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Are we to young for the site, time to go?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone!

Have just discovered how to work the forums really but it seems as if a lot are put off by our age and our profile..

Any advice would be great and don't be hesitate to message and say hello!x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Yeah I've had that before. You just have to shrug it off and keep at it, you'll find somebody eventually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try lying about your age

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Hey guys welcome to the forum

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

The forum is a great place for being seen and seeing But more than that great friendshipa can be made here.

Or if nothing else it can be a really good crack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try lying about your age "
was going to say this

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By *ANDA!Man
over a year ago

DUMFRIES

Now someone can correct me if I'm wrong, buy I think when people are saying about your age, it's probably because there is a lot of young couples join, hang around for a few days or so, then decide its not for them. Case in point was a few days ago, young couple, both 22 joined local to me. I sent a message welcoming them to the site, we exchanged messages for a bit, nothing serial, then 12hrs later they were gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try lying about your age was going to say this "

Great minds Jo. Great minds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the forums, sorry to hear your experience hasn't been great so far. You're definitely not too young for the site and I'm sure you'll be able to find the right people in time.

Personally, I felt the same way when I first joined as though there was an undercurrent that younger people aren't mature enough to know what they want from the site or from swinging as a whole. However, there are some lovely people on here, you just need to have patience to find them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To old. Too young. To masculine and perfect…. I’ve seen it all on here.

Welcome to fab.

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Hi everyone!

Have just discovered how to work the forums really but it seems as if a lot are put off by our age and our profile..

Any advice would be great and don't be hesitate to message and say hello!x"

You’ll soon find that Fab contains one of the world’s greatest concentrations of opinion.

Soon after that, you’ll learn to ignore 99.9% of them.

Come on in and enjoy…..

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent

Welcome to the site and the forum!

I think with the age thing, the majority on here seem to be that bit older and don’t necessarily want to contact people who are closer to their kids ages than their own. Most have either been in the lifestyle a very long time or only came to it when they were much older so it might be that you’re too young for their preferred age range or that they’re concerned you don’t really know what you want because they weren’t considering swinging at that age.

Do stick around though, you never know what it might lead to.

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone!

Have just discovered how to work the forums really but it seems as if a lot are put off by our age and our profile..

Any advice would be great and don't be hesitate to message and say hello!x"

Age is just a number

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By *r AnalyticMan
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Hi everyone!

Have just discovered how to work the forums really but it seems as if a lot are put off by our age and our profile..

Any advice would be great and don't be hesitate to message and say hello!x"

I don't think so age is just a number we are all adults. It's more to with engagement on the forums.

The more engagements you have the more that people recognise your name. I'm probably more inclined to meet.

Single ladies on the hand just need a profile don't matter if it's short or long profile with or without photos they will all ways get a message or 1,000

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone!

Have just discovered how to work the forums really but it seems as if a lot are put off by our age and our profile..

Any advice would be great and don't be hesitate to message and say hello!x"

Your profile is fine, it's not about being too young, it's about whether you are genuine or not... There's been an increasing number of dodgy profiles since COVID started and unfortunately they are either young couples, men or females but young is the key word here. So long as you are genuine and prove so then I don't see that you will really hae a problem... Xx

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London

Hi,

Welcome to the forum.

Every age has its difficulties.

I this a few tweaks to your profile might help.

I would move paragraphs 2&3 down, so you start by telling people about you, then go on to say what you are looking for.

I would change your photos. Less 'bits' shots and more full body.

Hope that helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't overthink it. You will have plenty of success.

Just have fun and roll with it

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By *assionate VoyagerMan
over a year ago

Lan

Another younger one on the site! Would be good to mingle more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I completely forgot. I made an under 30s thread didn’t I?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for the help! Thing is with us we were more around adults growing up so we are more mature for our age if that makes sense lol.. about info on our profile, don't want to overload it to much for it to get a boring read.

Get in touch guys and thank yous!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Try getting to my age. 45 seems to be the cut-off point for blokes

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