you should look shit coz your an old fuck”
They more likely mean “you look good” and a clumsily added on “considering your age” with no ill intentions included
Everyone’s so busy trying to be offended they’ve forgotten to look at the persons intentions rather than their execution
And to be fair, you lot probably don’t look too bad considering your old skins been fighting gravity for nearly half a century "Exactly how I see it, I'll try acknowledge compliments graciously, no need to throw one's insecurities back at the giver | |||
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"To be honest it doesn't bother me. A compliment is always appreciated. This is not really a compliment though " Yeah it is (in my opinion). They’re effectively comparing you with a demographic and - in relation to the ‘average’ in that demographic - saying you come out well! Personally I’d say I look good ‘for 53’. Were I 20 years younger I’d be having a word with myself and telling myself to get a grip and get back in shape pronto (whereas right now it’s mainly walking and swimming that I do regularly). I’m also the same with the guys I meet. I expect different things from different age groups - not all purely physical though. | |||
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"It’s not offensive and it doesn’t upset me, but it would be received with an eye roll
Why does age need to be mentioned/quantified at all?
I think you’ll find the majority of the time it’s just sloppily delivered
I very much doubt they mean “you look good, because you should look shit coz your an old fuck”
They more likely mean “you look good” and a clumsily added on “considering your age” with no ill intentions included
Everyone’s so busy trying to be offended they’ve forgotten to look at the persons intentions rather than their execution
And to be fair, you lot probably don’t look too bad considering your old skins been fighting gravity for nearly half a century
Exactly how I see it, I'll try acknowledge compliments graciously, no need to throw one's insecurities back at the giver "That’s a very good way to put it actually. Just insecurity rearing it’s ugly head | |||
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"False flattery. Guys will say anything yo get their dick wet." Anything? | |||
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"It’s not offensive and it doesn’t upset me, but it would be received with an eye roll
Why does age need to be mentioned/quantified at all?
I think you’ll find the majority of the time it’s just sloppily delivered
I very much doubt they mean “you look good, because you should look shit coz your an old fuck”
They more likely mean “you look good” and a clumsily added on “considering your age” with no ill intentions included
Everyone’s so busy trying to be offended they’ve forgotten to look at the persons intentions rather than their execution
And to be fair, you lot probably don’t look too bad considering your old skins been fighting gravity for nearly half a century
Exactly how I see it, I'll try acknowledge compliments graciously, no need to throw one's insecurities back at the giver "I’m not insecure about my age, and I don’t throw anything back, it’s just a rubbish compliment. | |||
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" Everyone’s so busy trying to be offended they’ve forgotten to look at the persons intentions rather than their execution " This. To the moons of Jupiter and back. This. People talk in cliche and make colloquial faux pas all the time - and they always looks worse in writing. | |||
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"It’s not offensive and it doesn’t upset me, but it would be received with an eye roll
Why does age need to be mentioned/quantified at all?
I think you’ll find the majority of the time it’s just sloppily delivered
I very much doubt they mean “you look good, because you should look shit coz your an old fuck”
They more likely mean “you look good” and a clumsily added on “considering your age” with no ill intentions included
Everyone’s so busy trying to be offended they’ve forgotten to look at the persons intentions rather than their execution
And to be fair, you lot probably don’t look too bad considering your old skins been fighting gravity for nearly half a century
Exactly how I see it, I'll try acknowledge compliments graciously, no need to throw one's insecurities back at the giver
I’m not insecure about my age, and I don’t throw anything back, it’s just a rubbish compliment."This for me too | |||
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"Or - “You don’t look 40 at all” Or “you look so good for your age” Is it just me - or do those phrases rub anyone else up the wrong way?? Maybe it’s just me being too sensitive?? I’m early 40s and had never even really though about my age until started swinging. I’ll try accept the backhanded compliment graciously I suppose??" Nobody needs to compliment anyone else so just accept it graciously as it was intended. Kind complimentary words. And yes you are probably being sensitive and looking for offence if being complimented, however clumsy the choice of words, winds you up so much. | |||
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"So not only must we accept 'for your age' tacked on to the end of any complimentary phrase we must also be told we are wrong not to like it. Tsk, I don't like being told how to feel about something, must be my age..." I was thinking that too. | |||
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"“Most people say, when a woman's over about 42, that she's sexy "for her age."” - Nancy in Good luck to you Leo Grande Great film. Not seen this yet but want to love Emma Thompson " It’s a beautiful beautiful film. Think it tackles lots of important things. One of which I think is some of the stuff in this thread. I’ve watched it 3 or 4 times already! | |||
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"So not only must we accept 'for your age' tacked on to the end of any complimentary phrase we must also be told we are wrong not to like it. Tsk, I don't like being told how to feel about something, must be my age..." You see... I Clumsily worded! I should have added... "or don't" at the end. Communication let me down as Tony Hadley once opined. | |||
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"Or - “You don’t look 40 at all” Or “you look so good for your age” Is it just me - or do those phrases rub anyone else up the wrong way?? Maybe it’s just me being too sensitive?? I’m early 40s and had never even really though about my age until started swinging. I’ll try accept the backhanded compliment graciously I suppose?? Nobody needs to compliment anyone else so just accept it graciously as it was intended. Kind complimentary words. And yes you are probably being sensitive and looking for offence if being complimented, however clumsy the choice of words, winds you up so much. " | |||
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"So not only must we accept 'for your age' tacked on to the end of any complimentary phrase we must also be told we are wrong not to like it. Tsk, I don't like being told how to feel about something, must be my age..." I suppose it’s just questioning why someone would look for the bad rather than the good Let a clumsy compliment ruin your day or take it the way it was intended No one’s telling you how to feel. I just think it’s sad to feel that way over such a nothing Feels exactly like someone getting seriously upset over a “you look good today” - “oh so I didn’t look good yesterday?!?” Just gives off seriously “grumpy old lady” vibes | |||
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"So not only must we accept 'for your age' tacked on to the end of any complimentary phrase we must also be told we are wrong not to like it. Tsk, I don't like being told how to feel about something, must be my age..." Naah, women are fickle whatever their age | |||
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"So not only must we accept 'for your age' tacked on to the end of any complimentary phrase we must also be told we are wrong not to like it. Tsk, I don't like being told how to feel about something, must be my age... I suppose it’s just questioning why someone would look for the bad rather than the good Let a clumsy compliment ruin your day or take it the way it was intended No one’s telling you how to feel. I just think it’s sad to feel that way over such a nothing Feels exactly like someone getting seriously upset over a “you look good today” - “oh so I didn’t look good yesterday?!?” Just gives off seriously “grumpy old lady” vibes " so be it. If me discussing how I don't like compliments that give with one hand and take away with the other gives off grumpy old lady vibes I'll take it all day long.
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"If I was at a 'how to compliment successfully convention' i'd be a bit perturbed at their lack of skills but as im in everyday situation with everyday people i'll take their intentions as good and enjoy it ....... if it makes me smile with the memory of how i've fucked up in the past it's even sweeter. " This!!! ( smashing norks by the way!!)  | |||
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"There’s no getting away from the fact most people are seen as less attractive as they get older. I’m 41 but look much younger so I just take it as them saying I don’t look 41. It’s a compliment and I take it as one. Like someone else has said intention matters. Are they trying to insult you? Probably not so I’d take it as intended, as a compliment! " You remind me a little of Thandie Newton xx and she’s not difficult to look at!! Xx | |||
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"Or - “You don’t look 40 at all” Or “you look so good for your age” Is it just me - or do those phrases rub anyone else up the wrong way?? Maybe it’s just me being too sensitive?? I’m early 40s and had never even really though about my age until started swinging. I’ll try accept the backhanded compliment graciously I suppose??" I’d say definitely take it in your stride and a compliment x | |||
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"I've had this discussion recently. When I'm told I look younger than I am. I've said I'm not sure if they're saying I look young or that is surprising that I'm old. It comes down to perspective on how we receive comments, whether we see them as a compliment or not. Before responding, try to see their intent behind it, and accept it as that. " This is me. But it also gives an insight into the type of person they are more so when it's "but you've such a pretty face" or some comment about being attractive despite being disabled. | |||
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"So not only must we accept 'for your age' tacked on to the end of any complimentary phrase we must also be told we are wrong not to like it. Tsk, I don't like being told how to feel about something, must be my age... I suppose it’s just questioning why someone would look for the bad rather than the good Let a clumsy compliment ruin your day or take it the way it was intended No one’s telling you how to feel. I just think it’s sad to feel that way over such a nothing Feels exactly like someone getting seriously upset over a “you look good today” - “oh so I didn’t look good yesterday?!?” Just gives off seriously “grumpy old lady” vibes so be it. If me discussing how I don't like compliments that give with one hand and take away with the other gives off grumpy old lady vibes I'll take it all day long.
If people are offended by me not liking something I think they're being over sensitive and not taking my opinion as its intended, they should lighten up and feel the way I say they should about what I say. " | |||
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"I’m not too bothered, it just reminds me I’m old though as I still think I’m young . Just don’t call me a cougar!"Raaar 
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"I’m not too bothered, it just reminds me I’m old though as I still think I’m young . Just don’t call me a cougar!
Raaar
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"I’m not too bothered, it just reminds me I’m old though as I still think I’m young . Just don’t call me a cougar!
Raaar
. I’m tall so I don’t mind being a giraffe "It was that, or a pussy 
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"I’m not too bothered, it just reminds me I’m old though as I still think I’m young . Just don’t call me a cougar!
Raaar
. I’m tall so I don’t mind being a giraffe
It was that, or a pussy
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"I’m not too bothered, it just reminds me I’m old though as I still think I’m young . Just don’t call me a cougar!
Raaar
. I’m tall so I don’t mind being a giraffe
It was that, or a pussy
At least it wasn’t a dog "Woof *Austin Powers style* 
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"Has anyone ever said "you look great for your age" to a 25 year old and if they have was it considered complimentary?" No. I have been told I look older than 25 a few times and I think the feelings I got from that are representative of societal feelings on aging. But then people often say ‘it’s good to look older’ makes me think a lot about gender differences in ageing. Women get old and men get sexy. | |||
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"Has anyone ever said "you look great for your age" to a 25 year old and if they have was it considered complimentary? No. I have been told I look older than 25 a few times and I think the feelings I got from that are representative of societal feelings on aging. But then people often say ‘it’s good to look older’ makes me think a lot about gender differences in ageing. Women get old and men get sexy. "Yep. I think that's changing though. It's clear though that saying the same thing to different people can have varying results | |||
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"Has anyone ever said "you look great for your age" to a 25 year old and if they have was it considered complimentary? No. I have been told I look older than 25 a few times and I think the feelings I got from that are representative of societal feelings on aging. But then people often say ‘it’s good to look older’ makes me think a lot about gender differences in ageing. Women get old and men get sexy. "Eh, tell that to all the 50plus males on here who are blocked by filters | |||
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"Has anyone ever said "you look great for your age" to a 25 year old and if they have was it considered complimentary? No. I have been told I look older than 25 a few times and I think the feelings I got from that are representative of societal feelings on aging. But then people often say ‘it’s good to look older’ makes me think a lot about gender differences in ageing. Women get old and men get sexy.
Yep. I think that's changing though.
It's clear though that saying the same thing to different people can have varying results "Don’t worry. I think you’re sexy for any age
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"Has anyone ever said "you look great for your age" to a 25 year old and if they have was it considered complimentary? No. I have been told I look older than 25 a few times and I think the feelings I got from that are representative of societal feelings on aging. But then people often say ‘it’s good to look older’ makes me think a lot about gender differences in ageing. Women get old and men get sexy.
Eh, tell that to all the 50plus males on here who are blocked by filters"To be fair, fab is not a fair reflection of desirability for so many reasons. But I hear your point. I mean there’s probably an ideal age on here in terms of desirable men that is between say 30 and 45 (guessing). But also worth considering that it depends on the women that men are going for. Generally, people of the same age as you will have filters that are accepting of your age. | |||
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"Has anyone ever said "you look great for your age" to a 25 year old and if they have was it considered complimentary? No. I have been told I look older than 25 a few times and I think the feelings I got from that are representative of societal feelings on aging. But then people often say ‘it’s good to look older’ makes me think a lot about gender differences in ageing. Women get old and men get sexy.
Eh, tell that to all the 50plus males on here who are blocked by filters"Try telling that to all the 40-60 guys on here that have more verifications than they can deal with It’s no secret men are attracted to youth, and it’s no secret that’s lots of women like older guys. That’s biology | |||
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"Has anyone ever said "you look great for your age" to a 25 year old and if they have was it considered complimentary? No. I have been told I look older than 25 a few times and I think the feelings I got from that are representative of societal feelings on aging. But then people often say ‘it’s good to look older’ makes me think a lot about gender differences in ageing. Women get old and men get sexy.
Yep. I think that's changing though.
It's clear though that saying the same thing to different people can have varying results
Don’t worry. I think you’re sexy for any age
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"Has anyone ever said "you look great for your age" to a 25 year old and if they have was it considered complimentary? No. I have been told I look older than 25 a few times and I think the feelings I got from that are representative of societal feelings on aging. But then people often say ‘it’s good to look older’ makes me think a lot about gender differences in ageing. Women get old and men get sexy.
Eh, tell that to all the 50plus males on here who are blocked by filters"this is true - im a silver haired sleek hipped fox of a man with steel blue eyes and a mouth that invites kisses and an arse that demands squeezing - and I find it difficult because of the filters | |||
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"Has anyone ever said "you look great for your age" to a 25 year old and if they have was it considered complimentary? No. I have been told I look older than 25 a few times and I think the feelings I got from that are representative of societal feelings on aging. But then people often say ‘it’s good to look older’ makes me think a lot about gender differences in ageing. Women get old and men get sexy.
Eh, tell that to all the 50plus males on here who are blocked by filters this is true - im a silver haired sleek hipped fox of a man with steel blue eyes and a mouth that invites kisses and an arse that demands squeezing - and I find it difficult because of the filters "I'd squeeze your arse | |||
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"Has anyone ever said "you look great for your age" to a 25 year old and if they have was it considered complimentary? No. I have been told I look older than 25 a few times and I think the feelings I got from that are representative of societal feelings on aging. But then people often say ‘it’s good to look older’ makes me think a lot about gender differences in ageing. Women get old and men get sexy.
Eh, tell that to all the 50plus males on here who are blocked by filters this is true - im a silver haired sleek hipped fox of a man with steel blue eyes and a mouth that invites kisses and an arse that demands squeezing - and I find it difficult because of the filters
I'd squeeze your arse "I was not expecting that… id definitely let you xxx | |||
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"Has anyone ever said "you look great for your age" to a 25 year old and if they have was it considered complimentary? No. I have been told I look older than 25 a few times and I think the feelings I got from that are representative of societal feelings on aging. But then people often say ‘it’s good to look older’ makes me think a lot about gender differences in ageing. Women get old and men get sexy.
Yep. I think that's changing though.
It's clear though that saying the same thing to different people can have varying results
Don’t worry. I think you’re sexy for any age
Did I say that right?
even the bronze age?"I’d like to see you in an outfit from the Bronze Age before confirming | |||
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"Has anyone ever said "you look great for your age" to a 25 year old and if they have was it considered complimentary? No. I have been told I look older than 25 a few times and I think the feelings I got from that are representative of societal feelings on aging. But then people often say ‘it’s good to look older’ makes me think a lot about gender differences in ageing. Women get old and men get sexy.
Yep. I think that's changing though.
It's clear though that saying the same thing to different people can have varying results
Don’t worry. I think you’re sexy for any age
Did I say that right?
even the bronze age?
I’d like to see you in an outfit from the Bronze Age before confirming "Trust me Steve, some of my clothes are that old... | |||
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"Has anyone ever said "you look great for your age" to a 25 year old and if they have was it considered complimentary? No. I have been told I look older than 25 a few times and I think the feelings I got from that are representative of societal feelings on aging. But then people often say ‘it’s good to look older’ makes me think a lot about gender differences in ageing. Women get old and men get sexy.
Yep. I think that's changing though.
It's clear though that saying the same thing to different people can have varying results
Don’t worry. I think you’re sexy for any age
Did I say that right?
even the bronze age?
I’d like to see you in an outfit from the Bronze Age before confirming
Trust me Steve, some of my clothes are that old... "Oooooft. Is it getting hot in here? I am hot. | |||
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"Has anyone ever said "you look great for your age" to a 25 year old and if they have was it considered complimentary? No. I have been told I look older than 25 a few times and I think the feelings I got from that are representative of societal feelings on aging. But then people often say ‘it’s good to look older’ makes me think a lot about gender differences in ageing. Women get old and men get sexy.
Yep. I think that's changing though.
It's clear though that saying the same thing to different people can have varying results
Don’t worry. I think you’re sexy for any age
Did I say that right?
even the bronze age?
I’d like to see you in an outfit from the Bronze Age before confirming "That fur bikini from 10000 bc?... Or lynx advert. | |||
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"Has anyone ever said "you look great for your age" to a 25 year old and if they have was it considered complimentary? No. I have been told I look older than 25 a few times and I think the feelings I got from that are representative of societal feelings on aging. But then people often say ‘it’s good to look older’ makes me think a lot about gender differences in ageing. Women get old and men get sexy.
Yep. I think that's changing though.
It's clear though that saying the same thing to different people can have varying results
Don’t worry. I think you’re sexy for any age
Did I say that right?
even the bronze age?
I’d like to see you in an outfit from the Bronze Age before confirming
That fur bikini from 10000 bc?... Or lynx advert. "The lynx advert where they used their fur bras as bolasses? Utter genius | |||
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