FabSwingers.com forum: Friends List seem pointless

By *enuine Mike OP Man
over a year ago

Guildford

Over the past 3 years I've managed to accumulate over 12 "Friends".

We've exchanged messages, pics and have had the best intentions to meet.

Sounds great but it's all rather pointless as none of them ever reply to any new messages lol.

Does anyone else find this? I'm merely curious

Mike

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Meh, the folks only friends list are just friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends list is my to do list.

It's also quite small.

And dam sexy.

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"Over the past 3 years I've managed to accumulate over 12 "Friends".

We've exchanged messages, pics and have had the best intentions to meet.

Sounds great but it's all rather pointless as none of them ever reply to any new messages lol.

Does anyone else find this? I'm merely curious

Mike

I don't particularly use it personally, the only function seems to be to view friends-only pics, or have them show in that part of your home feed (although you could just hotlist them for that).

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"My friends list is my to do list.

It's also quite small.

And dam sexy."

Yet is missing an insignificant somebody

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I don't really bother with it, usually it's people I've actually met in real life... Which is zero at the moment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely I've just deleted a few because of never answering or dodging it but I have one I met for a social and we just can't find time to meet but we chat regular it will happen so I don't mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My friends list is my to do list.

It's also quite small.

And dam sexy.

Yet is missing an insignificant somebody

He's not on here I've looked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must say I agree whole heartedly, waste of time

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"My friends list is my to do list.

It's also quite small.

And dam sexy.

Yet is missing an insignificant somebody

He's not on here I've looked!

All of the thousands of male users?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There aren’t many people on my friend list either. I also take people off mine on a regular basis when we’ve not spoken for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I ever put anyone in a friends list, it’s because I wanted to meet them. I rarely did/do. Which does make me sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My friends list is my to do list.

It's also quite small.

And dam sexy."

Can’t believe I got taken off this list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There aren’t many people on my friend list either. I also take people off mine on a regular basis when we’ve not spoken for a while.

*sends message immediately in panic*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My friends list is my to do list.

It's also quite small.

And dam sexy.

Can’t believe I got taken off this list.

You left

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By *ara wilcoxTV/TS
over a year ago

Sunderland

Just a list who I have met.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Just checked.

We've met everyone on ours.

With one exception. Funky.

Pretty sure Fox only added him for the bonus bum shots.....

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

My list is v short ie 5 people and 1 is my other half.

I don't add people till we've meh or chatted at length ,as many just want access to private pics.

If I had anyone I didn't speak to regularly I'd delete them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just an annoying idiot that people want rid of on theirs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever about the friend list..

Does the actual chat/video room function at all. I'm in Ireland and on my phone

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By *_Mr.K_xMan
over a year ago

North Worcestershire

"My friends list is my to do list.

It's also quite small.

And dam sexy."

This is actually quite a good idea... a "to do" list.

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I don't talk anyone on my friends list

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

My friends list content (talking about vids/pics) is where the good stuff is

... and it's only for the special ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My friends list is my to do list.

It's also quite small.

And dam sexy.

Can’t believe I got taken off this list.

You left"

And you left!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My friends list content (talking about vids/pics) is where the good stuff is

... and it's only for the special ones

I'm special!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My friends list is my to do list.

It's also quite small.

And dam sexy.

Can’t believe I got taken off this list.

You left

And you left!!

Ssshhh

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By *ikMacMan
over a year ago

Farnborough

Friends list is people I have met or damn sure I have plans to meet soon.

I have taken people off after a while if plans change or they ghost

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Mostly my friends list is a wish list mixed with people i have met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Over the past 3 years I've managed to accumulate over 12 "Friends".

We've exchanged messages, pics and have had the best intentions to meet.

Sounds great but it's all rather pointless as none of them ever reply to any new messages lol.

Does anyone else find this? I'm merely curious

Mike

"
that's partly why I don't accept friends requests,if I do and they haven't returned my messages then after a couple of weeks I delete them

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

"Over the past 3 years I've managed to accumulate over 12 "Friends".

We've exchanged messages, pics and have had the best intentions to meet.

Sounds great but it's all rather pointless as none of them ever reply to any new messages lol.

Does anyone else find this? I'm merely curious

Mike

Strange to see this just pop up, I just did a bit of thinking regarding my small friends list. Most are people I have met socially or more physically, few are people I might never meet because of distance usually or one or two I can have proper adult mature chats with. Some I have had have been friends for a while to start with, starting off with all encouraging chats and intentions of meets but then after a while of unanswered messages or always having something else to do when you present an opportunity for a meet you have to ask yourself why they are on your friends list. Chats have to have two or more people involved not two word replies or being totally ignored. At least an occasional message once a week or so or what's the point. At least with people you have met even if you don't chat for a while you stay friends because it has been discussed you might just meet again.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

With two exceptions I've only added people to my friends list once we've met. My hotlist is for people I perv at, my friends list is for people I actually know.

We don't tend to chat in here as by the time we meet the chat has moved off-site, but I still like to see their updates and fab their photos.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Over the past 3 years I've managed to accumulate over 12 "Friends".

We've exchanged messages, pics and have had the best intentions to meet.

Sounds great but it's all rather pointless as none of them ever reply to any new messages lol.

Does anyone else find this? I'm merely curious

Mike

I'd say you need to pick your friends more carefully

I speak to most of mine regularly

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"My friends list is my to do list.

It's also quite small.

And dam sexy."

Yeah basically this.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Friends list is to perv friends only content and to have a separate hot list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My friends list is my to do list.

It's also quite small.

And dam sexy.

Yet is missing an insignificant somebody

He's not on here I've looked!

You know, they call me the brown Ryan Reynolds. Don't ask who they are, you won't know them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree op. Until fab create a friends only mail inbox or show use a different colour, all the effort of being accepted as a friend is, as you say pointless. If you try and follow up to stay in touch, you're back to square one because despite the friend status, any mail gets lost amongst the hundreds of others.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"My friends list is my to do list.

It's also quite small.

And dam sexy.

Yet is missing an insignificant somebody

He's not on here I've looked!

*waves*

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

My friends list used to be for those that I wanted to meet or had met.

It’s become a bit more of a blurred line recently, in that I have actual friends or those that I’ve just chatted to on there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Over the past 3 years I've managed to accumulate over 12 "Friends".

We've exchanged messages, pics and have had the best intentions to meet.

Sounds great but it's all rather pointless as none of them ever reply to any new messages lol.

Does anyone else find this? I'm merely curious

Mike

Every now and then you have to have a cull!

I'm only on for chat these days but some I don't hear from, so they'll be culled

Missy x

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I deleted about 30 friends today , as not spoken,responses etc in well who knows how long ..I may just delete the lot , as its just messages that matter , hot lists are adequate enough I find for keeping interesting people in

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Friends list is tiny, but its those who are actual Fab friends and do chat ... and catch up with when time allows

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Our friends list is mostly made up of people who we have already met and our hotlist is for our potential meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My friends list is my to do list.

It's also quite small.

And dam sexy.

Yet is missing an insignificant somebody

He's not on here I've looked!

*waves* "

Err...hi.

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