FabSwingers.com forum: What advice would you give to your younger self about sex?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What would be the one thing you’d advise your younger self about sex such as, what to do that you didn’t until later on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn gay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it’s on offer, don’t turn it down.

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Don't do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex? *giggles

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By *ierced dick1001Man
over a year ago

Yeo

Keep trying lots of different things and enjoy yourself.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Castrate yourself now, stop yourself years of agony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even though the world is monogamous, it's okay not to be. An open relationship works just aswell as a closed one.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Carry on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Communicate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to understand/accept my bi side quicker. Mr

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

- Not to worry so much about meeting serial killers.

I did once think I was not getting out of a meets house alive, so there is always a need to be careful of course.

- Breath and relax.

I always found I put so much pressure on myself. Maybe I just generally had a problem with anxiety to be honest.

- Trust in my cock to rise for it’s repeater duties.

I used to hold on to cumming for dear life just in case “this time I won’t get hard again”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start earlier!

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

I am not sure I would bother, he wouldn't have listened or accepted what I had to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I would eventually have sex.

Late bloomer and thought I would be a virgin forever, although I was still in my late teens at the time and worried it would never happen

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Be more confident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re smashing it!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I don't think I've got any advice really, I don't regret anything or look back and thing anything was missed.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Truthfully not to be shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be more confident

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Be more confident

Def this

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By *hroatitboyMan
over a year ago

GLA

Quality over quantity

and be comfortable in yourself

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Don't be shy and go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Explore my sexuality more before I settled down.

Pxx

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Have more confidence to vocalise what you want, what works for you and what doesn't. With full honesty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not auditioning for a role. Just enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

"Have more confidence to vocalise what you want, what works for you and what doesn't. With full honesty."

Oh yes this for sure!

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By *orkcoastguyMan
over a year ago

Bridlington.

Give her several orgasms before you even go in.....

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

Have more confidence. Just because a guy who was more experienced said it was weird doesn’t mean it was. Ignore him. Have more sex. Better sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't stick your dick in crazy!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Don't feel obliged to do things you're not comfortable with.

Tell someone when they're doing it right! Funny be afraid to direct them.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Never settle down and just enjoy yourself

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By *ondonFunTimesMan
over a year ago

west sussex

Be more confident and enjoy your body and don’t worry so much.

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

to lick pussy earlier din't lick pussy till i was 28 wish i stated when i was 17

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By *obbienormalguyMan
over a year ago

oxford

Tell my parents I don't want toys for Christmas so I got a massive cock later in life lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

wholly agree with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never say no to anything x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be more confident in yourself and enjoy all that sex has to offer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Agree- go with the flow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because they want sex with you doesn't mean they actually want you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn gay."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just because they want sex with you doesn't mean they actually want you."

This is some real shit

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By *flkfunseekerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Be more confident and experiment more

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

To be more confident

To not buy into the patriarchal “but that’ll make me a slut” bullshit

To be honest about what I do and DON’T enjoy

Sleep with that guy who, yes, has slept with EVERYONE in your current friendship circle but who is also reputed to be an incredibly good fuck!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try and pop the balls in.

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Castrate yourself now, stop yourself years of agony"

Eunuchs have been very popular apparently throughout history.

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By *flkfunseekerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"Try and pop the balls in."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be afraid to ask for what you want

Be more confident

Communication is key

Get on top more

Monogamy is overrated

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