FabSwingers.com forum: Single

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How long have all you wonderful single people been single for.

Do you embrace it or potentially find someone ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9 years.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5.5 years

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I have been single my whole life.

Can anyone beat 26 years?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Technically, about 2.5 years.

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By *adyHWoman
over a year ago

South Glos

3 ish years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

12 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"12 years "

3 years give or take ..

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

8 months, relationship was abusive from her side.

So taking the time to patch up, heal & go again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 years single. Ex couldn't care less about resolving his issues in our sex life and he couldn't accept my bisexuality, so we broke up and I joined Fab. I'm more than happy being in an FWB relationship

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By *irsten.LWoman
over a year ago

around the corner from you

6 year's now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 years, hated conventional dating sites, so here I am…………. Still not getting any but at least there are the forums to occupy ones mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9 yeses, but activily seeking a new love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How long have all you wonderful single people been single for.

Do you embrace it or potentially find someone ?

14 years. Love it. Won't change it.

Life is good

Missy x

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Just over 21 years. It's not something I'm eager to change.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

9 years coming to 10 it's relaxing and hassle free I always seem to pick the crazy ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

24hrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too long

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Split up from my children dad 12 yrs ago. Took 5yrs + before I had a relationships again. Since then 2 relationships.

I'm now looking again for a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too long and its rubbish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9 years and embracing it and enjoy it. I’d rather be single than settle for the wrong person which I did twice. I’m open to meeting someone to date but dates are few and far between for me.

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

About 6 years I think. Happy been a single woman and having a life.

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By *ad boy maverickMan
over a year ago

basildon

35 prior to marriage. 16 since the divorce. No one wants you when your skint after a divorce and the complexities it brings. Kids now grown up so although I still see them a swing partner would be wonderful.

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By *eMyLoverWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Over a year and I hate it

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

3 years, not looking to change my status

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

18 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 years and the single life is amazing.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

11 months

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

4 years November for me. I definitely am embracing it but I’d also really like someone special in my life. They’d have to be a swinger though. 100%! Absolutely cannot settle for one penis the rest of my life.

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By *xciter7169Man
over a year ago

The Midlands

"I have been single my whole life.

Can anyone beat 26 years?"

Yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a long time. But feels like forever.

I Play Pokémon, I’m never alone that way.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Two and a half years. Best decision I ever made

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

To be fair I'd probably be single if it weren't for Fab. I'd been single for 3 years and then met My Fiancée on here. Turns out all the best women hide out on here. So I'd recommend staying well away from Fab if you want to stay single (although I'm sure many would disagree).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been single just over a year now

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I've been a widow 12 years...since them I have had some really great relationships. A few really good friends with benefits.

I single and have no problem with that.

I enjoy just doing me.

I would never say never to a relationship but I wouldn't just 'settle'.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I think about 5 years. I’ve never actually thought about it because I like it that way.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"I have been single my whole life.

Can anyone beat 26 years?

Yes!

Damn I was beginning to think I might win this game

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By *ittleMyWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

7 years

I've spent more years of my adult life single than in a relationship

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By *xciter7169Man
over a year ago

The Midlands

"I have been single my whole life.

Can anyone beat 26 years?

Yes!

Damn I was beginning to think I might win this game

Nope, Im definitely winning this one,i dont mind being single by the way,i guess what you've never had you never miss

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"I have been single my whole life.

Can anyone beat 26 years?

Yes!

Damn I was beginning to think I might win this game

Nope, Im definitely winning this one,i dont mind being single by the way,i guess what you've never had you never miss

That is true, you can't miss something you've never had. But you can long for something you've never had, I know I do.

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By *xciter7169Man
over a year ago

The Midlands

"I have been single my whole life.

Can anyone beat 26 years?

Yes!

Damn I was beginning to think I might win this game

Nope, Im definitely winning this one,i dont mind being single by the way,i guess what you've never had you never miss

That is true, you can't miss something you've never had. But you can long for something you've never had, I know I do. "

You've just got to get out there,put yourself in the shop window

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By *otdave75Man
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford

Too long…. But I live with by ex so getting a gf if a bit hard. Nsa a bit easier

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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

"I have been single my whole life.

Can anyone beat 26 years?"

34 nearly 35 years....I win

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By *otdave75Man
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford

"I have been single my whole life.

Can anyone beat 26 years?

34 nearly 35 years....I win"

With those boobs…. Never

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

All my life

A Single bollock is the way to go

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By *xciter7169Man
over a year ago

The Midlands

"I have been single my whole life.

Can anyone beat 26 years?

34 nearly 35 years....I win"

Over 50 years.....I win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"35 prior to marriage. 16 since the divorce. No one wants you when your skint after a divorce and the complexities it brings. Kids now grown up so although I still see them a swing partner would be wonderful. "

I've never worried about what money someone does or doesn't have. Or if they have children. The right person for you won't care either, they'll accept you as you are.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Over 18 years got cheated on and lost my ability to trust so its easier to stay on my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Longest for me is 10 years after my divorce, but technically living a single life; thanks to the now ex hubby, for 5 years before then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Over 18 years got cheated on and lost my ability to trust so its easier to stay on my own "

The right person will help you learn to trust again. My right person helped me x

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"Over 18 years got cheated on and lost my ability to trust so its easier to stay on my own

The right person will help you learn to trust again. My right person helped me x"
maybe some day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Over 18 years got cheated on and lost my ability to trust so its easier to stay on my own

The right person will help you learn to trust again. My right person helped me xmaybe some day "

I got divorced at 41 and it took until I was 51 to learn to trust another partner completely. He's the best thing that happened to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

13 years happily single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love being single, do what i want, with who i want, whenever i want, etc...

although not quite given up on hope that just maybe someday I will be fortunate to meat that one special lady that will change my views forever (just not met her yet)...!

met some wonderful peeps but not the one...

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"Over 18 years got cheated on and lost my ability to trust so its easier to stay on my own

The right person will help you learn to trust again. My right person helped me xmaybe some day

I got divorced at 41 and it took until I was 51 to learn to trust another partner completely. He's the best thing that happened to me. "
it can be lonely at times but I hope someday I'll meet the right person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples, especially breeders don't think that a person can be happily single.

You don't have to be what society perceives as normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Over 18 years got cheated on and lost my ability to trust so its easier to stay on my own

The right person will help you learn to trust again. My right person helped me xmaybe some day

I got divorced at 41 and it took until I was 51 to learn to trust another partner completely. He's the best thing that happened to me. it can be lonely at times but I hope someday I'll meet the right person "

If you're meant to be with someone, they'll arrive when you least expect it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 years single. I enjoy the simplicity of being single and the time I have to myself

Not looking for a relationship any time soon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"6 years single. I enjoy the simplicity of being single and the time I have to myself

Not looking for a relationship any time soon!"

Best username ever!!

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Couples, especially breeders don't think that a person can be happily single.

You don't have to be what society perceives as normal."

This^^^ ...apparently it's not 'normal' to enjoy being single and not wanting to 'settle down'... especially (dare I say it) if you're female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been single "officially" for 8 years

And yes, I am content, even if I don't get +1 invites on invitations

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By *ad boy maverickMan
over a year ago

basildon

"I have been single my whole life.

Can anyone beat 26 years?

34 nearly 35 years....I win"

Lol if only you all read the above

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By *ad boy maverickMan
over a year ago

basildon

I've never worried about what money someone does or doesn't have. Or if they have children. The right person for you won't care either, they'll accept you as you are."

Finding that person and being mutually attracted to each other is the hard bit. The outlets for meeting people require money. Whether it's a swing club or other social outlet. I live in hope

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I haven't been single since 2004. Luke

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

Just over 2 years mark. Enjoying it for sure. But equally open for someone to share Netflix and sofa with….

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Happily single for 9 years now

I love my single balanced lifestyle and have no plans to change it

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Ages. I have now reached that stage in the peri menopause where I’m grateful I don’t have one and I couldn’t care less if I never have one ever again! It’s a marvellous feeling frankly!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been single for a year, i miss the compamionship if I'm honest

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By *aughtyPeepzMan
over a year ago

London

4 years now, I'm happy being single, but wouldn't rule out meeting someone for something more meaningful

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

About 4.5 years now

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By *adyHWoman
over a year ago

South Glos

"4 years November for me. I definitely am embracing it but I’d also really like someone special in my life. They’d have to be a swinger though. 100%! Absolutely cannot settle for one penis the rest of my life.

This is the way I’m currently thinking now…..don’t want one penis for rest of life but would also like someone special in my life too! That’s not too much to ask for surely!

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

2 years..i like my own company, but think i would embrace a relationship if the right person came along

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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

"I have been single my whole life.

Can anyone beat 26 years?

34 nearly 35 years....I win

Over 50 years.....I win

Damn, I was doing so well lol

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

This is the way I’m currently thinking now…..don’t want one penis for rest of life but would also like someone special in my life too! That’s not too much to ask for surely! "

Surely not to much to ask right? I could only really love one person but sex, I need variety! And I think it would enhance things greatly between two people

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By *he Artful TodgerMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire but travel

"How long have all you wonderful single people been single for.

Do you embrace it or potentially find someone ?

2yrs, loving it, but if the the right girl came along or things worked out who knows…?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I have been single for 7years and as happy as Larry.

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By *oreveryoungkWoman
over a year ago

Leicestershire

10 years now

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

"I have been single my whole life.

Can anyone beat 26 years?"

Sure can 45 years, divorced 1977 lived alone as a singleton ever since.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

14 years since the last what I'd call a bf, not that he was really mine as it turned out

Never met anyone good enough to bring into my sons life, so stuck to fwb.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 years

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

About 6 weeks…… some days I love it, then some I don’t….. still early days I spose.

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

About 10 years Now

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

2 years and I will never ever get in a relationship again!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been single again for the last 2 years. It can sometimes be lonely but I've actually managed to value my "me" time a bit more as well x

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By *um_for_me_sk3Woman
over a year ago

Stockport

Just over 18 months.

I mostly love it, but on occasions I’d love someone to share the cosy times with. Although, that may just be because I’m the only single one I’m all of my family and friends!

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By *aurus1987Man
over a year ago

York

14 years. I do get lonely sometimes

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Single for 35 yrs till 1990, then met someone, engaged a year later but broke up mid 1992.

Been single since.

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

3 years I would like to be in a relationship again but it’s starting to feel like it’s never going to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been single for just over 3 and a half years now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe all the 90 single people on here should if wanted start talking to each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe all the 90 single people on here should if wanted start talking to each other

For an orgy? I like the way you think… I’m in

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