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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do they put you off?

What I’m trying to say is if a man has had loads of meets and verifications would it put a lady off?

or a if a woman has loads of meets and verifications would this put men off?

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By *undayTarkaMan
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester Middleton

The more the merrier!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

The number, no.

The content, sometimes.

The creator, often.

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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago

Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove

Men tend to hide their verifications for that very reason

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Yes, if there were lots in quick succession.

Also depends what they say and what the guy has written in return.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, if a woman has a lot of verifications, and by that I mean, physical intimate meets, it would only put me off if they were very close together in dates. If not, then it wouldn't bother me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not so much the amount of Veri’s, for me, it’s more about the things that are written and the type of person/people writing it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Puts me off if they have more than 4 showing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who wrote it maybe, the amount no J x x

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I don't want to meet the thirsty ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t everyone say only see verified people

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By *ittleMyWoman
over a year ago

Stockport


"The number, no.

The content, sometimes.

The creator, often. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a woman had loads within a short period of time I would find it a bit off putting but would still give them the benefit of the doubt. I think people expect to see verifications more from single men than anything else in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s fun we’re after right?

Sharing their experience of the meets.

I’m sure if we didn’t have them there would be a counter argument.

In short, share and enjoy!

Being genuine is a priority for me so they help.

The number doesn’t bother me and I’d hope mine would be received the same.

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By *he Artful TodgerMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire but travel

The number no - Go to an event and you’ll get a few as you socialise a lot so often they overlap

The content - Possibly, very much depends on the context and what has been written

The Authors - Again possibly, very much so if all those verifying are all hidden

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"If a woman had loads within a short period of time I would find it a bit off putting but would still give them the benefit of the doubt. I think people expect to see verifications more from single men than anything else in my opinion "

Give her the benefit of the doubt ?

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Numbers doesn't bother me at all... It doesn't bother men either I found, on my last profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a woman had loads within a short period of time I would find it a bit off putting but would still give them the benefit of the doubt. I think people expect to see verifications more from single men than anything else in my opinion

Give her the benefit of the doubt ?"

Yes.

Would you want to meet someone who had loads of meet verifications in a short period of time ?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"If a woman had loads within a short period of time I would find it a bit off putting but would still give them the benefit of the doubt. I think people expect to see verifications more from single men than anything else in my opinion

Give her the benefit of the doubt ?

Yes.

Would you want to meet someone who had loads of meet verifications in a short period of time ? "

You are asking that on a swinging site for sexually liberated people seeking non judgemental others ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we got stalked we changed profile and lost our verifications but we always want a man to be well verified.

Reasonable chance they’ll show up and be experienced then.

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough / Kettering


"Do they put you off?

What I’m trying to say is if a man has had loads of meets and verifications would it put a lady off?

or a if a woman has loads of meets and verifications would this put men off?"

No, it proves that they are genuine, know what they want and know how to get it! Major turn on for me !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The number no it doesn’t

Who they’re from yes it might do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a woman had loads within a short period of time I would find it a bit off putting but would still give them the benefit of the doubt. I think people expect to see verifications more from single men than anything else in my opinion

Give her the benefit of the doubt ?

Yes.

Would you want to meet someone who had loads of meet verifications in a short period of time ?

You are asking that on a swinging site for sexually liberated people seeking non judgemental others ?"

It’s not judgmental at all. It’s a personal preference.

I get judged all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who wrote it maybe, the amount no J x x"

I agree with this

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By *ussyFairy.Man
over a year ago

LUTON

Well said.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

They make for hilarious reading material

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they are an essential part of the decision!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The number, no.

The content, sometimes.

The creator, often. "

This

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

I prefer lots of verifications, they're less likely to be time wasters. I take what they say with a pinch of salt, no ones going to publish one that aren't good.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"If a woman had loads within a short period of time I would find it a bit off putting but would still give them the benefit of the doubt. I think people expect to see verifications more from single men than anything else in my opinion

Give her the benefit of the doubt ?

Yes.

Would you want to meet someone who had loads of meet verifications in a short period of time ?

You are asking that on a swinging site for sexually liberated people seeking non judgemental others ?

It’s not judgmental at all. It’s a personal preference.

I get judged all the time "

And how do you like that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a woman had loads within a short period of time I would find it a bit off putting but would still give them the benefit of the doubt. I think people expect to see verifications more from single men than anything else in my opinion

Give her the benefit of the doubt ?

Yes.

Would you want to meet someone who had loads of meet verifications in a short period of time ?

You are asking that on a swinging site for sexually liberated people seeking non judgemental others ?

It’s not judgmental at all. It’s a personal preference.

I get judged all the time

And how do you like that? "

Don’t bother me one bit to be honest

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

I've only one verification from years ago, am I worried nah, at least it shows I'm real, and not fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really...

But it can be a bit like TripAdvisor

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"The number, no.

The content, sometimes.

The creator, often. "

I have to agree with this

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I want to pick up reliability from a veri, so I don't waste time. Nothing else is important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They make a funny read, or a sad one rather... Spelling... Trying to copy some erotic novel... (She moaned when I slid my throbbing cock in / my tongue dancing on her clit made her squirm/ etc...) Sorry mate, don't need the imaginary details, that's your fantasy. But yes, too many verification will put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to see where people have been … but for me I hide mine as there’s toxic people on here

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Doesn’t put us off how many as you never know how many others are hiding and lots could be social verifications

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I’m a bit worried I’m racking up a few too many in a short space of time! But a percentage have been socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The numbers? No not really but maybe… it’s just a feeling you get from all the little things on someone’s profile that make you think, we just wouldn’t click. Or, we should meet up. That’s what verifications are good for in my opinion.

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Not the number, but I always check out who left them and that can often put me off.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"Not the number, but I always check out who left them and that can often put me off."

Same for me.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

If they display or write graphic veris then that could be off putting…

We like a bit of Shakespeare in the veri

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the unverified.

I wanna go where no woman's gone before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like the unverified.

I wanna go where no woman's gone before. "

*can I direct you to my virgin account?

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By *risxbrisxMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Not the number, but I always check out who left them and that can often put me off.

Same for me."

What would put you off about who left them? What type of people?

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"Not the number, but I always check out who left them and that can often put me off.

Same for me.

What would put you off about who left them? What type of people?

"

If they have met with Tracey’s (described in my profile ) then that would put me off. Maybe judgemental but I like what I like and don’t like what I don’t like

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like the unverified.

I wanna go where no woman's gone before. "

My thoughts also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not the number, but I always check out who left them and that can often put me off.

Same for me.

What would put you off about who left them? What type of people?

If they have met with Tracey’s (described in my profile ) then that would put me off. Maybe judgemental but I like what I like and don’t like what I don’t like "

Gotta love a Tracey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not the number, but I always check out who left them and that can often put me off.

Same for me.

What would put you off about who left them? What type of people?

If they have met with Tracey’s (described in my profile ) then that would put me off. Maybe judgemental but I like what I like and don’t like what I don’t like "

You got me reading a profile!!! Damn you!!!

Also, what number does Tracy live at?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not the number, but I always check out who left them and that can often put me off."

If they have veris from Swingers it's a noooo

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