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Why are men so annoyingly coy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know what I am looking for, make it plain in my profile and messages.

But get fed up with men constantly being vague about what they are looking for in meet or wanting to negotiate after being told.

Am I just being a bitch

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

They’re playing hard to get they want you to chase them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No lv if they can't be bothered to read your profile then that's there problem

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"They’re playing hard to get they want you to chase them "

Some of us dont have that luxury of playing hard to get

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its especially annoying when they are mature guys, younger guys its more understandable. When you ask what they are looking because its not on the profile.

They will reply, just go with the flow and see..etc why not be clear ,it helps the meet if we both know what we are looking forward..

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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Politicians answers...being deliberately vague to either not be tied down to anything definite, or to keep their options open by being able to say you misinterpreted their meaning if they change their mind.

Ask yes or no questions, they can't be vague then.

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By *ussybagderMan
over a year ago

Salford

U just been a bitch

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Ask yes or no questions, they can't be vague then. "

Maybe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"U just been a bitch"

Lol a decisive answer from a guy. Must be a blue moon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's difficult enough for men trying to catch a meet here, never mind with the judgement of others if they seek something another doesn't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's difficult enough for men trying to catch a meet here, never mind with the judgement of others if they seek something another doesn't."

Well maybe if they weren't so vague it would help. But instead they come across as undecisive and desperate, willing to say anything for a meet. Maybe more honesty and clarity would help.

I made a mistake earlier with not questioning enough and had a horrible meet, so not making that mistake again.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

No, they really struggle to articulate what it is they're looking for.

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