FabSwingers.com forum: Would you really share your wife or husband?

By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

We get lots of messages and see many post's on the threads saying that people would share their wives or husband's if they could. But would they really and have they even asked their partners? Do most want the penny and the bun and wouldn't want to see their partner with someone else anyway?

Have a great day all.

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By *8v3nCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Well we are here and yes. But we are a couple who have open with each other. Regarding men/women who are here on their own but think they could share - I think their relationship needs and wants to be a sorted out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way I could do it. I'm far too jealous to be enjoying watching another man please my partner

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I'm happy to share my, albeit nonexistent, wife

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

What do you mean share?

Let them fuck others, spend quality time, split wages, let them live together and contribute to a combined household?

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By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

"No way I could do it. I'm far too jealous to be enjoying watching another man please my partner "

Thanks for being honest

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By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

"What do you mean share?

Let them fuck others, spend quality time, split wages, let them live together and contribute to a combined household?"

Sex.

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By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

"I'm happy to share my, albeit nonexistent, wife

Good on you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve enjoyed many other guys wives but if I was married I don’t think I could share her

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By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

"I’ve enjoyed many other guys wives but if I was married I don’t think I could share her"

Again thank you for being honest.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Not a position I've been in, but yeah, I don't see why not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Works for us being in an open relationship. Don't see it as sharing, more like variety of life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't tried it, but I don't have any problem with it. I can't say I'm interested in watching though.

I'd like my partner to feel fulfilled and happy.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I don't really see it as sharing. They have their own body, their own libido, their own choices and mind. If they want to see others it doesn't diminish or change how they see me. Unless it's Emma Stone because who wouldn't want to spend all their time with her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not exactly sharing as in one or the other plays separately as such , but we are swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not done it yet but yes I could you only live once and if its what you both like than why not ? We been together 13 years so why not explore if your both game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP ! Just a quick one why would you ask a parents ? That's abit weird . Your adults don't need consent from patents LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We recently (3 days ago) had our first proper MFM and we both loved it.

After talking and fantasising for forever, we took the plunge and we wouldn't look back.

No jealousy, just lots of adult fun from everyone and we all walked away with a smile on our faces.

This is just the start of our journey together.

(And that's the key, we always want to play together l, not interested in hotwife or cuckold or private meets)

It's all about everyone involved and having fun.

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

"OP ! Just a quick one why would you ask a parents ? That's abit weird . Your adults don't need consent from patents LOL "

Have foursomes been patented now then?

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By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

"We recently (3 days ago) had our first proper MFM and we both loved it.

After talking and fantasising for forever, we took the plunge and we wouldn't look back.

No jealousy, just lots of adult fun from everyone and we all walked away with a smile on our faces.

This is just the start of our journey together.

(And that's the key, we always want to play together l, not interested in hotwife or cuckold or private meets)

It's all about everyone involved and having fun."

Great to hear and good luck with your future meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We get lots of messages and see many post's on the threads saying that people would share their wives or husband's if they could. But would they really and have they even asked their partners? Do most want the penny and the bun and wouldn't want to see their partner with someone else anyway?

Have a great day all.

Yes I would happily share my wife with someone of her own choosing, it has been fun and I also like to watch… a ringside seat with my wife being the main star.

We have a very open and relaxed relationship, both love going to clubs (Mingles when it was open) and more so the social side of swinging.

The journey has had its ups and downs, but we are stronger in love now than we have ever been in our 24 years of marriage.

Maybe we are just one of a kind…. Or this could actually be ‘normal’ for most people on here

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We chatted to a guy once who told me he'd never do this in a relationship. That's his choice of course but to me it indicated a certain attitude that didn't sit well with me

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Depends on the dynamic tbf

Bdsm wise no. I only have the want for one relationship of that type at a time in my life.

Sexual partners wise, we all happily meet other people and make equal time for each other, so yes I do share my time with them with others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If were that close to have wife gf or in love then no chance i dont share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If were that close to have wife gf or in love then no chance i dont share"

But you expect others to share with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I don't know if it's share but let my wife meet with other guys. So she was having some fb or fwb in yhe last 5 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We chatted to a guy once who told me he'd never do this in a relationship. That's his choice of course but to me it indicated a certain attitude that didn't sit well with me"

Exactly what I'm thinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isn't my first relationship to adopt the swinging lifestyle.

I have been in relationships without swinging too.

I'm not the jealous, possessive kind at all and so with boundaries discussed, I'm happy to share.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve enjoyed many other guys wives but if I was married I don’t think I could share her"

This my opinion

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I don’t really see it as sharing we are just having fun together.Purely sex I have no issue sharing my husband

.I couldn’t do separate meets or a poly relationship I’m to much of a selfish bitch to share my husband emotionally

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Yes I've happily given my partner permission to have meets alone .

He comes back and tells me about it & it's exciting.Ive never felt jealous about it ,because he comes back to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t really see it as sharing we are just having fun together.Purely sex I have no issue sharing my husband

.I couldn’t do separate meets or a poly relationship I’m to much of a selfish bitch to share my husband emotionally

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This

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I don’t really see it as sharing we are just having fun together.Purely sex I have no issue sharing my husband

.I couldn’t do separate meets or a poly relationship I’m to much of a selfish bitch to share my husband emotionally

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Yeah we see it as having fun together. Sharing always sounds a bit like a bag of sweets to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I first got married in 1991 and shared my wife up until she died in 2010. Sharing a partner is a two way thing, i shared her with others and she shared me with others............more often than not at the same time in the same room

It's what FAB was invented for.

I really can't understand why some single guys have posted that they couldn't or wouldn't "share"

I can only assume they are just here for a fuck until they meet their "true love" ?

The thing is though, if you are at one with your partner, you can still "share".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I first got married in 1991 and shared my wife up until she died in 2010. Sharing a partner is a two way thing, i shared her with others and she shared me with others............more often than not at the same time in the same room

It's what FAB was invented for.

I really can't understand why some single guys have posted that they couldn't or wouldn't "share"

I can only assume they are just here for a fuck until they meet their "true love" ?

The thing is though, if you are at one with your partner, you can still "share"."

Spot on mate

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By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

As the female half of a hotwife couple, my hubby loves to share me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respectfully it's not for me, nor would I want to share someone else's partner.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

"I don’t really see it as sharing we are just having fun together.Purely sex I have no issue sharing "

This...enjoy him physically (especially if I'm watching, he looks damn hot when he's having sex...plus, reclaim sex

), but I'll never share emotionally.

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By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

"I don’t really see it as sharing we are just having fun together.Purely sex I have no issue sharing my husband

.I couldn’t do separate meets or a poly relationship I’m to much of a selfish bitch to share my husband emotionally

Yeah we see it as having fun together. Sharing always sounds a bit like a bag of sweets to me"

Like a bag of Woolies pick and mix

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

I had a FB from here a while back and very much enjoyed our visits to clubs and meets with other guys and couples. I found it a real turn on to see her enjoy herself and never felt any jealousy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my ex on here but couldn’t share him! We were together for 5 years and were monogamous for the entire time. I don’t think he would have been able to share me either though!

So for me, no I couldn’t share my partner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I already do, and it’s amazing.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

We like to share the fun ...

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Think the sharing thing is in the definition of swinging somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single but it would be very unlikely that I would get into a monogamous relationship again, I'd much prefer an open relationship so yes I would. In what capacity (soft swap, same room, play separately etc) would depend on what we were both happy with.

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Kent

I enjoy seeing my wife with other gents. And she enjoys seeing me enjoy it. Especially within a group environment. I think it takes a certain mentality and a strong, trusting relationship. I think maturity helps too. However we do not do one to one meets. Might sound bizarre but these seem too personal. And as much as I love to see her enjoyed by a few guys, god help any guy who would come on to her in a “vanilla” pub environment.

It’s almost as if arranged meets and swinger clubs are OK because we have predetermined when and what will happen, but anywhere else is 100% out of bounds.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

"No way I could do it. I'm far too jealous to be enjoying watching another man please my partner "

To us, that's the difference between a swinger and a shagger. The mindset of most of our mmf meets has been similar (usually disclosed mid play) which is why we've only met them the once. Two guys who do get it are still our playmates after seven years.

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By *ete_singlMan
over a year ago

Ruislip

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By *ete_singlMan
over a year ago

Ruislip

Single guy here.

I suspect that there are many men that see it as a fantasy, but there is a big difference between fantasy and reality.

Have been after a meet with a couple for ages. Always end up talking to the guy, as soon as I ask to speak to the woman contact seems to stop.

Have been with a woman who was married-she said she had husbands permission but figured it wasn’t my place to check.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I can share my man sexually but emotionally a huge no, I couldn't have separate relationships.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Share and have fun on our swinging days ,or with her f/b on other occassions , but family life at home totally different . We share our time as a family as normal

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By *atandjayCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Yes absolutely

That’s what really turns us on

Obviously friendship and sex

Not romance

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

I have a Massive disdain for single how wouldn't allow their partners the same courtesy.

Also, the question for the signal do you think less of Man and Women who share or have shared?

Could you date a person who had been or is a swinger?

If so would you expect them to stop swinging for you?

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By *arried West End CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We’ve both had solo meets and loved it

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By *orkcoastguyMan
over a year ago

Bridlington.

Have done many times when my wife was swinging and when solo have joined numerous couples.

Never any other involvement, just uncluttered sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a great day all.

What's the penny and bun?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Share? You can keep her

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By *andR2019Couple
over a year ago

Nunya

Each to their own but g being with another girl is such a turn on for me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a Massive disdain for single how wouldn't allow their partners the same courtesy.

Also, the question for the signal do you think less of Man and Women who share or have shared?

Could you date a person who had been or is a swinger?

If so would you expect them to stop swinging for you?"

I wouldn't date a swinger.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

No. For all my sexual sass, if I were in love with someone I wouldn’t be able to share them. I’d be internally raging!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’ve dine it before , enjoyed it , always separate room full swap though , no interest in watching or being watched or having a big bi-pile

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We often get guys saying if Flik was their partner they wouldn't share her. We then try to explain what swinging is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many in this site really don't get swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and ex wife had several meets via another swinging site, for me there's nothing more exciting than watching your wife with another guy, likewise she was turned on seeing me with another woman.

Would I do it again given the opportunity, yes most definitely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many in this site really don't get swinging.

What is the definition that people must abide by?

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

We're full swap and only have a rule that we're in the same room.

We don't do solo, separate room etc. as we line to see each other having fun.

But that's ours way, others can, and do, have different play methods.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many in this site really don't get swinging.

I "swing" how I want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many in this site really don't get swinging.

What is the definition that people must abide by? "

I'm not saying people must abide by any definition. Not sure where you get that from? Passive aggressive much?

But single people looking to hook up with single people only and declaring they wouldn't "share" isn't swinging. And yes they are perfectly entitled to be here, just they can fuck off if they want to complain the site doesn't work for them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many in this site really don't get swinging.

I "swing" how I want."

Good for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many in this site really don't get swinging.

What is the definition that people must abide by?

I'm not saying people must abide by any definition. Not sure where you get that from? Passive aggressive much?

I’m no expert but isn’t the original definition couples swapping or having group fun?

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I’m single and yet to take part in any swinging activities. I like the thought of being with multiple men and like the thought of a partner watching me with others, but I don’t think I could watch them…

To me, there’s so much more to swinging than just having sex with other people. It could be going to a party with your partner and enjoying the atmosphere, but only playing with eachother?

Absolutely zero judgement for what others enjoy within their own relationship. Your relationship your rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many in this site really don't get swinging.

What is the definition that people must abide by?

I'm not saying people must abide by any definition. Not sure where you get that from? Passive aggressive much?

I’m no expert but isn’t the original definition couples swapping or having group fun?"

Fancy a game of twister?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a great day all.

Me and my long term partner have done this on many an occasion, we’ve both had partners outside of our relationship. When feeling playful we’ve both arranged meets for the other with them having no idea who they’re meeting (that’s one of our kinks). Just do what feels right and works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many in this site really don't get swinging.

What is the definition that people must abide by?

I'm not saying people must abide by any definition. Not sure where you get that from? Passive aggressive much?

I’m no expert but isn’t the original definition couples swapping or having group fun?

Fancy a game of twister?"

Will you supply wine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many in this site really don't get swinging.

What is the definition that people must abide by?

I'm not saying people must abide by any definition. Not sure where you get that from? Passive aggressive much?

I’m no expert but isn’t the original definition couples swapping or having group fun?"

So couples who just have 3somes aren't swingers?

Is the straight partner who doesn't fuck the 3rd person not a swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many in this site really don't get swinging.

What is the definition that people must abide by?

I'm not saying people must abide by any definition. Not sure where you get that from? Passive aggressive much?

I’m no expert but isn’t the original definition couples swapping or having group fun?

So couples who just have 3somes aren't swingers?

Is the straight partner who doesn't fuck the 3rd person not a swinger? "

That’s my point. The person I was replying to was having a pop at singles. The original definition would mean 90% of fab aren’t swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many in this site really don't get swinging.

What is the definition that people must abide by?

I'm not saying people must abide by any definition. Not sure where you get that from? Passive aggressive much?

I’m no expert but isn’t the original definition couples swapping or having group fun?

So couples who just have 3somes aren't swingers?

Is the straight partner who doesn't fuck the 3rd person not a swinger?

That’s my point. The person I was replying to was having a pop at singles. The original definition would mean 90% of fab aren’t swingers. "

Aha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many in this site really don't get swinging.

What is the definition that people must abide by?

I'm not saying people must abide by any definition. Not sure where you get that from? Passive aggressive much?

I’m no expert but isn’t the original definition couples swapping or having group fun?

So couples who just have 3somes aren't swingers?

Is the straight partner who doesn't fuck the 3rd person not a swinger?

That’s my point. The person I was replying to was having a pop at singles. The original definition would mean 90% of fab aren’t swingers.

Aha

My wife would never share me. So god knows what that makes us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many in this site really don't get swinging.

What is the definition that people must abide by?

I'm not saying people must abide by any definition. Not sure where you get that from? Passive aggressive much?

I’m no expert but isn’t the original definition couples swapping or having group fun?

Fancy a game of twister?

Will you supply wine?"

If you're gonna ask stupid questions...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many in this site really don't get swinging.

What is the definition that people must abide by?

I'm not saying people must abide by any definition. Not sure where you get that from? Passive aggressive much?

I’m no expert but isn’t the original definition couples swapping or having group fun?

Fancy a game of twister?

Will you supply wine?

If you're gonna ask stupid questions..."

You’ve known me long enough. You should expect stupid questions.

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

If I had a significant other then yes I’d love to watch them pleasuring others and receiving pleasure from others. As I’d want to be shared in the same way. Isn’t that what the swinging lifestyle is all about or have it the concept all wrong ?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"We chatted to a guy once who told me he'd never do this in a relationship. That's his choice of course but to me it indicated a certain attitude that didn't sit well with me"

Kind of double standards isnt it, have spoke to many singles (m&f) and alot wouldnt swing with their partner if they had 1 but think nothing of having fun with someone elses partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many in this site really don't get swinging.

What is the definition that people must abide by?

I'm not saying people must abide by any definition. Not sure where you get that from? Passive aggressive much?

I’m no expert but isn’t the original definition couples swapping or having group fun?

Fancy a game of twister?

Will you supply wine?

If you're gonna ask stupid questions...

You’ve known me long enough. You should expect stupid questions."

I should, you are a Geordie after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many in this site really don't get swinging.

What is the definition that people must abide by?

I'm not saying people must abide by any definition. Not sure where you get that from? Passive aggressive much?

I’m no expert but isn’t the original definition couples swapping or having group fun?

Fancy a game of twister?"

Baby oil too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many in this site really don't get swinging.

What is the definition that people must abide by?

I'm not saying people must abide by any definition. Not sure where you get that from? Passive aggressive much?

I’m no expert but isn’t the original definition couples swapping or having group fun?

Fancy a game of twister?

Will you supply wine?

If you're gonna ask stupid questions...

You’ve known me long enough. You should expect stupid questions.

I should, you are a Geordie after all. "

That accent makes stupid questions sound sexy though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many in this site really don't get swinging.

What is the definition that people must abide by?

I'm not saying people must abide by any definition. Not sure where you get that from? Passive aggressive much?

I’m no expert but isn’t the original definition couples swapping or having group fun?

Fancy a game of twister?

Baby oil too?"

Oh god no, that is only ever to be used when leaving the shower. It's an awesome moisturiser.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many in this site really don't get swinging.

What is the definition that people must abide by?

I'm not saying people must abide by any definition. Not sure where you get that from? Passive aggressive much?

I’m no expert but isn’t the original definition couples swapping or having group fun?

Fancy a game of twister?

Will you supply wine?

If you're gonna ask stupid questions...

You’ve known me long enough. You should expect stupid questions.

I should, you are a Geordie after all.

That accent makes stupid questions sound sexy though

Stop trying to turn me on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many in this site really don't get swinging.

What is the definition that people must abide by?

I'm not saying people must abide by any definition. Not sure where you get that from? Passive aggressive much?

I’m no expert but isn’t the original definition couples swapping or having group fun?

Fancy a game of twister?

Will you supply wine?

If you're gonna ask stupid questions...

You’ve known me long enough. You should expect stupid questions.

I should, you are a Geordie after all.

That accent makes stupid questions sound sexy though

Stop trying to turn me on

You should hear me say toblerone. It’s like porn.

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By *bonybucksMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

No, that’s why I would be married. Not for anyone else to have.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I enjoy being shared between 2 men

I wouldn't enjoy watching a partner have sex with someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad Bitch wasn't really sure she could tame the green eyed goblin but wanted to push her boundaries - so she did and really shocked herself.

The sharing part is fully conditional and understood by both - we push our boundaries but never break them. That way we can have fun in a safe way.

We will see how it goes when we eventually stray too close to a boundary but I believe that we communicate well enough to handle it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

share ? too clinical a word we are just very openminded and from the very begining both said we are happy for ech other to openly have sex else where thats what super strong together swingers do we both agree we could not be poly .. emotions for each other sex with anyone we fancy ...

must admit guys (and women) who say they would not share if in a relationship yet are happy to be involved with somebodys else partner grind our gears too and when we see this being said its a normal block its a bit too double standards for us but its rightly there choice and thought ....

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Have a great day all.

What's the penny and bun? "
I’ve never heard of that saying either but I presume it’s similar to have your cake and eat it..

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

Yes I would if only the guys I go with would share me. That's why I'm single they don't get a say then

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By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

Have a great day all.

What's the penny and bun? I’ve never heard of that saying either but I presume it’s similar to have your cake and eat it.."

Yes that's what I meant lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many in this site really don't get swinging.

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im not here to get swinging or do swinging im here to pass the time until the next life not to swing

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

"So many in this site really don't get swinging.

im not here to get swinging or do swinging im here to pass the time until the next life not to swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely.

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

Definitely. She would love to be with more people (when her broken back mends), especially women, and we talk about everything openly. Honesty is the best way to ensure both halves of the couple are enjoying themselves.

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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago

just somewhere around here

"No way I could do it. I'm far too jealous to be enjoying watching another man please my partner "

But it's OK for you to have a "discreet" profile on here??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I would if only the guys I go with would share me. That's why I'm single they don't get a say then"

I feel a bit hemmed in too by attitudes of guys I've dated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband loves sharing me. He says I’m his little porn star

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My husband loves sharing me. He says I’m his little porn star

J x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a great day all.

Can we restart the thread? - “Would you share your wife with me?”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I don't share.

But I'd share my last rolo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My husband loves sharing me. He says I’m his little porn star

J x "

And that’s how we fall in love!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My husband loves sharing me. He says I’m his little porn star

J x

And that’s how we fall in love!

Love sucks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. I don't share.

But I'd share my last rolo."

Too chewy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My husband loves sharing me. He says I’m his little porn star

J x

And that’s how we fall in love!

Love sucks. "

I wish!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My husband loves sharing me. He says I’m his little porn star

J x

And that’s how we fall in love!

Love sucks.

I wish!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My husband loves sharing me. He says I’m his little porn star

J x "

I feel the same about my bad bitch. Shame we aren't very good at filming

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By *inkyfun2013Couple
over a year ago

lewisham

Each of us loves having sex with other people, and watching each other do the same. Or all joining in a big pile up. This makes us happier than being exclusive "possessors" of each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoy swapping partners with other couples and I’m happy watching her play with other men. Now I’m letting her go an meet a man by herself, I can’t wait to hear about her getting naughty with someone else

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"No way I could do it. I'm far too jealous to be enjoying watching another man please my partner

Agree with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, In my last marriage, there was a time I would. Another time in that same marriage I would have said no.

It depends on where I am with a person and my feelings and securities at that time.

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By *omoxfordMan
over a year ago

leeds

I d love to find a lady on here that would be interested in doing this

I like watching an also if she blows both guys at the same time you end up lasting longer than usual as she switches between each guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had a husband, I'd gladly lend him out for the whole weekend.

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Already do. My wife does what she wants with whoever she wants, although she always asks first; mostly it’s for the Dom aspect, but she’s had a poly relationship.

I don’t get involved other than the details she chooses to share.

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

"I’ve enjoyed many other guys wives but if I was married I don’t think I could share her"

Would you still continue to meet others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a great day all.

What's the penny and bun? I’ve never heard of that saying either but I presume it’s similar to have your cake and eat it..

Yes that's what I meant lol. "

Aha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I had a husband, I'd gladly lend him out for the whole weekend. "

You could hire him out as a substitute husband. He could do the boring stuff with the wife while the husband goes to the pub.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

No chance. I’ve never been able to get my head around that one. A FWB yes. Someone I love, not a chance in hell.

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By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

"If I had a husband, I'd gladly lend him out for the whole weekend.

You could hire him out as a substitute husband. He could do the boring stuff with the wife while the husband goes to the pub."

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

"My husband loves sharing me. He says I’m his little porn star

J x "
that’s exactly how I like it too , it’s like taking your wife to a porn set , seeing her have lots of fun Then taking her home and having mind blowing sex after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My husband loves sharing me. He says I’m his little porn star

J x that’s exactly how I like it too , it’s like taking your wife to a porn set , seeing her have lots of fun Then taking her home and having mind blowing sex after "

The stuff of dreams.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My husband loves sharing me. He says I’m his little porn star

J x "

That's what swinging is all about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No chance. I’ve never been able to get my head around that one. A FWB yes. Someone I love, not a chance in hell. "

If it was a man saying this you'd be like a hedgehog with all the pitchforks in you.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

"If I had a husband, I'd gladly lend him out for the whole weekend. "

Same

Reclaim sex Is lush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I had a husband, I'd gladly lend him out for the whole weekend.

Same

Reclaim sex Is lush

I take it when you have reclaim sex you talk about what just happened? Is that right ?

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By *loscouplegl3Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester

This is the way we play

Mr has played alone. Mrs has played alone. And we play as a couple with others.

As long as it’s fun and everyone enjoys it then go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I had a husband, I'd gladly lend him out for the whole weekend.

Same

Reclaim sex Is lush

I was just thinking of a weekend of peace to be honest.

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