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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If all the filters were taken down…. Who would you message to try to interact with and why?

is it because after reading their profiles you think you tick all the boxes other than a specific filter ?

Is it because their photos are the ones that stand out most?

Always curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would depend on what the profile said - if I still didn't fit what they want then removal of filters wouldn't matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots of people would leave this site if that was the case.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An absolute disaster. The filters are there to narrow down any likely partners in to the fields that you actually require and want.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Nobody that I wouldnt be able to talk to already. Filters are there to stop ilk like me from contacting them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont sweat the small stuff if im not in that age range they prefer or catogory they want its not high odds id get awt out of it so bit of a pointless thing to think about really

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

None I respect filters and their purpose. If I can't message them now it's because we are incompatible, so I wouldn't message them then

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

You know if it’s meant to happen you’ll meet them in a club or social, probably not healthy to keep a list of the people you wanted to but didn’t.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would depend on what the profile said - if I still didn't fit what they want then removal of filters wouldn't matter "

But I’m saying for example your 41 and their filter is 40 …. Everything else would fit…. This isn’t real scenario it’s about fantasy of new discovery

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"lots of people would leave this site if that was the case....."

Ok…

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"An absolute disaster. The filters are there to narrow down any likely partners in to the fields that you actually require and want. "

I feel like all have taken this as it being a good idea….

It was purely for fantasy that you normally miss out because of a birthday

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton

Likelihood still only message friends

I'd be blocking all single men all day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well this fell flat on its face hahaha

I’ll get back in my box

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Well this fell flat on its face hahaha

I’ll get back in my box "

It's the way she goes. Sometimes she goes, some times she doesn't. It's the ways she goes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well this fell flat on its face hahaha

I’ll get back in my box

It's the way she goes. Sometimes she goes, some times she doesn't. It's the ways she goes."

The spider is wise within but the fox is cunning…. So is the wisdom or the adaptability preferred

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By *he Artful TodgerMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire but travel

Knowing the volume and vulgar content many women and couples get it’d be a disaster for guys

You can flirt and chat on forums, fab pics still, if you catch their eye maybe you’ll hear from them, if not there’s a little a something for everyone here in Swingerton

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

No one, because if they don't want to give me a good knobbing now , lifting filters won't change that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Knowing the volume and vulgar content many women and couples get it’d be a disaster for guys

You can flirt and chat on forums, fab pics still, if you catch their eye maybe you’ll hear from them, if not there’s a little a something for everyone here in Swingerton"

Too true

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No one, because if they don't want to give me a good knobbing now , lifting filters won't change that! "

Well I’ve tried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A jaffa cake lover who keeps taunting me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A jaffa cake lover who keeps taunting me"

Love Jaffa cakes

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"A jaffa cake lover who keeps taunting me"

So you are no longer sane then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On this note I think I got 6 msgs already today from people who match my filters but I don’t match their preferences - when I ask them why they are messaging me they just change their preferences. Idk I’m thinking of just not repeating myself constantly n deleting/blocking in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only people I message privately are people that I speak to regularly on the forums so filters don’t really matter.

Good pictures do help but mostly it’s people that make me laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one, because if they don't want to give me a good knobbing now , lifting filters won't change that! "
you know full well id bang uranus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every guy I've liked ( all 2 of them) I've being able to message so I'm good.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

The guy who blocked us after what had seemed a very pleasant social. Not usually bothered by blocking, but I'd really like to know why with that particular person.

Not to worry though.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World


"No one, because if they don't want to give me a good knobbing now , lifting filters won't change that!

Well I’ve tried "

I replied

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World


"No one, because if they don't want to give me a good knobbing now , lifting filters won't change that! you know full well id bang uranus"

Such romance as always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one, because if they don't want to give me a good knobbing now , lifting filters won't change that! you know full well id bang uranus

Such romance as always "
im like a romance ninja

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

If 'The' Elvis was filterless on here then I may have told him I was all shook up over him.

Otherwise, I'm already good.

Who has tempted you OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On this note I think I got 6 msgs already today from people who match my filters but I don’t match their preferences - when I ask them why they are messaging me they just change their preferences. Idk I’m thinking of just not repeating myself constantly n deleting/blocking in future "

Makes it easier…. And this is what I mean about barriers but I totally get them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The only people I message privately are people that I speak to regularly on the forums so filters don’t really matter.

Good pictures do help but mostly it’s people that make me laugh."

Laughter is needed more

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Every guy I've liked ( all 2 of them) I've being able to message so I'm good. "

Win win

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If 'The' Elvis was filterless on here then I may have told him I was all shook up over him.

Otherwise, I'm already good.

Who has tempted you OP?"

There have been several profiles along the way that I have read their bio…. And thought ‘I think we’d be well suited’ to then realise I’m too young or too old by a year ha

But also the ‘local’ which I totally understand … but sometimes some are willing to travel … but I know that’s not the fix

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