FabSwingers.com forum: Losing a playmate

By *ovkid66 OP Man
over a year ago

Warwick

I recently found out, my playmate had died of cancer.

We had a rule, if she messaged me we would chat, but I hadn't heard from her since March, so I thought her and her husband had stopped swinging, or there business had taken off, so she had no time.

We used to meet a couple of times a month, to play or take our dogs for a walk. We were a bit more than just playmates, we were friends.

Now I'm finding it so hard to find someone like her in my area. I'm a genuinely decent guy, and I know all about what fab can be like after being on the same account so long. But seriously, not all guys are bloody idiots who think with their dick. I have good verifications over a long period, very recent and old pics.

Sorry to rant but I know a few might understand.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure if youre feeling the loss of a person, or someone to play with?

By *ovkid66 OP Man
over a year ago

Warwick

Both, she was a fantastic lady in both respects.

By *ovkid66 OP Man
over a year ago

Warwick

Sorry if I worded this wrong, I miss her.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She wasn't just a playmate, she was your friend too and it's natural to feel sad.

You didn't get the chance to goodbye either.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it that you can't find a playmate at all or that you cannot find one who is like your friend was? Maybe you aren't ready to move on and form another similar swinging arrangement. Perhaps stop looking for a swinging partner for now and just do one off meets...you never know what will develop from one ..

By *ovkid66 OP Man
over a year ago

Warwick

No I didn't, I didn't even know she was ill, and it appears neither did her husband as it was sudden. She was a good deal younger than me to. I should have gone, not her.