FabSwingers.com forum: Have you ever bottled a meet ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As a couple or as a single?got cold Feet ? Still haven't done the deed yet ? Want to hear all ?

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

No, though sometimes I've wished I had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes.

she doesnt like the fact that she is kept in amongst my bottled ship collection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NEVER!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No never would! I got to one meet and saw him stood there and started to turn around to go home but thought no that's just cruel! Will have a coffee and then go! As it turned out didn't have to make excuse as he was a total knob x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We always turn up. If we change our mind for any reason we let the person know

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I've always turned up, I'd let someone know if I had a genuine reason not to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not a ship

its a shag

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

No never bottled a meet, even though I had a feeling it wouldn't work out. Turned up, socialised and politely made my excuses.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

No, but I nearly did when Bob was on his way to see me. I was so nervous and absolutely convinced he would be disappointed, I had to be talked out of getting in the car and running away.

I'll always be grateful to the person who talked me off that ledge because it was the start of the best thing in my life.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I have never bottled a meet but I had one meet where the wife had clearly been on the bottle before she turned up. She was definitely worse for wear and it became clear, talking to hubby, that this swinging stuff was all his idea and not hers. Made my excuses and left as soon as I reasonably could.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

Been stood up several times - but never done it to anyone - wouldn’t - no one has enough free time to have it wasted

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Occasionally, due to a gut feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope...only way to see if there's attraction on both sides,... hehe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, though it's possibly easier for a couple, in that we can support one another.

Saying that, Mrs A has met alone also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Apart from the fact that I wouldn't want to let a girl down, meets are so hard to get and take quite a lot of arranging and travelling and so it would be crazy to bottle out of one.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

No we’ve never bottled a meet and wouldn’t either but it’s probably easier for us as if the meet is not going well we will still make a night of it and enjoy ourselves with each other .

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Although I have been stood up plenty of times for no reason, they just block you...maybe it's me??? Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, though I've made plans and only actually decided on the day to meet. I always have a get out message ready!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Occasionally, due to a gut feeling. "

A gut feeling of what ? Dodgy men ? Haaha

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By *andR2019Couple
over a year ago

Nunya

We both have

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Never dropped out myself but sometimes the look of mixed terror and disappointment on the faces of my victims makes we want to try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back in my very early and naive days of Fab I’ll admit it, yes I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sort of, but not from here

I arrived. It was clear his pics were old, so i walked out without him seeing i had arrived, text him and said i hadnt seen him, just a much older guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes .. but I’ve let them know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No never bottled a meet, even though I had a feeling it wouldn't work out. Turned up, socialised and politely made my excuses. "

I did this today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, years ago. But I did tell him, wouldn’t just stand someone up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No nae never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I genuinely thought I would do at first but I didn't. I just pictured the other half being equally as excited or nervous and it relaxed me

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By *orny1-4uMan
over a year ago

newcastle

No If it's a woman on her own always in a public place and if she's not for me for whatever reason we've had a cuppa or drink and natter then leave and it's the same for the woman I can handle the rejection and have never been stood up up to now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never bottled one, its hard enough getting meets as a single guy let alone backing out of any potential ones

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

No never have done.

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By *atisfiedSighWoman
over a year ago

NW Wiltshire

I have, and I felt terrible. Anxiety got the better of me and I made an excuse to cancel. I will only arrange to meet once in a blue moon because of this, and a lot of prior chat is a big help in calming my nerves.

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By *inkyisfunukMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

No, that’s just rude. In the years I’ve been swinging I think I’ve only ever had to cancel 2 meets, and let the couple know well in advance each time.

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By *rmainman10Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

No.. but just to be courteous.. I stayed and chatted ...and went our own ways ... But stayed out of respect the time and effort people make and take to come to that meet

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By *JandCMCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Only had 2 meets in past n twice the guys we should have met didn't turn up.

Puts you off.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Occasionally, due to a gut feeling.

A gut feeling of what ? Dodgy men ? Haaha"

Yes, usually something they say that puts me off

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

No.

Lifes an adventure. Some good, some bad.

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By *rmainman10Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Occasionally, due to a gut feeling.

A gut feeling of what ? Dodgy men ? Haaha

Yes, usually something they say that puts me off"

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Nope never or been stood up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I nearly did once though, because I was sat waiting for them in my car for 30 mins, then I was getting bored and more nervous.

It was very tempting to put my foot down and go home!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to try bottling some squirt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd like to try bottling some squirt."

Vabbing in a bottle. You could be onto something here Jim.

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

How unfair would that be, what's the worse that can happen, you don't hit it off and you go your seperate ways after a chat, you should never go to a meet with false expectations and presumptions of getting further than a great chat and social because that would add the pressure that would make you bottle it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you arrange to meet you should meet - always bear in mind that meeting someone does not obligate you do to anything other than chat.... if that's all you want to do. Be polite and leave if they are not for you.

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