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By *yron69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Fareham

NHS surgeons have reported a rise in trauma in women related to anal sex. Porn and TV have helped increased the popularity of the act among heterosexual couples and doctors have seen a rise in anal STIs, tears and faceal incontinence.

Women have less robust sphincters apparently and reduced canal pressure which can mean damage is more severe.

Source: The Guardian

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Each to their own I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These stories just get shittier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sphincter says what

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

The Guardian does talk out of its arse a lot!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust me when i say some of these girls have extremely robust anuses

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By *idnight RamblerMan
over a year ago

Pershore

Well if it's in the Guardian it must be right eh?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

After 35yrs of anal I am still fine.

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By *oby BestMan
over a year ago

the shires

if its in the Guradian must be a typo

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

For those that read tears ( water from the eyes ) instead of tears ( ripped interior of arsehole ) like I did, it's tears not tears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those that read tears ( water from the eyes ) instead of tears ( ripped interior of arsehole ) like I did, it's tears not tears."
thanks for helping to clear that up

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"After 35yrs of anal I am still fine. "
noted

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By *yron69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Fareham


"After 35yrs of anal I am still fine. "

That's a heck of a session!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feels like that story has some gaping holes in it tbh

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..


"For those that read tears ( water from the eyes ) instead of tears ( ripped interior of arsehole ) like I did, it's tears not tears."

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Well if it's in the Guardian it must be right eh?"

Is there a simple right ?

The Guardian is more trustworthy than other papers...

I often see men saying how easy it is and giving advice on how to lube up and I think ..... mate you are over 6ft tall. You have hands like shovels and feet like flippers.....

I do NOT have a robust anal passage. Or a massive stretchy starfish.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"After 35yrs of alan I am still fine. "

No wonder you swing Bluebell .... long time with one willy.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"After 35yrs of alan I am still fine.

No wonder you swing Bluebell .... long time with one willy. "

Who's Alan?

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By *idnight RamblerMan
over a year ago

Pershore


"Well if it's in the Guardian it must be right eh?

Is there a simple right ?

The Guardian is more trustworthy than other papers...

I often see men saying how easy it is and giving advice on how to lube up and I think ..... mate you are over 6ft tall. You have hands like shovels and feet like flippers.....

I do NOT have a robust anal passage. Or a massive stretchy starfish. "

The Guardian is as bad as The Daily Mail, equally pompous and self righteous, but from opposite perspectives.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Well if it's in the Guardian it must be right eh?

Is there a simple right ?

The Guardian is more trustworthy than other papers...

I often see men saying how easy it is and giving advice on how to lube up and I think ..... mate you are over 6ft tall. You have hands like shovels and feet like flippers.....

I do NOT have a robust anal passage. Or a massive stretchy starfish.

The Guardian is as bad as The Daily Mail, equally pompous and self righteous, but from opposite perspectives."

What's pompous about raising awareness of potential damage?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

If anyone bothers to read the article, you'll find it's well considered and cites factual information from colorectal surgeons and sexual health professionals.

Or are we in the "don't trust people who are qualified in this field" situation?

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By *idnight RamblerMan
over a year ago

Pershore


"Well if it's in the Guardian it must be right eh?

Is there a simple right ?

The Guardian is more trustworthy than other papers...

I often see men saying how easy it is and giving advice on how to lube up and I think ..... mate you are over 6ft tall. You have hands like shovels and feet like flippers.....

I do NOT have a robust anal passage. Or a massive stretchy starfish.

The Guardian is as bad as The Daily Mail, equally pompous and self righteous, but from opposite perspectives.

What's pompous about raising awareness of potential damage?"

Nothing. But you could say the same about many of The Mail's stories. It's the spin they both use I dislike.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least it wasn’t the Daily Star

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Less Robust Sphincters was the name of my punk band in the late 90's, we did a small seaside tour with Stiff Little Fingers.

It was fun initially but then it just became a pain in the arse, so I stopped doing it.

What's anal?

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

the daily sport,, says carry on having anal its safe,,

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I can see that there would some truth in that. The arse isnt meant to accommodate cock, except on birthdays (and not the recievers either!)

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By *hrissycox66TV/TS
over a year ago

watford


"After 35yrs of anal I am still fine. "

You started late x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the articles and believe it.

Some arseholes are obviously more robust than others. But the anatomical differences and possible issues for women are undeniable. I stopped enjoying it some ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well if it's in the Guardian it must be right eh?

Is there a simple right ?

The Guardian is more trustworthy than other papers...

I often see men saying how easy it is and giving advice on how to lube up and I think ..... mate you are over 6ft tall. You have hands like shovels and feet like flippers.....

I do NOT have a robust anal passage. Or a massive stretchy starfish.

The Guardian is as bad as The Daily Mail, equally pompous and self righteous, but from opposite perspectives.

What's pompous about raising awareness of potential damage?"

Have to agree.

It's being promoted as a completely normal activity with no more risk than normal sexual intercourse. These articles explain why that is simply not the case.

If you still choose to engage and enjoy in anal sex after reading it the crack on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"NHS surgeons have reported a rise in trauma in women related to anal sex. Porn and TV have helped increased the popularity of the act among heterosexual couples and doctors have seen a rise in anal STIs, tears and faceal incontinence.

Women have less robust sphincters apparently and reduced canal pressure which can mean damage is more severe.

Source: The Guardian "

I can believe this

I'm always very uncomfortable after anal and sometimes (I don't know if theres a nerve there) I get the shakes all down my right side for a few hours afterwards

Once in a while is OK but not something I could do regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually know a gay guy who's had to have his anus repaired twice from receiving anal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually know a gay guy who's had to have his anus repaired twice from receiving anal "

You make it sound like a car repair appointment where you just replace a few parts and quickly get back on the road

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By *otsMan
over a year ago

Higham


"Trust me when i say some of these girls have extremely robust anuses "

Usually their partners

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"The Guardian is as bad as The Daily Mail, equally pompous and self righteous, but from opposite perspectives."

That's just silly, regardless of one's political persuasion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Porn has a lot to answer for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a writing on that other website about this, saying the same thing.

The conclusion was that gentle anal ‘should’ be ok, it’s the rough stuff that causes damage, and can be a long term issue, rather than immediate.

Women have a different anatomy which can make it worse.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"There was a writing on that other website about this, saying the same thing.

The conclusion was that gentle anal ‘should’ be ok, it’s the rough stuff that causes damage, and can be a long term issue, rather than immediate.

Women have a different anatomy which can make it worse. "

Some girls love it makes them cum

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Porn has a lot to answer for "

See, I don’t buy the whole ‘only done because hubby saw it on porn hub and pursued the mrs to partake’ …lots of women instigate it in my experience - one I know prefers anal to PIV. Personally I’m not a fan because of the shit on a stick effect (you’re welcome) but I will oblige if she’s persuasive!

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By *idnight RamblerMan
over a year ago

Pershore


"The Guardian is as bad as The Daily Mail, equally pompous and self righteous, but from opposite perspectives.

That's just silly, regardless of one's political persuasion. "

As it happens, I don't have a strong 'political persuasion', which is why I can see both these rags are shamelessly biased and untruthful.

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By *nobyMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

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By *nobyMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"After 35yrs of anal I am still fine.

That's a heck of a session! "

Haha

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"There was a writing on that other website about this, saying the same thing.

The conclusion was that gentle anal ‘should’ be ok, it’s the rough stuff that causes damage, and can be a long term issue, rather than immediate.

Women have a different anatomy which can make it worse.

Some girls love it makes them cum "

Some dogs bite.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Porn has a lot to answer for

See, I don’t buy the whole ‘only done because hubby saw it on porn hub and pursued the mrs to partake’ …lots of women instigate it in my experience - one I know prefers anal to PIV. Personally I’m not a fan because of the shit on a stick effect (you’re welcome) but I will oblige if she’s persuasive! "

Women are thrown into doubt by porn just as much as men.

Not all women are married.

Some women offer it in order to seem exciting, different , excite the male, get a response, out of curiosity.

Some women really enjoy it.

Nothing we say, nothing we think matters. It doesn't alter scientific/medical/biological fact.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"There was a writing on that other website about this, saying the same thing.

The conclusion was that gentle anal ‘should’ be ok, it’s the rough stuff that causes damage, and can be a long term issue, rather than immediate.

Women have a different anatomy which can make it worse.

Some girls love it makes them cum

Some dogs bite. "

Not a problem I can charm any dog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was a writing on that other website about this, saying the same thing.

The conclusion was that gentle anal ‘should’ be ok, it’s the rough stuff that causes damage, and can be a long term issue, rather than immediate.

Women have a different anatomy which can make it worse.

Some girls love it makes them cum "

I didn’t say I don’t like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people are anatomically different. I have been into hard anal sex for 30 years and have had no issues. But then I don't fuck people who don't know what they are doing! Always listen to your body is the key I guess and stop if you feel you need to ( never happened to me but sounds like a good idea if you not analy gifted) x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"The Guardian is as bad as The Daily Mail, equally pompous and self righteous, but from opposite perspectives.

That's just silly, regardless of one's political persuasion.

As it happens, I don't have a strong 'political persuasion', which is why I can see both these rags are shamelessly biased and untruthful. "

At least with scientific research papers, when referencing them, users can go straight to the source and learn from it.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"There was a writing on that other website about this, saying the same thing.

The conclusion was that gentle anal ‘should’ be ok, it’s the rough stuff that causes damage, and can be a long term issue, rather than immediate.

Women have a different anatomy which can make it worse.

Some girls love it makes them cum

I didn’t say I don’t like it."

I know you didn't

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