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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who is in the mindset of welcoming totally random friend requests? Sometimes i wonder if its a good way of opening dialogue. Im not one to send them but recieving them would be interesting. Thoughts especially welcome from ladies and couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not arsed either way.

I’ll ignore them unless we’re speaking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wait until they’re off line , take a look then sometimes delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not even friends with the some of the people I'm friends with.

So it's a no for me.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)


"We wait until they’re off line , take a look then sometimes delete "

Good tactic!

Gbat

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't accept them unless we've chatted on line or are planning to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not even friends with the some of the people I'm friends with.

So it's a no for me."

Sent!

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"We wait until they’re off line , take a look then sometimes delete "

And fab a private pic of theirs....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We wait until they’re off line , take a look then sometimes delete

And fab a private pic of theirs.... "

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I've just started blocking repeat offenders or just leaving the request to sit there ,then they can't send another.

It's just lazy and if I wanted everyone to see my friends pics,I'd make them public.

My list is v small though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not arsed either way.

I’ll ignore them unless we’re speaking. "

This

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We wait until they’re off line , take a look then sometimes delete "

This is what we sometimes do too. If they're cheeky enough to send without chatting, I'm damn sure cheeky enough to accept, scope then delete haha

C x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Never really look at them tbh! Have 426 new ones at mo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We wait until they’re off line , take a look then sometimes delete

And fab a private pic of theirs.... "
, I never accept, but might try this next time I get a random request

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just started blocking repeat offenders or just leaving the request to sit there ,then they can't send another.

It's just lazy and if I wanted everyone to see my friends pics,I'd make them public.

My list is v small though "
that's exactly my thoughts

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London

Not fussed really

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland


"We wait until they’re off line , take a look then sometimes delete "

Same with us !

If they send a cheeky message then we’d chat first and see if we got on. Random invites out of the blue are a no though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never really look at them tbh! Have 426 new ones at mo x"

Thats crazy. Ive never sent a single 1 as its likely to be buried. Much like most messages sent really. Being a single guy thats not a stereotype here is a nightmare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much everyone on here (bar a handful of people) are total strangers to me really.

I guess messaging them on t’internet now and then means I *kind of* know them, right?

But I guess what you mean is random requests from people you’ve never even spoken to.

On the rare occasion I will accept but mostly just delete them. Most don’t bother trying again but I don’t block anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm open to any new friends

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"We wait until they’re off line , take a look then sometimes delete

And fab a private pic of theirs.... "

Of all the years I have been on Fab, I haven't thought, nor heard of that one. Very sneaky, plus let them know you have seen theirs and not shared

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We wait until they’re off line , take a look then sometimes delete "

Its a good method i suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *assy MissWoman
over a year ago

Sent to Coventry

I assume they are pic collectors and leave the requests do they can’t resend

Not a good approach for single guys I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems a bit pointless having private pics if you're just gonna let random strangers see them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God no tbh iv only allowed 1 person in without a hello only because 1 day i want to see her hanging by the anus from my vagina

The rest hit the block list"

You have a vagina? It's very rare well hidden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wtf did i just type out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I assume they are pic collectors and leave the requests do they can’t resend

Not a good approach for single guys I think "

It must be a bit off putting for women sometimes, just a never ending cascade of witless twats slinging sausage etc. Im honestly shocked that 'men' behave that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God no tbh iv only allowed 1 person in without a hello only because 1 day i want to see her hanging by the anus from my vagina

The rest hit the block list

You have a vagina? It's very rare well hidden. "
i got distracted okay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God no tbh iv only allowed 1 person in without a hello only because 1 day i want to see her hanging by the anus from my vagina

The rest hit the block list

You have a vagina? It's very rare well hidden. i got distracted okay "

Easily done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wtf did i just type out "

Oh, luckily I quoted it before you deleted just in case you forgot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God no tbh iv only allowed 1 person in without a hello only because 1 day i want to see her hanging by the anus from my vagina

The rest hit the block list

You have a vagina? It's very rare well hidden. i got distracted okay

Easily done."
iv been in the sun too long is my excuse is it home time yet im clearly gone off my rocker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wtf did i just type out

Oh, luckily I quoted it before you deleted just in case you forgot "
yeah damn you to heck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't accept them unless we've chatted on line or are planning to meet.

"

Good shout. Some seems just are nosey to look at all your pictures.

Even in messages,seems many have a very short attention span and will not hold much of a convo,onto the next. Ping in thier box.

Take it all with a pinch of salt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only accept them from people who send us free pints through the Wetherspoons app.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God no tbh iv only allowed 1 person in without a hello only because 1 day i want to see her hanging by the anus from my vagina

The rest hit the block list

You have a vagina? It's very rare well hidden. i got distracted okay

Easily done.iv been in the sun too long is my excuse is it home time yet im clearly gone off my rocker "

I blame the sun for everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God no tbh iv only allowed 1 person in without a hello only because 1 day i want to see her hanging by the anus from my vagina

The rest hit the block list

You have a vagina? It's very rare well hidden. i got distracted okay

Easily done.iv been in the sun too long is my excuse is it home time yet im clearly gone off my rocker

I blame the sun for everything "

Blimey. The one woman on Fab that doesn’t blame *men* for everything

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We only accept them from people who send us free pints through the Wetherspoons app."

We have a winner!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God no tbh iv only allowed 1 person in without a hello only because 1 day i want to see her hanging by the anus from my vagina

The rest hit the block list

You have a vagina? It's very rare well hidden. i got distracted okay

Easily done.iv been in the sun too long is my excuse is it home time yet im clearly gone off my rocker

I blame the sun for everything "
curse the sky it floats on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God no tbh iv only allowed 1 person in without a hello only because 1 day i want to see her hanging by the anus from my vagina

The rest hit the block list

You have a vagina? It's very rare well hidden. i got distracted okay

Easily done.iv been in the sun too long is my excuse is it home time yet im clearly gone off my rocker

I blame the sun for everything

Blimey. The one woman on Fab that doesn’t blame *men* for everything "
dan you legend you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We only accept them from people who send us free pints through the Wetherspoons app.

We have a winner!!!! "

We also accept full English breakfasts and surf n turfs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We only accept them from people who send us free pints through the Wetherspoons app.

We have a winner!!!!

We also accept full English breakfasts and surf n turfs."

Thats pushing it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God no tbh iv only allowed 1 person in without a hello only because 1 day i want to see her hanging by the anus from my vagina

The rest hit the block list

You have a vagina? It's very rare well hidden. i got distracted okay

Easily done.iv been in the sun too long is my excuse is it home time yet im clearly gone off my rocker

I blame the sun for everything

Blimey. The one woman on Fab that doesn’t blame *men* for everything "

The sun gets me hotter. It's definitely the sun's fault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore unless we have actually spent time chatting. And if they have friends photos and videos too.

I have face pics on mine which I don’t want everyone to see. Especially if they don’t have any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We only accept them from people who send us free pints through the Wetherspoons app.

We have a winner!!!!

We also accept full English breakfasts and surf n turfs.

Thats pushing it lol"

Shy bairns get nowt.

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