FabSwingers.com forum: Nil by females! (2)

By *ixy814 OP Man
over a year ago

South Antrim

Sincere, heartfelt thanks to all who responded to yesterday’s posting, (24hrs ago). Special thanks to those who highlighted issues with my age, attitude, looks, location, profile, sexuality, etc. All very constructive, appreciate your time and definitely, no offence taken. Great knowing some females get several hundred replies per day. Must be awful! Perhaps I’m misinterpreting a girl profile requesting “single guys/fb/fwb” to mean single men can apply. Hence, we rarely get a read or response as these are mainly fake profiles, mere “honeytraps”. I’m taking a break from fab to re-set, re-evaluate, seek elsewhere. Maybe find an Irish Monastery and take Holy Orders. Better luck with the monks! Lol. Cheers All.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sincere, heartfelt thanks to all who responded to yesterday’s posting, (24hrs ago). Special thanks to those who highlighted issues with my age, attitude, looks, location, profile, sexuality, etc. All very constructive, appreciate your time and definitely, no offence taken. Great knowing some females get several hundred replies per day. Must be awful! Perhaps I’m misinterpreting a girl profile requesting “single guys/fb/fwb” to mean single men can apply. Hence, we rarely get a read or response as these are mainly fake profiles, mere “honeytraps”. I’m taking a break from fab to re-set, re-evaluate, seek elsewhere. Maybe find an Irish Monastery and take Holy Orders. Better luck with the monks! Lol. Cheers All.

Yes but a single female looking for a FB, FWB, single guy... cannot meet all of the loads of men who "apply"

You need to make yourself stand out in order to get a response....

It will be more that there are lots of other very similar men offering the same as you. So you need to get an advantage over them somehow...

My advice would be to read the profiles of some of the more successful men and see if there's anything you can do to improve your profile and your chances of a meet. ...