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By *arriedcouple100 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Devon

Hi we’re coming to flirts on Friday and Xtasia on Saturday, this is both of ares very first time at a swingers club or doing anything like this, any advice on what to expect or tips would be very welcome, both a bit nervous but very excited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people who attend clubs are relaxed and respectful. Every club has a different vibe so you just need to find one that matches yours. Go into it with no expectations, chat to people and see how it goes. The first time is nerve wracking but you will survive it. Take a breath and enjoy the night, good luck!

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By *arriedcouple100 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Devon

Thank you for the advice

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

You can't plan your first one. Just go with an open mind and go with the flow, see where the night takes you.

I think the first time is almost like a research mission.

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By *lus1isfunMan
over a year ago

Telford

Go early so you can get a tour round and find your bearings whilst it is quieter. Then go to the bar area so you can observe what happens and decide what to do from there.

I'd also suggest setting your ground rules out before you go do you know where you stand with everything. Treat it as a social (maybe even as a recon for future visits) and dont assume anything will happen. Enjoy!

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By *ovikCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Xtasia is a great club. We just go as we would a nightclub and have fun. No expectations, just a good night out. Friendly atmosphere and very safe feeling. We’re hoping to get up there this Friday. Xtasia then Flirts maybe, you never know x

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By *arriedcouple100 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Devon

Thanks for all the advice everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi all, any couples planning to go sat 27 Aug? X

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