FabSwingers.com forum: Have you done last minute meets ?

By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

We usually plan ahead with our meets but this weekend we have booked the hotel for Friday and Saturday night with nothing planned.

Just wondering if anyone on here has done the type of meets where you have been out for the night get back to the hotel and just search who's local and invite them around, no social or nothing beforehand. If so how did it go.

Have a great day all.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I'm a planner

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By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

"I'm a planner"

So are we.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I took Mrs S to meet s guy at his house on the spur of the moment once. She had an amazing time.

I had an incredible drive home, with my mind racing.

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By *urvyD-and-J2Couple
over a year ago

Leighton Buzzard

We have had a few good last minute meets

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We did when we went to Vanilla Alternative on the Friday, got all horned up playing the next day and decided to stay over and go to the club on the Saturday, only to realise last min it was couples night and I wanted C to be spoilt by two guys.

Put up a meet for our hotel and the first guy who replied was Italian. It was on C’s fantasy list for her to meet an Italian guy, as she lived out there for a while and never got to play, so we contacted him and exchanged a couple of messages.

I met him at the bar whilst C got ready…we had a chat and I knew C would find him hot. She sent pics whilst we were in the bar, so we were all excited when I brought him back to the room.

They talked Italian throughout and we mirror massaged her, our hands and fingers exploring all over her body…it was very exciting and better than we hoped for, for a last min meet…

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We have tried booth methods. tbh, if we are going away for a weekend we prefer to plan ahead and know we'll be meeting up with someone before we leave home. However, if we are at home and the mood takes us, we have found meets online using the chatroom.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

No I can't do it online, I need to be in his presence to gauge him first, I find it easier to pull a stranger for a one nighter IRL than online instant meets

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By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

"I took Mrs S to meet s guy at his house on the spur of the moment once. She had an amazing time.

I had an incredible drive home, with my mind racing. "

Glad it worked out well for you both.

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

Usually the most reliable. Spur of the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have before but sometimes you’ll get a crazy meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my early days on Fab about 6 or 7 years ago I had a couple of those .. one was a supposed to be a group session where I was the only guy that turned up, which was a result to be fair, and t’other was a little last minute adventure to Abingdon one evening which was memorable for all sorts of reasons, mostly the blood injury to my willy ..

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Only once, and never again. I messaged a couple who were moaning they had been let down, and they invited me round! I jumped in my car, and was at their place within 30 minutes, to be greeted by the hubby, who showed me inside. His wife was actually very lovely, but was d*unk on the sofa. I don’t kiss she said. Ok, fair enough says I. I don’t suck cock either she says. Ahh, ok….. suffice to say, it really wasn’t working for me, so I thanked them for their time, wished them a good evening, and left…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plan well to avoid disappointment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tried it once and the response was underwhelming to say the least.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I like to plan and also determine in detail who I am going to see and where.

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By *leasureman123Man
over a year ago

Manchester

some of best meets have been spur of the moment, some been planned a few days before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve done it a couple times if I’m away, always worked out well

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres real spontaneity in last minute meets. I like to plan but have also done the last minute thing and they’ve been super fun and thrilling and more !

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We never have and probably never would.We find everything is much better when we have spent time doing socials and getting to know the people first.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Plan well to avoid disappointment. "

Yep, it’s good to try something spur of the moment at times, but since my experience, I get to know people first through chatting in here, messenger services, phone chat and social beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My only meets of fab have been last minute, every time try to plan something it don’t happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a bloke for a social after chatting for 10 minutes. I got there and said let's just go to that hotel across the road. So we did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve done it twice but no hotel, both times were great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had about 10 or 12 sexual encounters. They've been quite varied but ALWAYS Spontaneous. Never ever planned. always been fun no disappointments. Can't be bothered with the hassles of pre-planning..

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Yorks/Lincs

always best to plan everytime ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a bloke for a social after chatting for 10 minutes. I got there and said let's just go to that hotel across the road. So we did."

Then what happened?

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By *ophie199Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

We’ve done this a few times when we’ve been away it can be really good fun, best cities were Glasgow and London

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Always best to plan your escape route weeks in advance. I mean I do have some street cred that I’d like to uphold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pre planning isn't for us.

here's a couple of reasons why :

*unexpected events always have a way of interrupting best laid plans. then it's so stressful having to cancel & all the hassle involved in letting people know plus feeling that you've annoyed people even though no one's fault, life just happens.

*if something that is supposed to be exciting has involved planning then it can lack that sense of passion & deborchary because what's happening is kinda expected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Carrier pigeons have just fluttered through the windows here are Soze Towers. The note attached from my deliciously saucy mate readsZzzzzz

“I fancy a mass orgy with you all”

There’s a strange code at the end ……MYB, dunno what that’s all about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Carrier pigeons have just fluttered through the windows here are Soze Towers. The note attached from my deliciously saucy mate readsZzzzzz

“I fancy a mass orgy with you all”

There’s a strange code at the end ……MYB, dunno what that’s all about.

Wrong thread oops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have before covid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plan well to avoid disappointment. "

Jane typing this.

Im really sorry to everyone on this convo thread because I know it's possibly not the correct etiquette however.. I can't hold back saying that this couples profile & photo's is so attractive to us. I honestly don't make a habit of writing like this. It's just that Zac is in the living room listening to his music (loudly) & I'm casually browsing on forums seeing if there's any interesting posts for me to join in on, when the profile caught my eye.

Hence sending my appreciation in this way, incase sending as a PM might come across as pervy.

Anyways.. Do continue with topic thread

Apologies again

Meant with Best intentions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Carrier pigeons have just fluttered through the windows here are Soze Towers. The note attached from my deliciously saucy mate readsZzzzzz

“I fancy a mass orgy with you all”

There’s a strange code at the end ……MYB, dunno what that’s all about.

Wrong thread oops"

Pheww.. Glad you explained as it was quite confusing

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I enjoy last minute meets - they generally have the advantage that they actually happen

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

That!!

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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago

Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove

"We usually plan ahead with our meets but this weekend we have booked the hotel for Friday and Saturday night with nothing planned.

Have a great day all.

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I plan meets in advance as I need to get family stuff sorted out if I’m meeting someone

I don’t meet anyone I’ve not chatted to for a while so it’s never been an issue

I can’t be doing with blokes who send out a multitude of random messages, to no doubt countless other people, asking for a meet that night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say 90% of my meets are last last minute. The rest at most 2 days in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last minute meets are the best, no talking for weeeeeeks in advance about who's gonna do what to who, just 2 (or more) horny folk wanting to get it on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We usually plan ahead with our meets but this weekend we have booked the hotel for Friday and Saturday night with nothing planned.

Have a great day all.

I am a fan, although I prefer to have a plan in place, all my best meets have happened last minute late night...

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By *rmainman10Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Agree.. last min always best ... Means you are FREE to meet... No plans to get in the way

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By *reen as JadeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

We like to plan, but on a weekend in Spain we got stood up by a couple. We both said that we could not let this opportunity go. So Luke let me go solo which I really enjoyed. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been planning for months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope they aren’t physco whoever you choose

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By *exyPirateMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Yes, they can be a real thrill!

Walking in and getting it on with a hot stranger is great…

And they’re more likely to actually happen!

Make sure they’re verified enough tho…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Carrier pigeons have just fluttered through the windows here are Soze Towers. The note attached from my deliciously saucy mate readsZzzzzz

“I fancy a mass orgy with you all”

There’s a strange code at the end ……MYB, dunno what that’s all about.

Wrong thread oops"

BUT what does MYB mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree, being spontaneous adds another layer of excitement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, three times when been away for work. Two of the times worked great and a great evening, only once was it a no show even though had messages right up to 10mins before the meet.

Said they were a couple, but account was deleted straight away around the timen of the meet.

I'd still do last minute again.

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By *illxxMan
over a year ago

motherwell

Yes done a few last minute meets they were very exciting and spontaneous didn’t have time to think about it thumbs up for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done a few spontaneous meets when people have let me down. Sometimes the best nights happen that way!

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By *inballs99Man
over a year ago

Blackheath

I have a couple of times but to be honest we not the best experiences !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had both, it depends on who you are meeting not the level of spontaneity

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By *oobaaMan
over a year ago

South Shields

Yes,only last month and it went well.

was in a bar and I was checking on here when I got a message from a couple looking for Bi male.

A couple of messages and I was on my way to their hotel.

Very nice meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Never. I may do one day for a laugh if the right person pops up.

But I would normally want some kind of ‘know where we both are’ type thing going on.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I haven’t and I can’t imagine that I ever would either.

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By *ristinapinkWoman
over a year ago

Staines-upon-Thames

Done a few last minute and I liked the excitement of being spontaneous

I tend to plan but no more than 3-4 days in advance otherwise things tend to fizzle out a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Done a few last minute and I liked the excitement of being spontaneous

I tend to plan but no more than 3-4 days in advance otherwise things tend to fizzle out a bit "

Oh the fizzle out is a real thing. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only once, and never again. I messaged a couple who were moaning they had been let down, and they invited me round! I jumped in my car, and was at their place within 30 minutes, to be greeted by the hubby, who showed me inside. His wife was actually very lovely, but was d*unk on the sofa. I don’t kiss she said. Ok, fair enough says I. I don’t suck cock either she says. Ahh, ok….. suffice to say, it really wasn’t working for me, so I thanked them for their time, wished them a good evening, and left…"

Well done. Best way to deal with,likes like that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a bloke for a social after chatting for 10 minutes. I got there and said let's just go to that hotel across the road. So we did."

Deff your call. You took the charge.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

Sometimes it's the best way to get rid of timewasters.

Say yes to a meet.

Had a single guy contact me during the week, around 11.30pm, he lived about 100 miles away.

His well thought out line was, fancy meeting me now?

My reply.

Yes, brilliant, can't wait.

I'm in my dressing gown but can throw a coat on.

Give me 5 minutes and meet me at the beach car park, what car you driving, shall we say 3am to give you plenty of time to get here.

Sadly, no reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes it's the best way to get rid of timewasters.

Say yes to a meet.

Had a single guy contact me during the week, around 11.30pm, he lived about 100 miles away.

His well thought out line was, fancy meeting me now?

My reply.

Yes, brilliant, can't wait.

I'm in my dressing gown but can throw a coat on.

Give me 5 minutes and meet me at the beach car park, what car you driving, shall we say 3am to give you plenty of time to get here.

Sadly, no reply.

Always call the Bluff!! confident doer,s will step up,its a challenge and adventure of life,whats really on the other side.

Had many many chat line meets, all diff times,days of the week etc.

Got in the car and met face to face.

You cant win or lose them all.

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