FabSwingers.com forum: Desensitised

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fab's fantastically full of clunge and cock and mammaries galore but after a while do you feel desensitised?

Does a face picture feel like when teenage you first discovered porn?

It doesn't tickle the pickle like it used to and it all begins to look the same...

Have you ever reached this point? What do you do to reignite the flame?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I got bored of looking at genitals a long time ago.

Now I get excited by imaging all the torment I can inflict on said genitals. That gets the blood pumping

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Try hitting it with your belt. That’ll wake it up for a bit

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Now I'm worried I don't see enough clunge n cock n stuff.

But a face picture is like the icing on the cake. The holy grail. The pot o gold at the end of the rainbow.

Or a massive let down like mine

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

This happened a long time ago for me. Though many don’t believe a man can’t get turned on by just looking a photos or porn.

I’m much more a people person in the flesh

Marc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen some fantastic videos and cock pictures on here recently. Don't think I'd ever get bored of them. Horny just thinking about riding them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I got bored of looking at genitals a long time ago.

Now I get excited by imaging all the torment I can inflict on said genitals. That gets the blood pumping

As you've progressed is there a limit or are you now stuck in a sadistic wormhole? Sort of like that 3am porn search where you end up on page 482 jack off and delete your search history immediately after

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Try hitting it with your belt. That’ll wake it up for a bit

Already tried that. Even dressed it up as a chicken so it would be more life like when I ch0ked it but nothing

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By *rg4Man
over a year ago

hunktown

"I got bored of looking at genitals a long time ago.

Now I get excited by imaging all the torment I can inflict on said genitals. That gets the blood pumping

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I hate it when this happens. When you start getting to the Eastern European porn you know it’s going to be a long night

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Now I'm worried I don't see enough clunge n cock n stuff.

But a face picture is like the icing on the cake. The holy grail. The pot o gold at the end of the rainbow.

Or a massive let down like mine

Haha maybe your appetite is a bit more insatiable than mine

True words about the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. In real life you see the face first and naughty bits later so maybe Fab reverses the way you think considering you get to see the short and curly's to begin with.

Never yours. I've just been perving and staring into those eyes of yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The random cocks? No, they is ugly and probably lower my horniness.

The cock belonging to the guy I intend on getting into bed with? Yes please.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"I got bored of looking at genitals a long time ago.

Now I get excited by imaging all the torment I can inflict on said genitals. That gets the blood pumping

There is no limit, only a lack of imagination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life did the damage there was a time erika eleniak jumping out of a cake topless would have my dodging jizmdrops from the ceiling

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Now I'm worried I don't see enough clunge n cock n stuff.

But a face picture is like the icing on the cake. The holy grail. The pot o gold at the end of the rainbow.

Or a massive let down like mine

Haha maybe your appetite is a bit more insatiable than mine

Never yours. I've just been perving and staring into those eyes of yours

Oh you

I'm all blushing now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This happened a long time ago for me. Though many don’t believe a man can’t get turned on by just looking a photos or porn.

I’m much more a people person in the flesh

Marc "

I think a lot of people hang to the stereotype of 'man' and don't think beyond it. A woman is a complex sexual being and men are just meant to be ready to go to fuck anything at any moment.

I'm with you, I still watch porn for the odd wank but it never feels satisfying, just like I'm going through the motions.

I much prefer getting to know someone and connecting on a mental level, makes the whole experience so much more enjoyable for all involved.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Oh you

I'm all blushing now"

Wanking you mean?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've seen some fantastic videos and cock pictures on here recently. Don't think I'd ever get bored of them. Horny just thinking about riding them

Oh to have this perspective again

Enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The random cocks? No, they is ugly and probably lower my horniness.

The cock belonging to the guy I intend on getting into bed with? Yes please. "

This is a good spin to put on it. I think I'd agree with this.

The guy you intend on bedding; is it solely the cock which turns you on? I.e if he randomly sent you a dick pic with no words attached are you still wet and raring to go?

Or is it the person and the package attached to the cock? Where the mental stimulation is already there and the cock pic tips you over the edge?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I got bored of looking at genitals a long time ago.

Now I get excited by imaging all the torment I can inflict on said genitals. That gets the blood pumping

There is no limit, only a lack of imagination."

I love that last line, if it's not already in your bio somewhere it needs to be. I like the way you think!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The idea is to tease them enough so that they get that feeling of watching porn for the first time when they eventually see your cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Life did the damage there was a time erika eleniak jumping out of a cake topless would have my dodging jizmdrops from the ceiling "

Would you consider it actual damage though? Or is it just a consequence of getting older? Where we no longer have the 'hump everything which moves' ideaology of an 18 year old. Instead, subconciously, we look for meaningful connections to take into old age and have someone who will hold our hand when we die

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It's hard to be desensitised by something that never really had any effect in the first place.

Naked pics of random people on the internet don't appeal at all.

Random naked pics of people I know are more appealing but only if they are personal.

2D images on a screen by themselves are not arousing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Life did the damage there was a time erika eleniak jumping out of a cake topless would have my dodging jizmdrops from the ceiling

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I still think it’s funny getting a message off someone with a cock as their avatar. Often they’re intelligent and interesting person but the cock avatar does put me off.

I only find certain images a turn on, cocks or boobs aren’t going to get me randy, but someone you find share the same fantasy meet as you. Now that’s a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, definitely, honestly it's all kinda blurred into one.

I find it more interesting chatting on the forums, finding interesting people to natter with.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Absolutely desensitised…I have seen cocks and pussy in every angle, position and so I can scroll past them without one blink of an eye.

Unless I’m invested in that person then graphic pics don’t interest me one bit.

A gorgeous face pic or an intriguing pic, which makes my mind work gets me drooling like I did when I was a teen and looking through the underwear section of the Littlewood’s catalogue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The random cocks? No, they is ugly and probably lower my horniness.

The cock belonging to the guy I intend on getting into bed with? Yes please.

This is a good spin to put on it. I think I'd agree with this.

The guy you intend on bedding; is it solely the cock which turns you on? I.e if he randomly sent you a dick pic with no words attached are you still wet and raring to go?

Or is it the person and the package attached to the cock? Where the mental stimulation is already there and the cock pic tips you over the edge?"

Err a cock is the last thing that turns me on.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I almost don't see cocks, boobs etc, that belong to people I'm not attracted to, anymore... But ones that belong to the ones I am, I can't get enough of

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The idea is to tease them enough so that they get that feeling of watching porn for the first time when they eventually see your cock

But what about you? Are you ready and raring to go when you see a fanny photo on here? Or do you need the teasing to bring it all to life?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I almost don't see cocks, boobs etc, that belong to people I'm not attracted to, anymore... But ones that belong to the ones I am, I can't get enough of

Oh yes this for me too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's hard to be desensitised by something that never really had any effect in the first place.

Naked pics of random people on the internet don't appeal at all.

Random naked pics of people I know are more appealing but only if they are personal.

2D images on a screen by themselves are not arousing."

What gets you going then if you don't mind me asking? Do you need a connection built up by conversation?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I still think it’s funny getting a message off someone with a cock as their avatar. Often they’re intelligent and interesting person but the cock avatar does put me off.

I only find certain images a turn on, cocks or boobs aren’t going to get me randy, but someone you find share the same fantasy meet as you. Now that’s a turn on.

Ahh fantasy pictures, good twist. I think media of a fetish/fantasy would still get the blood pumping. Maybe it's a lack of imagination in pictures which makes you go 'Eurgh' and scroll past..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah, definitely, honestly it's all kinda blurred into one.

I find it more interesting chatting on the forums, finding interesting people to natter with.

Definitely agree with this. I mainly use the forums now, the rest of the site is just there in the background.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer words to images. I get more turned on by what someone says they want to do to/with me than having a picture of their genitals thrust in my face

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Absolutely desensitised…I have seen cocks and pussy in every angle, position and so I can scroll past them without one blink of an eye.

Unless I’m invested in that person then graphic pics don’t interest me one bit.

A gorgeous face pic or an intriguing pic, which makes my mind work gets me drooling like I did when I was a teen and looking through the underwear section of the Littlewood’s catalogue

Perfectly summed up K. Love the throwback to the littlewoods catalogue, oh the times I had with one of those!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I almost don't see cocks, boobs etc, that belong to people I'm not attracted to, anymore... But ones that belong to the ones I am, I can't get enough of

I feel this. I'm not turned off this section of media entirely just the random ones don't have the same effect they used to. If I was talking to someone and pictures came into the equation then the insatiable lust would be kicked back into gear for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was already desensitised before joining here. I blame porn.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"It's hard to be desensitised by something that never really had any effect in the first place.

Naked pics of random people on the internet don't appeal at all.

Random naked pics of people I know are more appealing but only if they are personal.

2D images on a screen by themselves are not arousing.

What gets you going then if you don't mind me asking? Do you need a connection built up by conversation?"

People get me going. Not pictures of people though. On the flip side someone can have the most amazing portfolio of pics and videos but an ugly personality which is an immediate turn off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer words to images. I get more turned on by what someone says they want to do to/with me than having a picture of their genitals thrust in my face "

I like a verbal back and forth. One word answers/not carrying on the conversation on their end is so annoying.

But if you can find someone who speaks/writes well and mirrors your energy then it really does add another dimension to the relationship and makes the eventual (hopefully in person) genitals in face throwing much more pleasurable

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I haven't been turned on for a fair while, but even then a random person's genitals would do zero for me. Like others, if it was someone I was interested in, and IF that photo was taken FOR me then yeah. If it was just something from their gallery then I wouldn't feel as damp about it.

If the photo was rushed or a bit crap, nothing. I like effort, I find effort attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The idea is to tease them enough so that they get that feeling of watching porn for the first time when they eventually see your cock

But what about you? Are you ready and raring to go when you see a fanny photo on here? Or do you need the teasing to bring it all to life?"

As part of an overall body shot either naked or in a sexy outfit, it does. If it's a close up, it only gets me going if I find the woman attractive

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was already desensitised before joining here. I blame porn."

Do you think it's porn on the whole or your consumption of porn? Have you watched too much? Have you watched some porn that makes even the most graphic things on fab now seem vanilla? Or is it the easy access to porn 24/7 which has wired your brain to think it's all normal and now it doesn't do it for you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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What gets you going then if you don't mind me asking? Do you need a connection built up by conversation?

People get me going. Not pictures of people though. On the flip side someone can have the most amazing portfolio of pics and videos but an ugly personality which is an immediate turn off. "

Totally agree. I'd take a pretty personality over a visually pretty cunt any day of the week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was already desensitised before joining here. I blame porn.

Probably a build up over time.

I've seen all there is to see, pretty much nothing shocks me now lol

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

There is nothing more alluring and sexy as putting a face pic to a sexy profile youve been lusting after

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I haven't been turned on for a fair while, but even then a random person's genitals would do zero for me. Like others, if it was someone I was interested in, and IF that photo was taken FOR me then yeah. If it was just something from their gallery then I wouldn't feel as damp about it.

If the photo was rushed or a bit crap, nothing. I like effort, I find effort attractive "

Effort is definitely attractive. Matching energies and being on a level with someone really gets me going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to jump in on the porn angle, nah I'm not desensitised by that, it's easy enough to find stuff that suits your particular tastes or performers.

It's very much, a sea of bits and bobs floating in the ether here. If you're interested, cool, but when you're not, it's tantamount to being at a car supermarket, you mentally block out all the shite you've zero interest in.

That's not to denigrate anyone's choices, by all means you do you, just the nature of the game. It's all peacocking, some more literally than others, but you really need to have something to go with a flash and a wiggle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There is nothing more alluring and sexy as putting a face pic to a sexy profile youve been lusting after

This is what NSP said about a face pic now being the pot of gold at the end of the

A face pic certainly does feel like the cherry on top of the Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer words to images. I get more turned on by what someone says they want to do to/with me than having a picture of their genitals thrust in my face

I like a verbal back and forth. One word answers/not carrying on the conversation on their end is so annoying.

I absolutely agree with you there.

I have been lucky enough to recently find such a person

We had such an instant connection in the first few messages that we switched to face-time chats the very next day. When we met face-to-face for the first time last week it was like we'd known each other for years. And, as for the throwing of genitals in each others faces..haha, well I'll leave that to everyone's imagination

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Yes, I have reached that point. Or at least I reach that point, frequently. There is a sense of over-familiarity, OP, which leads to a 'desensitising' of sorts on my lascivious desires.

I just take a step back and limit myself from Fab's catalogue of designer pussies and artisan breasts. The less-is-more approach heightens the appreciation once more. Although, I am open to suggestions on more suitable alternatives to remediate my sexual impasse!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer words to images. I get more turned on by what someone says they want to do to/with me than having a picture of their genitals thrust in my face

I like a verbal back and forth. One word answers/not carrying on the conversation on their end is so annoying.

I absolutely agree with you there.

I have been lucky enough to recently find such a person

That's amazing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, I have reached that point. Or at least I reach that point, frequently. There is a sense of over-familiarity, OP, which leads to a 'desensitising' of sorts on my lascivious desires.

I like the way you think. I've done detoxes in the past and it definitely helps you appreciate that thing when you go back to it. Maybe a simple detox is the best thing?

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I join in chat more than look at pictures.

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By *afksedMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Eyes and a smile, baby.

I don’t care if a she’s got curves to die for and the most perfect body there is, it’s eyes and a smile that float my picky boat.

I like a tempting profile. A mysterious profile. A lady with life and mischief in her eyes.

The aesthetics are always secondary.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Oh you

I'm all blushing now

Wanking you mean?"

Obvs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer words to images. I get more turned on by what someone says they want to do to/with me than having a picture of their genitals thrust in my face

I like a verbal back and forth. One word answers/not carrying on the conversation on their end is so annoying.

I absolutely agree with you there.

I have been lucky enough to recently find such a person

That's amazing!

Well, I wasn't looking but my granny always said the right person will always turn up when you least expect it, and I can't ignore my granny's advice now, can I?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Eyes and a smile, baby.

I don’t care if a she’s got curves to die for and the most perfect body there is, it’s eyes and a smile that float my picky boat.

I like a tempting profile. A mysterious profile. A lady with life and mischief in her eyes.

The aesthetics are always secondary."

That's beautiful man, I like the way you think

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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Well, I wasn't looking but my granny always said the right person will always turn up when you least expect it, and I can't ignore my granny's advice now, can I?

Haha no you can't!

I always got told "What's for you won't pass you by" and that's held me in good stead

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