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By *ayHaych OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

Sorry for the long post, but I am curious about this and want to hear other peoples thoughts if you can stick with it!

I am quite certain about the sexual things I do like, don’t like, and would be curious to explore. Two or three times in the past (quite the past now to be fair) I was invited over by couples for mutual masturbation but I always turned it down as it didn’t really interest me. The situations were either, we all masturbate and watch each other, or I watch and masturbate while they do the same and then they have sex.

As a teen and in my early 20s, I used to love masturbating as I’m sure many others did too I really used to love taking my time, reading erotica, edging, and almost making it a sensual type of meditation. I do still love it but I guess I just don’t find the time to indulge myself in an hour or two of masturbation now! Recently I’ve though that would be really hot to do with other people but I would need to know them and have a connection with them. Know how their body responds to pleasure well enough so that you can almost know what they’re feeling just by watching.

On the other hand maybe for some it is more about the aesthetic pleasure? In that case I would find it hard. While I am happy with my body, I don’t see it as being the stimulation for someones masturbation. I would need to feel more sexy than I currently do.

I’d love to hear from people who do enjoy mutual masturbation.

- Is it with people you know well, or could you do it with first time meets after a first social?

- What about mutual masturbation gives you pleasure?

- Is it just about looking and feeling sexy with someone who is feeling/doing the same?

- Any other thoughts at all?

J.H

P.s

I’m not sure why I am using so many bullet points in the forums today. I feel like it’s a work email

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We masturbate with each other. It's something we really enjoy. We would like to masturbate with another couple or two. That would be really hot.

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By *ayHaych OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)


"We masturbate with each other. It's something we really enjoy. We would like to masturbate with another couple or two. That would be really hot. "

What is it you enjoy about self-pleasure with others?

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

No, I just wouldn't want anyone else watching me. And it's usually pretty quick, so not much point lol

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By *ayHaych OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)


"No, I just wouldn't want anyone else watching me. And it's usually pretty quick, so not much point lol "

That’s how I’ve always seen it in the past, and if I’m going to take my time others watching would feel odd.

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By *r AnalyticMan
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Mutual masturbation is fun.

So many different ways to do it.

Sit opposite from each other

Sit inches away from each others parts close to the face.

Games first one to cum they have to finish the other off or the loser (the one that didn't cum first) has to clean the winner up and them selfs.

Tie up one and just masturbate to them as they can't do nothing about it.

Sexual frustration.

Oh the list is endless.

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By *ussy licker99Man
over a year ago

smethwick

I masterbate every weekend on Saturday and Sunday mornings while lying in bed. It's always nice when you have someone watching and both doing same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love mutual masturbation..very erotic

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I masturbate laying on my stomach so there wouldn't be much for anyone to watch

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By *ussy licker99Man
over a year ago

smethwick

Would be just nice to know you are masterbating and listening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I masturbate laying on my stomach so there wouldn't be much for anyone to watch"

Watching someone’s face when masturbating can be quite erotic as well. Beautiful Agony style.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have done it with those I am not allowed to touch. I get some pleasure, but ultimately it's frustrating as if I have got naked with another body I want to touch.

It's not a request I would respond to now. As part of a longer term, fuller relationship it would be something I would do for the tease and edging.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I have done it with those I am not allowed to touch. I get some pleasure, but ultimately it's frustrating as if I have got naked with another body I want to touch.

It's not a request I would respond to now. As part of a longer term, fuller relationship it would be something I would do for the tease and edging.

"

I'd like the teasing and edging bit

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By *ussy licker99Man
over a year ago

smethwick


"I have done it with those I am not allowed to touch. I get some pleasure, but ultimately it's frustrating as if I have got naked with another body I want to touch.

It's not a request I would respond to now. As part of a longer term, fuller relationship it would be something I would do for the tease and edging.

"

I can masterbate for you

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Was just playing in the cam rooms but told them I can't b watched coming!so would post a vid of the climax Don't know why I don't like being watched coming as love being watched generally x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never really felt comfortable doing in front of anyone. I think Eros has seen me do it a couple of times when I've wanted to play with my wand but it doesn't take long before I hand it over to him to finish me off. If I do it myself, it's really quick.

Pxx

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Sorry for the long post, but I am curious about this and want to hear other peoples thoughts if you can stick with it!

I am quite certain about the sexual things I do like, don’t like, and would be curious to explore. Two or three times in the past (quite the past now to be fair) I was invited over by couples for mutual masturbation but I always turned it down as it didn’t really interest me. The situations were either, we all masturbate and watch each other, or I watch and masturbate while they do the same and then they have sex.

As a teen and in my early 20s, I used to love masturbating as I’m sure many others did too I really used to love taking my time, reading erotica, edging, and almost making it a sensual type of meditation. I do still love it but I guess I just don’t find the time to indulge myself in an hour or two of masturbation now! Recently I’ve though that would be really hot to do with other people but I would need to know them and have a connection with them. Know how their body responds to pleasure well enough so that you can almost know what they’re feeling just by watching.

On the other hand maybe for some it is more about the aesthetic pleasure? In that case I would find it hard. While I am happy with my body, I don’t see it as being the stimulation for someones masturbation. I would need to feel more sexy than I currently do.

I’d love to hear from people who do enjoy mutual masturbation.

- Is it with people you know well, or could you do it with first time meets after a first social?

- What about mutual masturbation gives you pleasure?

- Is it just about looking and feeling sexy with someone who is feeling/doing the same?

- Any other thoughts at all?

J.H

P.s

I’m not sure why I am using so many bullet points in the forums today. I feel like it’s a work email "

I enjoy it with the Mr, I absolutely love seeing him touch himself it's a huge turn on, saying that I'm obsessed with his cock, I don't think I'd enjoy it with anyone else really.

Mrs

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By *ussy licker99Man
over a year ago

smethwick


"Was just playing in the cam rooms but told them I can't b watched coming!so would post a vid of the climax Don't know why I don't like being watched coming as love being watched generally x"

I would like to watch you

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

I’ve only done it on cam rather than in person, but then there’s not a lot of other options on cam. I think it could still be fun in person though

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Another where it would be tricky as I tend to be on my front certainly to climax when I’m masturbating for the most pleasurable experience anyhow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we like being watched and it's something we want to include or try on its own, as soft play is more our thing.

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By *risky FoxesCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle Emlyn/Stourport

I’ve done it on cams here, I don’t know why I find it erotic but I do. I still keep it as a tease though…..no open leg shots or close ups of the business end. You are more likely to see my face or hear me moan or see parts of my body writhing.

And I giggle afterwards once I get my breath back

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Mutual masturbation is one of my porn watches.

My mrs used to use a pillow to sit astride while I wank in front of her to porn, she loves this. When she's about to cum, she'll lean forward and suck me to a finish.

Ahhhh happy days!

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

Mutually beneficial and such a turn on as part of a three way

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By *lasherMan
over a year ago

Faversham

I absolutely love it ... Especially outdoors lol.. Anyone near ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love mutual masturbation, watching someone get themselves off and been watched getting myself off turns me on big time

Doing it together is even more horny

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