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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

One for the linguists but I've just learned that they can't be used interchangeably.

Apparently "You’re welcome” works best when someone has asked us to do something that might cause a bit of a problem. For instance, if we’re busy working, but we stop to help them. “No problem” works best when no problem was caused due to our choice to help someone else.

I've always used "no worries" almost as a catch all term but do you think it makes a difference or do you use one or the other?

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"One for the linguists but I've just learned that they can't be used interchangeably.

Apparently "You’re welcome” works best when someone has asked us to do something that might cause a bit of a problem. For instance, if we’re busy working, but we stop to help them. “No problem” works best when no problem was caused due to our choice to help someone else.

I've always used "no worries" almost as a catch all term but do you think it makes a difference or do you use one or the other?"

You’re over thinking this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use no worries also, I think it adds an element of friendliness, rather than being too formal

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

OK

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"One for the linguists but I've just learned that they can't be used interchangeably.

Apparently "You’re welcome” works best when someone has asked us to do something that might cause a bit of a problem. For instance, if we’re busy working, but we stop to help them. “No problem” works best when no problem was caused due to our choice to help someone else.

I've always used "no worries" almost as a catch all term but do you think it makes a difference or do you use one or the other?

You’re over thinking this."

+1

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

What about the passive aggressive "you're welcome" when you hold the door for someone and they don't acknowledge you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use 'no worries' all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friendly "off you fuck" solves this.

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By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford

I throw in the odd “No dramas” to mix it up a bit.

So for example …

Them: sorry, we’re not interested

Me: no dramas

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"What about the passive aggressive "you're welcome" when you hold the door for someone and they don't acknowledge you? "

I am very sorry to say but I have done this a couple of times if they are particularly 'ignorant'. Oops

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"What about the passive aggressive "you're welcome" when you hold the door for someone and they don't acknowledge you?

I am very sorry to say but I have done this a couple of times if they are particularly 'ignorant'. Oops "

me too. I also do it while driving

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"What about the passive aggressive "you're welcome" when you hold the door for someone and they don't acknowledge you?

I am very sorry to say but I have done this a couple of times if they are particularly 'ignorant'. Oops

me too. I also do it while driving "

That an all

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I use “anytime”.

Then she leaves the bedroom.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

No worries here too

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Oh God. Another thing for me to overthink now.

I just hope that I've never got it wrong!

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

A cunninglinguist is required for the answer.....

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I use both, so much so that upon leaving a table having just taken their order and them thanking me, my reply came out "your problem"

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

How about 'no bother', though not something I use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If “you’re welcome” was good enough for Maui it’s good enough for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use both, so much so that upon leaving a table having just taken their order and them thanking me, my reply came out "your problem" "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to use different shit everytime. Keeps life interesting

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I use both equally.

You've just scrabbled my head.. now it'll be using, no worries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*gets myself into Moana mode*

What can I say except no problem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use no problem when someone asks something from me. I save the you're welcome for when someone hasn't actually said thank you.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

At work my default is "2 sugars"

Outside of work it's "you are welcome". If they don't say thanks I walk off muttering "cunt" under my breath....

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

After spending time in NZ I used no worries for years, now I prefer you're welcome.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

I use no probs or happy to help if someone thanks me for doing something

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

When someone thanks me for doing something for them I just say, ‘That’s ok, I’ll itemise it all in the bill ’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use ‘You’re welcome’, ‘coolio’ and ‘as you wish’ depending how well I know the person I’m interacting with.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"One for the linguists but I've just learned that they can't be used interchangeably.

Apparently "You’re welcome” works best when someone has asked us to do something that might cause a bit of a problem. For instance, if we’re busy working, but we stop to help them. “No problem” works best when no problem was caused due to our choice to help someone else.

I've always used "no worries" almost as a catch all term but do you think it makes a difference or do you use one or the other?"

That's an interesting post OP.

I baulk at the "no worries" remark and never use it myself. It has no substance and carries no meaning. At least, I don't understand it.

When I hear "no worries" it's reminiscent of an antipodean throwaway comment.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I always say you're welcome if I done something that someone asked help with. I say no worries if the person said they can't do something for me.

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