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By *nlyfun3 OP   Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

Do you find if you obviously love giving oral that the return pleasure us often forgotten by people?

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By *orkvweMan
over a year ago

Cork

I would say not for me. There is always a long session of 69 in the menu for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

69 is fucking shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. But blowjobs are often boring (not always tbf) and I’m ok with skipping them.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

It has been in the past, which is why I tend not to give oral until I've had at least one good orgasm first.

Too many times I was left with a mouthful of cum while a bloke pulled his clothes back on and scarpered leaving me frustrated.

Much as I enjoy giving oral I want to make sure I get off too.

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By *nlyfun3 OP   Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

I'm not talking about 69s. I love to give and concentrate on giving oral as I love it. But I think I excite people and they forget I'd like it returned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not talking about 69s. I love to give and concentrate on giving oral as I love it. But I think I excite people and they forget I'd like it returned"

Ah you see, I don't excite anyone enough to do that.

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By *nlyfun3 OP   Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts


"I'm not talking about 69s. I love to give and concentrate on giving oral as I love it. But I think I excite people and they forget I'd like it returned

Ah you see, I don't excite anyone enough to do that. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not talking about 69s. I love to give and concentrate on giving oral as I love it. But I think I excite people and they forget I'd like it returned

Ah you see, I don't excite anyone enough to do that. "

Put a pork pie down there and you’ll be fighting them off with a stick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I've had a few that are happy to be sucked until my jaws fell off but haven't used their mouth once throughout the entire sex session.

I'll let you guess if I saw them again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not talking about 69s. I love to give and concentrate on giving oral as I love it. But I think I excite people and they forget I'd like it returned

Ah you see, I don't excite anyone enough to do that.

Put a pork pie down there and you’ll be fighting them off with a stick "

Ketchup?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lay out the rules...always get ur pleasure first,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not talking about 69s. I love to give and concentrate on giving oral as I love it. But I think I excite people and they forget I'd like it returned

Ah you see, I don't excite anyone enough to do that.

Put a pork pie down there and you’ll be fighting them off with a stick

Ketchup?"

Depends what time of the month it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"69 is fucking shit"

Isn't that anal you're thinking of ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"69 is fucking shit

Isn't that anal you're thinking of ? "

I'm female, I know the difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not talking about 69s. I love to give and concentrate on giving oral as I love it. But I think I excite people and they forget I'd like it returned

Ah you see, I don't excite anyone enough to do that.

Put a pork pie down there and you’ll be fighting them off with a stick

Ketchup?

Depends what time of the month it is "

Be an added surprise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I've had a few that are happy to be sucked until my jaws fell off but haven't used their mouth once throughout the entire sex session.

I'll let you guess if I saw them again "

Yes I have had this not the norm but when it happens I’m just confused as to how they are on fab and why any woman would verify them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not talking about 69s. I love to give and concentrate on giving oral as I love it. But I think I excite people and they forget I'd like it returned

Ah you see, I don't excite anyone enough to do that.

Put a pork pie down there and you’ll be fighting them off with a stick

Ketchup?

Depends what time of the month it is

Be an added surprise "

The bushtucker trials are getting out of hand this year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, if I think they're going to be selfish I'll make sure I get my fair share first

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds


"69 is fucking shit

Isn't that anal you're thinking of ? "

That one is pretty funny, going to steal that one if you dont mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"69 is fucking shit

Isn't that anal you're thinking of ?

That one is pretty funny, going to steal that one if you dont mind "

Help yourself

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By *otdave75Man
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford

Love having a pussy grinding on my face while my cock and balls are sucked. Heaven, who wouldn’t? Both writhing in extasy.

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

I absolutely adore having my cock sucked but for me truly orally pleasing a woman is the best.

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By *ary 121Man
over a year ago

East Bergholt


"69 is fucking shit"
obviously had the wrong guy/gal seeing too you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"69 is fucking shitobviously had the wrong guy/gal seeing too you"

No.

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

Outside Nottingham


"69 is fucking shit"

I’ve gotta agree

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By *he Private PhotographerMan
over a year ago

chester

I would concider it rude not to return the favour. Love giving oral back or even giving 1st

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"It has been in the past, which is why I tend not to give oral until I've had at least one good orgasm first.

Too many times I was left with a mouthful of cum while a bloke pulled his clothes back on and scarpered leaving me frustrated.

Much as I enjoy giving oral I want to make sure I get off too."

I noticed this pattern when I was seeing a sexy fabber

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere


"Do you find if you obviously love giving oral that the return pleasure us often forgotten by people? "

If someone is selfish in bed they are just wired that way - it should be on your mind throughout the meet that you need to make sure that your partner is having a good time xx Yes you can relax and enjoy what they do but your job is to leave them a quivering wreck as you put your clothes back on xxx

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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Definitely feel like oral needs to be done one at a time.

I want to be able to give my full attention to the woman and in return let her know without distractions how she's making me feel.

69 feels like a gimmick really. Just something to do if you're passing that way but nothing to spend too much time on.

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By *uskWandererMan
over a year ago

Ormskirk

I have to agree. Love to go down and spend some real quality time on a lady below.

But quite often after that they are so worked up they're more interested in getting me inside than any potential going down.

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By *ildrockMan
over a year ago

london

Yep I can agree that sometimes it’s forgotten but no shame in reminding the other person… hey get that mouth to work it goes both ways.

I personally love giving oral and find it to be such a turn ON that I tend to give and make her orgasm with it before we head towards my department.

Frank x

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

It should be a given ....you get, then you give

LOVE giving ....don't mind getting

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I love giving the Mr oral and sometimes I just want to give I don't expect it in return.

Mrs

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

I think I've got to the bottom (pun intended) to why I rarely cum orally it's because I think that mostly oral on me has in general been as a 69. Whilst I enjoy that I find I can't focus on me and so I don't climax. Next opportunity I'll have to try oral singular so to speak and see if that works

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By *iceguykevMan
over a year ago

Grantham

Best thing in the world is to give a girl oral and have her orgasm multiple times. Apart from passionate kissing I'm not sure there is a better way of showing how much you value her.

I often do this for my partner and it leaves me totally satisfied with nothing in return.

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By *ipsforlipsMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"Do you find if you obviously love giving oral that the return pleasure us often forgotten by people? "

For me that was being married.

These days I always enjoy giving. 'Return pleasure' is never expected, when it happens it always leaves a warm glow

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

No. Only in a tantric massage do we take turns to make a oral scene

Foreplay is mutual and at the same time, I hunt pleasure not orgasms and there are plenty of places I can overstimulate without touching his cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you find if you obviously love giving oral that the return pleasure us often forgotten by people? "

Yup!! hence 69 is always a good suggestion lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've gone down on women with no expectation for it to be returned -- but I like playing with power dynamics, so it's all good.

In a relationship, however, I think I'd be gone if they never wanted to reciprocate.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We want all parties involves to feel satisfied. We enjoy giving as well as receiving. We wouldn't dream of taking and then buggering off. Pleasure all round is part of what is so enjoyable about sex. Why leave out half of that?

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By *akedwindowcleanerMan
over a year ago

Nuneaton

I love to give a woman oral first to hear the moans and feel the orgasms, i love to keep going till she cant take anymore.

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By *r AnalyticMan
over a year ago

Nuneaton

For me I find if I give oral first then the return is much better.

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By *nlyfun3 OP   Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

Nuneaton seems to be the place to visit judging by the last 2 posts lol

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London


"I'm not talking about 69s. I love to give and concentrate on giving oral as I love it. But I think I excite people and they forget I'd like it returned"

I think you are right. You cannot really focus on giving if you are distracted. But from my perspective a lady's pleasure cums first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would be the dream I love giving blow jobs and I’m less keen on receiving oral!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you find if you obviously love giving oral that the return pleasure us often forgotten by people? "

Almost never, maybe I’ve just been lucky

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley


"… hey get that mouth to work "

That made me laugh so much. Think there might be better ways to encourage people.

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

I absolutely adore eating pussy I can't lie.

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By *ance1502Man
over a year ago

London

I love giving oral more than receiving it. Nothing better than going to work with my tongue and lips and having a sexy lady shake in orgasm.

Saying that I do enjoy receiving a wet, sensual bj too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t we all I’d give up anything else just to eat pussy as often as possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love giving oral always like to make sure the lady comes first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually enjoy giving first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here mate always give first I’m a gentleman haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can come anytime it’s ladies first and last

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over a year ago

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

I loving giving oral.. There is nothing better than feeling her when she's really getting into and getting that taste of her, etc, and do enjoy it when I get oral from the girl in return. But I do find 69 to be a tad awkward.. I tried it ages ago and it just was awkward ??.. But I don't hink I've been left out after giving.. And visa versa.. Yet anyway..

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You may have a point there, but as someone said blowjobs can get boring, I never get bored of licking a sweet pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you find if you obviously love giving oral that the return pleasure us often forgotten by people? "

Yea absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving Lexi oral, I find it's a fantastic experience to listen to the sighs, moans and, when all goes well, the sight of her face upon heavy orgasm and the juice on my face. Not a fan of the 69 but love it when I can perform oral from underneath.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't really agree with tit for tat - you should do something because you enjoy it if that makes sense. I'm not the biggest fan of oral, definitely not a prolonged, breathing through the ears session. So I'd be quite happy if they "forgot".

Speak up more, if you're comfortable enough to put their genitals in your mouth, you should be to say "hey, I'd really love to feel your mouth on my cunt, it would turn me on so much". If that doesn't work, maybe you're not that compatible and need to find people who meet your needs more.

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"Do you find if you obviously love giving oral that the return pleasure us often forgotten by people? "

Definitely, so many selfish folk out there and one sided meets. We get pleasure from giving pleasure yet often find we're alone in that.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I'm not talking about 69s. I love to give and concentrate on giving oral as I love it. But I think I excite people and they forget I'd like it returned"

Then you should tell them. Communication = good sex

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By *imson87Man
over a year ago

Rossendale


"Do you find if you obviously love giving oral that the return pleasure us often forgotten by people? "
i would say so but it all depends on the person you are with I love giving and receiving but if I had too pick one if would defo be giving

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"69 is fucking shit"

I agree........oral in turns is epic

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By *ubmissive guyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Fab, seems to be full of guys, who love giving oral. Even meets to just give oral and get nothing in return. It seems to always be frowned upon.

I would love to find a Woman that loves to receive, but doesnt like to give. But thats me and were all different.

Most guys will lose interest of returning the favour, once theyve cum, so always make sure you are orally satisfied before the guy cums.

Oh and I agree 69s are boring, because your focussed on the pleasure your receiving and not the pleasure your giving.

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