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"Are there any women cheating on their husband looking to meet, I find it such a turn on fuck someone’s partner when they don’t know. " Realise, posts like this will put off many couples from meeting you, due to lack of trust. | |||
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"Oh dear, OP’s about to be added to a shit tonne of block lists!" | |||
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"I can’t help but think you are over reacting, this is the real world and this does go on! There was even a song written about it OPP! Other peoples pussy, we can’t pretend this isn’t a thing!" Ah well if it goes on already and there a song about it then carry on as you were, it's all ok. | |||
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"Oh dear, OP’s about to be added to a shit tonne of block lists!" How to get blocked by 90% of the females and couples who read this Still he knows what he wants good luck OP | |||
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"I can’t help but think you are over reacting, this is the real world and this does go on! There was even a song written about it OPP! Other peoples pussy, we can’t pretend this isn’t a thing!" You can't mention cheating on the forum...haven't you been paying attention? From what I've noticed, there are a few women who cheat but it doesn't tend to be as part of a kink, more of an escape from twatty men. Hope you find what you need OP | |||
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"Enjoy the new bum hole you’re about to be torn." Lol….If only they knew…. | |||
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"I can’t understand what is wrong with this subject, there must be loads of cheating women, it’s just a part of human nature. Everyone if different, we all have preferences why is this different to any others??" There is but cheating doesn't tend to be something that people announce on here ordinarily. | |||
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"Cheating is not swinging, swinging is not cheating. " true that | |||
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" Everyone above answered the question about women meeting outside their relationship I guess. Life happens and people make some good and bad decisions (sometimes such an encounter is a moment of epiphany and sometimes they regret it) but OP I'm intrigued to know why the cheating aspect alone is a turn on? I'm sure many of us have done things we shouldn't have, but the guilt doesn't take the edge off it? " Good question, In the scenario the OP mentions it wouldn’t be his guilt so much but hers, does he get off on that, does he feel anything..? I would say Karma is a bitch, go through life treating people like that and it’s likely to be how you’re received by others… | |||
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"Why does it turn you on? I’ve always wondered this. Is it like you’re getting one over on another man? I’m intrigued what the turn on is? Why is it different to someone’s wife where they’ve given permission? " I dont get it either .id rather there was permission and honesty ..relax and enjoy the experience ...maybe theres a danger element of the hubby turning up and catching you both ...maybe | |||
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"Enjoy the new bum hole you’re about to be torn." . True. Take no notice op. Nowt to do with any other buggar what you do | |||
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"Cheating is not swinging, swinging is not cheating. " Thing swinging is less about the cheating or not cheating and more about what you do. A few random one on one shags here or there - probably not really swinging. Meeting in groups of three or more, going to parties, clubs, etc. - swinging. Both can be and are done by cheaters or the faithful. If somebody is cheating and attending parties or going to clubs and participating in group sex who are you to say they are not swinging? We never ask so have no idea. | |||
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"Why does it turn you on? I’ve always wondered this. Is it like you’re getting one over on another man? I’m intrigued what the turn on is? Why is it different to someone’s wife where they’ve given permission? I dont get it either .id rather there was permission and honesty ..relax and enjoy the experience ...maybe theres a danger element of the hubby turning up and catching you both ...maybe " Maybe. I don’t have an issue with meeting married men. I don’t understand the turn on because they’re married thing though. | |||
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"Are there any women cheating on their husband looking to meet, I find it such a turn on fuck someone’s partner when they don’t know. " Aren't you a sweetie | |||
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"I don’t feel any guilt, that’s not my business. I can imagine that the woman may feel guilty depending on her individual situation but that is for her to deal with. I think I enjoy the forbidden fruit part of the whole affair, having something that you can’t have. Also I have been cheated on and I don’t hold a grudge, it clearly wasn’t the relationship I thought it was, I don’t blame either to be honest. It’s just life." Was that your answer to me? Click reply and quote when you answer someone | |||
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"I can’t understand what is wrong with this subject, there must be loads of cheating women, it’s just a part of human nature. Everyone if different, we all have preferences why is this different to any others??" Know your audience (shrugs) | |||
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"Why does it turn you on? I’ve always wondered this. Is it like you’re getting one over on another man? I’m intrigued what the turn on is? Why is it different to someone’s wife where they’ve given permission? I dont get it either .id rather there was permission and honesty ..relax and enjoy the experience ...maybe theres a danger element of the hubby turning up and catching you both ...maybe Maybe. I don’t have an issue with meeting married men. I don’t understand the turn on because they’re married thing though. " You dont helloòooo | |||
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"I don’t feel any guilt, that’s not my business. I can imagine that the woman may feel guilty depending on her individual situation but that is for her to deal with. I think I enjoy the forbidden fruit part of the whole affair, having something that you can’t have. Also I have been cheated on and I don’t hold a grudge, it clearly wasn’t the relationship I thought it was, I don’t blame either to be honest. It’s just life." Mixed answer from me. Cheating is wrong , full stop. Do I think you are doing wrong..... no. Would I judge the woman who is cheating .....no. Would I kill any partner of mine who cheated on me.... YES. Do I believe in sex outside of marriage yes. Do I believe I own the body of another no .... The diff for me is the LYING and the breaking of TRUST. I agree that you should not be held accountable tho.... | |||
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"I don’t feel any guilt, that’s not my business. I can imagine that the woman may feel guilty depending on her individual situation but that is for her to deal with. I think I enjoy the forbidden fruit part of the whole affair, having something that you can’t have. Also I have been cheated on and I don’t hold a grudge, it clearly wasn’t the relationship I thought it was, I don’t blame either to be honest. It’s just life. Mixed answer from me. Cheating is wrong , full stop. Do I think you are doing wrong..... no. Would I judge the woman who is cheating .....no. Would I kill any partner of mine who cheated on me.... YES. Do I believe in sex outside of marriage yes. Do I believe I own the body of another no .... The diff for me is the LYING and the breaking of TRUST. I agree that you should not be held accountable tho.... " That is a mixed answer, but a good one. I think it supports what I am saying- we all make choices and being someone’s partner doesn’t mean they own you! | |||
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"I don’t feel any guilt, that’s not my business. I can imagine that the woman may feel guilty depending on her individual situation but that is for her to deal with. I think I enjoy the forbidden fruit part of the whole affair, having something that you can’t have. Also I have been cheated on and I don’t hold a grudge, it clearly wasn’t the relationship I thought it was, I don’t blame either to be honest. It’s just life." And for many, it's the lever needed to make the break. Comfort thing, met a few ladies in my time, they wanted out but needed the confidence to do it. Swinging - is it not no ties sex? | |||
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""Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you." "Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own?" Cracks me up, that many make out to be the gentlest, most caring, hippie 'flowers in the hair" types on here, yet show themselves to be the nastiest people in responses on these forums but still claim moral high grounds on cheating. You'll find that most, they are triggered by their own fears and judge others by them. Each to their own - ask no questions, hear no lies - what I don't know won't hurt me." I don't think it's judging. Noones passing a sentence, they're simply expressing their opinion on the subject. No chance the forum will be united on this. I fully understand people's desires and temptations, and the fact people unexpectedly catch feelings and act upon them when they never expected to. I guess anyone who's been in such a situation, must know that the guilt/deciet aspect is what took away the wonderful feeling of being desired and wanted? On that basis I was intrigued why that was the turn on, and not the individuals attention. | |||
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"Are there any women cheating on their husband looking to meet, I find it such a turn on fuck someone’s partner when they don’t know. " Wow | |||
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"Cheating is not swinging, swinging is not cheating. " Couldn’t of put it better! | |||
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"Cheating is not swinging, swinging is not cheating. Couldn’t of put it better! " It is stating the obvious though. | |||
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""Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you." "Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own?" Cracks me up, that many make out to be the gentlest, most caring, hippie 'flowers in the hair" types on here, yet show themselves to be the nastiest people in responses on these forums but still claim moral high grounds on cheating. You'll find that most, they are triggered by their own fears and judge others by them. Each to their own - ask no questions, hear no lies - what I don't know won't hurt me." So...anyone who find's the OP's attitude distasteful is nasty and claiming the moral high ground? I find it distasteful to take sexual pleasure in someone being lied to which is what it boils down to. | |||
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""Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you." "Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own?" Cracks me up, that many make out to be the gentlest, most caring, hippie 'flowers in the hair" types on here, yet show themselves to be the nastiest people in responses on these forums but still claim moral high grounds on cheating. You'll find that most, they are triggered by their own fears and judge others by them. Each to their own - ask no questions, hear no lies - what I don't know won't hurt me. I don't think it's judging. Noones passing a sentence, they're simply expressing their opinion on the subject. No chance the forum will be united on this. I fully understand people's desires and temptations, and the fact people unexpectedly catch feelings and act upon them when they never expected to. I guess anyone who's been in such a situation, must know that the guilt/deciet aspect is what took away the wonderful feeling of being desired and wanted? On that basis I was intrigued why that was the turn on, and not the individuals attention. " It was such a popular thing when I was at uni, we even had a league table based on the success with married women, top points if you slept with them in their marital bed. Sometime we would leave a sticker! That I must admit goes beyond the acceptable. But it was amazing how many women were prepared to cheat on their husbands. I came 3rd out of 10 guys playing in the OPP league 2004, 2nd in 2006! Good times | |||
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"I don’t feel any guilt, that’s not my business. I can imagine that the woman may feel guilty depending on her individual situation but that is for her to deal with. I think I enjoy the forbidden fruit part of the whole affair, having something that you can’t have. Also I have been cheated on and I don’t hold a grudge, it clearly wasn’t the relationship I thought it was, I don’t blame either to be honest. It’s just life." Not really sure of your logic here, if she’s prepared to cheat with you then she’s not forbidden fruit or something no one else can have as she’s just a cheater, someone’s sloppy seconds who’s probably having sex with multiple people. She’s could be unhappy and vulnerable and your just taking advantage of her. You’re clearly not capable of handling a independent women who has her own mind. Good luck in your search. | |||
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"I don’t feel any guilt, that’s not my business. I can imagine that the woman may feel guilty depending on her individual situation but that is for her to deal with. I think I enjoy the forbidden fruit part of the whole affair, having something that you can’t have. Also I have been cheated on and I don’t hold a grudge, it clearly wasn’t the relationship I thought it was, I don’t blame either to be honest. It’s just life. Not really sure of your logic here, if she’s prepared to cheat with you then she’s not forbidden fruit or something no one else can have as she’s just a cheater, someone’s sloppy seconds who’s probably having sex with multiple people. She’s could be unhappy and vulnerable and your just taking advantage of her. You’re clearly not capable of handling a independent women who has her own mind. Good luck in your search. " I disagree, I think most were free thinking independent women who choose to do something good or bad. The sloppy seconds thing never bothered me. | |||
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"Are there any women cheating on their husband looking to meet, I find it such a turn on fuck someone’s partner when they don’t know. " There are men who cheat, so by the laws of probability there will also be women who do. | |||
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""Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you." "Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own?" Cracks me up, that many make out to be the gentlest, most caring, hippie 'flowers in the hair" types on here, yet show themselves to be the nastiest people in responses on these forums but still claim moral high grounds on cheating. You'll find that most, they are triggered by their own fears and judge others by them. Each to their own - ask no questions, hear no lies - what I don't know won't hurt me. I don't think it's judging. Noones passing a sentence, they're simply expressing their opinion on the subject. No chance the forum will be united on this. I fully understand people's desires and temptations, and the fact people unexpectedly catch feelings and act upon them when they never expected to. I guess anyone who's been in such a situation, must know that the guilt/deciet aspect is what took away the wonderful feeling of being desired and wanted? On that basis I was intrigued why that was the turn on, and not the individuals attention. It was such a popular thing when I was at uni, we even had a league table based on the success with married women, top points if you slept with them in their marital bed. Sometime we would leave a sticker! That I must admit goes beyond the acceptable. But it was amazing how many women were prepared to cheat on their husbands. I came 3rd out of 10 guys playing in the OPP league 2004, 2nd in 2006! Good times" So you qualified for the champions league? | |||
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"I'm only guessing but I can't help but suspect this type of fantasy is born from watching too much porn. Where the reality of it is never going to live up to what you expect. I'd say what you're looking for is a pot of gold " I think the women were looking for a pot of gold. | |||
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"You are right, and it would worth pointing out that if you were in that position and you wanted a discreet meet please feel free to msg me. " You need to hit reply and quote so people know who you're talking to. And no, that's not my situation | |||
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"You are right, and it would worth pointing out that if you were in that position and you wanted a discreet meet please feel free to msg me. You need to hit reply and quote so people know who you're talking to. And no, that's not my situation " Oh, I have already been told that once today and apologises I didn’t mean to imply that you were. | |||
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"There are probably as many women cheating on here as there are guys, they just don’t announce it or try justifying it, they just keep it quiet and get on with it. There’s no point ripping the OP apart " ^ this. I know for a fact that a lot of the “single” (in big inverted commas) ladies on here are partnered up / married and in my past incarnations on here have met lots of them. As you say, the ladies tend to not shout it from the rooftops like lots of the fellas do, they do it discreetly under the radar and don’t come on the forums trying to justify or fetishise it. Think about it .. all these charming sexy and alluring hotties, all single? Hmmmm | |||
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"There are probably as many women cheating on here as there are guys, they just don’t announce it or try justifying it, they just keep it quiet and get on with it. There’s no point ripping the OP apart ^ this. I know for a fact that a lot of the “single” (in big inverted commas) ladies on here are partnered up / married and in my past incarnations on here have met lots of them. As you say, the ladies tend to not shout it from the rooftops like lots of the fellas do, they do it discreetly under the radar and don’t come on the forums trying to justify or fetishise it. Think about it .. all these charming sexy and alluring hotties, all single? Hmmmm " Tis because we women are clever. | |||
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"I never condemned any one you never know there circumstances might be in a loveless marriage or even worse a sexless marriage or even what to have some fun and excitement In there life’s life is to short not to have fun with others " OP isn't doing it because he is trapped in a loveless sezless marriage etc he is looking for active cheaters for the thrill and the kink. Morally bankrupt comes to mind. Even the broken nose he got doing it before hasn't put him off. Some people actively enjoy deception and running the risk of destroying other people's lives. What is truly awful is often innocent children get caught in the Cross fire. KJ KJ | |||
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"I never condemned any one you never know there circumstances might be in a loveless marriage or even worse a sexless marriage or even what to have some fun and excitement In there life’s life is to short not to have fun with others OP isn't doing it because he is trapped in a loveless sezless marriage etc he is looking for active cheaters for the thrill and the kink. Morally bankrupt comes to mind. Even the broken nose he got doing it before hasn't put him off. Some people actively enjoy deception and running the risk of destroying other people's lives. What is truly awful is often innocent children get caught in the Cross fire. KJ KJ" Do you seriously think that if it wasn’t for the likes of evil ol’ me these relationships would be perfect and that I am the grinch going around destroying families. Affairs/ one night stands will always happen, it’s probably some evolutionary hangover. | |||
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"I never condemned any one you never know there circumstances might be in a loveless marriage or even worse a sexless marriage or even what to have some fun and excitement In there life’s life is to short not to have fun with others OP isn't doing it because he is trapped in a loveless sezless marriage etc he is looking for active cheaters for the thrill and the kink. Morally bankrupt comes to mind. Even the broken nose he got doing it before hasn't put him off. Some people actively enjoy deception and running the risk of destroying other people's lives. What is truly awful is often innocent children get caught in the Cross fire. KJ KJ Do you seriously think that if it wasn’t for the likes of evil ol’ me these relationships would be perfect and that I am the grinch going around destroying families. Affairs/ one night stands will always happen, it’s probably some evolutionary hangover. " No mate but the if it wasn't me it would be someone else argument doesn't wash. I just work with the messed up kids who are the only innocent victims in these situations. You are taking risks and potentially helping to wreck numerous lives just for a kink. Classic narcissist. KJ | |||
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"I fucked a lady on her armchair in her living room while her partner was asleep on the couch, that was pretty exciting, not too exciting for the guy if he found out. It hurts to be cheated on if you question yourself but mostly it's because the cheater is just selfish and horny. It's only sex at the end of the day. " and then you woke up with a big wet patch in ya undies | |||
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"I never condemned any one you never know there circumstances might be in a loveless marriage or even worse a sexless marriage or even what to have some fun and excitement In there life’s life is to short not to have fun with others OP isn't doing it because he is trapped in a loveless sezless marriage etc he is looking for active cheaters for the thrill and the kink. Morally bankrupt comes to mind. Even the broken nose he got doing it before hasn't put him off. Some people actively enjoy deception and running the risk of destroying other people's lives. What is truly awful is often innocent children get caught in the Cross fire. KJ KJ Do you seriously think that if it wasn’t for the likes of evil ol’ me these relationships would be perfect and that I am the grinch going around destroying families. Affairs/ one night stands will always happen, it’s probably some evolutionary hangover. No mate but the if it wasn't me it would be someone else argument doesn't wash. I just work with the messed up kids who are the only innocent victims in these situations. You are taking risks and potentially helping to wreck numerous lives just for a kink. Classic narcissist. KJ" Narcissist,destroyer of the innocent !! Are you sure. Seems a bit harsh and a bit strong for a fabswingers forum! | |||
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"See, you can forget your men that bang on about treating you with respect and it's all about the woman blah blah blah. This is men!! I think I'm in love." Nice tits | |||
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"I never condemned any one you never know there circumstances might be in a loveless marriage or even worse a sexless marriage or even what to have some fun and excitement In there life’s life is to short not to have fun with others OP isn't doing it because he is trapped in a loveless sezless marriage etc he is looking for active cheaters for the thrill and the kink. Morally bankrupt comes to mind. Even the broken nose he got doing it before hasn't put him off. Some people actively enjoy deception and running the risk of destroying other people's lives. What is truly awful is often innocent children get caught in the Cross fire. KJ KJ Do you seriously think that if it wasn’t for the likes of evil ol’ me these relationships would be perfect and that I am the grinch going around destroying families. Affairs/ one night stands will always happen, it’s probably some evolutionary hangover. No mate but the if it wasn't me it would be someone else argument doesn't wash. I just work with the messed up kids who are the only innocent victims in these situations. You are taking risks and potentially helping to wreck numerous lives just for a kink. Classic narcissist. KJ Narcissist,destroyer of the innocent !! Are you sure. Seems a bit harsh and a bit strong for a fabswingers forum!" I'd say spend a day doing my job and seeing the first hand damage to children when there parents split up due to cheating. However given what I've seen you post in this thread I doubt it would make a blind bit difference so you do you mate bugger the consequences | |||
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"I never condemned any one you never know there circumstances might be in a loveless marriage or even worse a sexless marriage or even what to have some fun and excitement In there life’s life is to short not to have fun with others OP isn't doing it because he is trapped in a loveless sezless marriage etc he is looking for active cheaters for the thrill and the kink. Morally bankrupt comes to mind. Even the broken nose he got doing it before hasn't put him off. Some people actively enjoy deception and running the risk of destroying other people's lives. What is truly awful is often innocent children get caught in the Cross fire. KJ KJ Do you seriously think that if it wasn’t for the likes of evil ol’ me these relationships would be perfect and that I am the grinch going around destroying families. Affairs/ one night stands will always happen, it’s probably some evolutionary hangover. No mate but the if it wasn't me it would be someone else argument doesn't wash. I just work with the messed up kids who are the only innocent victims in these situations. You are taking risks and potentially helping to wreck numerous lives just for a kink. Classic narcissist. KJ" Hold on, these women are already on this site, shouldn’t they be the ones worried about their children instead of looking for sex on here behind their husbands backs? | |||
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"I can’t help but think you are over reacting, this is the real world and this does go on! There was even a song written about it OPP! Other peoples pussy, we can’t pretend this isn’t a thing! You can't mention cheating on the forum...haven't you been paying attention? From what I've noticed, there are a few women who cheat but it doesn't tend to be as part of a kink, more of an escape from twatty men. Hope you find what you need OP " You’ve hit a great point there Many women cheat but it’s often a last resort after being mistreated by her man/ husband Then it is the guys fault But guys cheat often out of feeling they are in a dead relationship | |||
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"I never condemned any one you never know there circumstances might be in a loveless marriage or even worse a sexless marriage or even what to have some fun and excitement In there life’s life is to short not to have fun with others OP isn't doing it because he is trapped in a loveless sezless marriage etc he is looking for active cheaters for the thrill and the kink. Morally bankrupt comes to mind. Even the broken nose he got doing it before hasn't put him off. Some people actively enjoy deception and running the risk of destroying other people's lives. What is truly awful is often innocent children get caught in the Cross fire. KJ KJ Do you seriously think that if it wasn’t for the likes of evil ol’ me these relationships would be perfect and that I am the grinch going around destroying families. Affairs/ one night stands will always happen, it’s probably some evolutionary hangover. No mate but the if it wasn't me it would be someone else argument doesn't wash. I just work with the messed up kids who are the only innocent victims in these situations. You are taking risks and potentially helping to wreck numerous lives just for a kink. Classic narcissist. KJ Narcissist,destroyer of the innocent !! Are you sure. Seems a bit harsh and a bit strong for a fabswingers forum! I'd say spend a day doing my job and seeing the first hand damage to children when there parents split up due to cheating. However given what I've seen you post in this thread I doubt it would make a blind bit difference so you do you mate bugger the consequences " You are missing the point, the relationship is not working before anyone sleeps with them. | |||
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"I never condemned any one you never know there circumstances might be in a loveless marriage or even worse a sexless marriage or even what to have some fun and excitement In there life’s life is to short not to have fun with others OP isn't doing it because he is trapped in a loveless sezless marriage etc he is looking for active cheaters for the thrill and the kink. Morally bankrupt comes to mind. Even the broken nose he got doing it before hasn't put him off. Some people actively enjoy deception and running the risk of destroying other people's lives. What is truly awful is often innocent children get caught in the Cross fire. KJ KJ Do you seriously think that if it wasn’t for the likes of evil ol’ me these relationships would be perfect and that I am the grinch going around destroying families. Affairs/ one night stands will always happen, it’s probably some evolutionary hangover. No mate but the if it wasn't me it would be someone else argument doesn't wash. I just work with the messed up kids who are the only innocent victims in these situations. You are taking risks and potentially helping to wreck numerous lives just for a kink. Classic narcissist. KJ Narcissist,destroyer of the innocent !! Are you sure. Seems a bit harsh and a bit strong for a fabswingers forum! I'd say spend a day doing my job and seeing the first hand damage to children when there parents split up due to cheating. However given what I've seen you post in this thread I doubt it would make a blind bit difference so you do you mate bugger the consequences You are missing the point, the relationship is not working before anyone sleeps with them. " She's not the one missing the point | |||
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"See, you can forget your men that bang on about treating you with respect and it's all about the woman blah blah blah. This is men!! I think I'm in love. Nice tits " You can see them | |||
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"Regardless of what anyone thinks about it, it will continue to go one- be it here on a swinging site, in the office, at a club or down the pub. It is part of life. Unless you want to make it illegal!!! Sounds like a few of you would!" Cheating is part of life for the immature. When you grow up you may think differently. | |||
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"Why does it turn you on? I’ve always wondered this. Is it like you’re getting one over on another man? I’m intrigued what the turn on is? Why is it different to someone’s wife where they’ve given permission? " I always wonder this too | |||
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"Why does it turn you on? I’ve always wondered this. Is it like you’re getting one over on another man? I’m intrigued what the turn on is? Why is it different to someone’s wife where they’ve given permission? I always wonder this too " I like the forbidden fruit, being somewhere you shouldn’t be. Everyone has a naughty side.. | |||
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"I can’t help but think you are over reacting, this is the real world and this does go on! There was even a song written about it OPP! Other peoples pussy, we can’t pretend this isn’t a thing! You can't mention cheating on the forum...haven't you been paying attention? From what I've noticed, there are a few women who cheat but it doesn't tend to be as part of a kink, more of an escape from twatty men. Hope you find what you need OP " One has to laugh at the double standards here...'an escape from tatty men'. Nothing to do with them being scumbag cheaters then no? | |||
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"Regardless of what anyone thinks about it, it will continue to go one- be it here on a swinging site, in the office, at a club or down the pub. It is part of life. Unless you want to make it illegal!!! Sounds like a few of you would! Cheating is part of life for the immature. When you grow up you may think differently. " Or maybe when he finds love and has it happen to him he may then feel differently. I think at the moment the op won't change his mind no matter what he's told Max | |||
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"This is the least I’ve even seen a bloke get jumped on in a cheating thread. Fab equality is almost upon us gentlemen." The times they are a changing | |||
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"This is the least I’ve even seen a bloke get jumped on in a cheating thread. Fab equality is almost upon us gentlemen." I'll get right on this. | |||
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"This is the least I’ve even seen a bloke get jumped on in a cheating thread. Fab equality is almost upon us gentlemen. I'll get right on this." It doesn’t feel right. Someone needs to sort it out. | |||
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"This is the least I’ve even seen a bloke get jumped on in a cheating thread. Fab equality is almost upon us gentlemen. The times they are a changing " I feel like we should commemorate this day somehow. | |||
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"This is the least I’ve even seen a bloke get jumped on in a cheating thread. Fab equality is almost upon us gentlemen. The times they are a changing I feel like we should commemorate this day somehow." like a carnival or maybe a bank holiday? | |||
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"This is the least I’ve even seen a bloke get jumped on in a cheating thread. Fab equality is almost upon us gentlemen. The times they are a changing I feel like we should commemorate this day somehow. like a carnival or maybe a bank holiday?" I was thinking a couple of fireworks and 4 cans but I like how you went big | |||
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"What happened to lighthearted conversations in the forums? " I thought I would find a lighthearted fun and supportive community to share my fetish with, I was wrong! | |||
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"This is the least I’ve even seen a bloke get jumped on in a cheating thread. Fab equality is almost upon us gentlemen. The times they are a changing I feel like we should commemorate this day somehow. like a carnival or maybe a bank holiday? I was thinking a couple of fireworks and 4 cans but I like how you went big " we’ll as it’s fab BIG is best we don’t want small who wants small these days | |||
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"What happened to lighthearted conversations in the forums? I thought I would find a lighthearted fun and supportive community to share my fetish with, I was wrong! " Some things are not going to go down well. Like I don't see cheating or facilitating cheating as a fetish. Maybe I'm wrong and it is but I thought a fetish was a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc. | |||
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"What happened to lighthearted conversations in the forums? I thought I would find a lighthearted fun and supportive community to share my fetish with, I was wrong! Some things are not going to go down well. Like I don't see cheating or facilitating cheating as a fetish. Maybe I'm wrong and it is but I thought a fetish was a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc. " I think you are wrong and unduly judgmental. But thanks for engaging it’s been fun. | |||
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"What happened to lighthearted conversations in the forums? I thought I would find a lighthearted fun and supportive community to share my fetish with, I was wrong! " So you wouldn't shag or date a single woman then? Wouldn't have a partner because it wouldn't do anything for you? | |||
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"Are there any women cheating on their husband looking to meet, I find it such a turn on fuck someone’s partner when they don’t know. " Why not man up and get then hold on to your own woman... | |||
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"What happened to lighthearted conversations in the forums? I thought I would find a lighthearted fun and supportive community to share my fetish with, I was wrong! Some things are not going to go down well. Like I don't see cheating or facilitating cheating as a fetish. Maybe I'm wrong and it is but I thought a fetish was a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc. I think you are wrong and unduly judgmental. But thanks for engaging it’s been fun." Hahaha I've not been judgemental at all. Merely offered my opinion on a subject you brought up. Oh and yes that is what a fetish is. Maybe learn the difference between a fetish and a kink | |||
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"What happened to lighthearted conversations in the forums? I thought I would find a lighthearted fun and supportive community to share my fetish with, I was wrong! So you wouldn't shag or date a single woman then? Wouldn't have a partner because it wouldn't do anything for you?" Of course I would and do, I’m just a normal guy. In fact I’m quite nice and interesting. You would probably all really like me! | |||
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"What happened to lighthearted conversations in the forums? I thought I would find a lighthearted fun and supportive community to share my fetish with, I was wrong! So you wouldn't shag or date a single woman then? Wouldn't have a partner because it wouldn't do anything for you? Of course I would and do, I’m just a normal guy. In fact I’m quite nice and interesting. You would probably all really like me! " I can already tell you, I really wouldn't and already don't. I spoke earlier in the thread about how lies, deception and having my life torn apart almost drove me to suicide. I was close to being sectioned, had a mental breakdown and was off work for 9 months to recover. What you see as sex, the person at the other end of the scale normally sees as grief, confusion, trauma and can impact the rest of their lives leaving them with trust issues, lack of confidence and a whole host of other baggage. To actively seek that out and find that a turn on makes my heart hurt. | |||
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"What happened to lighthearted conversations in the forums? I thought I would find a lighthearted fun and supportive community to share my fetish with, I was wrong! So you wouldn't shag or date a single woman then? Wouldn't have a partner because it wouldn't do anything for you? Of course I would and do, I’m just a normal guy. In fact I’m quite nice and interesting. You would probably all really like me! " Yeah never gonna happen for us as we both know how shitty being on the receiving end is. As nice as you profess to be, yeah its a hard pass from us | |||
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"Don’t hate the sinner hate the sin!" Don't spout trite crap! | |||
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"Don’t hate the sinner hate the sin!" Are you even old enough to be here? There's humans involved. Actual people. You just see a game, a sport. | |||
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"Some women might comment….we all know when a guy cheats it’s his fault but when a woman cheats it’s the guys fault too…at least on Fab! " Was just about to post the same thing | |||
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"I can’t help but think you are over reacting, this is the real world and this does go on! There was even a song written about it OPP! Other peoples pussy, we can’t pretend this isn’t a thing! You can't mention cheating on the forum...haven't you been paying attention? From what I've noticed, there are a few women who cheat but it doesn't tend to be as part of a kink, more of an escape from twatty men. Hope you find what you need OP You’ve hit a great point there Many women cheat but it’s often a last resort after being mistreated by her man/ husband Then it is the guys fault But guys cheat often out of feeling they are in a dead relationship " How is there any evidence for these assertions? People cheat, for all sorts of reasons, regardless of gender. Saying women only cheat because their partners are twats is a nonsense and a double standard. | |||
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"Why don’t we close this thread, agree to dis agree, let bygones be bygones and head over to the ‘finger up the bum during sex’ thread. " | |||
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"Threads too long. Haven’t read. Can anyone summarise for me? Fankewe. " I just did on your thread Marc | |||
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"Threads too long. Haven’t read. Can anyone summarise for me? Fankewe. I just did on your thread Marc" ah yes!! As it ever was on Fab, and as it ever will be! | |||
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"I can’t help but think you are over reacting, this is the real world and this does go on! There was even a song written about it OPP! Other peoples pussy, we can’t pretend this isn’t a thing! You can't mention cheating on the forum...haven't you been paying attention? From what I've noticed, there are a few women who cheat but it doesn't tend to be as part of a kink, more of an escape from twatty men. Hope you find what you need OP You’ve hit a great point there Many women cheat but it’s often a last resort after being mistreated by her man/ husband Then it is the guys fault But guys cheat often out of feeling they are in a dead relationship How is there any evidence for these assertions? People cheat, for all sorts of reasons, regardless of gender. Saying women only cheat because their partners are twats is a nonsense and a double standard. " There was a thread not so long ago that showed women can be just as bad | |||
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"Threads too long. Haven’t read. Can anyone summarise for me? Fankewe. Male man is a twat (again) " Slightly misandrist there | |||
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"Threads too long. Haven’t read. Can anyone summarise for me? Fankewe. Male man is a twat (again) Slightly misandrist there " Sorry, was meant to be ironic. I personally don't think all mald men are that's (again) but it seems males get a rough deal around here | |||
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"Threads too long. Haven’t read. Can anyone summarise for me? Fankewe. Male man is a twat (again) Slightly misandrist there Sorry, was meant to be ironic. I personally don't think all mald men are that's (again) but it seems males get a rough deal around here " Don't be sorry, I understood the sentiment and wasn't serious | |||
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"What's with all the moral judgement? The guy simply asked a question not to be judged for it. This happens several times A day and is getting a bit much now. " This is a forum where people give opinions. People are free not to post such things if they can’t deal with others opinions! | |||
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"What's with all the moral judgement? The guy simply asked a question not to be judged for it. This happens several times A day and is getting a bit much now. This is a forum where people give opinions. People are free not to post such things if they can’t deal with others opinions! " No these are forums when people should be able to interact and not be told they can't or that somehow they have ruined their chances. You were not asked for an opinion on this thread but many have chosen to give it anyway. Op has explained what he wanted yet people have carried on and it's horrible. How about rather than everyone just thinks it is OK to jump on someone and judge them they keep those opinions to themselves for and comment on posts where opinions are asked for. | |||
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"What's with all the moral judgement? The guy simply asked a question not to be judged for it. This happens several times A day and is getting a bit much now. " Yeah but then he was trying to be funny whilst not respecting people's personal experiences. Dug himself a hole. | |||
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"What's with all the moral judgement? The guy simply asked a question not to be judged for it. This happens several times A day and is getting a bit much now. Yeah but then he was trying to be funny whilst not respecting people's personal experiences. Dug himself a hole." Do you blame him because he was jumped on right from the very beginning! I think most people would get defensive in this situation. | |||
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"What's with all the moral judgement? The guy simply asked a question not to be judged for it. This happens several times A day and is getting a bit much now. Yep, agreed. You can't control what others do, and we don't always agree with it but jumping on others is horrible to see and happens far too often " It's horrible and borderline bullying what's been happening recently. | |||
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"Threads too long. Haven’t read. Can anyone summarise for me? Fankewe. He's a dinlo" Dinlo, that is a blast from the past!!! That might be a breach of forum rules. | |||
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"Threads too long. Haven’t read. Can anyone summarise for me? Fankewe. He's a dinlo Dinlo, that is a blast from the past!!! That might be a breach of forum rules. " I’m gonna have to Google it I think, I’m not down with the kids! | |||
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